Anything will happen later?

So .. there is this virgo man, that i met through a mutual friend... he is sweet and gorgeous but i never knew his intentions towards me... but our mutual friend came and told and told me that this guy is verrrry interested in you... but honestly i couldnt see it, cuz he takes a week to speak woth me again.. and never asked me out .... but i decided to be patient and give him his space and time ... he approaches me from time to time in a very un-understandable ways ever ... lol he says stuff like “ u know?.. i like the connection that we have... i think it is what excites us! / oooh and u r funny tooo/ u r so gorgeous / i feel like i’ve known u since forever/ etc ...

Then suddenly yesterday in the morning.. while we were texting.. he suddenly sent me a picture of rings and asked me which one would i like better? And i said the one on the right so he as asked “ with the letter R” ? And thats NOT my initial LOL ... i said oh thats a letter ... okay i dunno i think yeah... and then he re-asked tell me ur honest opinion.. and i was shocked lol that he approached me to ask me for a ring (bot a wedding ring) for another girl !!!! Wth ?!

I stayed calm for a hour then i decided to remove him from my social media and just delete his number .. but i saw that he tried ro text me again at night but realized i deleted him so i texted him instead and i expressed my true feelings and that i liked him and i think it was obvious and that i took the hint and pulled away because i like him more than accept being a normal friend in a way that he would take my opinion on his relationship with ither girls lol!!

He only replied with “ ohhh ! What a loss”

And i cant understand what he means so i dont know what to expect ! This is it? Or there is something else and what does he mean by saying this is it sarcasm or he means something lol ... i dunno

There are ways around getting the answers that you want by asking the right questions...

For example bringing up the ring thing...

Who is it for?

Are you two serious?

Do you think you love her?.

Ect ect.

I say this because it could be him legit asking you OOORRRRR it's his way of getting your attention.

Without asking HIM I can only speculate.

We both are 27

The thing is he is sooo calm and mature usually and he never does any stupid or crazy moves u know ... and i know that he is a good guy hence i was shocked of what he did .... and i dont understand his reply and what does he mean !

Posted by PhoenixStorm

He sounds immature. How old is he? How old are you?

LOL .. why?

Posted by Skeleton

Men, I feel for him now.

Virgos and Leo's dont speak the same language. You have to decipher his code. Once you do things begin to become more clear, but not always. Sometimes I have no idea what the hell my Virgo is talking about...

I'm serious when I say it is almost like he is talking another language....or a different dialect if you will.

And they are slow af.

Leo and Virgo aren't a good match at all...

Fire and earth 😐

Posted by SeaLion

Virgos and Leo's dont speak the same language. You have to decipher his code. Once you do things begin to become more clear, but not always. Sometimes I have no idea what the hell my Virgo is talking about...

I'm serious when I say it is almost like he is talking another language....or a different dialect if you will.

And they are slow af.

this like 1000x

heck I think virgos dont even know what THEY are talking about sometimes, just bring emotions into the mix and they become aliens.

anyway OP if you did confess then theres nothing else to do here, the ball's on his court at best, if he likes you, he can reach you and that be all, you can both suffer this kind of interaction until you both learn to hate each other.

Posted by N_leo

We both are 27

The thing is he is sooo calm and mature usually and he never does any stupid or crazy moves u know ... and i know that he is a good guy hence i was shocked of what he did .... and i dont understand his reply and what does he mean !

Posted by PhoenixStorm

He sounds immature. How old is he? How old are you?

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You won’t be able to tell how he’s “feeling” until you get to know him. Virgos always have this cool, calm demeanor on the outside and can be feeling all types of stuff on the inside, they hide their emotions well. Only anger or irritation shows. You’ll never know what he’s feeling until you know him well. They do give off a energy that is telling though, but you have to be aware of it.

You should ask him about the ring. You guys were friends first, he was asking you some questions and you let your emotions and feelings of liking him get the best of you and made a rash decision because of them. And you two are only friends.

If you want to keep the friendship and see if it will go anywhere, just ask him who the ring is for and if he has a girlfriend. Then you can decide on whether the friendship is worth it, especially if he says he has a girlfriend.

Third parties telling you that a person likes you, without him saying it directly, is never a good thing.

Now you’ve developed feelings and are unsure if it’s true.

You don't know him.

You two weren't dating on any level.

So....why are you writing a book about this lame ish? 🤔

Also, this mutual friend is questionable.