Unchartered Virguy Waters

I'm embarking on my 1st virguy voyage and I'd like a nice breeze in my sails to stay adrift.

I've only seen him twice. 1st time in February & 2nd time this past saturday. He's a musician (big surprise) so these were at his gigs. We've never exchanged a word but I've been targeted by the infamous ''stare''. Loads of eye contact, held gazes, and smiles. He once ran outside in a panic to see if i left, & when he saw that i hadn't, he just smiled at me then walked back in. Lastly, he found a way to touch me. Instead of excusing himself to pass by, or going another route, he chose to squeeze himself through which made him press up against me so tightly that feels the curves of his body against mine.
So, i take it he's interested but no verbalizing has taken place. Is it best I take the initiative next time? What else should I be aware of?

Is he a 3rd Decan?

Appreciate him, thank him, let him know what you like and don't like.

Take the initiative.

The Topic title reminds me of the game i used to play on the SNES; Uncharted Waters : New Horizons. Awesome game btw. 😄

Yes. U should throw a panties with ur phone number on. 😛 I heard rockstars or rockstars wanna be likes that shit or any ordinary virguy such as myself. 😄

damn, beergo, those are some seriously nice boobies!


@ Cajun: i don't know his actual birthday. the only reason i know he's a virgo is because it said so on his fan page. i'd ask if we actually got to the point of talking! i'm gonna have to wait til his next gig which might not be for another month or so again. thanks so much for the advice!

also, his page mentioned that he's buddhist. being as virgos are usually intelligent, and often spiritual, should i play this up? spirituality is often what connects me most to virguys and creates an almost instant bond. eastern philosophy and buddhism are subjects that i've studied extensively and have related to the most. plus we're both musically inclined so that's always common ground.

i don't know. there's just something there i can't explain. something's got us fascinated with each other. it may be purely physical on his part, i wouldn't know, but there is definitely a certain magnetism. i can't wait for the next meeting. hopefully 3rd time's the charm!

if you talk about something he's interested in, either be an expert in it or ask him to teach you what he knows. virgos hate it when people talk like they're an authority on something when they aren't (which is probably why so many virgos dislike caps. haha). or don't ask him to teach you, just show that you want to learn more about the given subject, how fascinating it is. the important part is not acting like you know more than you do. because he will see through you, and any respect he's got for you will disappear.

Posted by curious visitor
just show that you want to learn more about the given subject, how fascinating it is. the important part is not acting like you know more than you do. because he will see through you, and any respect he's got for you will disappear.

I've had a lot of fun with my virguy friend talking about some really odd stuff that I only have surface knowledge of. I will often be intrigued enough to read more about the topic when I get home, and share the info with him next time we hang out. He seems to not only enjoy learning more himself, but that I was into the convo enough to follow up on my own.

But you guys have to get to the hanging out part first 😉

What you could do is hang out long enough after his next show to say something. If they play last, wait until it looks like he's putting up his gear or otherwise not in a crowd, and just tell him you enjoyed the show & take it from there. If they aren't the last band, you could still just go up to him and ask if he has a sec to step out to where it's quieter. And introduce yourself etc. Be ready to have someplace to go, so you're not looking like a groupie if you don't get an encouraging response though 😛

With all the non-verbal communication previously mentioned, he should be ready to take your lead...