Sweet Virgo? What is happening HERE

Why is he Lying?

Ok i recently posted a message on the board about Virgo and the Chase!

My Virgo has put so much effort into getting me, he tells me he is inlove with me' he shows me he is in love with me
So why is he lying about Her?

My boyfriend and his ex had an issue about 1 particular friend of his.
He openly admitted in having feeling for this girl in the past.
(i know all this about ex's and friends because i like to ask and suss out questions)
Im not an insecure female i have alot going for me, Im happy to ask about his past and i make him feel comftable enough to tell me about girls he has liked or dated'

I asked him if he as seen or spoken to this girl recently' and he said NO

"LIE"/ he went to her 21st just a month ago' he doesnt realise just how much i know, i think the whole we have known each other for 2 years just fly's over the top of his head!

( we have been dating for the past week)


I openly asked him about his feeling for this girl and he happly explained that im what he want's i know he loves me i see how much he is trying and doing'

But why does he have to say white lies! well i would called it a rather big lie


This really annoys me' he has put so much time into me! and effort . i am in love with this person'
if im not what he wants i want him to be honest! I TOLD HIM THIS"
he started getting annoyed so i backed off' and explained that its ok to have feelings for other just make sure you are making the right decision here'

the reason i am so worried is because she recently broke up with her BF. and he says they are still together im sure he knows she is not with him.

is he Hidding something or is he thinking ahead on what my reaction would be——

Why are you checking up on him? if you have to do that you dont have any trust in him at all.

And a month? that is NOT recently....last week might be recent but a month? come on!!!

Why would you want to discuss his exes?

You say he says he's in love with you and you say he is in love with you by showing it so WTF are you checking up on him, why are you doubting him, why are you questioning him? He's showing you he loves you yet you go to these lengths? Do you really honestly love this man?

If you have known him for 2 years you should already have gone past the ex girlfriend talks surely?

Let him have his peace, let him just love YOU, stop badgering him, stop stalking him, stop dragging up the past...you are pushing him to his ex if you keep going like this...have you never known somebody to push somebody into doing something they didnt originally have an idea of doing?? You're heading in the right direction of pushing him back into her arms whether he has that inclination right now or not....she might be the better option if she's not getting on his back all the time about the past.

You say you're not insecure and have a lot going for you but you ARE insecure and wont just let him love YOU.

Do you know what this girl's sign is?

And I must say, I do agree with Chatz...

Because she's a Cancer ..... insecurity defines them.

Have to agree with Chatz here, he went to her party so what!! You can only control what you do, not what the next does lady, put your effort into your own relationship x

Posted by Chatz
Why are you checking up on him? if you have to do that you dont have any trust in him at all.

And a month? that is NOT recently....last week might be recent but a month? come on!!!

Why would you want to discuss his exes?

You say he says he's in love with you and you say he is in love with you by showing it so WTF are you checking up on him, why are you doubting him, why are you questioning him? He's showing you he loves you yet you go to these lengths? Do you really honestly love this man?

If you have known him for 2 years you should already have gone past the ex girlfriend talks surely?

Let him have his peace, let him just love YOU, stop badgering him, stop stalking him, stop dragging up the past...you are pushing him to his ex if you keep going like this...have you never known somebody to push somebody into doing something they didnt originally have an idea of doing?? You're heading in the right direction of pushing him back into her arms whether he has that inclination right now or not....she might be the better option if she's not getting on his back all the time about the past.

I never thought of it that way!!!
Im not insecure this is just my first serious relationship all of this is New to me
but thank you all for the advice, ill keep his past in the past..

yess yess im Cancer' i had to get it off my chest' this will no longer be an issue : )

Thanks you guys

Posted by Chatz
Why are you checking up on him? if you have to do that you dont have any trust in him at all.

And a month? that is NOT recently....last week might be recent but a month? come on!!!

Why would you want to discuss his exes?

You say he says he's in love with you and you say he is in love with you by showing it so WTF are you checking up on him, why are you doubting him, why are you questioning him? He's showing you he loves you yet you go to these lengths? Do you really honestly love this man?

If you have known him for 2 years you should already have gone past the ex girlfriend talks surely?

Let him have his peace, let him just love YOU, stop badgering him, stop stalking him, stop dragging up the past...you are pushing him to his ex if you keep going like this...have you never known somebody to push somebody into doing something they didnt originally have an idea of doing?? You're heading in the right direction of pushing him back into her arms whether he has that inclination right now or not....she might be the better option if she's not getting on his back all the time about the past.

*Wipes a tear from his eye* Chatz, you've learned so much in a short amount of time. I'm so proud *sniff*