@chococream
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Virgo just stalks you for life after you dump them
Why Virgos May Stalk After a Breakup
Virgos may exhibit persistent behavior after a breakup due to their strong need for closure and control. They value stability and can become fixated on unresolved feelings. Understanding this can help in managing interactions and setting boundaries to avoid ongoing issues.
From what I remember, you dumped him. Aren't you the dramatic chick that slammed two mobile phones?
But yes, yes we do. Be scared, be very scared.
Ed Gein is the quintessential Virgo. We're all like that..congregating in cemeteries at night and deciding on better ways to stalk Scorpios.
Hahahaha I must admit I still pay all my exes a visit on their facebook once in a while... it irritates me, but I can't really stop, I don't know why 😢
I look forward to the day when facebook is over, so I can act like I don't care anymore
A Virgo will never stalk someone if the break up was clear. Too much dignity for that.
A Virgo will stalk if he didn't get an answer and the person is dramatic. In this case they will think they have a shot because the dramatic person will feel validated.
I've heard stories of Virgos stalking exes and in all cases..it was the exes that were playing games for attention then turned around and felt stalked.
If you made boundaries and reinforced them, he would never dare to cross them for fear of ridicule above anything else. We actually do take "no" for an answer.
However the cemetery part is true. Be scared..be very scared.
I do however see a Virgo sulking for ages and hoping his ex might take him back. But he will either extend his friendship or just sulk in silence. You won't see any stalking and he will respect your choice and will let you go and find the happiness he could not give you.
lol they do stalk if it was ended on his terms. Choco from our conversations he seems to be stalking even when you made it very clear that you don't want him back as well as moved on. He just hates rejection and the girl he tried to move on with and make you jealous backfired on him. His mind games and passive aggressive tactic didn't work on you so now he will sulk and wonder why you did'nt feed into his games on wanting you to chase him. Now another guy lucked up.
Virgos hate to LOSE.
*wasn't ended on his terms
sorry for the typo 🙂
Posted by chococream
Lesson learned the hardway...😐 meaning you refused to learn it the easy way?!?! .
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😆! Why do easy when hard is so much fun?
Posted by Octoberbaby91
lol they do stalk if it was ended on his terms. Choco from our conversations he seems to be stalking even when you made it very clear that you don't want him back as well as moved on. He just hates rejection and the girl he tried to move on with and make you jealous backfired on him. His mind games and passive aggressive tactic didn't work on you so now he will sulk and wonder why you did'nt feed into his games on wanting you to chase him. Now another guy lucked up.Virgos hate to LOSE.
+1
Yes they hate to those my virgo ex still harass me. The more I give him the cold shoulder and be mean to him, the more persistent he become
Posted by Damnata
A Virgo will never stalk someone if the break up was clear. Too much dignity for that.A Virgo will stalk if he didn't get an answer and the person is dramatic. In this case they will think they have a shot because the dramatic person will feel validated.
I've heard stories of Virgos stalking exes and in all cases..it was the exes that were playing games for attention then turned around and felt stalked.
Actually not true. My Virgo got married to someone else and then spent nearly 20yrs trying to get me back. So in conclusion, Virgos can stalk even if ending was set in stone. Just saying.
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I was thinking of you when typing that. Might be the exception..but the OP isn't the exception to my post about dramatic women complaining about this. I remember her history with the Virgo.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
My Virgo father cut my mothers passport picture and taped it next to his liscence picture after she died. That way he's always with her.
🙂
He still won't leave you alone?
Posted by chococream
Lesson learned the hardway...
How much money did he LOAN you? Pay up or shut up.
Damn..look at all the innocent females playing victim of the Virgo male species piping in ..tsk tsk
Like clockwork.
From what I remember, you dumped him. Aren't you the dramatic chick that slammed two mobile phones?
^^There's one $ $ $ loan.
Posted by Damnata
A Virgo will never stalk someone if the break up was clear. Too much dignity for that.A Virgo will stalk if he didn't get an answer and the person is dramatic. In this case they will think they have a shot because the dramatic person will feel validated.
I've heard stories of Virgos stalking exes and in all cases..it was the exes that were playing games for attention then turned around and felt stalked.
Ah, dear Virgal.
There are in fact, Virgos who stalk. In fact, I have known of several and they stalked pitifully so, even after friends have but implored them to stop, for it was much more self destructive on their part than on their ex. The ex of said Virgos, were in fact hardly dramatic, they made the break up swift and concise.
Not all Virgos are that 'perfect', even without the drama and attention seeking from said ex, there truly are abusive and self absorbed Virgos in existence. Even those who would go so far as to be arrogant and egotistical, far too much so, to simply let go whilst accepting "No." for an answer.
