Virgo

I just wanted to say don't believe all virgos are die hard perfectionists.. I could really care less as long as I got the main things done that's all I'm worried about. You know everybody is made up differently so when I read all this perfectionist crap it kind of makes me laugh because I'm technical at what I want or need to know i.e. a job etc.. but usually i do try to make my relationships perfect because I do care about the people in my life very much.

I also wanted to say I enjoy reading all the comments left by VirgoSquared and the rest of the gang keep up n at em!!

Hi Virgomajick!
your statement, "but usually i do try to make my relationships perfect because I do care about the people in my life very much". and you say virgos are not perfectionists? in some ohter post u mentioned that you have been with women of every sign. How would you summarise a cancer woman and virgo man relationship?

Hi Cancerbuddy!
Nice to hear form you. I know you are acancerian and had experienced a Virgo lover. and through you and some other poeple ou there i have gotten a peep into the limitations of virgoan personality.
I am still waiting for virgomajick's response i am sure he would have some interesting views about a Virgo male and Cancer female relationship.
loonybird

Loony-
Yeah... hmmm the Cancer female.. wasn't good hehe I mean the fire that started in those relationships were HOT.. I mean the Heat was on! I almost married a cancer until she shattered my heart into a thousand pieces heh.. Ummm both signs (Virgo and Cancer) are sextile (60 degrees) by nature so traditionally it is a go. I mean depends on the type of Virgo you are. I have an airy moon in gemini and airy ascendant in aquarius so I kind of find cancer energy sluggish personally.. Umm.. I say give it a try but if your cancer is fixiated and one sided on issues it is never going to change for them... The problem I had was thinking for the longest time my cancer would change but she never did... See virgo being a Mutuable sign (adaptable, changing) we don't see it hard for changes especially for our partners (people we care about) and I found out that Cancer just wasn't changing or adapting.. Getting mad yes.. Changing no!.. Well, like I say give it a try but don't expect lots of changes from your cancer..not a compromising sign in my opinion..

CancerBuddy-
I know I'm not perfect lol.. But when we deal with other people don't you think we should try our best to be?? Your virgo probably just cared ALOT about you so that's why he was trying to be perfect for you.. What's wrong with that??
I wish I met a woman who shared those qualities.. trying to please me so much.. lol... would be nice...
*virgomajick*

Hi Virgomagick,
Thanx for your reply. I am a cancerian woman. You thought maybe it is a virgo asking for an advise about cancer woman. Anyways you were talking about your experience with a cancerian which turned out to be painful. Whereas cancerbuddy had a virgo relationship which was painful for him. Which speaks a lot. We cannot really pin dowm everything to sun signs. There is perfection in each individual. If we donot gel with some, it means our auras are crisscrossing, if we gel it means our respective auras are merging in harmony.
So have a halo over your head
praying for happiness
loonybird.

Loony-
Sorry yeah I kind of got involved with my experiences there heh.. It's just I really thought me and her were going to go all the way and it flopped.. Anyways, yes you are right if we aren't gelling Like Dr. Scholls then we need to change the insoles in our feet.. which is in respect what I had to do in that relationship... For now, actually for the past 7 months I've been alone and will continue to be until the right person with the right alliance comes along.. And I have been asking the All seeing Eye to help me out on this one
*virgomajick*

CancerBuddy-
I'm sorry to hear that about your virgo.. he was being a scumbag because he was cheating and lieing not admirable traits to do to people in my opinion...
*virgomajick*

I hear you CB... some people just don't have consciences.. sooner or later the Payback man comes to collect.. believe me...

Right Right...If he is trying to creep on back into your life.. which I can honestly say us virgos try to do alot of.. not sure why—? But sometimes we destroy relationships..then think we can just suddenly pop right back into our ex's lives.. I'm guilty of this on a few accounts when I was younger I remember my first Scorpio tried to come back into my life and I was so not trying to hear it.... then about 2 months passed and I realized I wanted her back bad and it was way too late... she was already with another man.. which I couldn't be mad about but I was ready to slap myself silly at that point.. Oh well, there is a million fish out in the open sea right?? Naw, she was drop dead gorgeous and fascinating I really blew that one..... hehehehe stoopid virgo I am 😄

CB I don't know man... I've been alone for a while now and I hear what you saying about trust enough and all that jazz but I'm seriously to the point where I'm just so freakin tired of being alone right now..... matter of fact there is a girl at work who says I'm cute....she's not hot hot but I mean she's got a tongue ring decent looking heh...I mean I can prolly go out with her if I want too..I know I just have to act fast, her friend dropped the hint to me a few days ago (yes I'm being conceited but uh I can back the sh** up so....) but there is this other girl who works at mars supermarket and I swear I just came back from there and this is like the third time dude (yeah she works there I know) but we've crossed each other and last time I was there I asked her where the chives were and somehow after she was done saying blah blah blah she very faintly put her hand on my shoulder and said bye.. I think I need to get on it.. what do you think— comments— kinda acted like mr. scaredy pants and didnt say nothing today to her (i do that alot too..shyboy sometimes) and I know no woman is going to initiate any kind of plans of going out unless you say something first.. but then again she probably has a boyfriend but then again who knows if you don't ask heh....but then again there's the fear of rejection of her telling you no... but then again I really don't care either cuz I will ask anyway lol... Sometimes I got the fire up in me, other times mr. scardy pants....I remember the one Taurus who asked me out that was pretty cool lol.. I was looking at a CD ( I love music... listen to it 24-7 and this girl comes up to me and ask me for my number..) I swear I don't tell no lies I have nothing to gain from lieing on these boards I'm 25 years old and I'm not in high school...lol But that was 1 outta of a million and that I'm sad to say has never happened again...heh

