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Virgo men approaching women
Posted by virgodog58
As a Virgo male I would be interested to hear from other Virgo males in terms of how they approach women that they are interested in romantically/sexually, particularly in everyday situations such as at a supermarket etc, without creeping them out or annoying them. As a Virgo I seem to find in general that women are fine with me as long as I stay in "The Friend Zone" but get pissed off when I try to step out of it! As a shy person I seem to be either too reticent (most of the time) or occasionally too forward (i.e. I sometimes overreact to polite interest). With regard to the shy thing I suppose that people judge everything by appearances and suppose that shy people have no feelings or passions underneath. So how can I get the balance right? Any serious and sincere suggestions please? What has worked for you?
ththee evil friend zone i hate it what i do is flirt up front because if you don't you will be friend and by that time you minus well not talk to her any more. indowendo flirting and flirty looks work for me.if all fails send a pic of your Dick works all the time.
damn Android phone oh well
Posted by CluelessCancer
You should share a picture with us, i'm thinking you might look below average and that could be your problem? Well there's ways to combat that.
oh never that me and my Dick got a trip to California
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Posted by CluelessCancer
You should share a picture with us, i'm thinking you might look below average and that could be your problem? Well there's ways to combat that.
oh never that me and my Dick got a trip to California
lol huh you're married. he said send dick pics loooooool don't do that.
Don't be too available dude, don't listen to a chicks problems, never talk to a woman you are interested in for more than 10 minutes for the first 3 weeks. Let her wonder about you. Don't ask questions about her personal life, who cares, you're just trying to get laid...than maybe if she shows you signs she likes you, give her more of your time.
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well that was before i was married any ways the dick pic work it's a great ice breaker lol but if you don't have any thing down there you shouldn't do it
Do not send a dick pic...chances are she is showing everyone and laughing at you! wtf is with guys that thinks this is ok and we girls like it...its not and we dont. wtf are we to say to that?...chances are this is what you'll get from me "did you have to zoom in when you took it?" lol
ugh...BOYS!!! LOL
"hey I just met you...let exchange #s and later tonight im gonna text you a random pic of my penis in hopes that you will sleep with me"
^^^how can any girl resist that *smh*
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Hey, some women actually ask you to send them one. In return I ask them to send me one. Everybody's happy. If a female I just met sent me a pussy pic, and it looks like cold cut meat, I'm already interested. Women are just different, Limm. 🙂SMH....women
yeah its called classy vs trashy women PHV 😉
Men do it because it works men don't do any thing unless it works.think about it.
Pull your dick out when you two are alone. She'll take you out the friendzone
Don't send the Dick first thing... Any woman that's worth the trouble will be grossed out.... YES FLIRT DIRECTLY! Let her know you find her attractive and want to get to know her better... What in the hell " cold cut meat" LMAO!!! Anyway I am obviously not a Virgo male but I like my meat HOT!!!_—_—_—_—_—
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Posted by Sagtastic1
(totally breaking Girl code)If you want to get out of the friendzone, all you need to do it this.........
Talk about how bad you're into another girl. She may "act" happy for you for a while, but eventually, she'll try and win you over.
lol wtf you should get banned for that! That's psychological warfare of the worst kind🙂
Send me a dick picture and I'll send you a fuk off go die message. Real talk. Try that with a Trashy Libra. That might work. Zero class.
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Kiss my Pretty Libra ass CC...
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOLOL. All women are trashy. Some just cover it up better. 🙂
Co-Sign I am guily of sending a "feasible cunt" pic. Hell, I'm proud of it!
Gross.
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cosign.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
I was definitely born in the wrong century😢
Yes you where, It is damn near 2014. If you haven't sent a "pretty kitty" pic to your man of intrest, well you won't keep him for long. Expescially a Virgo man, it will keep him around for a while....lolclick to expand
I approve and cosign the pretty kitty pic message, 🙂
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Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOLOL. All women are trashy. Some just cover it up better. 🙂
Co-Sign I am guily of sending a "feasible cunt" pic. Hell, I'm proud of it!
Gross.
Hey hey hey...If your partner is trustworthy enough sometimes u gotta let em know..... It can do wonders to get the juices flowing (chuckles quietly at the implied innuendo).
Fasho.
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^^^
While on the subject: my man is bugging me mad about sending him a "feasible cunt" picture! OMG How do you get a good picture of "it"!— LMAO- ladies you know what I'm talking about_—, guys... You probably don't give a shit as long as you get one! HELP—
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*spread em* stupid auto correct
Lmao! Is it asking or telling?
