Do Pisces likes to play mind games ? And will they even stick around a women they are not interested

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Anna24 on Friday, September 6, 2019 and has 35 replies.

Do Pisces Men Play Mind Games and Stay Interested or Not?

Pisces men can be emotionally sensitive and sometimes unpredictable, which may appear as mind games. They tend to seek deep connections but may retreat if overwhelmed. Whether they stay interested depends on their feelings and compatibility. They may reappear after disappearing if they feel a strong emotional bond remains.

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@Anna24
6 Years

I am Sagittarius women , involved with this Pisces guy , He just keep disappear/reappear , one time giving attention other time he completely ignores me. I give him space also but as I going to give up on him he suddenly reappear like nothing happen . Is he playing mind games because if he is not interested why don't he just disappear why he even comes back

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@Anna24
6 Years

Posted by PhoenixStorm

They are notorious for this 🙄

The less phased you are, the better. It's almost like they do it to provoke a response. But then, when they realize you're not responding to the shenanigans, they try swimming back.

This is why it hasn't worked with me and Pisces in the past. I need consistency and that's something they don't seem to offer.

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@Anna24
6 Years

your right , and it makes me so mad , they are not at all consistence disappearing/appearing. They just like to play mind games. I stop any contact with him for good and kick him out this time and start to completely ignore me and he starts to get really mad and angry. God Pisces are really weird

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@Anna24
6 Years

Posted by DMV

Gurl no.

Demand better.

Why do you let him jump in n out ?

Pisces can be manipulative yes. They benefit from learning from all the prior 11 signs.

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@Anna24
6 Years

Posted by Anna24

your right , and it makes me so mad , they are not at all consistence disappearing/appearing. They just like to play mind games. I stop any contact with him for good and kick him out this time and start to completely ignore him and he starts to get really mad and angry. God Pisces are really weird

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@Anna24
6 Years

I know and your right. And I do stop all contact with him and kick his ass out, pretend he's dead which made him so mad he was blasting my text for ignoring him. Seeing my pic with another guy friend on mine in FB he totally flips keep texting me asking who is he etc etc... I mean WTF dude

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@pisceswoman123
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We are a bit all over the place in the beginning. We don’t trust you, we don’t know what you want or how serious you are and we are scared that we are going to get hurt if we fall for you. We don’t do it in purpose. But and this is a big but. If you are the one you will be there and don’t give up. We need you to be very very constant and grounded so we can trust you completely.

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@pisceswoman123
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We don’t play mind games. But we will test you without thinking about it.

If it feels right we are there. If it doesn’t we go. Back and forth until we are sure we can give ourselves and open up without getting hurt.

And no. We don’t stick around if we are not interested.

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Instead of being done with a guy who is not meeting your standards, you want to manipulate him to be what you want, all while accusing him of the same shit. You feeling like the victim here doesn't change what you're doing.

Call him out on his bs, or forget him.

It's like some of you enjoy the games

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@besarlalluvia
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Posted by pisceswoman123

We don’t play mind games. But we will test you without thinking about it.

If it feels right we are there. If it doesn’t we go. Back and forth until we are sure we can give ourselves and open up without getting hurt.

And no. We don’t stick around if we are not interested.

One day you are pisces, another you're aquarius. But still it's "we"

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

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@pisceswoman123
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Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by pisceswoman123

We don’t play mind games. But we will test you without thinking about it.

If it feels right we are there. If it doesn’t we go. Back and forth until we are sure we can give ourselves and open up without getting hurt.

And no. We don’t stick around if we are not interested.

One day you are pisces, another you're aquarius. But still it's "we"

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Lol. So you don’t agree?

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@besarlalluvia
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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by pisceswoman123

We don’t play mind games. But we will test you without thinking about it.

If it feels right we are there. If it doesn’t we go. Back and forth until we are sure we can give ourselves and open up without getting hurt.

And no. We don’t stick around if we are not interested.

One day you are pisces, another you're aquarius. But still it's "we"

Lol. So you don’t agree?

