Virgo Christmas Gift Ideas!

So I came to you guys to find a gift for my Virgo guy back in September. He loved the very nice watch. Now, I have to come up with something else. Obviously something practical. I was thinking a visa gift card but it seems so boring. Any suggestions?

Oh yeah about that! Being an Aries and all as I said "i'm fickle". That was last week. Us Aries don't work that way. We are, "in the moment" lol. Gift ideas? hahahaha

I couldn't help but burst into laughter when I saw this. HAHAHA. He has a very "special" taste I see. I wonder what my Virgo would do if I bought that.

I have a Virgo friend who's obsessed with wallets and socks...so something among these lines? 🙂)

I like leather goods as accessories. I also LOVE gold so... I think with a Virgo they dont need BIG gifts but specific gifts to their liking. What does yours like?

If you have to ask someone what YOUR boyfriend is into ... then you are a terrible boyfriend, in that you're not paying attention ... so the best thing to give him is your absence in his life.


Give him the gift of being free from you, so he can go find a man who is actually paying attention to him.

It amazes me how deluded people really are. On your profile, you have written ..

"I'm Awesome"


when in reality, you're not ... you are a person who has to ask a stranger what YOUR boyfriend likes. which means your self image is in complete opposition of who you really are.

My hope is that he realizes this very soon .... and dumps you, because people really don't need fake friends.

People are upset that I am simply asking for suggestions and making HUGE assumptions about me. I have dedicated much time in getting to know him but he is so closed off sometimes due not only to being a Virgo but to having a not so good childhood as I put it. I am constantly hammering at his walls trying to break in and and have made major progress. We are talking about a Christmas gift for godsakes. It is funny that you all put the blame on me for not knowing exactly what type of stuff he likes when it is I who is constantly constantly constantly initiating everything and pushing to make things work. The internet is a funny place.

To my friend, the 54 year old female who has obviously accomplished nothing meaningful in her life as she would go online to attack a complete stranger on something so simple. You are more than twice my age. You should know better. That is all.

I've pretty much settled on getting him a nice wallet with a case, dog tags with our initials on them like mine, some socks and t-shirts (i work at a clothing store) and a Visa gift card to supplement everything. That you to those who have actually added something constructive.

I noticed that he liked "shineies" so the gold watch was an awesome touch. He kept talking about it days after but initially just kinda said "Why would you do this for me?".

Posted by aressupreme

I am constantly hammering at his walls trying to break in and and have made major progress. We are talking about a Christmas gift for godsakes.

Oh, I see ... so your idea of breaking walls is by giving him a generic gift people on a forum told you?



funny how what you claim and how you act aren't the same

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by aressupreme

I am constantly hammering at his walls trying to break in and and have made major progress. We are talking about a Christmas gift for godsakes.

Oh, I see ... so your idea of breaking walls is by giving him a generic gift people on a forum told you?



funny how what you claim and how you act aren't the same

click to expand

My idea of breaking walls is sitting there and listening to him in silence as he tells me about himself slowly, revealing his intermost pain. Things I will NOT reveal to perfect strangers, just know that we've gone there. You seem to be intimidated by my unwavering confidence as you keep referring to it. You are getting all of this from my asking for a SUGGESTION? After all, a suggestion is something I can take into account and completely disregard. You act as if I posted my credit card number and said "Hey, go buy my boyfriend something, idgaf what you buy, just make it expensive". Silly lady. Maybe I should buy you something too Grinch! ba-dum-chssh!

What has he expressed interest in?

Arts, politics, sports, reading?

A gift for something he expressed interest in is a lot more personal.

Observation and active listening shows genuine interest.

My hope of what he gets for Christmas, that matters, is the realization that his boyfriend is so unaware of his likes that he has to come to a forum to ask for generic gift ideas, of the Virgo, generally speaking .... as if they are all the same.

Clueless is something a Virgo figures out eventually ... and hopefully, him figuring you out comes sooner than later.

Posted by P-Angel

My hope of what he gets for Christmas, that matters, is the realization that his boyfriend is so unaware of his likes that he has to come to a forum to ask for generic gift ideas, of the Virgo, generally speaking .... as if they are all the same.

Clueless is something a Virgo figures out eventually ... and hopefully, him figuring you out comes sooner than later.

Literally read like the first three words then rememered "oh wait it's that miserable old cunt from the internet that no one likes, let me just keep scrolling". Silly Witch. I've researched positive pyschology. You're so dam mean because you're miserable and or suffer from an undiagnosed mental illness. If it is the latter and you have in fact been diagnosed. BITCH TAKE YO' MEDS!

I don't see the harm in asking for Christmas gift suggestions. To me, discussing gift ideas is part of the fun! (Really nice leather goods are always a winner 🙂 )

The last time I went out with the Virgo he mentioned how Scrabble is his game, so I got him one of those chocolate editions. I know it's not much, but I don't think we're in that REAL gift giving phrase yet, but I want him to know I was thinking of him. 🙂

Maybe I'll include something else...or maybe not. ha.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
What has he expressed interest in?

Arts, politics, sports, reading?

A gift for something he expressed interest in is a lot more personal.

Observation and active listening shows genuine interest.

Yeah I've been gauging him and I have a few ideas taylored specifically to his interests. He remarked "What would YOU like for x-mas? I'm sure you'll just get me something extravagant!" Ha! The boy is always cooking like day and night. I think i'll throw in a nice book of recipes are some practical cook wear. Maybe one of those fancy knives from the picturebox machine!