*Virgo Man On The Stand*

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by AVG on Tuesday, September 30, 2014 and has 30 replies.

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You be the prosecutor and ask your questions,and we'll do the best we can too answer... And no whole book of questions please...keep it simple... Go πŸ˜‰

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@AriesWoman87
11 YearsAries

My virgo seems to like planning our dates. I'm a terrible planner.

Do I need to take more initiative in planning things? Or do virgo men generally enjoy it? ( I'm talking most of the time, every once in a while I get a good idea )

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Yes we do like planning, I have a million things on my brain right now too do... A couple of them will make it out of my head, the others Will just go too the trash department ... πŸ™‚ and yes, whenever you have a good ideal about a date, just tell him you have something planned for yall too do, he'll appreciate you caring about him enough too even plan it.. We kinda like surprises.... Sometimes!!! πŸ˜‰

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@HellothereAriesx3
11 Years

So this Virgo guy is boring, he admitted it. He told me he wants me to change him or i guess make himself a better suitor for me.. AND IM NOT EVEN KIDDING HE SAID THIS.
Did I mention he's really boring? Like cant keep a conversation going. How do I fix this?
He wants me to teach him this. Please help me!!!!!!!

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11 YearsAries

Posted by AVG
Yes we do like planning, I have a million things on my brain right now too do... A couple of them will make it out of my head, the others Will just go too the trash department ... πŸ™‚ and yes, whenever you have a good ideal about a date, just tell him you have something planned for yall too do, he'll appreciate you caring about him enough too even plan it.. We kinda like surprises.... Sometimes!!! πŸ˜‰

Awesome. Thank you for your input. He's very thoughtful about what we do. We don't go on boring, traditional dates.. And we always have a great time together.
He's not a verbal guy, but I'm learning to go by all his actions and they say a lot πŸ™‚
Ah, Virgos... Where have you been all my life?

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Posted by HellothereAriesx3
So this Virgo guy is boring, he admitted it. He told me he wants me to change him or i guess make himself a better suitor for me.. AND IM NOT EVEN KIDDING HE SAID THIS.
Did I mention he's really boring? Like cant keep a conversation going. How do I fix this?
He wants me to teach him this. Please help me!!!!!!!

Well he told you.... So now the ball is in your corner .. I know he told you too change him, you can't, he have to wanna change. Now one thing I can't understand, a virgo not being able too keep a conversation!! We can talk with the best of them.. πŸ˜‰ I don't know,he might just be shy... How long have this relationship been going on? And you can't change him, but you can do more exciting crazy stuff!! He might mirror you,and do the same.. πŸ˜‰ Good Luck.

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11 Years

Posted by AVG
Posted by HellothereAriesx3
So this Virgo guy is boring, he admitted it. He told me he wants me to change him or i guess make himself a better suitor for me.. AND IM NOT EVEN KIDDING HE SAID THIS.
Did I mention he's really boring? Like cant keep a conversation going. How do I fix this?
He wants me to teach him this. Please help me!!!!!!!

Well he told you.... So now the ball is in your corner .. I know he told you too change him, you can't, he have to wanna change. Now one thing I can't understand, a virgo not being able too keep a conversation!! We can talk with the best of them.. πŸ˜‰ I don't know,he might just be shy... How long have this relationship been going on? And you can't change him, but you can do more exciting crazy stuff!! He might mirror you,and do the same.. πŸ˜‰ Good Luck.
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I've known his for a couple of years, we were just friends, didn't hang out much. I dated around, he told me he always wanted me to keep me in his life. Now hes wants to be the guy that I want, my type I guess. He really has no game, its kinda sad. He did say he wants to change (did that mirroring thing) and told me that he wants so show me he cares about me, kinda steals my words & repeats them like a broken record and is so dry about it that's how bad he is in conversation. Other virgo guys are funny and witty so yeah you're right. Ugh this seems like sooooo much work !!! He told me to tell him what to say & how to act. Ugh. He doesn't like to touch either like doesn't like to cuddle & hold hands, but I love that. His past girlfriends never made him work for it so he said he likes what im doing.

