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Virgo male and a massive head f**k
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Posted by Senorita_LLP2
I’ve heard virgos are amazing people once they fall in love
Only the female...the male, maybe one in a million. I think.
I've already told you before, don't do it. I know it hurts but if you can't deal with someone who's too aloof and distant, it's better to walk away.
What are your placements like, Gemini?
What do you mean by what are my placements like?
Senorita I can deal with space or distance but why ask to please call me? Then not call or msg and just disappear? Distance is no issue, just not knowing wtf is going on is hard. I need to stop and I’m trying to. It’s been 2 days and feels like ages longer. He’s just so addictive!!!
Posted by Senorita_LLP2I know but it is breaking my heart. The thing that hurts the most is the fact that I feel like an absolute moron for trusting another guy so soon. This is wat these Virgos do. I opened up to him so soon and trusted him which is rare for me. Never again for a long time. I think I a scarred by this experience. ANd I have no idea what my placements are.. I will have to research that..
I’ve heard virgos are amazing people once they fall in love
Only the female...the male, maybe one in a million. I think.
I've already told you before, don't do it. I know it hurts but if you can't deal with someone who's too aloof and distant, it's better to walk away.
What are your placements like, Gemini?
Posted by EarthgoddessYou're so right. He obviously doesnt like me even though he says he does every time I see him and even though theres a connection.. As that song goes "I am just another pit stop"
Either he doesn’t really like you
Or
He doesn’t trust you
Or
Your just a fun alternative and he’s owes you nothing
Obviously🙄
That’s not a mindtreetrunk to me
I feel so stupid. I just keep thinking that's it, until I frickn see him again and then I crumble. But this time NO, I will be strong. I havent even stopped myself from texting him him like I usually do since Friday which is a good sign
Posted by UnicornSagPosted by Senorita_LLP2I keep saying Virgos aren't for Gems but Gems will never listen right?
I’ve heard virgos are amazing people once they fall in love
Only the female...the male, maybe one in a million. I think.
I've already told you before, don't do it. I know it hurts but if you can't deal with someone who's too aloof and distant, it's better to walk away.
What are your placements like, Gemini?
Got to hit your head in the wall to learn is Gems policyclick to expand
Its so hard to deny chemistry with someone and there is an undeniabe chemistry between us. I am strong this time round though and just want nothing more to do with him.. Untill I see him again but I am going to try my very best to keep it at professional the next time I see him
I didn't read your thread but looking at your title, I supposed Virgo Man are the bad guy again?
Posted by Nathan912Not at all - I've fallen for one so hard so soon and I am trying to work out if I continue to persist in the hope that he wants to also try. Not asking for a relationship but asking for little things like to actually care about someone and text/call - basically to be there for each other
I didn't read your thread but looking at your title, I supposed Virgo Man are the bad guy again?
Soooooo guys I know this may sound silly but I’ve still not contacted him. This is massive for me but I really frickin miss him 😪 it clearly goes to show that he either doesn’t care about me one bit
Or Is too much of a stubborn piece of shit.
Love can be a horrible thing.
I just still don’t understand why we are like this but as soon as he sees me, he is all over me and tells me how much he loves having me there..
Anyway I’m trying to be strong. Won’t be seeing him for another 2weeks
Or Is too much of a stubborn piece of shit.
Love can be a horrible thing.
I just still don’t understand why we are like this but as soon as he sees me, he is all over me and tells me how much he loves having me there..
Anyway I’m trying to be strong. Won’t be seeing him for another 2weeks
Posted by JessssWhy would he be stubborn? It’s not like you’ve done anything wrong.
Soooooo guys I know this may sound silly but I’ve still not contacted him. This is massive for me but I really frickin miss him 😪 it clearly goes to show that he either doesn’t care about me one bit
Or Is too much of a stubborn piece of butter.
Love can be a horrible thing.
I just still don’t understand why we are like this but as soon as he sees me, he is all over me and tells me how much he loves having me there..
Anyway I’m trying to be strong. Won’t be seeing him for another 2weeks
So clearly his attention is elsewhere. I’d leave him alone because you tried your best and you’re not in your ego. You almost begged the man to contact you. What more can you do?
He has some other things going on could be someone else could be Work could be some legal situation. Whatever it is he isn’t making time for you. He could be in some kind of trouble but even if he was you can’t do anything about it but wait for him. Do you have him on social media ? Any way to know he’s actually ok? But if this is common behavior for him then it’s probably nothing.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Jessss
Soooooo guys I know this may sound silly but I’ve still not contacted him. This is massive for me but I really frickin miss him 😪 it clearly goes to show that he either doesn’t care about me one bit
Or Is too much of a stubborn piece of butter.
Love can be a horrible thing.
I just still don’t understand why we are like this but as soon as he sees me, he is all over me and tells me how much he loves having me there..
Anyway I’m trying to be strong. Won’t be seeing him for another 2weeks
Why would he be stubborn? It’s not like you’ve done anything wrong.
So clearly his attention is elsewhere. I’d leave him alone because you tried your best and you’re not in your ego. You almost begged the man to contact you. What more can you do?
He has some other things going on could be someone else could be Work could be some legal situation. Whatever it is he isn’t making time for you. He could be in some kind of trouble but even if he was you can’t do anything about it but wait for him. Do you have him on social media ? Any way to know he’s actually ok? But if this is common behavior for him then it’s probably nothing.click to expand
No things were amazing and the last contact I had with him was him asking me to please call him in a hour, then he msgd me saying that he’d call me, but after about an hr and a half I called him and texted and then texted the next day but nothing. I did nothing wrong but he obviously got annoyed that I texted him, who knows.
Things are always awesome when we are together but as soon as we don’t see each other for close to a week, this happens. He will ignore me and I won’t know wtf I’ve did wrong.
It’s really frustrating but I just keep thinking about our connection and how great we both feel together.
He’s had a marriage break down with kids, but that’s over a year ago. I know not seeing the kids have affected him and I know he wasn’t at work one day this week.
What’s confusing is that he will tell me that he wants to change because he doesn’t want to be alone. And then he will say that he loves having me around but then will make a comment that he doesn’t want me to fall for him. Then he’ll say that he wants me to meet his kids because he feels like it’s right for me to meet them and then I won’t hear from him in a week. Like which one is it?