There might be Virgos who stalk. But as a sign pattern? We do not stalk.
I know people who make break ups swift and concise and still crave drama. They aren't mutually exclusive.
I don't think any Virgo in existence defines himself/herself as perfect, we're too aware of flaws. So I don't understand the perfection angle on this.
The OP in this topic is one of the dramatic ones so I am not surprised at all about her bringing up stalking. It's exactly what I've seen in my life about dramatic people paired up with Virgos.
Holding the image of a loved one close and unwilling to let it go =/= stalking, as long as the person holding that image does not interfere in any way with the other's life by making things difficult for the other party. And this Virgo, from all she shared, isn't doing that.
Posted by Damnata
There might be Virgos who stalk. But as a sign pattern? We do not stalk.I know people who make break ups swift and concise and still crave drama. They aren't mutually exclusive.
I don't think any Virgo in existence defines himself/herself as perfect, we're too aware of flaws. So I don't understand the perfection angle on this.
The OP in this topic is one of the dramatic ones so I am not surprised at all about her bringing up stalking. It's exactly what I've seen in my life about dramatic people paired up with Virgos.
Holding the image of a loved one close and unwilling to let it go =/= stalking, as long as the person holding that image does not interfere in any way with the other's life by making things difficult for the other party. And this Virgo, from all she shared, isn't doing that.
True, however the ones whom I had but witnessed, there was no drama seeking. The ex actually moved on, happily so.
True on the second point as well, but when I referred to stalking it was not by that definition (that definition the former one, could hardly count as stalking, that is only the Virgos being sentimental), but abusive, intrusive and caused damage.
Ah, well I was only replying to you Dams because the OP's situation is far too hard to gauge with such minimal information offered.
Perfect as in idealised, at times from your posts there seems to be a hint of idealism in regards to Virgos or it reads as so (I may be wrong). Granted, there are many lovely and commendable traits in you lot, but there are just as many nut cases and abusive Virgos as well. Simply, keeping the information shared balanced 'tis all.
Posted by Damnata
There might be Virgos who stalk. But as a sign pattern? We do not stalk.I know people who make break ups swift and concise and still crave drama. They aren't mutually exclusive.
I don't think any Virgo in existence defines himself/herself as perfect, we're too aware of flaws. So I don't understand the perfection angle on this.
The OP in this topic is one of the dramatic ones so I am not surprised at all about her bringing up stalking. It's exactly what I've seen in my life about dramatic people paired up with Virgos.
Holding the image of a loved one close and unwilling to let it go =/= stalking, as long as the person holding that image does not interfere in any way with the other's life by making things difficult for the other party. And this Virgo, from all she shared, isn't doing that.
Im not being dramatic Damnata.. whats with the resentment and all. After the breakup and all that so called "drama" I did move on and in fact are already with a Capricorn. So yes, they do stalk..well in defense to other virgo's that are sane and don't do stalking...the ex-virgo is the weird stalker. so yeah thats that.
@TheLadyScorp
I'm all about information being balanced. That's why I actually dare to speak of the better parts of being a Virgo, considering most people are hell bent on everything that is wrong with Virgos. Like you said, there has to be balance 🙂
Posted by chococream
Lesson learned the hardway...How much money did he LOAN you? Pay up or shut up.
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Excuse me! I don't own a single cent to ex-virgo. We split everything down to the cent of what we've acquired throughout the relationship.
Im one Virgo who does not stalk.I break up with them or they me it's over,except for one ex Im not interested in any of them or their lives.
My Virgo father cut my mothers passport picture and taped it next to his liscence picture after she died. That way he's always with her.
That is so sweet.
Posted by TachiMichi
^^^^ for ANY stalker
of any sign. stop it.kane, that was sweet
what your dad did.
bless him. No sweetheart that is IrresistableScorps father not mine.I messed up the post sorry.
Posted by Damnata
@TheLadyScorpI'm all about information being balanced. That's why I actually dare to speak of the better parts of being a Virgo, considering most people are hell bent on everything that is wrong with Virgos. Like you said, there has to be balance 🙂
Well, there is always a difference between those who rant with no direction at all in regards to Virgos and those who simply spew out verbal vomit about their lesser traits. The latter hardly do you lot justice, however to bring them up within a discussion/debate, that in itself is another story entirely. Why I should think that only adds interesting highlights within a conversation.
There is ranting, and then there is worthwhile discussion. It would hardly be amusing either, if every single sun sign were to saunter unto the Virgo board and only praise them to high heavens.
Again, balance. The love for you lot (the upstanding commendable ones) still remains.
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