I wanna kill this Pisces

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by helenaqua on Monday, August 19, 2019 and has 19 replies.

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@helenaqua
8 Years

Hello everyone! I have been working with a Pisces guy for about two months now, still hasn't asked me out. Eye contact is ever existing, he gravitates to me through body language (stalks me a bit), helps me with stuff. Half the time he's kind and sweet, half the time he makes me feel judged, I can feel my soul shrinking and it will be for the tiniest thing. No physical affection, no talking away from the workplace. I don't feel "in love" after all this time but it's a bit more aged, more mature. I really like him and respect him but he hurts me. Should I keep trying? I am about to give up on him. I feel I am constantly sacrificing myself for him while he's afraid to open up to me about his personal life and won't make a move. Worst is, I feel no love though he may be trying to express it through his gestures.

For clarification, he has moon in Sag, Venus in Cap, mars in leo. We have strong and many Lilith contacts (his Lilith in Gemini). We share the same mercury in aqua. He has sun conjuct Saturn square moon square Pluto.

I have moon in taurus, Venus in Aquarius, mars in libra and ascendant in Cap.

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@helenaqua
8 Years

The "I wanna kill him" goes to the fact that he enrages me (I suspect on purpose), it is kind of a love-hate relationship on my side. He is always calm and composed, on the other hand.

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@PiscesGal76
7 Years500+ Posts

Youvdont feel love but you do want him to make a move.....

Do you have any idea how confusing this is? As a Pisces I can tell you that we hate confusion. We hate confusion so much that it makes us decide to swim away.

You better make your mind up first before he even starts making advances towards you.

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by helenaqua

Hello everyone! I have been working with a Pisces guy for about two months now, still hasn't asked me out. Eye contact is ever existing, he gravitates to me through body language (stalks me a bit), helps me with stuff. Half the time he's kind and sweet, half the time he makes me feel judged, I can feel my soul shrinking and it will be for the tiniest thing. No physical affection, no talking away from the workplace. I don't feel "in love" after all this time but it's a bit more aged, more mature. I really like him and respect him but he hurts me. Should I keep trying? I am about to give up on him. I feel I am constantly sacrificing myself for him while he's afraid to open up to me about his personal life and won't make a move. Worst is, I feel no love though he may be trying to express it through his gestures.

For clarification, he has moon in Sag, Venus in Cap, mars in leo. We have strong and many Lilith contacts (his Lilith in Gemini). We share the same mercury in aqua. He has sun conjuct Saturn square moon square Pluto.

I have moon in taurus, Venus in Aquarius, mars in libra and ascendant in Cap.

Why do aquas always fall for unavailable Pisces .

I feel bad for my aqua step dad who fell victim to my Pisces viper of a mother

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@Sjess
7 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Aquarelle

So let me get this straight...

1. you two are coworkers

2. you have been working together for 8 weeks

3. he interacts with you like a coworker does

4. there is no physical affection and you don't feel "In love"

5. he still hasn't asked you out

Right. Now why would he ask you out? I see not 1 reason why he would ask you out. There's nothing going on, as far as I can see. I hope he doesn't ask you out, because you don't feel love for him, nor attraction. He deserves someone who loves him.

This post is like a horror movie with the perfect plot.

It sounds scary and messed up