Virgo men and the fear of being hated

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Inspired by one of dxp user and a personal experience. What is this, where does this come from and why. How does the fear of being hated play out in relationships etc.

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Sometimes I check different forums and quite often I come across comments such as:

"I wanted to make sure she was really into me"

"I thought she'd hate me"...

These men don't seem to "believe" they are likeable just the way are.

To Virgo men on dxp. Why do you need to be persuaded that someone is definitely into you?
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sometimes, i feel like pisces have zero insecurities in love and just relationships overall. no wonder venus is exalted in pisces and is in a state of 'fall' in virgo. even in the death throes of its course, i've noticed pisces have a lot of grace.

you can love virgos to the ends of the earth but some of us just don't always believe it like: "is this real life? why are you still here? are you a flat-earther?" 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀
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venus is in detriment in virgo

not just for the men tho



Thought it was in detriment in Scorpio Venus?

yeah same for scorpio too i think

i meant 'fall' lol sorry
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Oh I see! Detriment and Fall are different

When a celestial body is in detriment it is said to be not comfortable in that sign and to tend to operate with the least strength.

Venus: in detriment in Aries, Scorpio

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VS,

As the exaltation is a place of awareness for the planet, the fall is a position of weakness concerning the function of the planet, including everything else the planet represents.

Venus: in fall in Virgo

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Posted by DragonSag

Sounds like Virgo with Leo Venus. Doubt that all Virgos are like that, but Leo really needs to be liked by everyone so to me it sounds that's the kind of Virgos you're talking about. Also, most of those that I know don't have that issue, only my bf does, and he has Leo Venus. So that's why I remember reading that about venus in Leo


Virgo venus has the same issue.
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Virgo venus and I question if people like me or not. My sister would always call me the perfect, favorite child and to me that's not how I feel. I felt like my parents were actually harder on me. It's weird but i think having virgo in the chart that affects anything related to emotions like moon and venus makes someone self critical and wants to be so sure of the love and attention we receive before we really truly accept it.
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reminds me, this guy I'm with rn thought I was way 'too cold' over chats (online) which I found confusing. in my head, I thought I showed I was 'properly' interested. I replied every time he'd chat even if I rarely initiated. good thing he didn't give up coz I AM interested even if I didn't look like i was.

even tho he kept verbalizing his interest, I never fully believed him. I wanted to but anyone can say things they don't mean or might have only meant at the moment. he could be talking to dozens of other women 🤷🤷

the only thing that really sold me to the idea was when he just kinda never left after our 2nd date technically 😅😅