I know people are saying that he obviously just doesn’t like me but what I don’t get are what’s with all the mixed signal?
Each time we’ve not spoken for a week, I’ve had to visit his office but this time I’m away so I won’t be seeing him and it’s annoying because it would be really nice for him to make the first contact. Especially when I tried a few times, I need to have some pride don’t I?
I am just as lost as you are with my Virgo guy but my situation is complete different then anyone else. Virgo guy’s Wife of 25 yrs looses her 2yr battle to cancer then he thinking he knows what he wants pursues me for 3 months. I push him away even though I have known him for 24yrs and there has always been chemistry between us. He said “I’ve loved you since the day I met you!” insisting he is ready. We have an amazing 7months and yes we both said we jumped in quick but it felt right. Then 5 months in he is complaining about an anger and he is not an angry man. I noticed it’s his grief he didn’t properly take the time to grief his wife and as we get closer to her 1 yr anniversary it gets worse. He breaks up with me in July and we keep in contact till October when he yelled st me that he was never coming back to me. 3 was later he comes back for 3 months. He has pulled away again his anger is building up again and he has admitted that he is dealing with depression, of which I already knew. He is now coming up to his only daughter’s wedding and I can only imagine how hard that day is going to be. He lives 113kms away so it’s not like I can just bump into him in town. He has always been forth right and honest with me. I understand and respect that he needs time to find himself and for him to work through the anger but it is so hard to love someone with all your heart and the other person in order to deal with hurting you shut down there feelings (apparently Virgo’s are notorious for this) but after seeing him Sunday, after I verbal diarrhoeaed via text all over him, we had a nice lunch and visit of which he made a point to make the time to see me he leaned in for a hug, kissed me in the cheek and said “Love ya!” I am just having a hard time cause he will reply to my texts but this past week he won’t just text me first and I find it so hard to not just give in and text him. Some people here say be persistent and send the morning text but then some say don’t text— I have pride in myself, I am not a clingy person, I am not into drama or head games! I do love this Man and he knows that just as I know he loves me. I told him that I knew he was pushing his feels aside for me as a way to help him deal and he said yes. He said “I think of you the minute I wake up, all day long till the minute my head hits the pillow! I have a huge hole in my heart and would rather be hit by a bus!” Then he said “yes, I love you! You have no idea, Girl! I love you so, so, so much!” All that just doesn’t change over night! I am feeling lost!
And I don’t know what all this astrology placement stuff means. Yes, I am Gemini
Sun in Gemini, moon in Gemini, mercury in Taurus and Venus in cancer 💁🏻♀️
Sun in Gemini, moon in Gemini, mercury in Taurus and Venus in cancer 💁🏻♀️
whats your birth info for you two i'll let you know what happen
Posted by GemCurio
@Jessss You should've listened to a Virgo Guy about all this stuff. All the mixed signals are his attempt to share with you what's actually going on in his head. No Virgo Guy wants to fall in love after the 1st relationship fails. We are built in such a way that we'd all rather be somewhere in the Andes Mountains trying to master self control of our thoughts & emotions. Then we cross paths with someone like you. Someone that makes us question our thoughts and feelings all over again. We are made to bleed on the inside and never show any weakness publicly. What I see and understand, your Virgo Guy just like some of the rest of us, just had his world shatter and fall all around him sending him into a place filled with fears, self doubt, and a desire never to feel anything ever again. When our hearts begin to feel something for someone and we become afraid of what we are feeling, we will disappear and break our own hearts just so you never get the opportunity, Virgo Men after a while do not fall in love. We have to knock ourselves unconscious, screaming and kicking because we our pains run deeper than other zodiac signs. We feel emotions more and display them less. We behave like nobility because we naturally dreamed of love, happiness, marriage, children, & homes filled with laughter and smiles. The world shatters dreams and knowing the situation where he cannot see his children he's dying on the inside. Walking around half dead. Then here this optimistic gorgeous Gemini woman enters the pictures capable of making him smile sincerely during his pain. Here he is letting his guard down, smiling, feeling, breathing again. Something he hasn't been able to do probably in years. In his mind, he's in a place where he doesn't want to depend on you & fully aware of his current weakness and need for someone like you. He's probably falling madly in love with you and fighting it with every breath because he doesn't really trust anyone anymore, and to even attempt to only makes his mind scream at how foolish he is for losing control. If you in any way care about this Virgo contact him. We usually walk through hellfire alone and if he even let you near him during this time of his life he's weak for you. I know this because for some reason I actually am going though something similar with a Gem Girl of my own. I adore her so and she terrifies me because I find myself sharing so much of the real me with her. If I could I would run away, but she has a way about her that hooks to my very heart. THIS IS A REAL DUALITY PROBLEM that if anyone a Gemini should understand. We Virgo Men are sincere in all the things we do, but we will fight to keep women like you away from us because we prefer to learn our lessons only once per lifetime.. I'd like to hear an update if possible and good luck..
WOW!! I honestly dont know what yo say but everything is spot on.. so much so that I second guessed if you are my guy lol.
I really wish that my virgo man felt like that. I last attempted to text him, to which he responded and we exchanged a few texts but I will now leave it to him if he wants to contact me again. I genuinely miss him so much. Really want to hang out even as friends, I just dont know if I am that strong either. There's one thing with having to hold back emotions because of a work situation but if I was alone with him and he tried to kiss me, I think I will let him, and then the feelings will all return back to me.
@GemCurio
Thank you, you’ve given me hope even though I’m feeling hopeless and over it all. I fell too hard too fast and honestly think I’ll always have a place for my Virgo man. All I truly wanted in return was for him to treat me nice and actually want to speak to me/text me/see me. Well just communicate with me anyway.
What’s that saying “out of sight, out of mind”.. I honestly don’t think he’s thought about me once and not having to see him as much anymore for work means that he definitely isn’t thinking of me, otherwise he would’ve and should’ve contacted me. My last msg to him was 8days ago, before that it was ages and he hasn’t made any attempt.
