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Virgo man told me he missed he and then disappeared
Posted by lillianyou told him to have a good sleep. you more or less sound like you have a cap sister.
Hey guys, i'm actually new to this forum and i really need answers!
So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.
swag: i dont think you are telling the whole story bc you have so much useless blabbing in your post trying to stay clear of the issue you created. in three lines you could have said what you did. enjoyed the read though.
so
you should hit up virgo and ask him bc its fucked up when people flat out ignore you, right? ? then everyone and ttheir moma here says you should just drop the lame virgo—? i thought you were asking for help but that is not help??
There's obviously more to the story that you elected to withhold .... likely because it would put you in a less light than you described.
People don't behave the way you've described unless more has happened than what you stated.
Most likely ..... once he threw you an emotional bone of saying, "I miss you", you probably pounced on it, and bombarded him with emotional sentiment.
... because your tale doesn't make sense otherwise.
When you decide to be forthcoming with the truth ..... only then will you receive valid answers. But, like one person already mentioned, it doesn't appear as though you want answers/help, it appears as though you just want to complain.
Posted by P-Angel
There's obviously more to the story that you elected to withhold .... likely because it would put you in a less light than you described.
People don't behave the way you've described unless more has happened than what you stated.
Most likely ..... once he threw you an emotional bone of saying, "I miss you", you probably pounced on it, and bombarded him with emotional sentiment.
... because your tale doesn't make sense otherwise.
When you decide to be forthcoming with the truth ..... only then will you receive valid answers. But, like one person already mentioned, it doesn't appear as though you want answers/help, it appears as though you just want to complain.
lol if i could definitely post up pictures of our conversation i would. he told me he missed me, i told him i missed him as well. but work was getting busy so i had to get off my phone and told him i would text\call him later after work and said i couldn't wait to see him as well as he did. i went home later that evening around 6 pm and texted him to see if he was coming over, but he never replied. so i text him around 10 pm for him to sleep well if he was sleeping because i know that people need their space sometimes.
Posted by OneJupiterWayPosted by lillianyou told him to have a good sleep. you more or less sound like you have a cap sister.
Hey guys, i'm actually new to this forum and i really need answers!
So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.
swag: i dont think you are telling the whole story bc you have so much useless blabbing in your post trying to stay clear of the issue you created. in three lines you could have said what you did. enjoyed the read though.
so
you should hit up virgo and ask him bc its fucked up when people flat out ignore you, right? ? then everyone and ttheir moma here says you should just drop the lame virgo—? i thought you were asking for help but that is not help??
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LOL i guess you're right. i just need to calm down and stop blabbing. But the issue here is that he told me he missed me while i was at work so i couldn't give him a heartfilled reply. i just told him i missed him as well and that work was busy so i would text him later after work to come over.
Posted by Chantillyyou enjoy nagging me?
Everyone who told her to drop him is telling her it's a waste of her time to chase after drama. If you're a virgo, you would know it's a bad idea.Posted by OneJupiterWayPosted by lillianyou told him to have a good sleep. you more or less sound like you have a cap sister.
Hey guys, i'm actually new to this forum and i really need answers!
So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.
swag: i dont think you are telling the whole story bc you have so much useless blabbing in your post trying to stay clear of the issue you created. in three lines you could have said what you did. enjoyed the read though.
so
you should hit up virgo and ask him bc its fucked up when people flat out ignore you, right? ? then everyone and ttheir moma here says you should just drop the lame virgo—? i thought you were asking for help but that is not help??
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Posted by lillianif you think hes worth the time then, he is worth the time.Posted by OneJupiterWayPosted by lillianyou told him to have a good sleep. you more or less sound like you have a cap sister.
Hey guys, i'm actually new to this forum and i really need answers!
So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.
swag: i dont think you are telling the whole story bc you have so much useless blabbing in your post trying to stay clear of the issue you created. in three lines you could have said what you did. enjoyed the read though.
so
you should hit up virgo and ask him bc its fucked up when people flat out ignore you, right? ? then everyone and ttheir moma here says you should just drop the lame virgo—? i thought you were asking for help but that is not help??
LOL i guess you're right. i just need to calm down and stop blabbing. But the issue here is that he told me he missed me while i was at work so i couldn't give him a heartfilled reply. i just told him i missed him as well and that work was busy so i would text him later after work to come over.click to expand
at the end of the day its your choice. maybe he really did miss you. maybe he has a few issues but who does not? if he is not yet a serial dissapearer give
it another chance.
no one is perfect
Posted by Chantillywhat if everyone considered the guy you liked a waste of time.
Everyone who told her to drop him is telling her it's a waste of her time to chase after drama. If you're a virgo, you would know it's a bad idea.Posted by OneJupiterWayPosted by lillianyou told him to have a good sleep. you more or less sound like you have a cap sister.
Hey guys, i'm actually new to this forum and i really need answers!
So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.
swag: i dont think you are telling the whole story bc you have so much useless blabbing in your post trying to stay clear of the issue you created. in three lines you could have said what you did. enjoyed the read though.
so
you should hit up virgo and ask him bc its fucked up when people flat out ignore you, right? ? then everyone and ttheir moma here says you should just drop the lame virgo—? i thought you were asking for help but that is not help??
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So a couple of months ago, i met a Virgo guy (i'm a gemini girl). We would see each other about once or twice a week & talk basically everyday and send each other goodmorning\good night texts. Everytime we talk, we have really good chemistry and the conversations never get boring! I looove his personality. he's so cute & smart. Shy, and he has such good intentions. Being a gemini, although our signs say that we are mainly obnoxious and all, i am an outgoing person, but i am more on the calm and reserved side. About a month ago, we have been getting closer and he has been randomly disappearing. We would talk and out of no where he would just say he has to go and disappear for the next day or two. but he would always get back to me, which i did not mind at all because i understand that everyone needs their space, hell i know i do. lol but this time, i was at work and he was texting me. he had texted me and told me that he missed me. i was so surprised, because i know that he doesn't show emotions alot. i texted him back and said that my co workers are looking at me funny cause when he said that, i giggled to myself. and then i wrote to him that i had missed him too. He then texted back and said "i can't wait to see you after work". and i told him i couldn't wait either. and after he texted me that he has to go to school about an hour or so (he goes to college, we are both 21). Keep in mind that when he said that, i was at work. So i texted back and said "i'm sorry, work is really busy so i will have to text you back later when i'm home. can't wait to see you though!" and he said that "no problem, i'll go get ready for school". that evening when i got home, i had texted him that i was home to see if he wanted to come over. but no replies. i thouht he had falling asleep or was busy so i text him back later that night saying that if he was sleeping to have a good sleep and sweet dreams. the next day, he didn't write to me at all and i was super sad ;( but i wanted him to have his space. so i didn't text him all day. today is the second day and i check to see if he was online via facebook (was going to tell him that i missed him and if he needed space i understand) but i logged on to see that he has deleted me and blocked me on all social media— i'm SO CONFUSED. did i do something wrong? 😢 i need answers.