Virgo sun vs. Virgo Venus

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Posted by ShadowAbsorber
yeah first hand experience my mom has venus in virgo and she's so critical of little practical things, which i appreciate as a taurus.. but there's absolutely no romance or sentimentality to her. it's like 100% clinical. she gets soooo uncomfortable when things are unorganized or dirty. Again, this puts me at ease but you can't reassure her or be soft and affectionate with her - she only responds sweetly to helpful, tangible/practical actions. Anything touchy feely will make her anxious & awkward
i saw that Alyssa Sharpe is both venus and mars in virgo. so it's doubly so!!

she's very Lucky to have that taurus moon, which helped alot in getting her cancer moon husband. lol

(since taurus and cancer are two peas in a pod) 😛



really? anything softy and touchy feely will make her feel awkward— weird. Alyssa Sharpe said her Scorpio hubby has Scorpio venus. I wonder what his mars is.
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I have venus in virgo and I do experience its debilitation moreso in my friendships than in relationships. Venus is the amount of pleasure you allot yourself and I notice myself always denying myself pleasure or fun. I have moon in pisces and lots of 8th house planets so merging with another person is not difficult and I love affection, though I can definitely be critical and expect a lot from a partner because I give a lot. I think having the moon in pisces amps up the subservience and the need to serve the partner a ton, which can involve me putting myself last.
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As a Virgo sun, I try to make everything efficient. I like running errands, getting the daily work done, and checking the details. I like things to run smoothly and efficiently. I can get nervous or shy when people around me are acting spontaneously or show emotion because honestly I don't know what to do. I don't know how to respond to it and if I have feelings I want to show, I just don't because it would make me feel uncomfortable being so exposed like that. That is how I express ME.

I knew a Virgo Venus once and he liked stability. He likes being asked details about him, I guess because he felt like that was flirtin . He hated running errands but a part of him I could tell would rather do that than anything. He liked helpful people, he liked people who were organized and practical. Once i asked him if he could add up all my checks while I sign the back of all of them and he jumped right on that nervously saying "Oh. Yeah!" Then he recounted again to double check. He had a good eye for fashion. Once we went to a shoe store and I tried on nude flats. He told me they didn't look good on me because it didn't match my skin. He went to a gym a city away because their facility had more work out material. He didn't like the gyms near by because they just had treadmills or was too ghetto in his opinion. So he was really picky! And when I asked him why he went so far away he responded as if I was sweet talking him. lol.
He would ask me indirectly (Scorpio moon) to help him with an assignment and to work out together. It would have been a daily thing.
His sense of humor is really depricating. He would make fun of himself. He would be like "I'm too ugly to be a stripper" and because he was skinny he would say "I'm a boy not a man!" in a jokingly nervous way.
He would say he needed to eat healthier and cut out the fats in his diet.
When we talked about sex he laughed in a nervous blushy way like he wanted to avoid it.
One of his ideas of sex was that it would make him dirty and sticky so he would have to take a shower afterwards.
He tried flirting with me once by clarifying my ethnicity while we were talking about traveling.
He liked to help by mentioning jobs that were hiring and giving his review of the places he's been to and helping me think outside the box. He liked giving suggestions and advice.
And I noticed he wore almost the same thing everyday. It wasn't flashy or anything, just a jacket/shirt, jeans, shoes.
Once he was wanting a kiss but instead of asking directly or going near the subject he awkwardly kept on talking about some tangent subject while trying to get me close to him.
It took him 7 months to give me a somewhat emotional romantic hug. That time he was closer to me, hugged me tighter, and laid his head down slightly on mine.
He was nervous about asking me out.

