Virgo DON'Ts

Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Virgo yourself or know alot of Virgos) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Virgos I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Virgos or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion

DON'T:
-Allow yourself to get careless or sloppy at home (Virgo has a heightened sense of order). Virgos like to come over to your house & know that you personally cleaned up b/c tidiness is important to his partner. But when your Virgo can sense that tidiness is not in your vocabulary, they will get turned off

-Pick at your Virgo even if they pick at you-Your Virgo may take your criticism to heart & feel bad that they're not up to your standards. When Virgos are in the heat of the moment & are "letting it all out" on how they feel, just let them vent. In their minds, they feel that they are 100% right & are justified for feeling that way. Don't pick on them just out of spite. Only criticize a Virgo when it is absolutely necessary.

-Expect too much -- if you want complete and total attention at all times, you may be disappointed. Virgo is the 'Sign of Service,' and will often take time to lend a hand to a friend or coworker even if that means taking time away from the relationship to do so. Virgos know how to love their partners w/o being attached to the hip 24-7 & expect their partners to have the same mindset

-Try to feed your Virgo something they don't like-they are exact & specific about the kinds of foods that enter their body. When a Virgo says "No thank you," take it for what it is & let it go. Pouting or begging them to "try" something will only make them further not want to eat it.

-Underestimate the bedroom habits of a Virgo-Virgo perfectionism carries over into the bedroom. Once a Virgo lets "loose" their sexual side, they fully expect for their partners to give them their props, even if it means putting down personal pride to do so.

-Not letting them be of service to you (it will deeply disappoint them). When a Virgo wants to do something for you, just let them do it. Always saying "no" when they are trying to help you with something will make them feel that they can't be themselves in the relationship & will start to bring out the question of why their partners even love them or need them? They need to feel necessary & needed.

-You will not seduce Virgo by telling them how much you love them. Neither will you seduce Virgo by showing your passion for them! Never ever shock them. Virgos, when commited will listen more closely to your actions & determine from your actions if they are loved.

-Don't rush them in anything. Let things grow, from friendship to love. Love needs time to develop for Virgos.

-Don't be extravagant (be careful with your money and don't spend your money on luxury, rather spend it on very small and practical small gadgets -- to please them). Virgos can't stand people who are always trying to "over-do" everything or "show out" for all of the wrong reasons

-Don't whine & complain a lot. If your complaint is valid, they will not fault you for that. But to constantly whine about the same things & never take any action will easily annoy them.

-Don't make them sit still for a long period of time. When your Virgo wants to suddenly go to the store or get out of the house, it's not b/c he does't want to be around his partner anymore, but instead b/c he needs to breath in new air. A partner that constantly tries to take away this experience for a Virgo will find themselves single.

-Don't make them feel obligated to you. Virgos will do anything to please & help you but will easily be turned off & distance themselves from you if they sense that you take advantage of this side of them. They want to help you when THEY want to. They want to be appreciated & praised, not used & pressured.

-Don't move a Virgo's personal things. Virgos are very particular about where they put their personal belongings. If they wanted it moved, they would've moved it themselves

Thanks 🙂

I used to think that I am a Virgo purist, but after checking with the others here, I am not so sure.

I totally agree with all of your points, so kudos to you.

I am learning so much about virogs since being sort of involved with one...you brought up alot of points..thanks

"Ok Evan, what are your do's and dont's for Virgos?"

THANK YOU! I'm so glad someone else said it! Evan always has something negative to say yet I haven't seen him come up with a better list!

I'll post the "DO'S" a little later. I was just interested in seeing if the Virgos out there could relate to what I've observed about them & I'm glad atleast some of my observations were true 😉 Thanks for the feedback guys!

Answer this Evan...If you don't believe in it, then why click on the link? Why go through the trouble of reading anything in this post if none of it applies to your beliefs? I bet you can't even answer that question. I'm almost POSITIVE you won't answer those questions b/c you already know, you click on these posts to start drama & negativity but yet you're always somewhere trying to "diagnose" someone & call others out but yet I have no YET read anything of yours that was any more insightful than what I've posted. Do yourself & ALL of us a favor & get a life.

"Im magnanimous and altruistic enough (thats my nature, as a person, not as a "Virgo") to bother telling people not to trust these attempts at arbitrary sun-sign stereotyping."

Are you done yet? Do you feel better now, now that you've gotten that out? I personally didn't ask you what kind of person you were so you can spare me with the big words b/c now you're making it clearly OBVIOUS that you're using these terms to divert my question. You crack me up. In some of my other posts, others didn't agree with my opinion & you were extremely happy (even though you never put your own thoughts about the same topic, risking the same treatment) & now that others are agreeing with me, it's killing you! Take a Zanex. You'll feel better.

i totally agree with ur post..i'm getting closer with a virgo guy rite now..ur opinion really helps me to understand my virgo better..they absolutely hard to be understood..hehehe...

80% of it true for me! im a virgo.

Good advice. I hope I'll get to really use this knowledge. Soon!