Virgo men and texting

Sorry to be another person trying to decipher whether a virgo man is interested. Hopefully ya'll aren't completely bored of the subject. Virgo men, in my experience, tend to come of as nice guys and I'm not alway sure that it is indicative of romantic interest or just out of the interest of being nice. To keep my post simple, what kind of interest do you think a morning 'checking in on how your doing' text indicates? He's also sent me 'let me know when you get home safely' texts in the past. He's never made any overt, in your face moves, but sometimes things like this make me think he wants me to recognize that he's romantically interested...I don't know. Thoughts?

That’s definitely a sign of interest in my experience. They wouldn’t bother otherwise. Showing interest is just that. To show interest back, try calling to chat after he makes initial contact.

Posted by Scheherazade

Texting is for when and where and to make plans.

It’s not for conversation.

I can only speak as a Virgo Moon, but my thoughts exactly. Leo Sun guys tend not to be great texters either, so take that for what you will.

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Posted by Scheherazade

Texting is for when and where and to make plans.

It’s not for conversation.

idk i have lotsa text convos everyday.

i had a 2 hr one yesterday

I don’t think that’s a good idea in a dating stage before either has made up their minds. It’s so much pressure to respond all the time and it’s distracting.

It’s much easier to just meet up and talk or call/FaceTime and then you are actually having a full conversation without interruption.

If it’s a friend or someone I’m already with I can handle a little bit but even then it gets exhausting

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I completely agree! I typically don't like too much texting or when friends rely on texting too much rather than just picking up the phone to call me.

Me and this guy do talk on the phone however. Texting definitely isn't our goto way on keeping to touch.

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Posted by Scheherazade

Texting is for when and where and to make plans.

It’s not for conversation.

idk i have lotsa text convos everyday.

i had a 2 hr one yesterday

I don’t think that’s a good idea in a dating stage before either has made up their minds. It’s so much pressure to respond all the time and it’s distracting.

It’s much easier to just meet up and talk or call/FaceTime and then you are actually having a full conversation without interruption.

If it’s a friend or someone I’m already with I can handle a little bit but even then it gets exhausting

lol wut?

if its mutual & both parties are having fun banter then i see no issue. for me, it relieves pressure. i can vibe out what the person is like so i can gauge if i even wanna meet up. phone calls give me anxiety unless i know i have a verbal rapport with them already.

no way in hell i am ever face timing anyone. i dont even do that shit with my mom.

🤷🏻‍♀️

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I'm definitely not against texting. It's an easy way to talk to someone and I myself don't always feeling like talking on the phone or facetiming someone. So, I wouldn't give someone a hard time for sending out texts to me. If it was all they ever did, then I would probably get tired of texting, but still would give them a hard time about it.

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Posted by dillpickle

Posted by Scheherazade

Texting is for when and where and to make plans.

It’s not for conversation.

idk i have lotsa text convos everyday.

i had a 2 hr one yesterday

I don’t think that’s a good idea in a dating stage before either has made up their minds. It’s so much pressure to respond all the time and it’s distracting.

It’s much easier to just meet up and talk or call/FaceTime and then you are actually having a full conversation without interruption.

If it’s a friend or someone I’m already with I can handle a little bit but even then it gets exhausting

lol wut?

if its mutual & both parties are having fun banter then i see no issue. for me, it relieves pressure. i can vibe out what the person is like so i can gauge if i even wanna meet up. phone calls give me anxiety unless i know i have a verbal rapport with them already.

no way in hell i am ever face timing anyone. i dont even do that shit with my mom.

🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm definitely not against texting. It's an easy way to talk to someone and I myself don't always feeling like talking on the phone or facetiming someone. So, I wouldn't give someone a hard time for sending out texts to me. If it was all they ever did, then I would probably get tired of texting, but still would give them a hard time about it.

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meant to say "still wouldn't give them a hard time about it".

Posted by dillpickle

lol im also not a virgo so i’ll see myself out 🚶🏻‍♀️

lol

My Virgo and I text but he would rather talk to me on the phone or in person. And he is way better to talk to in person then thru text. I actually am to the point where I hate texting him cause he is so blah when it comes to text but I hate talking on the phone so

ask him

Sounds like he is just being polite and getting to know you. Give it a little more time and he will make it more obvious that he likes you by telling you directly or definite romantic gestures.

Posted by Scheherazade

Texting is for when and where and to make plans.

It’s not for conversation.

as king of all Virgos I cosign this statement.

Should i send my virgo stellium crush (August 28) a cute bday voice note?

I met him on an amazing date abroad in Sg. Went so amazing. Virtual 2nd date was terrible. Then we kinda ghosted each other. Oh yea, also i commented on his post (He posted something about not being goodlooking like he said he would be. Which I think is a lie. Tongue) and i left comment knowing it would go well. Blame it on my aqua merc. *Clown Emoji Haha and def got ghosted. Sometimes he looks at my stories. But I miss him. I don't want to date him... but I would love to get to know him.

Hmm should I still send him a voice message?

Or take it as a sign to move on? < us ghosting each other and not talking for a couple months now.