I don’t know, I’m still in two minds to just text him and ask if he wants to hang out one day, I just don’t want these feelings to come back up again and me feel like I’m obsessed with him lol.
Your Gemini woman is one very lucky gal. I hope she knows it!!
Thank you, you’ve given me hope even though I’m feeling hopeless and over it all. I fell too hard too fast and honestly think I’ll always have a place for my Virgo man. All I truly wanted in return was for him to treat me nice and actually want to speak to me/text me/see me. Well just communicate with me anyway.
What’s that saying “out of sight, out of mind”.. I honestly don’t think he’s thought about me once and not having to see him as much anymore for work means that he definitely isn’t thinking of me, otherwise he would’ve and should’ve contacted me. My last msg to him was 8days ago, before that it was ages and he hasn’t made any attempt.
I don’t know, I’m still in two minds to just text him and ask if he wants to hang out one day, I just don’t want these feelings to come back up again and me feel like I’m obsessed with him lol.
Your Gemini woman is one very lucky gal. I hope she knows it!!
Posted by GemCurio
@Jessss You should've listened to a Virgo Guy about all this stuff. All the mixed signals are his attempt to share with you what's actually going on in his head. No Virgo Guy wants to fall in love after the 1st relationship fails. We are built in such a way that we'd all rather be somewhere in the Andes Mountains trying to master self control of our thoughts & emotions. Then we cross paths with someone like you. Someone that makes us question our thoughts and feelings all over again. We are made to bleed on the inside and never show any weakness publicly. What I see and understand, your Virgo Guy just like some of the rest of us, just had his world shatter and fall all around him sending him into a place filled with fears, self doubt, and a desire never to feel anything ever again. When our hearts begin to feel something for someone and we become afraid of what we are feeling, we will disappear and break our own hearts just so you never get the opportunity, Virgo Men after a while do not fall in love. We have to knock ourselves unconscious, screaming and kicking because we our pains run deeper than other zodiac signs. We feel emotions more and display them less. We behave like nobility because we naturally dreamed of love, happiness, marriage, children, & homes filled with laughter and smiles. The world shatters dreams and knowing the situation where he cannot see his children he's dying on the inside. Walking around half dead. Then here this optimistic gorgeous Gemini woman enters the pictures capable of making him smile sincerely during his pain. Here he is letting his guard down, smiling, feeling, breathing again. Something he hasn't been able to do probably in years. In his mind, he's in a place where he doesn't want to depend on you & fully aware of his current weakness and need for someone like you. He's probably falling madly in love with you and fighting it with every breath because he doesn't really trust anyone anymore, and to even attempt to only makes his mind scream at how foolish he is for losing control. If you in any way care about this Virgo contact him. We usually walk through hellfire alone and if he even let you near him during this time of his life he's weak for you. I know this because for some reason I actually am going though something similar with a Gem Girl of my own. I adore her so and she terrifies me because I find myself sharing so much of the real me with her. If I could I would run away, but she has a way about her that hooks to my very heart. THIS IS A REAL DUALITY PROBLEM that if anyone a Gemini should understand. We Virgo Men are sincere in all the things we do, but we will fight to keep women like you away from us because we prefer to learn our lessons only once per lifetime.. I'd like to hear an update if possible and good luck..
OMG...YES, you are/have helped others understand Virgos a little bit more. I too am a Gemini and everything you said above is pretty much what I too am going through with my Virgo guy. His life shattered around him and then I came along and he found himself smiling and happy again. I think it scared him because he realized he isn't finished grieving his wife and he started feeling quilty that he doesn't deserve to be happy again. He has distanced himself and I am trying not to text him and give him space he needs to work through his grief but it's so hard because I love him so much. After 2 weeks I did text him letting him know that I am thinking of him. I didn't know what to expect but he did reply letting me know what hes been doing. We exchange a few texts and now again I am giving him space. I know he is a sensitive man and I want to be there for him but I don't know what to do for fear of pushing him away. The last time I saw him we had a nice lunch and after he gave me a big hug he said "Love you"
Posted by Jessss
@GemCurio
Thank you, you’ve given me hope even though I’m feeling hopeless and over it all. I fell too hard too fast and honestly think I’ll always have a place for my Virgo man. All I truly wanted in return was for him to treat me nice and actually want to speak to me/text me/see me. Well just communicate with me anyway.
What’s that saying “out of sight, out of mind”.. I honestly don’t think he’s thought about me once and not having to see him as much anymore for work means that he definitely isn’t thinking of me, otherwise he would’ve and should’ve contacted me. My last msg to him was 8days ago, before that it was ages and he hasn’t made any attempt.
I don’t know, I’m still in two minds to just text him and ask if he wants to hang out one day, I just don’t want these feelings to come back up again and me feel like I’m obsessed with him lol.
Your Gemini woman is one very lucky gal. I hope she knows it!!
@Jessss Oh, girl from one Gemini to another in love with our Virgo men I so know how you feel. I love my Virgo man and am struggling with this distance.