So Virgo sun wants to make things perfect, organized and efficient so it's perfect. Virgo Venus like treating people that way because it is their idea o
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im a virgo venus and I'm definitely not typically virgo analytical about most things but when it comes to love/beauty I'm 100% a virgo.. clothes much be in color order and i go crazy if i dont look "perfect" when I'm out... but also i have a list of things guys must meet, a mental check list, or i get annoyed by the smallest things and will get turned off easily.. but I'm also a cancer sun and have a leo moon so I'm devoted as it comes once i fall for someone. i read once that the virgo venus takes the role as the loyal assistant/nurse, always there by your side to serve your every need, which sadly is me haha. I'm also not very affectionate all the time or flirty, the way to get me to like you is through mental connection.
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I have a Venus in Virgo. I do have the self-doubt at times, but I don’t seek validation to the way he described. I hardly wear makeup and would never get plastic surgery because of my self-doubt and I can be very nitpicky about myself too. No way in hell would I prostitute myself either.
Interesting how he gave examples of what career fields Venus in Virgo may have and that there are different planets ruling in the same sign. Truth about the practicality. Although, I want the love, if I didn’t I would be married by now.
I don’t know about the cheating, but I for sure give people the benefit of the doubt. Over analyzing for sure lol. The Sharpe lady was on point for me in a lot of ways.
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Virgo Sun on a night stroll would give his jacket to some ratchet.

Virgo Venus would take ratchet home and marry him/her.

Also, Virgo Venus are WAY more critical and selective. Yet they also make more bad choices in life from what I noticed.
I think its that they can STICK with even bad choices.

They are supposed to be very constant lovers faithful etc. Every placement is what someone makes of it. They can harness the positive or the negative etc.
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I know, I was in the mood to diss some inferior Virgo placements.

That Venus when it's stable it's really good.

*looks at her venus and weeps*
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Having Venus in Virgo or any planet in fall doesn't necessarily mean that someone is doomed to fail in the life themes of that planet. With Venus, what it really comes down to is that Virgo's nature does not embody the venusian spirit of the planet the way neighboring Libra does.

As for differences between Virgo Sun and Venus, a Virgo Sun may have Venus in any one of five signs that fall in line with Virgo giving them significantly varied dispositions in relationships. Whereas a Venus in Virgo person may not necessarily be a Virgo but will still maintain Virgo traits in their relationships.
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oh this topic is hopping. lol

Posted by TMV
Having Venus in Virgo or any planet in fall doesn't necessarily mean that someone is doomed to fail in the life themes of that planet. With Venus, what it really comes down to is that Virgo's nature does not embody the venusian spirit of the planet the way neighboring Libra does.

As for differences between Virgo Sun and Venus, a Virgo Sun may have Venus in any one of five signs that fall in line with Virgo giving them significantly varied dispositions in relationships. ,Whereas a Venus in Virgo person may not necessarily be a Virgo but will still maintain Virgo traits in their relationships.
so it sounds like once they STEP INTO a relationship, personal that is, they become virgo!!!

and that's not really a great place for venus (generally speaking) but they will automatically be virgo, and exhibit even negative traits.

for example, a Scorpio sun, who has virgo venus. His ego is Scorpio, and he goes about things with his sun and mars., communicates with his mercury, and loves with his venus and moon.

hm this site doesn't discuss much on virgo venus with Scorpio suns and other suns. lol virgo venus is not very popular.

it seems to come down like this,

"I'm a Scorpio" says the man, and the women who are into astrology SIGH and go, "EEEEE i read about you all, soooo magnetic and hot!!!"

then other women have dreamy eyes looking up at the Scorpio sun male, and ask, "what's your venus??"

"virgo"

The women look at eachother and go, "oh."

-_-

"I'll just be, going now...."

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I used to date this Leo Sun/Aries Moon guy.. he's shallow, very unintellectual, straight to the point, impulsive, a bit rude.. basically everything I didn't want in a man, but we were attracted to each other like magnets. Turns out, he has Virgo Venus, which is really interesting to me.

I read somewhere that Virgo in Venus makes you a servant, you work so hard at pleasing others and try to find your own self value in relationships with other people, and this guy has literally slept with HUNDREDS of girls and yet he is so damn insecure about himself. While we dated, he would constantly worry as soon as I talked to another guy. He'd assume I was sleeping with them. If I hadn't made my bed, he assumed someone else had been there. He doubted his skill as a lover all the time and felt he couldn't satisfy me, and he would say things like "you think I'm ugly, you think I'm bad in bed".

And this was us having a CASUAL relationship :S