VIrgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio Venus

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LeGendary ViRGo
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Posted by london_libra
Tell me about someone with these placements.

This guy very casually mentioned going out with me on facebook and i said ok, when and he has since said nothing. What's going on?




online dating is no good i dont even have a facebook account because i believe in making real human connections getting noe a person in detail.

and did u ever make the person in person lmao.

all the online stuff is bullshit anybody can say anything on those site unless you know the person.
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Ah, okay. I wasn't being clear.

Yes, I met the guy months ago and we've spent lots of time together in a social context. We've always flirted a bit but nothing more then he just mentioned on my facebook that i should go out with him. I said ok. And now he's said nothing. It's only been 2 days so maybe I'm being impatient but I was wondering. He's quite shy, not generally very forward.
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Ok it's driving me mad!! Just how slow do these guys operate?! It's been 4 days and he's still said nothing. I'm going mad waiting! Would I be jumping the gun to conclude that he's "just not that into me"? I don't mind the hard truth so be as brutal as you like. I'm just sick of waiting. It's like you either like me or you don't. Don't just say nothing! That gets us nowhere.

Arrrrgh!
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Posted by london_libra
Ok it's driving me mad!! Just how slow do these guys operate?! It's been 4 days and he's still said nothing. I'm going mad waiting! Would I be jumping the gun to conclude that he's "just not that into me"? I don't mind the hard truth so be as brutal as you like. I'm just sick of waiting. It's like you either like me or you don't. Don't just say nothing! That gets us nowhere.

Arrrrgh!



Patience is essential with a Virgo.
It can take up to 2-3 months before I admit anything.
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Posted by london_libra
so my patience has finally paid off! he messaged me back saying he's been really ill and that's why he's not got back to me. he also apologised for taking so long to respond (which i appreciate) and said he'd get back to me when he was feeling better.
this all good?



That does sound good! According to what I have learned about Virgos and my new experiences with the Virgo I am seeing it it a good sign because when they contact you it does usually mean they want to see you. I have had to develop patience in dealing with this Virgo so be prepared. The first month there was lots of communication and such then it sort of dropped off and there have been a few times that I thought he wasn't into me anymore b/c of generic and short responses or a lag in communication at all and then he will just pop in again asking if I would like to spend time with him. I have also had to initiate some of our get togethers as well and he has been very receptive to that so keep that in mind as you go forth if you go forth in a relationship with him. Good luck and definitely keep us posted because I am still in learning stage myself and Virgos really know how to get a woman hooked...lol.
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Hi.. Any updates on this?? Im working with the same combo.. This guy was in love with me(I was sure of it) .. Was about to cry when I was leaving for vacations and when I came back.. He acted a little less crazy and slowly forgot about me.. Then just kept me in contact.. I got so annoyed I told him I was about to get married to another guy.. And he was ok with it.. He wished me luck and told me more about its a very important decision. Were not talking much after that. Did i mention I work with him.. So we just official talk when necessary. Im missing him a lot..

Any suggestions? Btw.. Hes a mars in virgo and venus in scorpio.. and mercury in libra.
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Hi shaymaci. Can you help me navigate what the hell is going on with me.. Do you people fall in love and then just forget about it? His best friend is now trying to flirt with me.. Wth.. He told me some time before that he was great feiends with this guy.. And as soon as this friend of his started talking to me and flirting with double meaning twisted talk.. The virgo guys said he isnt a very close friend of his.. Just a great office colleague.

He still cares for me but just doesn't talk so often. What does he want?

Its soo cruel to first grow love into someones heart and then acting soo cold.