Virgo almost in love, now hating me.

Mine tells me I'm his angel, the beauty to his beast. Then is cold. No return of affection for no reason. Just wakes up like that.
Too many games.

He is doing everything in his power to make you get a clue.

God damn, I feel for this man.

You are going to keep on pestering him, aren't you?

Leave him be ffs!

Posted by Pixiecircle
P.S. he keeps saying m sorry if it hurts you. But I cant do this anymore. I dont know the reason, why. He keeps changing reasons, as if hes trying to hide the main reason.

Reason number he gave me: its ur age n language. I fixed that by saying ill learn language n dont lie abt age as i look younger than you.

reason number 2. Idk the reason.
reason number 3. I cant !ove you. It doesnt absorb me.
reason number 4. Im cold. If i stay cold after marriage we both cry.
reason number 5. Dont ask. Stop plz. I made my decision.

And m like... what happened to him in just few days. He was so happy when we met last time. And now ds at texting.

all the reasons he is giving should be enough for you to hate him and not want anything to do with him. grab this opportunity to move on and find someone who is into you.

I'm telling you. Just go quiet. This is control. It's a game. He is seeing how far he can push you. And each time you let him back, he is going to raise the bar each time. To see if you will jump. Stop jumping!
It's hard, easier said then done, but you have to go quiet. This is a form of torrure and control. He knows exactly what he is doing. He is testing you! Stop the game. Take back control. Value yourself.
You aren't a puppet. Stop looking or answers bc as long as he knows you want them, he's going to continue the push and pull. He's got you wrapped. He's in control.
Let him sit and seethe and play games with someone else. You are better than that.

Im qui3t but he doesnt sound like hes testing me. He sounds like hes frustrated for some reasons and pushing me back for them. I pray now he pays for knowingly hurting us but comes to senses soon. Did your guy btw did this push n pull to get something out of you? I know virgos do this. My guy used to do this too but when he cuts off in clear words thats alarming. Its 2nd time. 1St time i had to chase him down n make him see things. He opened up alot after that. Now he just says, have a good future. Think of ur future without me.

That's what he wants. He wants you to chase and beg and plead and sit and wait.
For what?! So he can do this again?! Don't do it!

Yea, mine decided to do the living and caring guy and wake up the frustrated out of sorts in gonna ignore you guy. Not playing it. Adults, no matter what sign, can handle their emotions. And can communicate. It takes a minute to say I'm upset/frustrated need a few talk to you soon. To be flat out ignorant and ignore- child's play. Then they get pissed off bc you get pissed off. Lol. What you think you were doing? Making me feel like a dozen roses?! Duh!
This is another way they test you. To see how you react when they pull this butter. They are gauging your feelings. To see how well they have "got you".
My ex husband told my virguy- don't play it with her. When she shad enough she acts like you never existed. He was warned. He was told the second time to be cautious bc I don't do games Nd he better just start talking and expressing the problem.
The problem isn't you, or me, it's them! They think they are the gift of God to your lap. And they love to see you beg and chase and text and call. While they sit there looking and smirking thinking- got her.
Not me boo boo. He can play that game with some down and out hoochie. I got too much good in me to play treetrunking games with a 32 year old man. Grow up!

Let him go. Your going to spend your entire life playing this. Don't exhaust yourself. Ain't worth the butter baby.

Go be happy. Let him seethe. He did it to himself.

He doesn't deserve your devotion. He isn't giving you his.

Wow! That was much informative. He did used to test me time to time if i blow up or no. All the tim3s i didnt. But just one bad day at my side n he went cold. Oh my God.....

That's the excuse he will use. You can't control your emotions. The problem is him not you. Your just gonna make yourself nuts. Let it go.

