Virgo male and a massive head f**k (Page 2)

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Nancym

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Nancym

Posted by GemCurio



We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong..  We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way.  I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself.  I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him.  He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space.  Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him?  Do I continue messaging him occasionally?   I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say.  So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space?  And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space?  What do you mean by "prove him wrong"

Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.

That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...

LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully??  How?  BTW...you are right!!

He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong...  I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain.  Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own.    I did send you a DM.  I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag.  He truly isn't!  He is the 80% you previously described.  I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.

No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..

I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym

Hi!! I managed to get my set up to receive mail from all sorted out. I am very interested and furious as to what you said in your DM's would you mind responding them to me? Please!!! 🤗

Resend them. I promise I'll respond.

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Can you respond to mine too ? I’m a Gemini seeing a Virgo

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Nancym

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by GemCurio

Posted by Nancym

Posted by GemCurio



We Virgo men have a weakness. Who ever wants to be with us the most usually ends up with us. If you continue to be consistent, he'll give. We have the tendency to believe people are interest in us for moments. So, we don't acknowledge what they say. We believe it will fade. Prove him wrong..  We live 112km away from each other I have Asked if he would like to meet as he told me of a trip he is taking but wasn't coming my way.  I understand he needs time to grieve his wife and find himself.  I have seen pictures of him hanging out with friends having fun which makes me happy for him but at the same time sad as I wish I was with him.  He hasn't talked to me about us. He hasn't told me to go away just to give him space.  Does he not want to see me cause it's too hard emotional for him?  Do I continue messaging him occasionally?   I try not to be in my head as I am spinning and thinking negatively but my heart is telling me not to let go. You say virgos don't acknowledge what we say.  So how do I show him I love him if he's asked for space?  And can you explain what it means exactly when a Virgo says he needs space?  What do you mean by "prove him wrong"

Ok.. I see your Gemini mind is boggled and you're worried. He's asked for space and it means the exact same thing it means when a Gemini asks for space. Same exact thing. If you have his address write him a letter, if not send him an email. Explain to him what's going on in your mind, what you feel for him and your uncertainty of what he feeling, thinking, etc. Be sincere and pour your heart out the best way a cool kid can. Back in the day, this was called a love letter and it means so much more than people care to do. It will symbolize to him that regardless of where he is, your mind is still thinking about him. This leaves open the lines of communication with a level of sincerity we can't ignore. Also leave it at that. Do not contact him after you send the letter in whichever form you choose.

That's how you show you love him while giving him space. That is also how you prove him wrong. You know you're feelings are enduring for him and I know it also by the feel of what you've written. He doesn't though. It's actually hurting you and I can tell by how careful the words you're using are and it bothers me sincerely. If you want you can DM me to discuss the details of the letter in a less public setting. If he responds to you and speaks with you, he's still thinking about you. I have the feeling for some reason he doesn't think he can trust you with himself...

LOL...I write you a message and you can understand that my feelings are enduring, I am hurting and that I have chosen my words carefully??  How?  BTW...you are right!!

He knows my feelings for him, he knows I am hurting but tell me if I am wrong...  I think he can't think of me right now because he needs to work through his own pain.  Ugh...I should be thinking of my own hurt/pain but for whatever reason I always put those I love/ care about before my own.    I did send you a DM.  I am tired of people telling me he is a douche bag.  He truly isn't!  He is the 80% you previously described.  I real gentleman. We aren't into playing games. He doesn't like texting or is he into social media.

No Virgo male cares for social media really or at least my type don't. I did respond to your letter BTW. Intimacy and sincerity are in the details. I think we Virgos are made with an awareness deeper than most people. Words from people have a feeling to them, and we look directly at it skipping the bulk of it to the very heart of the matter. I've been called all kind of names by Air signs family members and friends for raising their self esteem above the standardized treatment of their families, so I can relate. I've found people who are supposed to be close to the person I've cared for become jealous and destructive of what the relationship began to represent, and do all kinds of crap to try and destroy it. If it's worthy of endurance and long suffering endure... Please let me know if you received my response..

I sent you two responses DM, but I think you have to go on your profile and set up receive mail from all to get DMs from me @Nancym

Hi!! I managed to get my set up to receive mail from all sorted out. I am very interested and furious as to what you said in your DM's would you mind responding them to me? Please!!! 🤗

Resend them. I promise I'll respond.

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OMG!! I promise I wasn't drinking when I sent that message 🙈 sorry just a bit sad no I am really sad. My virgo texted me earlier and is going on his motorbike trip and on the way hes stopping to spend time with some long time friends of his. I believe this will be good for him as he needs time to relax and have fun. So as a Virgo and knowing what my virgo has/is going through (yes, I try to be careful of what I say as to not put anymore guilt on him) Do you think he would want to hear that I am sad and that I miss him like crazy or am i just adding more pressure??