Posted by GemCurio
And we never say that word lightly "love". We live in a world of all or none. Once you have a hook in us no matter where we may wander our hearts never leave the side of the person we know actually cares. Our lives are not based on our achievements. Our entire worlds are based on the relationships we have, and once that world is destroyed internally we have lost all the life in our veins. That person who finds us in our darkness, sees us beyond the masks we wear to be functional in society(armor that is impenetrable), and actually tends to our wounds gently and secretly as we keep them from the world, becomes our hero. The woman we'd lose whatever is left of us for. Just look at Keanu Reeves and how long he's been single & how many places he's been seen alone since his fiancé died. It's been almost 6 years. For some reason, you Gemini women are something our Virgo minds never prepared for. You look us in the eyes and we can see your sincerity. You smile from your hearts and laugh from your bellies. You gradually share your true selves the same way we do. And all your optimism is selfless naturally. I don't know why my heart is so attached to this Gemini woman exactly. I just know whenever I am around her, the world isn't so cold, lonely, barren, and I relax my armor without thought. If you can picture a warrior that's fought every day of his life for an ideal that he just saw destroyed before his very eyes, and then with nowhere to go, nowhere to hide, with simply his trustworthy armor and sword that still sustains him, he runs into a princess. Who without knowing it, gets him to see that sun has risen again and he doesn't have to be alone. At this moment, in a Virgo man's heart, he feels like dropping his armor, sharing all his battles and showing the wounds that are all over his body after falling to his knees. But his rational mind will not let him be so foolish, so weak, so trusting, or so vulnerable before another human being that barely knows him. So, instead of rushing towards, we run away as a defense mechanism until we regain self control. Please know it's definitely NOT lack of caring or interest. We robotically function within society knowing the expectations, but our hearts are very fragile with many secret silent sufferings and to even get near it sends us into Threat Con Delta. You Gemini women somehow make our hearts shake in our chest & we do not want you to know it AT ALL!! I fight with myself all day and night about contacting and being around the Gemini woman I like, especially since I know she hasn't the slightest clue the secrets bubbling underneath the surface I want to share with her. Everyday I say to myself I'm not going to speak to her. At least twice a week I tell her I'm nowhere around her early in the morning(but come running every time she asks for me). Every moment I am not around her, I am holding my breath and considering disappearing off of the face of the earth..lol She has no idea that mentally and emotionally I am risking all that's left of me just to be around her against all reasoning. So, that's why I am sharing so much and so often concerning Virgo Men and Gemini women. Because the reality is so brutal for us Virgo men. My stomach is even turning as I'm writing this from being so open..lol
Your words just utterly made me sob and the truth in them hit me to the core! I know my Virgo loves me and I don't need for him to say it as it shows in his actions, in the way he looks at me. He will and has stopped what he has been doing or has gone well out of his way to see me. Right now I know he will walk out the front door with a smile on his face while everyone around him is none the wiser of the turmoil going on within him. My heart hurts not just for my pain of the uncertainty of whether or not he will come back but mostly for the pain he is enduring.
" he runs into a princess. Who without knowing it, gets him to see that sun has risen again and he doesn't have to be alone. At this moment, in a Virgo man's heart, he feels like dropping his armor, sharing all his battles and showing the wounds that are all over his body after falling to his knees" I saw/ found this unarmored man. I have told my Virgo that I know his running away isn't for lack of caring. I know it's a defence mechanism that he tries to push his feeling aside to help him deal with his pain and the pain he knows he is causing me. I know he is beating him self up. He once told me that he thinks of me from the minute he wakes up, till the moment his head hits the pillow. He said he has a hole/ emptiness in his heart and would rather be hit by a bus. And I too have these feelings for him. I only wonder now that he has asked for space does he still have the same thoughts? I am scared that I am now out of sight out of mind or could it be distance makes the heart grow fonder?
Posted by GemCurio
I think I'm vicariously explaining it to DXP because I really would like to explain it to my Gemini woman. I CAN'T!!!! She literally has anxiety attacks from serious conversations. So I am literally torturing myself every day by seeing her. My heart literally feels like it wants to stop in my chest. That is the alternative reality for a Virgo man who chooses not to disappear. Now, I'm feeling like I should've ran too... I know it will only be a matter of time before I run also because I maintain composure over conversations with her that hurt me so deeply and I refuse to cry in front of her to scare her off.
She seems to have anxiety attacks from serious discussions? Do you know why that is? Well this Gemini girl wants/ needs to keep the lines of communication open and now that my Virgo has asked for space I don't know how to do this. I need to talk things out and am open to talking about my thoughts and feelings although sometimes I may get tongue tied. It was something my Virgo guy said he loved about me. Right now my Virgo guy doesn't seem to want to discuss our situation. —
Posted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
I think I'm vicariously explaining it to DXP because I really would like to explain it to my Gemini woman. I CAN'T!!!! She literally has anxiety attacks from serious conversations. So I am literally torturing myself every day by seeing her. My heart literally feels like it wants to stop in my chest. That is the alternative reality for a Virgo man who chooses not to disappear. Now, I'm feeling like I should've ran too... I know it will only be a matter of time before I run also because I maintain composure over conversations with her that hurt me so deeply and I refuse to cry in front of her to scare her off.
She seems to have anxiety attacks from serious discussions? Do you know why that is? Well this Gemini girl wants/ needs to keep the lines of communication open and now that my Virgo has asked for space I don't know how to do this. I need to talk things out and am open to talking about my thoughts and feelings although sometimes I may get tongue tied. It was something my Virgo guy said he loved about me. Right now my Virgo guy doesn't seem to want to discuss our situation. —click to expand
Can you sit down and write her a letter. I know its old fashion but when I did it for my Virgo it meant so much more that I could and would take the time and write my thoughts down on paper. I want nothing more then to talk to my virgo and help him through his turmoil.
Posted by GemCurio
I haven't any clue about my Gemini woman, but I can explain him a bit more. He cannot openly discuss anything he can't maintain some semblance of control over. Virgo men can live shattered existences for extended periods of time. To discuss them prior to mental and emotional processing will break us beyond remedy for years. Of course you know how to keep the lines of communications open. Gemini women specialize in that area when curious alone. Send him texts randomly. Nice ones. Short and sweet little nothings: The sunrise is supposed to be gorgeous tomorrow morning, high up in the sky the little stars are climbing, I received my black belt in thumb wrestling, ready for you whenever. Those examples are random from the top of my head, and I imagine as a Gemini your level of creativity should be much better than mine. Just gently leave the lines of communication open and he will explain everything sooner than you think as long as you remain your light optimistic natural self. It will flow organically. Nothing needs to be forced in any way. In my situation, my Gemini woman shares her truest thoughts and feelings knowing when I'm not fully paying attention. She sneaks the word love in here and there in texts or form heart shapes with her hands as I pull out her driveway. We share our deepest discussions as I'm driving somewhere...
After reading your posts about the Virgo guy and how they think you have confirmed for me what I thought was going on in his mind and heart. Anything you can tell me to help this Gem girl know more about her Virgo guy is greatly appreciated! Once again you have given another Gem girl a much needed glimmer of hope.
Posted by GemCurio
For Virgo Men it's never out of sight out of mind like it is for everyone else. It's always in my heart safely, as I endure silently in my suffering.