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You dish out typical pisces descriptions, like a copypaste from cafeastrology. It's like you don't even read OPs and just go straight into pisces masturbation mode

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@pisceswoman123
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Posted by Undine

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

Lol, Pisces men the way you picture it doesn’t sound very appealing

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Undine

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

Lol, Pisces men the way you picture it doesn’t sound very appealing

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Let's ask the control freaks then :-)

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Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by pisceswoman123

We don’t play mind games. But we will test you without thinking about it.

If it feels right we are there. If it doesn’t we go. Back and forth until we are sure we can give ourselves and open up without getting hurt.

And no. We don’t stick around if we are not interested.

One day you are pisces, another you're aquarius. But still it's "we"

Lol. So you don’t agree?

You dish out typical pisces descriptions, like a copypaste from cafeastrology. It's like you don't even read OPs and just go straight into pisces masturbation mode

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Lol. At least I am telling her what to expect and not just telling her that she is not good enough like you do

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@pisceswoman123
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Posted by Mactavish_R

Posted by Undine

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

THIS 👆🏻 Spot on 💯

Now this doesn't mean I like this game playing behaviour, my Capricorn Moon and Aries Mars make me completely opposite and upfront with my love interest.

However, I really do like when the girl takes the initiative, asks me out first and tells me what she wants from me...am I a typical boyfriend for her or just a FWB or a potential long term boyfriend in a serious relationship? Just tell me where do I stand and everything will be fine.

Problem is when some ladies give mixed signals, are used to being chased immensely by desperate dudes that they love the guy to chase, to ask out first, to do everything first. And a Pisces will never do that!

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And this is why I don’t go for Pisces men 😄 We like the same behavior from the opposite sex so we can never go farther

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@pisceswoman123
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Posted by Mactavish_R

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Posted by Mactavish_R

Posted by Undine

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

THIS 👆🏻 Spot on 💯

Now this doesn't mean I like this game playing behaviour, my Capricorn Moon and Aries Mars make me completely opposite and upfront with my love interest.

However, I really do like when the girl takes the initiative, asks me out first and tells me what she wants from me...am I a typical boyfriend for her or just a FWB or a potential long term boyfriend in a serious relationship? Just tell me where do I stand and everything will be fine.

Problem is when some ladies give mixed signals, are used to being chased immensely by desperate dudes that they love the guy to chase, to ask out first, to do everything first. And a Pisces will never do that!

And this is why I don’t go for Pisces men 😄 We like the same behavior from the opposite sex so we can never go farther

You're born on an Aquarius-Pisces cusp, and have an Aries Venus.

Anything 'farther' than 2 days with you is a success. 😆😛

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Hahaha you are wrong about me 😅 I am lucky in love and very good at relationships, thanks to my Venus in 7th 😛

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@phoebechrome3
6 Years

I had to make an account since this resonated! I met a Pisces male he was so into me wouldn’t stop messaging etc even confirmed our plans 5x lol we we had fun but now we are pen pals. I’ve seen him only a few times out of all the times we were supposed to hangout. He always flakes. Didn’t go a day without him before now it’s days. I told him to stay lost because of this behavior but he insisted he likes me and now I just get mad every time he reaches out cause I feel he’s toying with me. There is so much I wish I could say to him but I’m sick of texting and he’s hard to reach.

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@Anna24
6 Years

Posted by phoebechrome3

I had to make an account since this resonated! I met a Pisces male he was so into me wouldn’t stop messaging etc even confirmed our plans 5x lol we we had fun but now we are pen pals. I’ve seen him only a few times out of all the times we were supposed to hangout. He always flakes. Didn’t go a day without him before now it’s days. I told him to stay lost because of this behavior but he insisted he likes me and now I just get mad every time he reaches out cause I feel he’s toying with me. There is so much I wish I could say to him but I’m sick of texting and he’s hard to reach.

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@Anna24
6 Years

I understand because I deal with the similar situation with the Pisces man, they are very inconsistent that's what I learn being with a Pisces guy

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by Loyal

Posted by stope

The ones with Pisces mercury most definitely.

