the one that got away

Have you Virgos had a great person you had a chance with and you passed her/him up for another person (but that person turned out to be BAD)? Would you try to get that person back and to what extent would you go to get that person back? And say this great person is in happy relationship, but not married.

It depends on what qualities these people have that make them "great" or "bad." If you are referring to chemistry, then I would say move on, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you WILL meet other people (just be patient and smart in your approach).
But let's say the "bad" person takes pleasure in harming small, defenseless animals while the "great" person volunteers to help with the blind on the weekend, then...... I mean that kinda depends on your own personality, you know?

Generally speaking, I would never get caught up with language like "the one" or "got away." This isn't Disney, this is real life: You chose between two people; it didn't work out; learn from it, and keep going forward! Hope this helps.....

I don't mean to sound harsh, but basically you are saying

"I know you're in a good relationship - Good Guy,- but I want you now, so my needs come first!"

If you read my posts, you'll know my life isn't perfect, so I wouldn't judge anyone, I just don't think it's good karma to try and break someone up who is happy.

I know there are probably hundreds of women who pursued T Woods who would disagree with me!

And I also don't believe there is only ONE in the whole world.

Sometimes wanting something is alot more interesting than having it.

Enough cliche advice! lol

If anyone is in a relationship, automatic hands off. Keep the thoughts in the cranium where they belong.

@Fabricgir..I'm the one in the relationship and he's the virgo is the one approaching me and this whole thing is confusing me.

I am sorry. I must have misread your post.

But if you reverse it, then you have to wonder about his motives, if he would try and pry you out of a happy relationship.
You are happy, right?

I can only imagine how confusing it would all be.

yah that's what i've been thinking about for awhile now. How do u know if this guy wants something and if he's sincere about it? I also realized that we've been talking this way (mostly online) for more than a year now.

at least once a week for a yr. I am happy with my current relationship but I can't seem to stop thinking about this person.

Be careful. He may only be showing interest in you just because he knows you are unavailable now. If you break up with your current boyfriend it doesn't necessary mean this guy will be there for you.