Very small advices to all of us!

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Or are they "smal"..?



? Aries needs a challenge, although rash ways tend to get Aries into complicated tangles.
? Taurus and Cancer need to learn to LET GO.
? Gemini's find that superficiality can cost - they learn that character counts.
? Leo needs to learn to balance opposing pressures of work and home.
? Being the object of someone else's fixation is Virgo's big lesson.
? Libra wears the trousers as easily as she wears colognes and silk flowers.
? Scorpio never knows what (or who) will be next.
? Sagittarius has trouble staying single, and why bothers?
? Capricorns need to express themselves more, and they realize that there's more to love than just mutual need.
? Aquarius is used to being popular, but this is ridiculous - some of these wooers are here today, gone tomorrow.
? Pisces longs for new experiences with old friends - the novelty wears off very fast indeed, and then Pisces longs for that lost novelty.


WINNING IN LOVE

Astrological personalities types seem to fall into three categories when it comes to winning in love

The Aries, Cancers, Libras and Capricorns are most likely to instantly fall in love at first sight, but also to put unreasonable expectations upon new loves. Because these four signs are quite impatient, they immediately make demands and this can cause even the most ideal love to have second thoughts. They win in love by pacing themselves. They lose when they start comparing new and old loves or when they refuse to end a lingering relationship that they know is over. Unrequited love for these signs comes when they are unrealistic - particularly when dating someone already spoken for. They triumph when giving romantic ultimatums to reluctant loves.

Taureans, Scorpios, Aquarians and Leos are looking for perfection in love often overlooking an old love that is truly dazzling. These signs win in love when they are a bit less conservative or adamant about a new love fulfilling all their fantasies - at least at the beginning anyway. They could lose when they refuse to compromise - especially in the more serious stages of a romance. Taureans, Scorpios, Aquarians and Leos have disappointments because they expect a partner to care a bit more than is reasonable - if they want that, they must make sure they reciprocate by being generous in other ways. These signs are so secretive in love they never mention love triumphs although there are more than meet the eye. Unrequited love stems from overzealous expectations.

Geminis, Virgos, Pisceans and Sagittarians appear not to put themselves on the line with love because they are so afraid of losing. These are the "multiple romance" signs always hedging their bets out of fear more than out of disloyalty. They win in love through their ability to sense what kind of support a new love needs. With this knowledge they can be skilled manipulators or talented psychologists. Yet, this understanding demeanor keeps them from finding true equality in love - and that is how they can lose. Notice that Geminis, Virgos, Pisceans and Sagittarians are always "rating" a new love. (It was probably one of these people who invented the "10" system of rating good looks!) This keeps them from complete intimacy, as they always seem to be a bit detached. They experience unrequited love because they often play the field letting an absolutely delightful partner go, and then - only later - do they realize that their constant analysis and noncommittal attitudes about love are what drove this wonderful love away.

Copyright ? 2004 Joyce Jillson
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Welcome to this board scorpion lady..

??_he's not perfect (nor am I)! From my personal perspective being a female Scorpio, I never looked for perfection in love. I only looked for loyalty & trust.??_

No one is perfect in love matters, we all try to master it at some degree by staying loyal, honest, trustworthy and patience in relationship.



I live by those words to this day 🙂 Perfection is BORING!
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"Being the object of someone else's fixation is Virgo's big lesson." What is that mean?

Also, I can't believe she group Virgo together with Sagittarius in matters of love. It IS indeed true what she wrote. I am the living proof of it. LOL. So that was the lesson, isn't it? If only I knew then what I know now.

Life is a big bundle of joy indeed. Emphasis on the joy. I can hear someone laughing at me. Oh wait, that's me!