Venus in Virgo

My boyfriend's venus is in virgo so I'm just curious...how do you virgos love?

well maybe you can he's a leo with the venus in virgo hehe

Posted by lovedrug
well maybe you can he's a leo with the venus in virgo hehe

wow that is not a leo in there nature state here's more info.



Venus in Virgo is a very difficult placement. In Pisces, Venus is happiest, and said to be exhaulted. In the opposite sign of Virgo, the planet is said to be in it's fall.

The sign of Pisces is about unconditional love. It isn't critical or demanding but selfless and understanding. At her best, Venus is also about acceptance, love and understanding, which is why, when in Pisces, she is exhaulted. Virgo is the opposite of Pisces, but that doesn't mean those in that sign cannot love unconditionally or uncritically, it's just more difficult for them. They tend to be a little shy, taking a wait and see approach to the world around them. At times people with Venus in Virgo can come across as cold and unfeeling.

The differences lie in how they express their love. Virgo's tend to want to help. Help means telling you what you're doing wrong. Finding your flaws and then fixing them for you. They mean well, but most of the time their actions and words cause misunderstanding and hurt feelings.

Virgo's need to be needed. They need to be of service to the people they love. They also need their lover's to be neat, tidy, organized, on time, clean, just like they are. Messing up their homes, beds, cars, lives, is just unacceptable and they'll tell you so. Nicely, at first. After a while they'll start trying to help you by cleaning up after you and telling you the best way to fold socks and take stains out of the carpet. In short, they'll annoy you with their nagging to the point you just want to poke them with a stick. But that's never their intention. When their lover blows up in frustration they are confused and bewildered because they were just trying to help.

As lover's people with Venus in Virgo are a bit slow to warm up. But once they do, their need to be of service to those they love really comes in to play here. What they lack in origination and imagination is compensated with their devotion to service. They tend to be careful and meticulous lovers who are sensitive to details.

Worth remembering when your Venus in Virgo lover is scrubbing the bathtub and whinging about stains.

yea he was definitely super critical in the beginning. he has lightened up a lot though.

I have that venus That means he is cheap lol.. Im cheap and I have three friends with that placement and they are cheap to lol one is a leo fyi venus rules m oney.. He also will be a freak in bed and like things to be clean.. He probably is a big jokester can be shy and hard to love or seem that way.. The key is to show you care about him and he will love you for it.

I'm a Virgo with my Venus in Virgo. I think what LeGendary ViRGo says is fundamentally correct, though I'm probably a more mellow and tolerant version of his description - I have the traits but I have learned to temper them over the years - I'll happily tolerate a bit of untidiness in the interest of being distracted by more pleasurable pursuits than household chores. Maybe other things in my chart make me more easy-going - it's in my profile if anyone wants to have a look. The only thing that does really bother me is if a woman wants me to give her oral sex and doesn't bother to freshen up down there first. I take that as an insult and a sign that she doesn't respect me. I love sex and can rarely resist, but one of the few things that turns me off is the sense that a partner doesn't respect me. I will become the stubborn, belligerent typical Virgo in that situation.