Virgo woman broke up with me. How do I win her back?

So my virgo girlfriend broke up with me recently. I'm a scorpio btw I'm trying to win her back but she says no second chances. Then if I ask her on a date in hopes to rekindle the relationship and take it slow, her reply would be let's see. Sometimes her actions towards me sends me mixed signals like she will still allow me to hug her from behind and let me kiss her on the cheek. Is there hope for this? I really want her in my life and I really loved her for everything she was. It was partially my fault for not investing enough time in her but I'm trying to make up for that. She doesn't reject my advances like when I buy her breakfast but she acts jealous when I spend too much time talking to some other girl when it was about work. How to view everything?..

why'd she break up with you?

Virgos like attention, especially from people they love. If you made her feel jealous or unwanted then you werent giving her what she needs. They need a lot of reassurance cause they're kinda insecure deep down. In order to be with one happily you have to be loyal, affectionate and reassure her you're into her frequently.

One of the reasons She broke up with me because I was constantly on my phone because of work. She said I got tired of waiting for you to change that habit. I had just left the job just to try to assure her that I was trying to rid of my bad habits but it was too late. I tried my best not to make her jealous but my work just had a lot of females and I always had to interact with them to build people culture. I always reassured that I only loved her. I always tried to set aside 2 days out of the week for the both of us and when I had a vacation, I tried to spend the whole week with her all the time.

I've been trying to prove to her that now my time is for her and that I can give her what she wanted all this time and I asked her if we can start slow again. When I ask her for a date, her reply would be let's see but the texting would be super short.

My advice is to give her space. For some time, and explain your situation to her when she is totally calm. She loves you but jealousy came in between. That means she really likes you. Dont worry just explain the situation. There are times when virgo doesnt gets attention and they become impatient. It happens with me and my scorpio too. But his words always melts my heart.

And taurus told right. You have to be loyal and affectionate to us. Give her attention and affection. It will definitely melt her heart.

Tell her to get over it. Beyonce took JayZ back for harsher offenses.

Take her literally. She wanna break up? So break up. Stop doing boyfriend things.

Virgos don’t like to give second chances BUT there are some exceptions.

Give her space. She is thinking. I think she will come around. You are making effort into changing and she will take notice of your effort. Hang in there.

Posted by kirintrinity

One of the reasons She broke up with me because I was constantly on my phone because of work. She said I got tired of waiting for you to change that habit. I had just left the job just to try to assure her that I was trying to rid of my bad habits but it was too late. I tried my best not to make her jealous but my work just had a lot of females and I always had to interact with them to build people culture. I always reassured that I only loved her. I always tried to set aside 2 days out of the week for the both of us and when I had a vacation, I tried to spend the whole week with her all the time.

this is my exact problem with the Scorpio too

he's always on his 2 phones 😢

She's seeing if you actually have changed your ways or if it's all an act just to get her back. Have you made definite plans for a date or is it all talk? If not...do it already! We don't like fluff ...we like action especially if we are contemplating a second chance.

Also she needs to grow up and realize jobs are important and to get over her ego! Don't ever quit a decent job because someone is complaining about your work ethic...yeah life is not all about work and you have to balance things out as well...but it can't be all about her either.

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She's seeing if you actually have changed your ways or if it's all an act just to get her back. Have you made definite plans for a date or is it all talk? If not...do it already! We don't like fluff ...we like action especially if we are contemplating a second chance.

Also she needs to grow up and realize jobs are important and to get over her ego! Don't ever quit a decent job because someone is complaining about your work ethic...yeah life is not all about work and you have to balance things out as well...but it can't be all about her either.

I get the not fluffing. But I'm really trying my best to not be over bearing. From time to time I just ask her how she's doing. Sometimes I get a answer, sometimes I don't. I guess the best way to do things is to keep trying and put actions in place and convince her like that even if it takes a while?

Just a quick edit:

She's said to give her time and space and doesn't know if she will give me a second chance.

Posted by kirintrinity

Just a quick edit:

She's said to give her time and space and doesn't know if she will give me a second chance.

Dude stop being the obsessive scorpio and get over her. Virgos are typically smart so just respect her wishes for space. You are in a good position to get her back if you actually listen to her unlike you did when u 2 were an item.

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Posted by tauruss77

Virgos like attention, especially from people they love. If you made her feel jealous or unwanted then you werent giving her what she needs. They need a lot of reassurance cause they're kinda insecure deep down. In order to be with one happily you have to be loyal, affectionate and reassure her you're into her frequently.

I wish I would’ve known this before I blew it with mine. Once they leave it’s usually for good, they don’t believe in second chances, even if they still love you they won’t take you back out of stubbornness 😢.

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Not 💯 true...I've taken people back ... probably shouldn't have but I've done it on more than one occasion. There's two people I'd take back right now if I could lol. But once Im done tho...I'm done, you don't exist anymore.

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It’s nothing important. just me being in my feels thinking about the virgal that got away 🤧.