@Capygirl01
6 Years
How to get a Virgo man back after cheating?
How to Rebuild Trust with a Virgo Man After Cheating
Rebuilding trust with a Virgo man involves sincere apologies, consistent actions, and patience. Show genuine remorse and demonstrate your commitment through honesty and reliability. Respect his boundaries and give him space if needed. Focus on self-improvement and prove your loyalty over time. Rebuilding a relationship after betrayal requires time and consistent effort from both partners.
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
get over it and get therapy bc no one healthy cheats
Your lucky he didnt bury you.
From what I know of Virgos, you don't.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
This isn't about being a Virgo. Coming from someone who's just been cheated on, he'll never fully trust you again.
Leave it and try to work on yourself. 😊
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
OMG 😱
I didn't even read her other threads.
Good lord Jesus.
You went on dates with other men?
Did you have sex?
No sex, no intimacy. Only one guy
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
We started talking 5 months ago not regularly just once in awhile hey how are you. We were friends before but I’ve always kept a distance. A work even brought us together again in October. We hung out 3 times after that. Once every 2-3 weeks. No intimacy.
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
No the sag is fine nothing happened and nothing is wrong if anything the sag wants more now. I took the time to reflect and the Virgo is who I truly love and want to spend my life with.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
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You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
That stuck out to me too. The word choice!
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Honestly that told me all that needed to be said.
I don’t know why people treat others this way and expect them to stick around or come back when they’ve broke trust and had a full blown relationship on the side for months. (Based on other comments here)
Any type of feelings of not getting attention or needs being met, should’ve been talked about, so things could get back on track.
But trying to do something after the fact is wack.
This is the risk when a person cheats. So it must’ve been worth it.
Oh, I just read your other threads.. you’ve been dating a sag on the side for 5-6 months. That’s more than just a few dates. Do you even really want the Virgo back or is just that the sag doesn’t want what you want so now you want to go back to what’s comfortable?
We started talking 5 months ago not regularly just once in awhile hey how are you. We were friends before but I’ve always kept a distance. A work even brought us together again in October. We hung out 3 times after that. Once every 2-3 weeks. No intimacy.
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There has to be more to it then this.
No intimacy with a Sag? 🧐
If you were friends before, you would still be friends when you went out to eat lunch or dinner or whatever you were doing on the “dates”, it wouldn’t have been considered cheating.
Either way. I guess it’s a lesson learned for you. I hope thinks work out and both of you can get some closure or figure it all out.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
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Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
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Wait....is that true?
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
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No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
shit on his bed he will love that
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
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I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.
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5 months is a long time. She’s obviously missing something in her relationship if she’s looking outside it and entertaining another man.
I don’t buy that she suddenly had a come to Jesus moment when he found her out. Unless she addresses the core reason of why she chose to step out on her relationship she will likely be a repeat offender.
Virgo man here, leave him alone. He no longer trusts you and I'm sure never will. You'd have to jump through all types of hoops that I'm sure you won't be able to handle. Virgos seem to be skeptics about everything and that'll never change (with me anyway). It seems he trusted you and gave you space to let you do what you wanted (or just didn't care what you did, we tend to be pretty withdrawn and spacious), he'll never let you do that if y'all get back together (go and do as you please...because you must of had time away from him to be cheating). I'm sure he also feels like you took advantage of him in some sort of way or fashion.
Something was unfulfilling to you about him which is why you cheated (sorry if I'm over analyzing) and you found what you were looking for with someone else...odds are that emptiness you had with him won't change and you'd ultimately end up doing it again.
Leave it be and move on, if he tries getting back with you, odds are he will (he'll remember the good times...and the bad times which will make him upset and withdrawn), resist and move on because it would be for the best honestly. Sorry to be so harsh and forward!
Thank you
You deleted your other post about sag men, why (if it is the Virgo you realized you wanted)?
Cause the virgo found out about the sag through dxp posts. RIP
Wait....is that true?
No idea 😅
She said the Virgo was the one to find her out tho, so I was imagining him going through her phone or computer and finding her threads about dating the sag
I feel like that would make it worse if that's how he found out but either way, I still say leave it be. It would never be as good as it once was and I'm sure he'll bring it up way more then she would like. Consider it a lesson learned and try not to do it again to someone else.
5 months is a long time. She’s obviously missing something in her relationship if she’s looking outside it and entertaining another man.
I don’t buy that she suddenly had a come to Jesus moment when he found her out. Unless she addresses the core reason of why she chose to step out on her relationship she will likely be a repeat offender.
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5 months without sex too! 😆
Lol you were so lost until he found out! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
So you would’ve never stopped then? 🙃
Right! This.
I want to know more about what was going on with sag and what does being lost mean exactly
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I have been with my Virgo man for 10 years. I have looked the other way at other men while in my relationship and I am ashamed for it. I cheated on him by going out with another man on dates, events, movies. I was so lost and couldn’t see the dark path I was going down until my Virgo man found out. He is completely done (due to my past) and wants to end things. It has finally taken me this time to realize he is the ONLY man I want in my life and I was too stupid and blind to see that before. It took me loosing him to realize this. I will do absolutely anything to try to repair this. I know he doesn’t want to but I want to try. I just have a couple questions.
1. What are the steps you should take after cheating to make the other person feel as comfortable as possible?
2. Contact or no contact? So far I have been reaching out to say I am sorry with long sincere apologies
3. How can I show him I want this and this is it for me. I don’t know if this is even possible but I want to try.
Any advice about the situation of cheating, or Virgo personalities in general would be super helpful and appreciated. Thank you. I know there is a slim chance but I do want to try.