Metrics for a Virgo male trait

They say Virgos need a long time to see she is the one.

so let's ask our friends, relatives and colleagues for how long they have been dating their Virgo male until he decided she's the one.

I'm actually expecting some numbers..yet if you prefer to discuss so be it. :-)

it seems not to be a very interesting subject. you are the only audience so far. and there's no movie.

i think most virgos have a hard time believing something that wonderful is actually happening to them, that is why they mistrust it. its not that we thing we are unworthy, it is just that we understand how rare, genuine love is, and so we poke it, nudge it, move it around and look at it from all sides just to make sure we are not getting the wool pulled over our eyes.

because the thing is, inside certain virgo males i believe is the 'lovesap' he's the guy who once won over will do anything for you, scale any mountain, cross any sea, and take any challenge just to be with you. he's the guy that will sing to you in public, or get down on one knee in front of his friends to tell you he loves you.

this of course is all contrary to the carefully crafted cool james bond like exterior (yes sean connery is a virgo)which we work hard to show to the rest of the world, lest they somehow get the idea we are all actually a bunch of neurotic head cases deep down. so you can expect that he is going to make very sure before he disarms himself to you (surrender is not a virgo word).

*thing=think*

Hi nihilist, thank you a lot for sharing the info and your story. this means very much to me. it was so nice from you.

I have new numbers for us!!!!!!!

Sean Connery has Sun, Moon, Mercury und Neptune in Virgo. Venus in Libra.

While married to his first wife (11 years marriage) he met his second wife at a golf tournament in Morocco in 1970.
He divorced in 1973 and married Micheline in March 1975. they are still together.

Thank you Nassau for mentioning him. :-)

Nassau: i think most virgos have a hard time believing something that wonderful is actually happening to them, that is why they mistrust it.

That was true in my case.

Back in FEB 2006, I learned that a very sexy Scorpio chick was interested in me. I Googled "Scorpio Women", found DXP, and posted:

Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 3/29/2006 9:21:08 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.142

Here's the deal: Virgo man has potential relationship with Scorpio female; he hasn't seriously dated in 25 years (divorced 18 months); hasn't dated a Scorpio since high school; and hasn't dated a gorgeous blonde since college. She made the first move (of course!) about five months ago, and he didn't catch the hints until last week (a coworker clued him in - she thought he might be gay!). So, he's already tried her patience, but he doesn't want to rush this thing until he gets more info on her (we work in the same building, but not in the same dept - it's a big place!)...

Scorpio gals: How slow is too slow when you're interested in a new guy? Took her to lunch today (regular lunch hour deal) - my treat. We have some things in common, and she has a great wit - laughed my ass off! If I don't press for a date this weekend, is that gonna send a bad signal? (I got tons of work to catch up on - was out of earlier this week.)

~dyrstr8z

Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 3/31/2006 9:24:13 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.178

Okay, so is she just crazy about me; or, is she really in need of a tire rotation; or, is she testing me?

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I can't believe I wrote that shit! Hindsight is truly 20-20!

DOM,

The point is, even an older Virgo Guy can completely misread you, and your motives.

So, try to be yourself - maybe we won't get confused!

Posted by DwellingOnMove

Thank you Nassau for mentioning him. :-)

no problem.

i always like how there is so much written about virgo making up his mind whether you are the one for him.

i say we virgos know when we meet you if you are the one for us, it's whether or not we are truly the one for you that we are trying to work out