Well while I had been sitting and entertaining my cold virguy and dealing with his butter, I had not seen another sweet Virgo who was interested in me. Last night he texted me and told me that he was waiting for me to let this one go.
He is a sweet and open Virgo. The opposite of what I was dealing with. Took me out. Very talkative. Great listener. Has been through a lot of the same.
But told me he saw me being tortured by my virguy. Hated it. Wanted to tell me several times to stop the madness.
But it was nice and he was very wonderful and a sweet date. Pixie- let the troublesome one alone!! Your missing out on the good in life!

Haha, LeoVeen. Am being neutral. M listening to all. I m not letting go but i am also not going to him n beg more. What do you suggest ?

Posted by LeoVeen
Just, dont listen to the Gemini.....

The Gemini knows. She's played this game many times with her virguy. He's hot n cold and in and out and talky and quiet. It's a game. He wants to see what she will/won't put up with. He wants to be admired and wanted and number one while he makes her feel like a piece of crap. So it is what it is.
Staying quiet is the right thing.
Don't play his game and let him be lonely. He's done it to himself. His prison. Let him live in what he built.

Virgos?

Like I said. Let him go. Virgo or not, he doesn't value you.
By him being quiet and putting you off he is saying he doesn't care about your feelings. Don't put yourself out on a limb for someone who won't get off the couch for you.
It's not worth it. Like I told you- he loses. He loses love,appreciation and devotion. If he doesn't want it give it to someone who does!
It pains me to see you delving so much into this. Stop trying to understand why he is treating you bad. The bottom lineHENIS TREATING YOU BAD!
You wouldn't put up with that from anyone else! Don't take it from him.
Your chasing glitter. And there are so many solid diamonds out there.

Hmmmm. Im hearing that alot and thinking alot on it. Love is so strange.

My Venus is virgo.
Mars in Aries .

His Venus in Leo
Mars in Virgo

Plus my moon is leo. His moon, pisces.

My virguy will probably never speak to me again. He owes me money.

Sent him a text and let him know. He has a week to pay up or in taking legal action. I want free of this arrogant man. Then he can silent treatment and seethe to his hearts content.

Just done. Never been treated so horribly by a man in my life.

Pixie if you dont mind can i ask your guys date of birth and your zodiac sign, and what specifically was the issue that pushed him away? I think being married to a virgo guy for the past 5 years i can tell a lot! but from what you have mentioned i can tell that if he had one of those issues for real, he wouldnt behave all detached infact he would stick around play the hide & seek game tryin to fix you instead the matter! If he had issues with your age he wouldnt persue you in the first place. So be patient! give more details and dont give up just like that, cause you have invested a lot in this past one yr and you cant get out of this relationship like this, and by being patient i dont mean that you should go quiet on him, cause you know you are not goin to get hold of him this way, his ego is much bigger then the realization of hurtin you! so he wont come back knowing that you have gone silent. He ll take it as a break up from you and it will make things easy for him. So the best thing is to text! yes dont call! just TEXT and no sentiments, no emotional talk. Just be clear and tell him that if he doesnt want this relationship then its ok you are not goin to disturb him anymore. You did what you thought was best and that tell him that you know your mistakes and you have learnt from them and in future if he ever meets u he ll know you as a different person! This kind of talk will make him realize that you have self respect and you are appologetic at the same time and it will encourage him to get back in contact with you. And when finally he replies, dont reply quick.Take your time and let him approach you slowly.

and secondly you cant live your life on the basis of astrology, Not all virgos are same infact not all men are same, his attitude has nothin to do with his sign! Its about how you two connect! You cant decide on your life by taking opinions of others. You have to be wise, sit back relax and think what is causing trouble in your relationship only you would know what brought him back last time and what exactly you need to do, men dont like arguments so if he's not happy and complainin about things, you need to stay quiet, listen to what he's sayin and when he's done then tell him your issue! You cant bet if you left your virgo guy you will be happy with your next scorpio guy! They are all alike and they all have their flaws, infact we all have our flaws and issues. all we can do is be patient and improvise. And last thing i would say is that listen to your heart not the world! They can advice you suggest you but cant save your relationship!