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@ Hellothereariesx3,

If you have known him for a couple of years, you should've knew his demeanor ..character ..etc, and it had too be something you liked about him from being around him, and knowing he was boring, didn't talk much,wasn't affectionate, so what was it that turn you on too this boring dude? It had to be something? I know he just didn't become this way, when yall started dating... Or did he? I tell you what, virgo guys are cool with constructive criticism.. Not really! πŸ™‚ but, write him, text him and tell him what you want out of this relationship, it might work, and might not... This is a tough one.. Any more virguys have any advice for this young lady, feel free.. πŸ™‚ PS... You said he didn't have any game... That's a good thing.. Trust me.. πŸ˜‰

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11 Years

Thank you AVG! But yes any other Virgo men out there.

And what drew me was that he always seemed to be dependable and stable, compared to all the chaos and drama that stuck with the other signs.

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I've just baled on a Virgo after a couple of weeks coz I experienced super hot then super cold.. I really didn't think Virgos were like that? It was like dealing with two different people! But as I'm Aries I'm impatient as fuck so I ran...I did say sorry though lol!!

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Posted by AriesGirl74
I've just baled on a Virgo after a couple of weeks coz I experienced super hot then super cold.. I really didn't think Virgos were like that? It was like dealing with two different people! But as I'm Aries I'm impatient as fuck so I ran...I did say sorry though lol!!

Hot and Cold Huh? You know how many hot and cold men you're gonna meet in your life? See women go by silly things if they stay or leave a relationship ... Men, as long as you treat us good.. We'll take ah lil hot cold... More hot tho.. πŸ˜‰

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Posted by AVG
Posted by AriesGirl74
I've just baled on a Virgo after a couple of weeks coz I experienced super hot then super cold.. I really didn't think Virgos were like that? It was like dealing with two different people! But as I'm Aries I'm impatient as fuck so I ran...I did say sorry though lol!!

Hot and Cold Huh? You know how many hot and cold men you're gonna meet in your life? See women go by silly things if they stay or leave a relationship ... Men, as long as you treat us good.. We'll take ah lil hot cold... More hot tho.. πŸ˜‰
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Omg I've had my fair share ... That's why I ran!! Lol

He was soooooo pretty too 😒 lol

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14 Years

Actually I'm gonna do a quick plugged on Scorpios right here..... I've been called intense numerous times before (including this Virgo POI) .... And quite frankly, I love and OWN my intensity! Life wouldn't otherwise be so awesome| =)

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11 Years

Being a Virgo AVG if you gave a girl a key to your place would you be saying she could come and go as she pleases, whenever she wants to pop in and say hi? Or because you can tend to be very moody should she not do this?

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Posted by jd
Being a Virgo AVG if you gave a girl a key to your place would you be saying she could come and go as she pleases, whenever she wants to pop in and say hi? Or because you can tend to be very moody should she not do this?

If she was my girlfriend,yes! If she was just a good friend, no... FWB, no!! Only girlfriend .. πŸ˜‰

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11 Years

Posted by AVG
Posted by jd
Being a Virgo AVG if you gave a girl a key to your place would you be saying she could come and go as she pleases, whenever she wants to pop in and say hi? Or because you can tend to be very moody should she not do this?

If she was my girlfriend,yes! If she was just a good friend, no... FWB, no!! Only girlfriend .. πŸ˜‰
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Well I have not been officially titled "girlfriend" but guess that's what I am. Wouldn't think Virgo's or any guy in general would be quick to give out a key.

Read you guys aren't really into surprises

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Posted by jd
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Being a Virgo AVG if you gave a girl a key to your place would you be saying she could come and go as she pleases, whenever she wants to pop in and say hi? Or because you can tend to be very moody should she not do this?

If she was my girlfriend,yes! If she was just a good friend, no... FWB, no!! Only girlfriend .. πŸ˜‰

Well I have not been officially titled "girlfriend" but guess that's what I am. Wouldn't think Virgo's or any guy in general would be quick to give out a key.

Read you guys aren't really into surprises

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He don't really have too say your his girl... You just kinda know, and if your confused, just ask... "So, this means I can come over when I want too? #Simple πŸ˜‰

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11 Years

So I've got another one for you. This is a bit confusing to me. Why is it after a great weekend together he becomes quiet/distant? Don't see each other during the week due to distance so text/phone calls are our only communication.

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11 YearsAries

Do Virgos like to be complimented? And do you like your girl telling you she cares and appreciates you?

I'm an emotionally stunted aries lol and I'm bad at expressing feelings. I always thank my virgo for the time we spend together and try and throw in random compliments..

But how do I let him know that I'm totally smitten with him? Or will that scare him off?