virgo men and their mind games

asking a question for everyone......

do all virgos act hot and cold in the beginning of their first relationship

i mean.. first they are ohh soo cold and dont express any emotions..but once u let them go, they come back super hot and passionate. they call everyday, invite u over their house, hang out with their friends and just tell u that they miss u. but then...all of a sudden they play cold again. n say they " need to be alone" and not call for days...

are all virgo men like that.. is this how they act.
will they come back
or should i just let go.

i need advice..and need to know if am doing the right thing by being patient.
I think that being patient with a Virgo is the best way to go. One thing to remember is that if you set love free and it comes back, then it was meant to be. If not then you should move on. I think he is probably analyzing his feelings for you before he takes the next step. I would say live your life and see what happens. It is very normal for Virgo men to do the push and pull thing with girls they like. I do not if it ever stops but I am assuming that it has to at some point.
57 years old female
It's likely just sexual ... in your situation and all in which they don't have that Virgo man they wish to have.

After being gone for a while, and if they don't have another lover, and get tired of whacking off .. they will pursue hot and heavy .... then once they get what they want physically, they back off again until they get too horny again, and come back ..... circles.

All men do this .. it's just you can't detect it because other men keep you emotionally wrap around their fingers while playing you. Seriously, most women have no clue they are with a player until after they've been burnt several - a hundred times. A Virgo just doesn't have an interest in playing the emotional game to keep the woman passified .... he'll just dip and come back when horny to see if he can get her panties off again.

When you actually have the Virgo .... he doesn't leave .. no circles.
57 years old female
"When you actually have the Virgo .... he doesn't leave .. no circles."


When you actually have the man .. he doesn't leave .. no circles.
57 years old female
I find it quite curious, though not surprised ... that people, for the most part, are clueless to reality .. mostly females, due to emotions making them so ignorant to what is right in front of their face.

If you (woman) ... played hot/cold with a man .. then it's because you aren't really interested in him, but, like attention (in some fashion) .. and so "keep" him at arms length.

Yet, if someone does this to you, to whom you like ... you become incredibly stupid and actually think the guy is into you and you are so confused, why is he doing this to you ... eventhough the signs are all over the wall, and you'd be able to see them if your feelings weren't involved.

Hence: people, for the most part, are clueless to reality .. mostly females, due to emotions making them ignorant to what is right in front of thier face.

To carry this further .....

Women would think that the Virgo man is the one playing mind games, when in reality ... they get what you willing give them and leave. They may come back to get more .. but, in the meantime, they pretty much ignore you, which means ... no games of mind, because thier minds aren't even there to play with you.

Yet, the man who is a player, and will wrap an illusion around your mind .... you think is love.

People are amazing ..... they are so blind.
28 years old male from Trinidad
"Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo My Opus Decan Compa
Yes, what you describe there is a Virgo man thing. Yes you are doing the right thing by having patience.
Yes, we are cold and come back really hot and passionate acting as though nothing bad ever happened.
Virgo's do tend to stick through, even when sometimes the cause might be lost. However, they do know when to give up, but most of the time, they can be fighters.
27 years old male from IN
"I'm john, and pretty simple, but can turn it very complex. I am a major Polak,
I had a long winded message wrote out... but i dont think it was straight to the point.

Ill start be saying, i agree with P-Angel on most the stuff typed out. Also agree with TheSkys, and the comfortable/uncomfortable.

I gave the "hot and cold" its almost like a test, to see how the person reacts... hard to explain why. Mind games? i dunno, ive done that i guess, but like only to gain indirect info. i dont even know anymore, ive been single so long.

example, i setup my friend(she liked, and was older) to type to my girlfriend on the computer while i was "sleeping" and to see if shed cheat. And what happened? she cheated... so there(i logged there conversation and printed out and gave it to her for our anniversary). Im sure each virgo... heck just guys do stuff like that.

little offtrack maybe? not sure... to tired for this now. ill check back later
27 years old male from IN
"I'm john, and pretty simple, but can turn it very complex. I am a major Polak,
im not sure, but... to me she had it coming. I do not like to "sense" something amiss in my relationships. She gave me enough signs, so i gave her one.

was kind of mean i know, but i was sick of it.
56 years old male from Norway
What is this??_ a FREAK SHOW..?

There are lot of Virgos out there that is not fit into this picture you??ve just painted, things like Virgos are not stupid..! Well, there are lot of stupid Virgos out there. There are lot of naive Virgos and there are lot of confused Virgos too!

What do you exactly want to say..?

Sorry??_ but Virgos are not super human!
56 years old male from Norway
I am really get tired of this butter, non Virgos knowing Virgos better than the Virgos knowing themselves..!

What do you really know about Virgos..?

Couple of relationships and some stupid descriptions of Virgos on the net?

Is that a reality for you..??

Lol.. good luck with those crap!
56 years old male from Norway
Back to the topic...

asking a question for all virgos act hot and cold in the beginning of their first relationship

Depends on what you are and who you are!

I as a Virgo don??t show any interest to anyone or anything and minding my own business unless someone approaching me with her interest. A quick evaluations of classes and if it fits then why not.

Then the story will start like any other astrocrap signs.! Very human and very humble!

Simple as that, don??t listen to this mumbo-jumbo crap please!
56 years old male from Norway
Good.. then you will stated that you are speaking of yourself and that??s it, no other people and god forbid VIRGOS??_!

I hate (retards) speaking of Virgos pros and cons..!

Just for the reminders??_
56 years old male from The Deep South
" .......... DyarStra?e / dyrstr8z .......... Middle-aged V

Shaka: I dont pull that butter.

Me either. I may act goofy as hell, and volatile at times, but the woman knows how I truly feel.

Only boys are afraid of commitment, get yourself a real Virgo man

In defense of some VGs I know: Give him mixed signals, and you're going to get a mixed bag - we are very reflective of what we receive. butter! Even when you're being 100% straight up, we can still hem-haw around, because it takes a while for it to sink in: This Woman could be The One.

So many women post on the Virgo Board with the same old song & dance about Virgos confusing them. I've written before: If you don't know yourself, and know what you want in a man, stay away from Virgo Men. We got enough butter going on most of the time, and we don't need your crazy butter on top of the pile...
56 years old male from Norway
you forget what you've said before.

What I??ve said before..? Care to elaborate? like I said stop this crap and bulbutterting around Virgos.

We Virgos are pretty much HUMAN, like any other signs we have our weaknesses (tons of it) and the best part is to try to live with IT.

Capiche..? so please do shut the hell up when it is comes to Virgo stuff.
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