the One

So.. wood u take a lifetime of countless experiences with the opposite sex for relationships.. or wood u rather have "the One" for now and years to come (contrary to any belief that 'the One' doesnt exist for some)

My goodness, I would prefer "the one". Yes, I want to experience more before I get "tied down" but who says "the one" would have tie you down. For instance we can casually see each other and offer each other emotional support while in college and then settle down with each other after we get our degrees and internships done 🙂 Yes, that's just a fantasy of mine, I believe life is a little easier to deal with if you have "the one" in your corner ... not the "friend with benefits" but "the one". ~SIGH~

I prefer to have "the one", it seems almost impossibly though. In a such a huge world, to find two people who love, care and consider eachother in the same way.

positively hands down 😉

cappysweetie, it does make you go through life much easier to have "the one" in your corner as a friend however when you finally realized this person is your "the one" and you or/and him is now married or committed with others, the profound sadness that you could experience is incredibly difficult to bear.

I'm speaking from a personal experience. I'm a Capricorn, ascendant in Scorpio and Moon in Aquarius and he is a Virgo, ascendant in Scorpio and Moon in Gemini. Incredible compatibility and exlosive attraction.

About 2 months ago, I had a group dinner gathering with him, a good friend of mine for years, who came back town for a short visit after moving away for 2 years. I once had feelings for him (and vice versa) however I was terrified of the intensity I felt and both of us were in relationships so I did whatever I could to suppress the feelings and has remained a good friend to him. We never dated. He sat next to me during the group dinner. I felt a strong electric energy flowed back and forth from him to me. Supernatural phenomena. I felt home and I sensed he felt it too. I was tearing me apart when I needed to leave for lady's room for I needed to leave his side and I knew he felt it too because he turned his head immediately from a middle of a conversation and looked as if he was a lost child. When the dinner ended, I cried uncontrollably while driving home alone. Didn't see him after the group dinner. He went back to his town. Since then, I have been crying every day for 2 months now because I finally realized I might have missed my chance in this lifetime to unite with my twin soul.

It's too late for us to be together or even express our love for each other. We have to go back to our lives and obligations. I'll love him forever unconditionally as a friend.

So, the lesson here is when you suspect you have met "the one" or your twin soul mate, please do not hesitate until it's too late. I believe most people do not end up with their twin soul mate in their lifetime so the unbelievable bliss and joy I experienced were enough for me in this lifetime, even it was only for 3 hours.

Definately take the one - I've been in two long term relationships in the past like 8 years - I would love to just be tired of the chase and be done with it ASAP

Well, "The One" has not appeared to me yet, but I will know her when i see her....ultra wealthy, 3 foot tall with a flat head to set my beer on,and doesn't talk much.

But when I find her, SHE"S MINE BABY!