Virgo man disappear smh

One night I got buzzed off some wine and text him how much I cared about him and forcing him to open up. I was a lil disappointed that he couldnt say how he felt about me. He said what he said and told me to respect how he is how he do things. I wrote him I just hope you not wasting my time..i didnt hear from him for a week. I decided to hit him up bcuz we was suppose to spend the 4th of July together. .he told me he was going out of town . This is last minute so im upset bcuz I was really looking forward to it. So I ask is it work related? And hes says no friend related. So now im in my feelings and I ask with a girl? no response from him. So I got upset and told him how its messed up u telling me this shit last minute ..he ignores me again . So I stop hitting him up.. so 5 days later i hit him up do want me to forget about u..do u want me to leave u alone..give me an answer. He still ignores me. I dont understand him like y cant he just tell me what's going on. Its been 3 weeks and I decided to stop contacting him..how can u want me in your life so much then just stop talking to me once I want you to be vulnerable with me. Should I move on or wait it out.everything was going good until I told him how I felt and being too emotional smh. I just feel its being fake the fact he cant tell me whats going on. Its hurts me him being this way. I really felt a strong connection with this one..maybe he scared or something or I was moving too fast..virgo men I need help on this one.. virgo females your welcome to answer as well

Didnt contact him in 3 weeks I want to hit him up but I dont want to seem desperate or give him more power smh.. im a virgo myself im virgo with cancer moon so im really emotional and hes a virgo with aquarius moon smh and I dont understand him it sucks that hes being this way. I need closure.

I really like this one. Its not easy im trying to move on but something is telling me its not done yet. I dont know I wish it was that easy. It really sucks that hes being like this . I cant get him out my head even if I tried

I didnt know telling someone u care about them was being weak but ok

Yea u made some points . I also think he didnt answer because he always hated when I brought up another female and it annoys him . He said i sound insecure when I did and it turned him off..but i was in my feelings cuz of how hes been acting..He doesn't like too much emotions or being vulnerable it scares him... He was still wrong for being insensitive of course. I should move on . im still open for closure tho i dont give up on ppl easily

This type of situation doesn't have anything to do with astrology signs. This man moved on. I doubt you will get any type of closure. I know what it feels like to want closure & it sucks when you don't get it. Like @sagiluv said, stay busy & do you just like he is. Good luck

I havent contact him since 4th of july week. Yall act like I been blowing his phone up all day everyday.. I was just thinking of giving it one more shot next week and if he doesn't get back to me I will move on and not contact him ever again

I dealt with a virgo man and they are not emotional at all. He said being emotional drains him. Yes, he definitely ignored me at times and that made me so upset to the point I ignored him. I wouldn't reach out to him unless he contacts you first... thinking about it, would you want to deal with a guy that you have to hide your emotions from? I know it hurts but virgo men like to disappear and analyze. If he was really into you he wouldn't treat you that way.

many many many many hugs your way

it may seem as if you need a closure now .... but if he told you he would stir a pot of emotions again...

I'm not saying let it go...grief will do it for you... take care hun

Posted by KissMyVirgoBooty
I really like this one. Its not easy im trying to move on but something is telling me its not done yet. I dont know I wish it was that easy. It really sucks that hes being like this . I cant get him out my head even if I tried

Best thing to do is continue no contact , give him a call o. His bday. When's his bday? Do you know where he lives?

Posted by KissMyVirgoBooty

Yall act like I been blowing his phone up all day everyday..

You act like he's going to suddenly decide to throw you a crumb, eventhough his actions clearly show that you're insignificant to him.

You act like a guy ignoring you is a Prince to be had.

Posted by KissMyVirgoBooty
I really like this one. Its not easy im trying to move on but something is telling me its not done yet. I dont know I wish it was that easy. It really sucks that hes being like this . I cant get him out my head even if I tried

That something is 'wishful thinking' and hope, not true intuition. If a person disappears on you, you do not give them another chance to mistreat you like that again. When a person can go that long without talking to someone, and it is without proper reason like travel to a foreign country, it shows you where there priority lies and it is not with you.

I think you place and have placed too much value on HIS OPINION, the "do YOU want me to leave you alone?" question sould of been you asking YOURSELF "do I want this?"

That question in itself capitalized your neediness because you based your actions and future actions all on him and what HE WANTED.

The persistant, where are yous? Are you with a girl? All reek desperation when the one incident of being ignored shoulf of been sufficient in letting you know he was DONE.

Were you two exclusive at all?

Their*

Posted by KissMyVirgoBooty
Yea u made some points . I also think he didnt answer because he always hated when I brought up another female and it annoys him . He said i sound insecure when I did and it turned him off..but i was in my feelings cuz of how hes been acting..He doesn't like too much emotions or being vulnerable it scares him... He was still wrong for being insensitive of course. I should move on . im still open for closure tho i dont give up on ppl easily

So you knew all of that and what do you do? Act insecure and bring up another girl?

Perfect.

If you two arent even committed, talking or asking it the guy you are seeing is seeing other women is jumping the fence. He isnt committed to you. So whether he is or isnt is not your business until he IS COMMITTED to you.

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Posted by KissMyVirgoBooty
I really like this one. Its not easy im trying to move on but something is telling me its not done yet. I dont know I wish it was that easy. It really sucks that hes being like this . I cant get him out my head even if I tried

Best thing to do is continue no contact , give him a call o. His bday. When's his bday? Do you know where he lives?

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Wait. Are you suggesting stalking? Voodoo? The man has checked out, who cares if she knows where he lives and his bday. Dont advise her into more heartache 😢

Idk if he contacted me thats the thing he doesn't like texting ..he rather call but at times I havent gotten his calls in the past. When I would hit him up in the past he would say I called u but at times I didnt recieve it and he would feel a way about it...but yea I felt it was ok to ask if he was wit a girl bcuz there was a time when he was going through my phone and then asking if I still talk to a guy from the past too.. I feel its unfair he can show jealousy but I cant.. he afraid being hurt just as much as I am..his bday is sep 21st and yes I know where he lives but I would not bother going to his house cuz thats psycho stalker shit and that would only push him away further

We were talking never was in a relationship..he travels a lot about 2 weeks every month. So when he is away he never by his phone. When he come back to nyc he always made time for me so I never complain