
CBrown1023
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Posted by virgoOPPP
i'd suggest be shamelessly blunt
"hey are you working on your marriage or just ghosting me?"
that's gonna get a response out of me at least

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by virgoOPPP
i'd suggest be shamelessly blunt
"hey are you working on your marriage or just ghosting me?"
that's gonna get a response out of me at least
Giving women an ultimatum like this never works.click to expand




Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
Did she ever get divorced? Maybe she feels it would be best not to jump into another relationship so quickly

Posted by Saturn_Returns
Dude, such 'indecisiveness' is never a good thing.
Once is understandable but, after that, the chances of being played or dating a potential loony are high.
Has she divorced yet? Has she any children?
While Scorpios can be masochists, the last thing you need is for her to push you onto the dark, vengeful path that Scorpios are renowned for.


Posted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.

Posted by virgoOPPP
her dad just died and we don't know what's going on in her marriage 🤷🤷
but personally even before marriage, i was always super sloooooow to reply. no reason, just how i am but i've noticed other female virgos have been like that with me too.
you could be asking: "hey what you doin?" and i'd reply maybe after about 2 days or if you're more pushy then prob quicker. this why i only get with pushy types.
in fact, mainly i was lured into a relationship this last time coz this man refuses to leave my apartment đź—żđź—ż

Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
She actually just messaged today that if I can't speak to her in person not to message her but yet she wants her space.click to expand

Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
She actually just messaged today that if I can't speak to her in person not to message her but yet she wants her space.
Damn I forgot y’all work together. That makes it a bit more awkward.
Don’t avoid her at work, be cordial, but at the same time not pushy or inquiring about where you stand basically.
She’s basically trying to call you out for messaging her and then you’re silent when you see her. If she approaches you, I’d be like “I was giving you space.. If you miss me, just say that.”
Keep it light and flirt. She’s wishy washy right now. No blaming her as it won’t go well.click to expand

Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
She actually just messaged today that if I can't speak to her in person not to message her but yet she wants her space.
Damn I forgot y’all work together. That makes it a bit more awkward.
Don’t avoid her at work, be cordial, but at the same time not pushy or inquiring about where you stand basically.
She’s basically trying to call you out for messaging her and then you’re silent when you see her. If she approaches you, I’d be like “I was giving you space.. If you miss me, just say that.”
Keep it light and flirt. She’s wishy washy right now. No blaming her as it won’t go well.
I am trying to follow her rules but it seems like the rules change all the time which is getting frustrating. I'm going to take your advice though the meeting a female friend that graduated a few years after me for drinks tonightclick to expand

Posted by CBrown1023
Hello All
I am new to these site. I am just looking for some clarity from a few Virgo women.
I have been seeing this Virgo woman that I work with for about 8 months. When I first started and seen her I instantly had to know who she was. I found out she was married but getting divorced. We began sitting with each other and chatting during breaks in work. Then we both friend requested each other on social media. We have became very close. One day she messages to go have a drink and after the evening was done we kidsed. Which was electric might I say. A few weeks passed and we became intimate. Which was electric also! Several months as we were getting off a call with each other we both were thinking the same thing"saying I Love You". She actually got it out before I did but I was feeling the same vibe. We both felt/feel like we are meant to be together. Fast forward a few weeks and she started acting funny. Really distance and non communicative saying needed space which I gave her. In that time my Scorpio frustration kicked in and posted on FB about thinking I found my soulmate, but maybe not search continues. She got upset , which I apologize for because truthfully I just want to be with her. Around that time she lost her father and I was there for her supportively. We got back together and probably 3 weeks later she was back on the need space kick. The Scorpio in me said fine I am done with the games. I would respond to text or calls for several days. She then video called me which I didn't but she was very upset by the way she was handling things with us. Again I caved and got back with her which last led about 3 weeks again. Now we are going on 2 weeks of her not responding to text but reading them. She hasn't deleted me on FB and she'll heart some of things I post. I guess what I am trying to ask is should I keep trying, and is she still interested. I don't want to give up on her because I do feel this connection with her that I haven't felt for someone in a long time. I just don't no how to read this whole situation. Thanks for reading and any advice that comes from it.
CB

Posted by BanditoPosted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
I’m a Virgo and I wouldn’t even consider a person like luckylibra at this stage in my life. And this Virgo sounds like she’s been through it too. Take this persons advice and you will sink the relationship.
1. You’re smothering her in text it sounds like
2. You’re not showing her any attention in person
3. You’re showing actual disinterest on social media
4. Now you’re going on a date with someone else
And she’s playing games? She just lost her father and is going through a divorce. Like honestly find a Pisces because Virgo is just going to think you don’t like her and you’re not the one.click to expand

Posted by BanditoPosted by LuckyLibra7Posted by BanditoPosted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
I’m a Virgo and I wouldn’t even consider a person like luckylibra at this stage in my life. And this Virgo sounds like she’s been through it too. Take this persons advice and you will sink the relationship.
1. You’re smothering her in text it sounds like
2. You’re not showing her any attention in person
3. You’re showing actual disinterest on social media
4. Now you’re going on a date with someone else
And she’s playing games? She just lost her father and is going through a divorce. Like honestly find a Pisces because Virgo is just going to think you don’t like her and you’re not the one.
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He’s not sinking anything by doing nothing. She’s conflicted so why would he peacock and beg for her attention after she wants space.
Do you even date women?? You want him to approach her again after she’s backed off twice now?
Virgo reached out because she misses his attention. However, she’s not scheduling any dates or sleeping with him now is she? So OP needs to continue what he’s doing minus the shade on social media. He can be cordial in person, but not asking what her plans are.
You’re delusional .
Oh? How many divorced virgo women with kids have you dated? You basically suggested everything that would turn me off, and I’d stop talking to you altogether. Is all I’m saying.click to expand


