Virgo man acts interested and then no response

I met this Virgo guy in a dating site. We also matched on 2 other dating sites for a total of 3. We messaged a couple times and the. I asked him out, he said yes. When the time came “crickets”. Then a day later he messaged me on one of the other dating sites and asked me out. I go and get my hair done and dressed to go and then “crickets” again! Then he followed me on IG and added me as a friend on FB. I’m so confused. Can someone please explain to me what the hell is going on? We are both older not young (30-40).

Either hes just trying to flirt around/keep his options open or hes still undecided about you. Sometimes virgo men will flake before a date cause they take stuff like that seriously aka hes already thinking "am i ready to commit to her, can this go anywhere etc". Even if its just 1 date hes already thinking in those terms. In this instance he'd be trying to go very slow. Maybe flirt and chat with him a bit more before accepting or asking him out on a date, let him get to know you. He may be overwhelmed by a date but doesnt want to lose your attention, so you gotta meet him in the middle.

So you've hopped on the "I'm confused!' bandwagon 😒 At your age you should KNOW that actions speak louder than words. I'll spell it out: He's just NOT that into you 🤷 Move on for your own good. SMDH.

So he stood you up not once but twice and you are still invested enough to try and find out why.

Omg have some self respect and move tf on.

He's prolly a catfish. Js

Posted by LadyNeptune

He's prolly a catfish. Js

This was my first thought

Nope not a catfish, I googled him. He has a unique name and his info is all online including college sports stats. I just don’t know a lot about Virgo’s but heard they are a little weird acting and mysterious so I thought I’d ask. It was just a weird situation, never had that happen before. Also as I said right after he ghosted, he followed me on IG and added me as a friend in FB so obviously it’s not that he’s not into me or else he wouldn’t have connected via social media. If you can’t be considerate and nice when you reply than don't reply at all.

For those that have smart ass comments: Keep your rude negative ass attitude to yourself.

Maybe he’s wondering why you are on a ton of sights and wanted to see your life style through social media to get a better idea about who you are.

Sometimes men think women are a little crazy if they are so spread out, as well as, single. Shoot him a message if you want and say it would be better to chat in person if he wants to get a sense of your personality and interest.

He could just be judging you based off all the dating sites.

Posted by Arieschic

Nope not a catfish, I googled him. He has a unique name and his info is all online including college sports stats. I just don’t know a lot about Virgo’s but heard they are a little weird acting and mysterious so I thought I’d ask. It was just a weird situation, never had that happen before. Also as I said right after he ghosted, he followed me on IG and added me as a friend in FB so obviously it’s not that he’s not into me or else he wouldn’t have connected via social media. If you can’t be considerate and nice when you reply than don't reply at all.

For those that have smart ass comments: Keep your rude negative ass attitude to yourself.

Don't come on an open forum expecting people to pacify you when you're asking a less-than-intellegent question. The only one who may POSSIBLY owe you the answer you seek is the dude you're so bothered by 🤦 Ask him. It's NOT always about a SIGN, but rather, CHARACTER. Good luck.