> can I ask you as a Virgo guy who talks about wanting to run away from your Gemini girl ... my Virgo guy actually admitted to me that he wants to run away and is running from me. I told him I love him and don't want him to run from me as I couldn't imagine my life without him. That was last Oct. We continued to talk via text daily and spent time with each other on several occasions and he would tell me he loves me and at any given time when I needed help he would be there for me. But as of June 1 he has asked for space of which I am trying to respect. Just as you are wanting to understand your Gem, of which I could try and help you with as I am told I am good at giving advice. I just can't figure out my own butter, 😀 I did text him a week later telling him I was thinking of him and he did reply back. Then I text him 2 weeks later and again he's replied. Yes, you advised me to text him occasionally with some smart, creative texts of which I will do. Everything I have read from you about Virgo men have hit the nail on the head regarding my Virgo. Prior to reading any of your posts, I think I am fairly intuitive, I was/am thinking he is now overwhelmed with emotions and life around him that he is spinning and is trying to grasp some sort of control? I know its him and that he needs to work through stuff but I am scared that maybe I have said something to push him away. I love this man with all my heart and I would never want to say something to push him further away. Is that possible by telling him I love him, miss him or that this is hard?
Posted by GemCurio
Not at all. As a matter of fact you could probably ask to meet with him somewhere and he probably would be more than willing to right now. He actually needs it. We have this ability to fight most battles in our minds and we explore the deeper darker emotions behind our thoughts to purge ourselves. Three weeks trapped in our minds feels like an eternity. Surprise him by telling him you'd like to see him for breakfast, brunch or something early in the day. He'll more than likely be willing, though do not expect him to talk about what's been going on in his mind unless he does organically. Be your natural bubbly self and talk about the various funny things you naturally do. Remember, that this will be like a breath of fresh air for him so stay light and casual.
And I loss all optimism concerning my Gem girl. She messed up badly with me and though I didn't mind because it helped me understand her better, I think after yesterday, her "out of sight out of mind" approach will allow her to be ok regardless. She text me this morning. I text her back because I actually really do care about her. I tried calling her a little later with no prevail. I didn't run just so I could take the blow from her and she could run. I don't know what to do anymore and I could keep trying but why? She runs from safety, security and love. Anything real she whole heartedly tries to avoid and has begun to dislike me for attempting to show her that there are many perspectives of living and there's more than she's seeing clearly. What can I do??
In a text to me he told me of his plan to take sometime and go on a motorcycle trip at the end of this month. So I was thinking of taking the opportunity and see whether on his way through he would like to meet for breakfast or lunch but wasn't sure whether I should since he had asked for space. As always I think once we see each other it will be our easy, natural comfortable selves as it's always been.
Regarding your Gem girl I am so sorry. From the little bit I have read of your posts it seems like she is struggling within herself. You are correct in saying "Gemini women are also very secretive and only gradually open up to see whether they will be subject to judgment or not" and "They worry about details and will 2nd guess themselves 100 times even if they enjoy every moment, person, and environment within an experience. And yes a Gemini woman will only share when we fell comfortable enough to do so. Because I had known my Virgo guy for many years I felt comfortable telling him my secrets. He would tease me saying i was an open book but i don6think he understood it was only with him.
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Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
Thank you! Some may think I have no pride and some say my Virgo is playing me but I take pride in knowing what I like and what I want. I am proud of the woman I am today and will never let a man walk all over me like I did in the past, lessons learned. I know my Virgo to know he would never do anything intentionally to hurt me especially since he knows I love him as he knows he loves me. I understand, will and have given him space but this tenancious Gem girl will not give up or walk away from my Virgo guy. Your Gem girl in time will see the amazing man you are and she will regret walking away. For this Gem girl you have given me so much insight into the Virgo mind and have given me hope. 🤗
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@GemCurio
Thank you, you’ve given me hope even though I’m feeling hopeless and over it all. I fell too hard too fast and honestly think I’ll always have a place for my Virgo man. All I truly wanted in return was for him to treat me nice and actually want to speak to me/text me/see me. Well just communicate with me anyway.
What’s that saying “out of sight, out of mind”.. I honestly don’t think he’s thought about me once and not having to see him as much anymore for work means that he definitely isn’t thinking of me, otherwise he would’ve and should’ve contacted me. My last msg to him was 8days ago, before that it was ages and he hasn’t made any attempt.
I don’t know, I’m still in two minds to just text him and ask if he wants to hang out one day, I just don’t want these feelings to come back up again and me feel like I’m obsessed with him lol.
Your Gemini woman is one very lucky gal. I hope she knows it!!
If he really liked you then he thinks about you. The real catch here is, 'liked'.
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Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Has he been in contact with you regularly since the last time you were on here??click to expand
i am trying to give him the space he requested but He always replies when I message him and he did message me July 13 to say hi, shared with me what he was doing and asking How was i doing?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Has he been in contact with you regularly since the last time you were on here??
i am trying to give him the space he requested but He always replies when I message him and he did message me July 13 to say hi, shared with me what he was doing and asking How was i doing?
Tell him you'd like to speak with him on the phone either today or tomorrow. It's been long enough to gently ask for reasonable explanations. Unless it's in the complete opposite direction in which he's going to be with his family, he wouldn't have missed seeing you..click to expand
Yea, hes going to the family lake house and spending time with family this trip
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Has he been in contact with you regularly since the last time you were on here??
i am trying to give him the space he requested but He always replies when I message him and he did message me July 13 to say hi, shared with me what he was doing and asking How was i doing?
Tell him you'd like to speak with him on the phone either today or tomorrow. It's been long enough to gently ask for reasonable explanations. Unless it's in the complete opposite direction in which he's going to be with his family, he wouldn't have missed seeing you..click to expand
Sorry, this tenacious Gem is not ready to just walk away or give up on this Virgo guy!!
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Has he been in contact with you regularly since the last time you were on here??
i am trying to give him the space he requested but He always replies when I message him and he did message me July 13 to say hi, shared with me what he was doing and asking How was i doing?
Tell him you'd like to speak with him on the phone either today or tomorrow. It's been long enough to gently ask for reasonable explanations. Unless it's in the complete opposite direction in which he's going to be with his family, he wouldn't have missed seeing you..