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by Ixion120
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOLOL. All women are trashy. Some just cover it up better. 🙂
Co-Sign I am guily of sending a "feasible cunt" pic. Hell, I'm proud of it!
Gross.
Hey hey hey...If your partner is trustworthy enough sometimes u gotta let em know..... It can do wonders to get the juices flowing (chuckles quietly at the implied innuendo).
Fasho.
^^^
While on the subject: my man is bugging me mad about sending him a "feasible cunt" picture! OMG How do you get a good picture of "it"!— LMAO- ladies you know what I'm talking about_—, guys... You probably don't give a shit as long as you get one! HELP—
What do you mean? Get waxed and spread me! Lol or bend over with the camera inbetween your legs. Always take 4-7 pics, you'll get at least one right.click to expand
Freudian slip there? 😛
Bossy are you Sagtastic1?
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Posted by VirgoChyld
Bossy are you Sagtastic1?
Apparently, I can be quite snappy.click to expand
Oh do tell
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by Ixion120
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOLOL. All women are trashy. Some just cover it up better. 🙂
Co-Sign I am guily of sending a "feasible cunt" pic. Hell, I'm proud of it!
Gross.
Hey hey hey...If your partner is trustworthy enough sometimes u gotta let em know..... It can do wonders to get the juices flowing (chuckles quietly at the implied innuendo).
Fasho.
^^^
While on the subject: my man is bugging me mad about sending him a "feasible cunt" picture! OMG How do you get a good picture of "it"!— LMAO- ladies you know what I'm talking about_—, guys... You probably don't give a shit as long as you get one! HELP—
What do you mean? Get waxed and spread me! Lol or bend over with the camera inbetween your legs. Always take 4-7 pics, you'll get at least one right.
😕
See, you Sagitarians just "know" what to do, hahah. 😄
Much love...
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Cosign
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OH MY GOD.... So funny!
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Bossy are you Sagtastic1?
Apparently, I can be quite snappy.
Oh do tell
I've been told by men that I have a "smart ass mouth". They think it's funny and a open invitation to go all Tarzan on me.Try and "control" me as if that could ever happen.
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When they gonna learn you can't control or tell a sag women anything, just ask and you get better results. 🙂
They go Tarzan wow, you must really have a "smart ass mouth" then lol
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Posted by VirgoChyld
Bossy are you Sagtastic1?
Apparently, I can be quite snappy.click to expand
I've been told by men that I think like a man and I take that as a compliment....I'm Sagittarius rising!
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Posted by VirgoChyld
Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by VirgoChyld
Bossy are you Sagtastic1?
Apparently, I can be quite snappy.
Oh do tell
I've been told by men that I have a "smart ass mouth". They think it's funny and a open invitation to go all Tarzan on me.Try and "control" me as if that could ever happen.
When they gonna learn you can't control or tell a sag women anything, just ask and you get better results. 🙂
They go Tarzan wow, you must really have a "smart ass mouth" then lol
You go it! Don't "tell" me to do anything, but you can ask me everything. You're pretty slick, have you encountered a Sag stallion?click to expand
Yes I have, and I made a thread In the sag forum, a few weeks ago, you told me "don't chase her" So I didn't. I remember your advice
Posted by Sagtastic1
@VirgoChild oh, I must have forgot. You have to chase her a little bit. There is a fine line between chasing and smothering. You just have to find it, but being that you are a Virgo and appreciate space just as much as wee do, I don't see you having. Problem.
True I don't like being a burden to her.
Chase a sag.... hard to keep up with at times
She knows I like her, but I haven't said anything in about two weeks.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by VirgoChyld
She knows I like her, but I haven't said anything in about two weeks.
I don't think that's a long time, but then again I'm a Virgo too, so what the hell do I know, lolol.
I just feel like real connections don't break over time.
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2 weeks can be a hell of a long time to some women, especially if they are unsure of things. But I also have had enough experiences with Virgos to understand 2 weeks= 2 hours to you guys 😉
Posted by justagirl
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by VirgoChyld
She knows I like her, but I haven't said anything in about two weeks.
I don't think that's a long time, but then again I'm a Virgo too, so what the hell do I know, lolol.
I just feel like real connections don't break over time.
2 weeks can be a hell of a long time to some women, especially if they are unsure of things. But I also have had enough experiences with Virgos to understand 2 weeks= 2 hours to you guys 😉
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Yes it can seem a long time, but I just let her do her.
2 weeks= 2 hours, my time is really off lol.
LOL
Well I just was busy and all
Posted by virgodog58
.... how they approach women that they are interested in romantically/sexually ....