Lol Idk what you talking about? Do you @LadyNeptune?

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Hmmm define mind games tho. Maybe your just on different wave lengths op.

I don't stick around if I'm not interested unless theres a check at the end of the job. Then I will listen to you whinge about your architect and your shitty contractor with a VERY interested look on my face.

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Posted by Anna24

I am Sagittarius women , involved with this Pisces guy , He just keep disappear/reappear , one time giving attention other time he completely ignores me. I give him space also but as I going to give up on him he suddenly reappear like nothing happen . Is he playing mind games because if he is not interested why don't he just disappear why he even comes back

he has ADD

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by FuckItWhatever

I think a lot of times people start to feel entitled to a Pisces because of the way Pisces often act in the beginning, just generally nice, helpful, go with the flow. But I think if someone starts to feel like they’re now entitled to that kindness, or entitled to getting whatever they want from the Pisces all the time, generally taking them for granted, the Pisces might pull back some because who likes being taken advantage of or being treated like somebody’s bitch*...this is also why I think some people have such a strong hatred of Pisces. The Pisces gets sick of being treated like a doormat so they dip. Then the other person hops on dxp or wherever and calls out Pisces for being fake because they didn’t stick around or act the same forever....lol that doesn’t mean they were being fake

It’s also possible they just need to lay low and recharge for a little bit. Gather themselves so they can be clear and fresh mentally and be a better person with a clear idea of what they want and what they want to accomplish. A Pisces who’s being run ragged without an opportunity to lay low for a little bit will eventually just seem annoyed and pissy probably

Now look, I’m not saying Pisces can’t or won’t be manipulative. People of any sign can be shitty people. And Pisces are a bit sensitive so if you piss one off they might fuck with you for a bit because they can for fun. But I’m just saying it might not be as malevolent as you feel it is. And I don’t know the details of your situation at all, this is just me speaking generally on the subject

*Oh and I’m sure some people would consider that behavior of being really loving and then pulling back as manipulative “love bombing” or whatever, but it’s not the case it isn’t if that wasn’t the intention. A Pisces will usually love and love and give and give if they feel they aren’t being taken advantage of, or not being respected or appreciated. And literally everything is considered “gaslighting” these days too, I’m sure Pisces get accused of that all the time too

Lol i said this on here before. Pisces stereotype is nice and sensitive - why i don't know,

Other signs are stereotyped as distant/angry/rude and so don't get chastised for it.

people will learn the hard way what mutable water means. That means dipping into EVERY emotion. Not niceness for protection like cancer, not intense emotion like scorpio.

If anything i have related more to geminis,

But they are also called fake

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@RAWR
6 Years

Posted by Mactavish_R

Posted by Undine

It's not a mind game. He does it because you allow him to.

Pisces men are very feminine. You need to wear the trousers in this relationship and put your foot down. This will definitely involve asking him out during the dating phase. Then ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If yes, read him your rules, Sheldon style :-). If not, or if he doesn't know "yet", you are wasting your time if you carry on.

THIS 👆🏻 Spot on 💯

Now this doesn't mean I like this game playing behaviour, my Capricorn Moon and Aries Mars make me completely opposite and upfront with my love interest.

However, I really do like when the girl takes the initiative, asks me out first and tells me what she wants from me...am I a typical boyfriend for her or just a FWB or a potential long term boyfriend in a serious relationship? Just tell me where do I stand and everything will be fine.

Problem is when some ladies give mixed signals, are used to being chased immensely by desperate dudes that they love the guy to chase, to ask out first, to do everything first. And a Pisces will never do that!

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That's your cap moon. Cappies like security.. knowing what they are getting into.

They are stable too. No doubt I'm just learning that Pisceans are insecure as hell. And need some security. But Pisceans don't ask questions. They have no rules. They feel it out.

Which you don't. You ask for deliverables. Definitely cappy trait. You materialise that vague sh#t. So definitely cap moon works in your favour.