Sorry, this tenacious Gem is not ready to just walk away or give up on this Virgo guy!!
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong..click to expand
So just continue giving him his space and texting him occasionally letting him know that I am still here and will be here because I love him? How do I prove him wrong?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
Definitely ask him to meet along his trip. He would love that. Also, it will show him that you're actually thinking about him and planning with him. Huge step for you Gemini women..lol Sincerely, I thank you, however I'm no longer concerned about the Gemini Girl. I have retreated into my thoughts and assume whether she pops up or not is her choice. I have no control over it so I allow life to continue. It's unfortunate how similar Geminis and Virgos are. The uncanny ability to walk away is always not only available but tempting us the entire time. I set no expectations, and there is always something required by life to do. I really do not have problems getting dates. I simply am very selective of the company I keep.. Take care awesome Gemini Woman...lol
So I messaged my Virgo guy about meeting me as he passes through along his trip and he replied "although a great idea but I'm not coming your way." I am so beyond sad 😓 as I was so hoping to see him. I'm trying not to read into it as he does live 112km from me and He's going to stop at the family lake house which is in the opposite direction from me. Right now I'm so trying to be positive and upbeat, but it's hard as I'm spinning with sadness in my head! I don't know how to reply to him other then it would've been nice to see him but I understand. It's just so hard to go from so much love, happiness, him talking about moving forward together, buying a house and helping me raise my boys to him asking for space. He always said he says what he means and means what he says but....this??
Has he been in contact with you regularly since the last time you were on here??
i am trying to give him the space he requested but He always replies when I message him and he did message me July 13 to say hi, shared with me what he was doing and asking How was i doing?
Tell him you'd like to speak with him on the phone either today or tomorrow. It's been long enough to gently ask for reasonable explanations. Unless it's in the complete opposite direction in which he's going to be with his family, he wouldn't have missed seeing you..
Sorry, this tenacious Gem is not ready to just walk away or give up on this Virgo guy!!
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong..click to expand
We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Has this Gemini not already proven to him that I love him by still standing here respecting and understand what he is going through and acknowledging that its going to take time.
Posted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancymclick to expand
LOL...I apologize I looked at my profile and I don't see were or if I can change that set up?? 😋
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancymclick to expand
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancymclick to expand
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
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We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.click to expand
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemitatiPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
This is the most calm I've ever seen you express yourself so I will answer it with the same respect fully aware of your ferocity. Us Virgo men are built with this flaw. We think we can and live lives where we either are trying to be the hero or make sure the world is spinning on our middle finger. That Virgo in particular is the hero type. In his mind the death of his wife is his fault. He is trapped mentally in a place where he is thinking could have, should have, would have and is blaming himself for not being able to prevent it. He's guilt ridden. Then this Gemini comes along and shakes his world or has always shaken it being there for him. She brings the sunrise with her presence into the ashes of the broken dreams of his existence. Our relationships with people is the summation of the world and everything of meaning in it to us. She met him dead. He's afraid of life, loss, love, and to dare to dream. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon his feet she found a shadow of him starring at a candle flickering at its end. She's taking a chance to breathe life into someone who lost their way through her love...click to expand
I understand! So she does have a chance. That’s great. She seems like she can do it!!!
@nancym
Good luck Gem! Let’s your love break that wall and build happiness on the other side for all of you.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.click to expand
Yes, I am planning on following your wise advise and will write him a letter. I believe by taking the time to sit down and write out my thoughts it will show that it comes from the heart and just the fact I took that time will mean more to him then a text. I did write him 2 letters last summer and he appreciated them and said they were beautiful. I want to get to his heart but I don't want him to feel guilty anymore. He knows I am hurting and if you a complete stranger can hear my pain and hurt in my words how is he going to feel? Cause we know he will hear it too! And how do I get him to see that hes in need of me? Sorry, I never received your DM's. Dam you dxpnet!! 😋
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We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
This is the most calm I've ever seen you express yourself so I will answer it with the same respect fully aware of your ferocity. Us Virgo men are built with this flaw. We think we can and live lives where we either are trying to be the hero or make sure the world is spinning on our middle finger. That Virgo in particular is the hero type. In his mind the death of his wife is his fault. He is trapped mentally in a place where he is thinking could have, should have, would have and is blaming himself for not being able to prevent it. He's guilt ridden. Then this Gemini comes along and shakes his world or has always shaken it being there for him. She brings the sunrise with her presence into the ashes of the broken dreams of his existence. Our relationships with people is the summation of the world and everything of meaning in it to us. She met him dead. He's afraid of life, loss, love, and to dare to dream. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon his feet she found a shadow of him starring at a candle flickering at its end. She's taking a chance to breathe life into someone who lost their way through her love...
I understand! So she does have a chance. That’s great. She seems like she can do it!!!
@nancym
Good luck Gem! Let’s your love break that wall and build happiness on the other side for all of you.click to expand
@Gemitati and @GemCurio I am sorry I just saw this post and just seeing your words @Gemitati "she seems like she can do it" I was brought to tears before I could read it all.
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We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
This is the most calm I've ever seen you express yourself so I will answer it with the same respect fully aware of your ferocity. Us Virgo men are built with this flaw. We think we can and live lives where we either are trying to be the hero or make sure the world is spinning on our middle finger. That Virgo in particular is the hero type. In his mind the death of his wife is his fault. He is trapped mentally in a place where he is thinking could have, should have, would have and is blaming himself for not being able to prevent it. He's guilt ridden. Then this Gemini comes along and shakes his world or has always shaken it being there for him. She brings the sunrise with her presence into the ashes of the broken dreams of his existence. Our relationships with people is the summation of the world and everything of meaning in it to us. She met him dead. He's afraid of life, loss, love, and to dare to dream. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon his feet she found a shadow of him starring at a candle flickering at its end. She's taking a chance to breathe life into someone who lost their way through her love...
I understand! So she does have a chance. That’s great. She seems like she can do it!!!
@nancym
Good luck Gem! Let’s your love break that wall and build happiness on the other side for all of you.
@Gemitati and @GemCurio I am sorry I just saw this post and just seeing your words @Gemitati "she seems like she can do it" I was brought to tears before I could read it all.