Posted by BanditoPosted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
I’m a Virgo and I wouldn’t even consider a person like luckylibra at this stage in my life. And this Virgo sounds like she’s been through it too. Take this persons advice and you will sink the relationship.
1. You’re smothering her in text it sounds like
2. You’re not showing her any attention in person
3. You’re showing actual disinterest on social media
4. Now you’re going on a date with someone else
And she’s playing games? She just lost her father and is going through a divorce. Like honestly find a Pisces because Virgo is just going to think you don’t like her and you’re not the one.click to expand

Posted by BadderBunny
Her father died. She's in the process of getting a divorce. And she has kids. She probably enjoys your company but does not have the bandwidth for a new relationship. She doesn't want to tell you that because you will lose interest in her, and she really enjoys your attention and the comfort you bring. But unless her name is JLO, she probably isnt looking to start her next serious relationship right as she is ending her current one. She needs a friend not a new husband.




Posted by LostinmyMind11
Sounds like she's got a lot going on. Imma be honest...we like our space, we need time to figure things out...she got caught up...it happens but eventually you have to deal with reality. My best advice is let her do her thing...and you do yours. She's watching tho...so if you want her be mindful on what you're doing. It doesn't take much to turn us off.

Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by CBrown1023Posted by LuckyLibra7
OP, she's not in the right frame of mind to handle another relationship.
Do not give her an ultimatum nor confront her. Let her be and allow her to emotionally work through her situation. She has to also choose you in order to form a a relationship, it can't be one-sided. Don't dig yourself a hole after she's already asked for space.
My advice is to do nothing. Virgo needs the freedom to come back to you, she's already aware you like her. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time. Even better, date someone else.
Avoid going on her page or watching stories. Keep her as a friend online, but pay no attention to her hearting your statuses. It means nothing.
There is no guarantee she will come back. Keeping it a buck.
She actually just messaged today that if I can't speak to her in person not to message her but yet she wants her space.
Damn I forgot y’all work together. That makes it a bit more awkward.
Don’t avoid her at work, be cordial, but at the same time not pushy or inquiring about where you stand basically.
She’s basically trying to call you out for messaging her and then you’re silent when you see her. If she approaches you, I’d be like “I was giving you space.. If you miss me, just say that.”
Keep it light and flirt. She’s wishy washy right now. No blaming her as it won’t go well.
click to expand
I am trying to follow her rules but it seems like the rules change all the time which is getting frustrating. I'm going to take your advice though the meeting a female friend that graduated a few years after me for drinks tonightclick to expand


Posted by CBrown1023
Hello All
I am new to these site. I am just looking for some clarity from a few Virgo women.
I have been seeing this Virgo woman that I work with for about 8 months. When I first started and seen her I instantly had to know who she was. I found out she was married but getting divorced. We began sitting with each other and chatting during breaks in work. Then we both friend requested each other on social media. We have became very close. One day she messages to go have a drink and after the evening was done we kidsed. Which was electric might I say. A few weeks passed and we became intimate. Which was electric also! Several months as we were getting off a call with each other we both were thinking the same thing"saying I Love You". She actually got it out before I did but I was feeling the same vibe. We both felt/feel like we are meant to be together. Fast forward a few weeks and she started acting funny. Really distance and non communicative saying needed space which I gave her. In that time my Scorpio frustration kicked in and posted on FB about thinking I found my soulmate, but maybe not search continues. She got upset , which I apologize for because truthfully I just want to be with her. Around that time she lost her father and I was there for her supportively. We got back together and probably 3 weeks later she was back on the need space kick. The Scorpio in me said fine I am done with the games. I would respond to text or calls for several days. She then video called me which I didn't but she was very upset by the way she was handling things with us. Again I caved and got back with her which last led about 3 weeks again. Now we are going on 2 weeks of her not responding to text but reading them. She hasn't deleted me on FB and she'll heart some of things I post. I guess what I am trying to ask is should I keep trying, and is she still interested. I don't want to give up on her because I do feel this connection with her that I haven't felt for someone in a long time. I just don't no how to read this whole situation. Thanks for reading and any advice that comes from it.
CB
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I am new to these site. I am just looking for some clarity from a few Virgo women.
I have been seeing this Virgo woman that I work with for about 8 months. When I first started and seen her I instantly had to know who she was. I found out she was married but getting divorced. We began sitting with each other and chatting during breaks in work. Then we both friend requested each other on social media. We have became very close. One day she messages to go have a drink and after the evening was done we kidsed. Which was electric might I say. A few weeks passed and we became intimate. Which was electric also! Several months as we were getting off a call with each other we both were thinking the same thing"saying I Love You". She actually got it out before I did but I was feeling the same vibe. We both felt/feel like we are meant to be together. Fast forward a few weeks and she started acting funny. Really distance and non communicative saying needed space which I gave her. In that time my Scorpio frustration kicked in and posted on FB about thinking I found my soulmate, but maybe not search continues. She got upset , which I apologize for because truthfully I just want to be with her. Around that time she lost her father and I was there for her supportively. We got back together and probably 3 weeks later she was back on the need space kick. The Scorpio in me said fine I am done with the games. I would respond to text or calls for several days. She then video called me which I didn't but she was very upset by the way she was handling things with us. Again I caved and got back with her which last led about 3 weeks again. Now we are going on 2 weeks of her not responding to text but reading them. She hasn't deleted me on FB and she'll heart some of things I post. I guess what I am trying to ask is should I keep trying, and is she still interested. I don't want to give up on her because I do feel this connection with her that I haven't felt for someone in a long time. I just don't no how to read this whole situation. Thanks for reading and any advice that comes from it.
CB