Typically, the Virgo believes that sex is equivelant to love, one in the same ... and this fundamental error is the ultimate answer to the equation. Look around you, and not just this thread .... the Virgo ALWAYS references sex in terms of a score.
Of course, being a Virgo, you, along with the rest, will have to deny that, because truth is too hard of a pill to swallow ...... ESPECIALLY for the Virgo, who resides in a constant state of the very illusion which drove you to ask this question, which drives all Virgos to feel put upon = they have nothing to use as a point of reference for them to distinguish between romance and sex. Even you put a / inbetween to reference it's the same.
And it's not ... and no, you really don't know the difference.
Typically, the Virgo spends its entire chamber of love .... trying to make time.
Again, that ^^^ is the definitive answer, though, I know you're looking for a quick fix, rather than an answer.
Posted by virgodog58
... particularly in everyday situations such as at a supermarket etc, without creeping them out or annoying them.
What does this mean? You walk up to a stranger and try to invade their personal space?
Or do you mean, you wait until you are in public with a friend to put them on a spot because you believe that they won't punch you?
What? ... sounds pretty fucking creepy that you want to know about how to approach someone sexually in the store.
Posted by virgodog58
.... women are fine with me as long as I stay in "The Friend Zone" but get pissed off when I try to step out of it!
Why would you try to score with a friend?
dude, wtf?
Posted by virgodog58
.... I seem to be either too reticent (most of the time) or occasionally too forward (i.e. I sometimes overreact to polite interest).
So, now here, you wrote it out, which means you actually GET that you react, rather than remain composed and act according to how you direct yourself .... yet, this sentence suggests that you fall prey to your own goddam self !!!
wtf?
Posted by virgodog58
.... that people judge everything by appearances and suppose that shy people have no feelings or passions underneath.click to expand
How ludicrous, and is the proof of my first post in this thread .... because you have your panties wadded up your ass in disgruntlement, rather than accepting this flaw in you, as a Virgo .... you now make the claim that it's all because you are misunderstood. When in reality, there isn't a person out there that thinks a shy person has no feelings.
:::: shakes head :::::
Of course, it's always the same ...... you fuck yourself, you can't stand it, so you make the claim nobody understands you.
ssdd .... you think it's all about sex, so that's how you present yourself, you get proverbally slapped across the face, you deny it, then spend a gross amount of time in your illusion, going wa-wa-wa ... but, never look at reality
If you can ... try to notice that none of the other Virgos didn't really get what you are saying.
So, if you really want to heal yourself, and be able to find love ... you first HAVE to realize that it all lays within your desire to not share emotions.
You cannot learn. The Virgo cries and pouts because they want the right to be able to NOT share emotions ... okay, so guess what?
Without sharing with another .... it's impossible to learn how to love.
And this is the end result ....
I mean at that other Virgo, whatever his name was, Leegit, or something ..... he was actually, literally stalking a Leo woman, and he had zero clue that she wasn't interested in him. I mean, seriously ... how a can you NOT know, when it's in your fucking face?
he didn't know ... and here you are, born in 1958, and have no clue on how to approach a person.
*proverbial
Posted by Ixion120
Whelp that was nice. *opens window and fans, out stink*Anyhow, back to our regularly scheduled programming.
Of course ..... because it's too true to face.
Of course, you don't care .... why should you?
You're a Virgo.
Meanwhile, here's a 55 year old man who ask YOU for help .... and the only thing you can do, being a Virgo, is joke with others.
It amazes me, how ignorant you really are.
I know you fool a lot of people in here, because you talk so eloquently .. but, in reality ...
... you're typically common as a muther fuker, in Virgo traits.
I think I saw a can of raid in the other thread. Y'all need it?
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by justagirl
I think I saw a can of raid in the other thread. Y'all need it?
A can— Pfff, more like we need to bomb this bitch and leave fo three to four hours. Then repeat the process like 5 fucking times.
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Damn!!
Napalm it! Lol
Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by Shescomeundone
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by Ixion120
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by Sagtastic1
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
LOLOL. All women are trashy. Some just cover it up better. 🙂
Co-Sign I am guily of sending a "feasible cunt" pic. Hell, I'm proud of it!
Gross.
Hey hey hey...If your partner is trustworthy enough sometimes u gotta let em know..... It can do wonders to get the juices flowing (chuckles quietly at the implied innuendo).
Fasho.