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Hey! I was reading your conversation drowning in tears...
I really hope you can do it Gem!
Please DO IT!!! Hugs
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We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
This is the most calm I've ever seen you express yourself so I will answer it with the same respect fully aware of your ferocity. Us Virgo men are built with this flaw. We think we can and live lives where we either are trying to be the hero or make sure the world is spinning on our middle finger. That Virgo in particular is the hero type. In his mind the death of his wife is his fault. He is trapped mentally in a place where he is thinking could have, should have, would have and is blaming himself for not being able to prevent it. He's guilt ridden. Then this Gemini comes along and shakes his world or has always shaken it being there for him. She brings the sunrise with her presence into the ashes of the broken dreams of his existence. Our relationships with people is the summation of the world and everything of meaning in it to us. She met him dead. He's afraid of life, loss, love, and to dare to dream. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon his feet she found a shadow of him starring at a candle flickering at its end. She's taking a chance to breathe life into someone who lost their way through her love...
I understand! So she does have a chance. That’s great. She seems like she can do it!!!
@nancym
Good luck Gem! Let’s your love break that wall and build happiness on the other side for all of you.
@Gemitati and @GemCurio I am sorry I just saw this post and just seeing your words @Gemitati "she seems like she can do it" I was brought to tears before I could read it all.
Hey! I was reading your conversation drowning in tears...
I really hope you can do it Gem!
Please DO IT!!! Hugsclick to expand
Awwww...thank you! It's been a year and I am still standing here. Other then my boys I never thought I could love someone so much! Even though we both agreed there has been a connection since day one I never imagined I would love him this much. My heart overflows with love for this man it sometimes takes my breathe away. 7 months of a love I have never experienced, I would rather be alone then be with another because in my heart I feel I could never love another as much as I love him. Heres a twist for you both that I don't think I have mentioned. Prior to his wife passing (yes, she is/was a dear, dear friend of mine that if given the opportunity I would give him up to have her back) she told a couple of friends (we did not hear of this till of few weeks after we started seeing each other) that she knew in time he and I would get together.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemitatiPosted by GemCurioPosted by GemitatiPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Sorry for intrusion. I can’t shake off one thought that I’ve decided to express. Virgo told Nancy that he always loved her...which make me think his wife wasn’t his soul mate.
So why is such a grief that destroying their both lives?
He thinking of her and he loves her and he LOVED her always...and now he is punishing himself for still living? Strange.
This is the most calm I've ever seen you express yourself so I will answer it with the same respect fully aware of your ferocity. Us Virgo men are built with this flaw. We think we can and live lives where we either are trying to be the hero or make sure the world is spinning on our middle finger. That Virgo in particular is the hero type. In his mind the death of his wife is his fault. He is trapped mentally in a place where he is thinking could have, should have, would have and is blaming himself for not being able to prevent it. He's guilt ridden. Then this Gemini comes along and shakes his world or has always shaken it being there for him. She brings the sunrise with her presence into the ashes of the broken dreams of his existence. Our relationships with people is the summation of the world and everything of meaning in it to us. She met him dead. He's afraid of life, loss, love, and to dare to dream. In a castle dark or a fortress strong with chains upon his feet she found a shadow of him starring at a candle flickering at its end. She's taking a chance to breathe life into someone who lost their way through her love...
I understand! So she does have a chance. That’s great. She seems like she can do it!!!
@nancym
Good luck Gem! Let’s your love break that wall and build happiness on the other side for all of you.
@Gemitati and @GemCurio I am sorry I just saw this post and just seeing your words @Gemitati "she seems like she can do it" I was brought to tears before I could read it all.
QUIT BEING A GIRL!!!! LOL Love that shyt...
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LMAO....can't help being a girl 😋 but you are right I need to bring forth the confidence within myself. Dam it!! I know what's in my head and what's in my heart and you are the first person to 100% validate everything I have been thinking. Its fight or flight and dam it I am a fighter! No more listening to what others say I know this man to my core. I will not give up on a love I know I or he deserves. He always told me I was too good to him, that I was the total package. His feelings for me scared him as he nor I ever thought we would find this kind of love and instead of embracing it he ran scared....scared cause he felt guilty of being happier then he thought he could be so quick after his wife passed. I would give anything to go back to May 2017 to hear him yell from the pier as he picked me up on his boat "Hola Chica!" but that isn't our reality right now.
No matter the love and happiness this is a journey we, no matter how different, both are meant to take. I love this man with my whole heart and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't thing of him from the minute I wake up, all day long, to the minute my head hits the pillow. Have I told him this...yes, has he told me this...yes!! I need to figure out how to get him out of his head and to stop fighting with in himself.
Posted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
I haven't received your DM's? I have gone over my acct repeated and haven't a seen anything were I can request to receive mail. I have even emailed dxpnet with no response as of yet. Did you by any chance receive the DM I sent you?
Yes I did & I stand by what I originally told you. Write him a letter. He is in need of you more than you know. He's punishing himself for being alive still.
Yes, I am planning on following your wise advise and will write him a letter. I believe by taking the time to sit down and write out my thoughts it will show that it comes from the heart and just the fact I took that time will mean more to him then a text. I did write him 2 letters last summer and he appreciated them and said they were beautiful. I want to get to his heart but I don't want him to feel guilty anymore. He knows I am hurting and if you a complete stranger can hear my pain and hurt in my words how is he going to feel? Cause we know he will hear it too! And how do I get him to see that hes in need of me? Sorry, I never received your DM's. Dam you dxpnet!! 😋
He's going to recognize the truth of the situation which is a good thing and feel his way through it. Because internally he knows he must. The truth is that if you can mange not to think or feel the way for some reason I find Gems and Virgos do, and just be your bubbly sensitive funny sincere self, everything will work out fine. From personal experience, Gemini women are like dawn to a Virgo guy. There's something missing in a Virgo guy and a Gemini girl and when bought together all the holes organically are filled. Stop over thinking. Stop worrying, and stop doubting yourself because whether you know it or not, right now in his mind, in his living world you are everything and everything is you... I explained it to another gem who wrote a question here. You are CPR to his entire existence. If that makes sense..click to expand
The over thinking is 😋 as a Gemimi just me. I don't understand or don't get an explanation of something...I over think. LOL...honestly being a women my mind is constantly spinning. I sometimes wish I was a man and had access to that infamous "nothing box" The worry/ doubting is listening to those I obviously shouldn't listen to. I have an incredible intuition that I am now learning I really need to harness and embrace!! LOL...actually its funny you should mention CPR because my Virgo is a...paramedic
Posted by GemCurioPosted by GemCurioPosted by NancymPosted by GemCurio
We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancymclick to expand
Hi!! I managed to get my set up to receive mail from all sorted out. I am very interested and furious as to what you said in your DM's would you mind responding them to me? Please!!! 🤗
Posted by JessssPosted by Nathan912
I didn't read your thread but looking at your title, I supposed Virgo Man are the bad guy again?
