Virgo ever ready?

Good afternoon,

I have a question that has been bothering me, I just started seeing and sleeping with this virgo guy, for about a month. I care about him, and like him alot. So I wanted to know if the feelings were mutual, he told me he likes me alot. But all he talks about with me is sexual things. He texts sexual things and when I see him we have sex every time. I know the obvious, but just needed to know is he just using me?I asked him that and he responded, He likes me a lot, but not looking for a relationship? I was a little thrown off by that since I didnt ask about a relationship? Any how I texted him the next day, and told him I have to say goodbye, cause If he never wants a relationship, and only wants sex, how long does he expect me to just have sex with no relationship ever? Did I do the right thing by letting him go? Or is he just scared?

hehe, one thing a virgo male has on his mind is sex, even when he has a hundred other things on his mind as well.

That's all there is ... not much beyond that except space getting taken up, and more laundry every week.

"all he talks about with me is sexual things. He texts sexual things and when I see him we have sex every time."

That ^^^^ sounds about right. I know my husband doesn't keep his friends very long because he always finds some way to loop everything back to some kind of sexual innuendo, and people get tire of this.

Is there not any substance? Just that?

I do find curious this statement of yours ..

"He likes me a lot, but not looking for a relationship? I was a little thrown off by that since I didnt ask about a relationship?"

You were a little thrown off by him saying that since you didn't ask for a relationship .... the turned around and told him goodbye the very next day because you want a relationship from him .... so, your telling him goodbye was in place because of him telling you he didn't want a relationship, in which you have absolutely no clue you even want, so that's why you got upset when made that statement because you never asked for one.

Yet, you responded in a goodbye when he said it ....

You are a very confused woman at this time ...or maybe just always, who knows, some people are just confused always.

sagdiva,

You did the best thing given the circumstances. In my experience, SAG & Virg is primarily a sexual relationship - no doubt a hot time! - but not built for the long haul...

I asked him that and he responded, He likes me a lot, but not looking for a relationship?

To his credit, he told you straight-up what the deal is, and you took the option to get out. Consider it a lesson learned, and heed the advice to spend more time talking than screwing - at least in the first month!