Virgo man question

I have been chatting with a Virgo guy for a several months now. I told him that I was not looking for anything heavy. He seemed fine with that, so we took it to the next level (1 booty call).

After that he was texting as usual. I was fine with that and honestly a little surprised. So the other day I send him a text and he never responded the entire day. That annoyed me because I hate silly games.

The next day he texts first thing in the morning and I deleted the text. Is this Virgo man thinking that I am lying about wanting more and that is why he decided to not text back and wait a day to text?

I agree with you that I should not have expectations, but I just think it is odd that he is texting non stop and then when I throw out the first text that requires a response he goes missing in action. Just seemed odd to me and I generally dislike Virgos, so maybe I am just being hypersensitive.

Do you guys tend to like Aquarius folks, friendship or romantic?

Maybe he was busy. Maybe he didn't get the text until the next day. Or maybe he was with someone else. But, if you're not looking for anything heavy, why does it matter when he responds to you? He didn't ignore you right? I think you're looking too much into it...if in fact you're truly ok with you two being casual.

I agree... sometimes I need other folks to make me stop thinking so much. Feby knows what I mean :-)

Yes, that is exactly what I mean. I tend to over think to a fault, and then I get stuck, until I hear how others view it.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
I agree with you that I should not have expectations, but I just think it is odd that he is texting non stop and then when I throw out the first text that requires a response he goes missing in action. Just seemed odd to me and I generally dislike Virgos, so maybe I am just being hypersensitive.

Do you guys tend to like Aquarius folks, friendship or romantic?

it's very difficult to dislike an aquarius,but it's equally difficult to love one

Posted by aquagirllovesu
I have been chatting with a Virgo guy for a several months now. I told him that I was not looking for anything heavy. He seemed fine with that, so we took it to the next level (1 booty call).

After that he was texting as usual. I was fine with that and honestly a little surprised. So the other day I send him a text and he never responded the entire day. That annoyed me because I hate silly games.

The next day he texts first thing in the morning and I deleted the text. Is this Virgo man thinking that I am lying about wanting more and that is why he decided to not text back and wait a day to text?

I think you got caught up in what you said you didn't want "something heavy"
Him texting as usual surprised you because booty calls require one phone call one hour before booty time. He sent out some mixed signals and you took it as more.
Then when reality hit and he adjusted himself for a day to control his non booty call emotions you got confused and hurt.
Thus the reaction you gave when he texted you the next morning and you clicked delete.

Now both of you can press reset and go back to your non emotional, non committal, no expectation relationship of booty calling. Talk about boundaries and both of you stay within them.....

@virgoDragon64 I have heard this before. What are the reasons we are difficult to love?

@spinCycle you hit the nail on the head.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
I have been chatting with a Virgo guy for a several months now. I told him that I was not looking for anything heavy. He seemed fine with that, so we took it to the next level (1 booty call).

After that he was texting as usual. I was fine with that and honestly a little surprised. So the other day I send him a text and he never responded the entire day. That annoyed me because I hate silly games.

The next day he texts first thing in the morning and I deleted the text. Is this Virgo man thinking that I am lying about wanting more and that is why he decided to not text back and wait a day to text?

You made it clear from the beginning you only wanted a FWB/BOOTY CALL. When you choose that route you don't get to wonder, you don't get to question, or get annoyed. That is all you are now, you are confusing yourself into thinking this man gives a shit. You called the shots..don't place blame on him.

Posted by aquagirllovesu

Do you guys tend to like Aquarius folks, friendship or romantic?

A friend is liked as a friend ... a piece of ass is like as a piece of ass.

You tell him you want to be his fuck buddy, and then expect him to treat you like a friend.


the only issue I see here is your delusion

Posted by PEITHO
I see what people mean about P-Angel and I have only been a member for a few weeks. She's really rude to people for no reason.

Truly it's not rudeness it's realness.

Harsh reality people do not like...immediately they go on the defense... instead of actually seeing what things are and not what they want it to be. People want to be coddled and agreed with, regardless if they are wrong.

P Angel is real....no filter...the way we all should be.

Just to clarify, I never told this man that I was just a F* buddy. What I said to him was that I was looking for a friend first which we have been. I didn't meet this person in a club and just take him home. As for people being rude, I don't take much stock in people with poor delivery. When your message is clouded with to much anger or "huff" it dissolves what your saying regardless if it is the truth or not.

To answer your question about Aqua and Virgo.. three of my lifelong friends are Virgos. I have dated a Virgo as well. We just get each other. There have been moments of communication breakdowns, but nothing major or unfixable.

1 day of not hearing from him is actually not a big deal, unless you make it a big deal. As an Aqua you understand the need to have "me time". Virgo time is different, 1 week = 1 day to them. I jest but there is some truth to this. 😄



Perhaps he realized that he was coming on strong especially when it sounded like you wanted things slower from the get go. Virgos are ALL in when they are in, just food for thought. Sounds like you need to sit down and talk, face to face not via text as things can be taken out of context via written word.