Not at all - I've fallen for one so hard so soon and I am trying to work out if I continue to persist in the hope that he wants to also try. Not asking for a relationship but asking for little things like to actually care about someone and text/call - basically to be there for each otherclick to expand
That’s what a relationship is 🤦🏻♀️ Just be honest with yourself and things will fall in place. Start with yourself. YOU WANT a RELATIONSHIP. And that’s ok, now don’t settle for anything less and the RIGHT guy will come around.
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And I don’t know what all this astrology placement stuff means. Yes, I am Gemini
Sun in Gemini, moon in Gemini, mercury in Taurus and Venus in cancer 💁🏻♀️
Oh, Venus Cancer is very sensitive, warm and loves lots of affection. I didn’t realize with my last response this was an older thread, whoops. Loooks like things are on track? I 💗 gems 🤗
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We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong.. We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way. I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself. I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him. He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space. Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him? Do I continue messaging him occasionally? I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say. So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space? And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space? What do you mean by "prove him wrong"
Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.
That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...
LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully?? How? BTW...you are right!!
He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong... I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain. Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own. I did send you a DM. I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag. He truly isn't! He is the 80% you previously described. I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.
No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..
I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym
Hi!! I managed to get my set up to receive mail from all sorted out. I am very interested and furious as to what you said in your DM's would you mind responding them to me? Please!!! 🤗
Resend them. I promise I'll respond.click to expand
LOL...oooops! Not furious I meant curious!! Dam fat finger syndrome 🤣
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Nancym
And I don’t know what all this astrology placement stuff means. Yes, I am Gemini
Sun in Gemini, moon in Gemini, mercury in Taurus and Venus in cancer 💁🏻♀️
Oh, Venus Cancer is very sensitive, warm and loves lots of affection. I didn’t realize with my last response this was an older thread, whoops. Loooks like things are on track? I 💗 gems 🤗click to expand
Yes, I am warm, love affection and can be very sensitive...I hold my heart on my sleeve. No, things aren't really on track! I am struggling but doing the best I can to give him the space he needs, has asked for. I am hating it cause I miss him terribly
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Our dating phase was magnificent, we thought that we were soul mates and after a few months being together we decided to live together. we did that f
i am a gemini woman and the man i love is a gemini sun,taurus moon and venus in gemini.
I feel so in tune with him and him too.he is not a flirt and the thing is that he doesnt express his thoughts or feelings to me or anyone despite his mercury in gemin
I’m a Gemini Woman (Sun) with her Moon in Pisces dating a Libra Man (Sun) with his Moon in Gemini.
Basically everything was fine until we got into a relationship. He is a really wonderful boy and I feel like I can learn a lot from him.
The problem is
Hey guys i need some female gemini advice on this.
Ive been dating a gemini since november.
We were talking for about a month before we made an official relationship.
Everyday she tells me shes in love with me and she even calls me her "King".
I love
Heeey ladies!
I’m a June 15th Gemini and was wondering if anyone has the same habits/characteristics as me...
If I connect with someone, I often get ahead of myself and the situation. I often “think my way into” a relationship with a person. After thi
Hey guys im an aquarius and i just started dating a gemini woman.
Everything has been great so far i just want to know are Gemini women loyal?
I've heard they like to flirt..
As an aquarius i really hate disloyal sneaky people with a passion.
Im the t
I have been told by guys many times that I’m confusing and then I read about gems that they can confuse people at time. Is that really? And what exactly do we do that confuses you?
Please state your sign too😊
A Gemini woman born in June specifically because we all know may Gemini’s are completely different lol
Gemini girls are injurious to Aquarius health !
my gemini guy friend is running hot and cold on me,so it goes like this.we would laugh.argue and talk for hours and then he would withdraw. since im a gemini woman i have my pride .when he doesnt talk to me i dont talk to him but at first i made effort no
My husband who is addicted to cocaine and prostitutes had an agreement with me to stay married until I become a European citizen. Seeing the sufferring I have had day in and out, he encouraged me to find a guy who I can love and who will be faithful with
Gemini female asking ?
Hi All. There is a Gemini lady in my life to whom I got very attached(non romantic). We have known each other for the past four years. She is around 8-9 years older than me. I care for her deeply. Before she used to be quite warm towards me. But I struggl
im a gemini woman and my close friend is a gem man as well, for the most part i fell like looking through a mirror, the way he acts and talks is so similar,but lately he is acting weird if i give attention to other guys he gets quiet and look down or if w
I'm a Gemini woman, I was seeing this Pisces man for a year in a half. We weren't really together we were just messing around. But then I started catching feelings and I'm sure he did to. Long story short.. I had a bday party celebration at work. Not a lo
I need to know what would be a great birthday gift for a Gemini woman. Someone that you respect and love like a mother figure... thanks in advance
I'll give you a little background
She's simple, religious, loves cooking, hosting meals at home, loves
I'm a Sag Male and I have been on and off again with a Gem Woman for four years. We had an immediate attraction to one another. Since the first day we met, we have been practically inseperable until recently.
We have been to hell and back. We have s
What would you give to a Gini woman for her bday if she is not into jewelry, designer bags, has too much clothes already and shoes...
And also Gemini ladies - post the best gift you had received that you love?
Not nessesary your man - anyone!
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Doing too much. Not going with the flow.