Aight... I might start by asking Tasha out (that's the girl at my current job) I'm gonna have to do that tommoroww today unfortunately is my last day off until Saturday then go back in Sunday (this job blows!!!) Yeah you're right gonna have to start being proactive and exploring new lands and territories lol.. next time i see homegirl at mars i might see what's poppin.. thanks cb im out for right now

CancerBuddy-
I have not seen you on any posts lately...must be busy..Well let me give you some info..I am not going out with Tasha..(who I happened to find out her sun sign was Virgo too) she is already been thru the whole warehouse and back six times so I've been told..heh.. So I gave that idea up..too bad she wasn't that bad looking either but like my friend said, "What looks good to you, ain't always good for you!!" So Im chillin ....trying to finish up my xmas shopping...waiting on this new job to call back (i had the interview and im confident they will be calling ME back compared to these clowns i seen up at the interview.. It'll all get worked out in some crazy way im sure.. But uh what's new——

Hi Virgomajick!
It is always fun hearing form you. You bring out that crazy cancer laughter out of me.

Let me wish you luck in getting your dream Job.

I just want to clarify the meaning of your statement,"she is already been thru the whole warehouse and back six times so I've been told..heh.. "

Being an Asian lot of expressions become lingo dingo to me.
By the way it is going on in a very cozy friendly way with my virgoman!

looney

Looney- (I'm glad to bring out that cancer laugh 🙂
I'm glad things are going well with you and your virgoman..Good to see some virgos getting some love since some of us I feel are just doomed to bad relationships (or maybe it's my karma talking trash with that afflicted 8th house stellium of mine..heh)......Anyway, I just went back for the 2nd interview, took the drug test, and it looks I'll be getting called next Tuesday he said I mean I know I'll be getting called simple as that I smashed that interview (Confidence)(yes sir i got it)....Not a dream job by any means hey but it's easy stacking 18-24 feet tall skids of empty bottles for pepsi, coke, arizona, and all the major soft drink companies, load and unload tractor trailers that's it! Really too easy cause it's all sitting down on a forklift the whole shift (nice)... second it's going to pay the bills...thirdly I'll be working night shift so I can try to work on some things during the day eventually.. thinking about getting my CDL's during the day sometime in the near future...I need to start making some serious cash cuz these little 12-13 dollar an hour jobs just ain't cutting the mustard for me for me...I'm getting too old for that crap.. And my last job ugh..that was the chaos... I was working in -15 degree freezer temperatures that butter made me sick you know I consider myself a hard man but that butter was aweful lol (at least I lasted 3 weeks working 10-12 hour shifts, some of these cats I know only lasted a day or two) And the part about is I could have stayed in for the long haul but I made a command decision to just jump out somewhere else....story of my life.... I have a good feeling about this one though.. When I took the tour with the guy (Max was his name) Max seems really cool and everything in there was just as organized and clean the way I like things to be at a workplace...looks like they have a really good setup in there....

To clarify my statement "she has been thru the whole warehouse and back six times" Since I left the army (which was so dumb I should have stayed in there for the long haul and retired....still considering going back in I'm only 25) The only work around my area I could really find that has been stable and willing to hire me is warehouse work. Most of the ones I've worked in usually have a ratio of 90% men to 10% women mainly due to the physical abuse of these kind of jobs. So Tasha has been thru most of these guys in the warehouse which is ALOT of guys!!! I'm also meaning Tasha is just a tad bit on the promiscious side for me.. I mean I don't want to be #999 guy she's been with...sorry that's not my style lol....You know I started getting that feeling before the guys told me too because she was very "friendly" to alot of guys in there.. Ahh..all about what you're looking for i guess is what it boils down too.... seems to me I'm looking for something a little more than just a good time... that's all i got.. take care all..
*virgomajick*

Hey Virgomajick
Thanx for the explanation. you said in warehouse there are less women due to physical abuse of these kind of jobs. Now does the word 'abuse' relate to sexual abuse or the job being very tough for a woman to handle kind of a thing? And you say that Tasha has been through most of these guys. Now this could be just heresay. You know how some men love to boast about a female who is very friendly!
All said and done i od understand your sentiment in being the exclusive one! We all need to feel that way! Even if Tasha has been through many guys, it could be because she is searching for same thing as you do... that exclusive treatment.

Just my views.

Have a nice day
looney

Looney-
Abuse meaning physical demands ( I wouldn't be working there if they were doing immoral stuff like that lol) And as far as hearsay goes..You gotta use your own discretion on who you might think is a freak and who's not..She just kinda strikes me for the freak type so I'm gonna trust my own instincts and leave it alone 🙂 However, I hear what you sayin about how guys can tell lies...I do hear you... Really I'm just going at a turtle's pace on looking at prospects in my area because I'm really just not pushing it that hard... I'm happy alone..I'm happy being with somebody..really makes little difference to me.. But I do notice sometimes I want to be with somebody more at certain times than other times...I've been in both situations just about equally.....Main thing that I've learned in all my relationships is you can't push it.... cya soon got to make some breakfast..hungry lol..

My good wishes ar ewith you virgomajick. I have philosophy in life - try for higher things but at the same time be happy with whaqt you have. Yo usaid your are happy if you are alone..you are happy if you are with somebody.. good attitude!
looney