^^^
While on the subject: my man is bugging me mad about sending him a "feasible cunt" picture! OMG How do you get a good picture of "it"!— LMAO- ladies you know what I'm talking about_—, guys... You probably don't give a shit as long as you get one! HELP—
What do you mean? Get waxed and spread me! Lol or bend over with the camera inbetween your legs. Always take 4-7 pics, you'll get at least one right.click to expand
^^^^^^^
Oh hell... I did it! I released the kitty... Now I have created a beast!
Posted by Sagtastic1
@Shescomeundone can thank me now!
LMAO!!! Thank you for moral support and direction! It was difficult.. I took several, from all angles and chose the best one! God I was freaked out.. He has been begging me for a month...damn once you press send there is no turning back...of course we have a date tomorrow.... So much for keeping it on the down low! Power of the kitty! :-)
I look for signs to see if she's interested too. Then I Charm her with a mix of reverse psychology. On the other hand I've been lucky to instantly clicked with a few. I perfer that then the chase.
Posted by P-AngelIf you can ... try to notice that none of the other Virgos didn't really get what you are saying.
So, if you really want to heal yourself, and be able to find love ... you first HAVE to realize that it all lays within your desire to not share emotions.
You cannot learn. The Virgo cries and pouts because they want the right to be able to NOT share emotions ... okay, so guess what?
Without sharing with another .... it's impossible to learn how to love.
And this is the end result ....
I mean at that other Virgo, whatever his name was, Leegit, or something ..... he was actually, literally stalking a Leo woman, and he had zero clue that she wasn't interested in him. I mean, seriously ... how a can you NOT know, when it's in your fucking face?
he didn't know ... and here you are, born in 1958, and have no clue on how to approach a person.
Oh do tell me how i was stalking her? Please do. I think youre abusing that word. You do know what stalking is right?
Posted by virgodog58
As a Virgo male I would be interested to hear from other Virgo males in terms of how they approach women that they are interested in romantically/sexually, particularly in everyday situations such as at a supermarket etc, without creeping them out or annoying them. As a Virgo I seem to find in general that women are fine with me as long as I stay in "The Friend Zone" but get pissed off when I try to step out of it! As a shy person I seem to be either too reticent (most of the time) or occasionally too forward (i.e. I sometimes overreact to polite interest). With regard to the shy thing I suppose that people judge everything by appearances and suppose that shy people have no feelings or passions underneath. So how can I get the balance right? Any serious and sincere suggestions please? What has worked for you?
In all your posts on dxpnet, you mention one way or the other a religious upbringing. It's definitely keeping you back from connecting with others if it's on your mind a lot. You need to let this go in order to come out of your shell.
You mention women getting pissed off if your try to step out of the friend zone. I would be pissed off to think one of the people I consider friends had a hidden agenda all along. If you don't make your interest known early on I don't see why the women are at fault for getting pissed off.
What worked for a Virgo friend of mine when it came to me was his determined attitude. He let me know from the beginning he was interested in me but he'd rather see how things would develop organically at some point in time. There was no pressure and things developped naturally.
We met one afternoon when I was playing table tennis with some friends. He was watching the game and making sarcastic comments about our skill. He was funny though, not offensive. We started talking and took it from there.
It seems to me as though some people have thought that I was being duplicitous or something, in the sense of pretending that I just wanted to be friends when I was in fact (like all males) hoping for more. This is not the case: what I meant was that just because I don't go around ogling or even groping women this doesn't mean that I just want to be friends, and I never say that I just want to be friends: they may have assumed that, but that is up to them. However, as I indicated, I wanted to know how to signal my romantic interest in a non-threatening way, especially at first meeting. As I indicated, it is about getting the balance right. With regard to the idea that a supermarket (for example) is not an appropriate location for flirtation, I don't really see why that should be the case, as I don't think that it always necessarily has to happen within classic or conventionally "romantic" situations. With regard to the "I can't believe that he has this issue at his age" thing, yes, that may seem weird but then it is possible that I am an aspie (awaiting assessment) and social issues are characteristic of aspies. And many Virgos are supposed to be aspies and vice versa.
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As a Virgo male I would be interested to hear from other Virgo males in terms of how they approach women that they are interested in romantically/sexually, particularly in everyday situations such as at a supermarket etc, without creeping them out or annoying them. As a Virgo I seem to find in general that women are fine with me as long as I stay in "The Friend Zone" but get pissed off when I try to step out of it! As a shy person I seem to be either too reticent (most of the time) or occasionally too forward (i.e. I sometimes overreact to polite interest). With regard to the shy thing I suppose that people judge everything by appearances and suppose that shy people have no feelings or passions underneath. So how can I get the balance right? Any serious and sincere suggestions please? What has worked for you?