Virgals and Pisces men....with a twist!

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I am seeing this Pisces man who I find extremely attractive. He's tall, dark and handsome! Physically the total package physically!

Mentally he's completely different from the guys I've dated in the past; he's a bit of a nerd, a health freak, and super spiritual all of which I like. However how we met is quite interesting.

Here it goes...

I briefly dated his friend for awhile (lets call him Aries). We never had sex or anything but we kissed each other a couple of times. I was introduced to this handsome Pisces friend of his through Aries a few months ago but didn't really pay him any mind at the time. Fast forward, we all went out one night... Aries who I was dating is the life of the party, he's very outgoing and knows just about everyone in town. Aries parted ways with us at the bar and left me alone with Pisces. It was at that moment I realized I was attracted to him but I didn't let him know that. I played it cool. It got really late and Pisces and I were ready to go home...However Aries wanted to stay out late and told Pisces to drop me off at home. To my surprise Pisces and I stay in the same apartment complex! We said our good-nights and I couldn't stop thinking about him since... me being the Virgo I am, I went on social media to start digging up who this man is! ( I couldn't help myself)

About a month ago as I was coming home from the gym we ran into each other in our apartment complex. We talked for about ten minutes and he kept asking me questions as if he didn't want me to leave. I finally made the move and asked him if he could keep a secret. Of course he agreed and I told him I found him attractive. He told me it was mutual and asked me for my number. I hesitated and thought what if Aries find out... (A little background story on Aries. Aries and I haven't been talking as much. We really became friends less than lovers. He became very open with me about his sex life as well, he's even showed me videos of him in the act with multiple women. Our dynamic is pretty interesting to say the least).

So...back to Pisces and I, when I hesitated Pisces asked me if I was serious about Aries and honestly I'm not, I just like our friendship. Pisces told me he knows enough about Aries and I and would've never asked me for my number if Pisces and I were serious. So I couldn't help but to give in and give him my number. I was sooo geeked and couldn't stop smiling as I walked away to my apartment. Since then we spend a lot of time together & it doesn't help that he lives down the hall either.

Lately, I've been thinking if were doing the wrong thing to his friend. Like should we say something? Also, are we even compatible? I was reading about Pisces men and Virgo women and I saw that we're opposite and that the fire would only be hot for so long before it dies...

He's Pisces Sun, Pisces Moon, Venus Capricorn

Me Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus Virgo
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Posted by saggurl88

If you aren't talking to the Aries anymore, you should be fine. Especially if nothing got off the ground with it. A kiss is nothing.

If you're vibing with the Pisces guy, then go for it. It's always best to go with someone you like and is showing you interest. Why settle for boring!


No I haven't been talking to him at all since Pisces and I exchanged numbers. Although, Aries has been texting telling me that he misses me and asking where have I been.
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If you aren't talking to the Aries anymore, you should be fine. Especially if nothing got off the ground with it. A kiss is nothing.

If you're vibing with the Pisces guy, then go for it. It's always best to go with someone you like and is showing you interest. Why settle for boring!

No I haven't been talking to him at all since Pisces and I exchanged numbers. Although, Aries has been texting telling me that he misses me and asking where have I been.
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Well you can't really play the field with friends. So you are gonna have to choose. It's always fun when someone shows interest once you don't, eh? lol
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Posted by LibraSupreme

The Aries want care and did a player move by hooking his buddy up with some easy action. I've seen it replay all the time.

Swim hooked my buddies up with chicks because when your line up is stacked, it's easier to keep them close until a spot opens up. Players know relationships avg 1& 1/2.

But good luck OP and enjoy your Pisces neighbor.


Great! Now I feel like a homie hopper lol
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Posted by but_didyoudie

honestly, this sounds horrible to me... i would be mortified if on of my friends did that to me... but this is America where one makes (or breaks) their own personal morals. like you've never thought about how these two guys look at you? maybe like the type that hangs around mostly male friends? who knows... all i know is that you're making your own bed.... and the only one who is laying on it is you.


