
Would you be friends with someone who didn't want to date you?



Posted by GreenteaOops, didn't focus on that this is just for guys that are virgo lol...sorry really late night with my scorpio.
Yes, after I accept that he doesnt want to date me, if friendship is all there is then so be it

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomLol..try to rub it in her face
After I get myself a better looking girlfriend than her, yes 😉

Posted by GreenteaLol. No worries . Doesn't have to be just themPosted by GreenteaOops, didn't focus on that this is just for guys that are virgo lol...sorry really late night with my scorpio.
Yes, after I accept that he doesnt want to date me, if friendship is all there is then so be itclick to expand

Posted by starwarsYou can still answer lol.
shit im not a guy


Posted by CopperDoveThis guy asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him no. He told me I was selfish and that I broke his heart. I barely hear from him now. I tried getting ahold of him, but either don't get a response or its very short.
I have a Virgo male friend who I dated more than 10 years ago, for a short time. He says that he still finds me attractive but he knows that our differences mean that a friendship is best, not more. We've talked about having a physical friendship (fwb as people might call it now) but that's too iffy for me and he respects that.

Posted by christinelovessnickersIt isn't selfish for you to not want more with him if you don't have romantic and/or sexual feelings for him. Painful for him, sure, but no reason to call you selfish just based on the facts. But I understand that if he feels more for you than friendship it would be too hard to remain friends. He'd probably always want more than that, so it couldn't be a true fair friendship.Posted by CopperDoveThis guy asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him no. He told me I was selfish and that I broke his heart. I barely hear from him now. I tried getting ahold of him, but either don't get a response or its very short.
I have a Virgo male friend who I dated more than 10 years ago, for a short time. He says that he still finds me attractive but he knows that our differences mean that a friendship is best, not more. We've talked about having a physical friendship (fwb as people might call it now) but that's too iffy for me and he respects that.click to expand

Posted by christinelovessnickersYes, if all I felt was friendship feelings.
Would you be friends with someone who didn't want to date you?


Posted by LadyOfRebirthDifferent virgo. I have an affinity for them. This is one we dated briefly, while I was off again with the other virgo. He moved away and came back for a visit. He has always said he wanted to be serious. I have tried to have romantic feelings, but it has always felt off. He is a really good man though.
I don't believe that's all there is to the story.
You used to be here on this board a lot asking about him. Asking what his words and actions meant. I'm pretty sure you confessed you had some sort of feeling for him.

Posted by virgowithasoulPossibly. Different person. The other guy was a twisted messed up situation on both of our ends.
didn't you ask this (similar) question years ago?

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