Sheesh! Unfortunately I have thought about it and it doesn't bother me much. I don't plan on sleeping with either one anytime soon...
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The Aries want care and did a player move by hooking his buddy up with some easy action. I've seen it replay all the time.

Swim hooked my buddies up with chicks because when your line up is stacked, it's easier to keep them close until a spot opens up. Players know relationships avg 1& 1/2.

But good luck OP and enjoy your Pisces neighbor.

Great! Now I feel like a homie hopper lol
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Don't worry about any negativity and enjoy yourself.
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.


the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me
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I must’ve been with an unevolved Virgo then. My ex smoked, drank excessive amounts of alcohol and showed no interest in having any self awareness whatsoever or any interest in getting healthy. I always thought it would be the other way around - for Virgos to be the health freaks be super spiritual and for the Pisces to be attracted to those things... ahhh makes no sense to me lol!!
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me

I must’ve been with an unevolved Virgo then. My ex smoked, drank excessive amounts of alcohol and showed no interest in having any self awareness whatsoever or any interest in getting healthy. I always thought it would be the other way around - for Virgos to be the health freaks be super spiritual and for the Pisces to be attracted to those things... ahhh makes no sense to me lol!!
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it goes either way. i've encountered a lot of messy pisces too, usually alcoholics and no sense of direction in their lives. but virgos can be messy too, especially with drugs.
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me

I must’ve been with an unevolved Virgo then. My ex smoked, drank excessive amounts of alcohol and showed no interest in having any self awareness whatsoever or any interest in getting healthy. I always thought it would be the other way around - for Virgos to be the health freaks be super spiritual and for the Pisces to be attracted to those things... ahhh makes no sense to me lol!!

it goes either way. i've encountered a lot of messy pisces too, usually alcoholics and no sense of direction in their lives. but virgos can be messy too, especially with drugs.
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Very true! Come to think of it, I do know many Pisceans like that!
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Posted by Mactavish_R

Lol I was involved with a Virgal as well just about a month ago. Even made threads here asking advices from other Virgals on how should I approach my situation.

Long story short, we met, hit off an amazing connection since the first meeting, and 1 week into our meet, we had a super hot make out session at my place.

Only thing is I couldn't have sex with her because she was in my city only for a week, which is her home place but she currently lives in a different city due to college.

So my advice is go for it with the Pisces guy, it would be way way better than with an Aries. 👍🏻


How is it going with the Virgal, anyway? Progressing nicely?
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me


This Pisces guy is SO much like me. I don't do any kind of drugs or smoke either, and haven't had a beer since over 2 years now due to my love for fitness, and yes I'm a health nut myself.

And the gym going part, I have an Aries mars, so you can guess I would get turned on with a girl working out with me. 🙃
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i have libra mars in the 1st house

he is aries venus/gemini mars
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me
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They sound pretty similar. He doesn't drink or party at all either but he does take marijuana edibles which I hate and I know it will be become a bigger problem in the future.

But we do workout together!
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Where are all these Virgals that are attracted to health freaks and super spiritual people? And why didn’t my Virgo ex find those things appealing about me? Lol

Anyway, I would ditch the Aries. He won’t even give a shit if you and the Pisces became a thing. Aries men have wandering eyes and they usually have no problem replacing women in their lives. (Judging from my Aries friends and Aries I’ve dated.

The Pisces will drive you crazy though... eventually.

the pisces i'm dating now is a health nut and very religious (listens to gospel music to relax)

doesn't smoke, drink or party and hates that on a girl which is great coz i have allergies anyway and i'm super boring

even wanted to gym with me

They sound pretty similar. He doesn't drink or party at all either but he does take marijuana edibles which I hate and I know it will be become a bigger problem in the future.

But we do workout together!
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sounds good to me