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Virgo Women vs Capricorn Women (re: men)
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So, even with your real life friends ... you judge them, then tell them what to do with their own lives, according to YOUR standards ??
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What a waste of oxygen
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What a waste of oxygen
Me and Leo girl were quiet--we had our opinions, but we just watched the battle ensue and kept our mouths shut. I did ask her later, and she said she had a lot of Caps in her family (both male and female) and they always sought out the most destitute partners with nothing more to offer than headaches, were always involved in domestic disputes that sometimes warranted the cops, and she doubted either the males or females ever had a serious healthy relationship. She only has 1 Virgo in her immediate family, an aunt, and she says her aunt has been single for as long as she can remember, but seems happy and successful (I told her not to believe she's happy being alone, as we do get lonely, and she probably just doesn't want to end up devoting her life to someone who will not appreciate it--it's a SERIOUS fear for Virgo women...leads most of us to be spinsters the rest of our lives).
But I did agree with the Virgo women (I didn't voice it). I love my Cappy sisters...but I don't think I know one who chooses guys who are doing something for themselves. It's not about being rich, screw that, it's about at least having ambition and a job, lol.
So, I stayed out of it...but I did agree...
But I did agree with the Virgo women (I didn't voice it). I love my Cappy sisters...but I don't think I know one who chooses guys who are doing something for themselves. It's not about being rich, screw that, it's about at least having ambition and a job, lol.
So, I stayed out of it...but I did agree...
Lmfao, what a long ass phone call that was--I almost forgot I had that 2nd part sitting on the screen until I moved the mouse again. But yeah--in short, I'm glad I stayed out of it, as both parties are kind of upset with each other now (meh, I say you never really know what's going on with someone based on just their side--the 2 Cappys seem to like being the breadwinners, the Virgo women not so much, so of course they're not going to see things the same.)
I've always thought Virgo women and Cap women were so very similar--I've always gotten along with Caps so well (moreso the women) but I can't help notice the boyfriend-on-the-couch syndrome, even within my own family...
I've always thought Virgo women and Cap women were so very similar--I've always gotten along with Caps so well (moreso the women) but I can't help notice the boyfriend-on-the-couch syndrome, even within my own family...
So, because you agree that another person should hold themselves accountible to the Virgo way .. you remained quite and let these people fight .... rather than step in and find a peaceful solution?
I take it that this thread is supposed to be about who is right about how to behave in a relationship .... Virgo vs Capricorn ... and this thread coming from a member of a sign who cries the most about it not being fair to generalize.
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I will take the high road and leave this thread .... it's only intent is for you to gain support in your feelings of superiority ... yet again.
I take it that this thread is supposed to be about who is right about how to behave in a relationship .... Virgo vs Capricorn ... and this thread coming from a member of a sign who cries the most about it not being fair to generalize.
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I will take the high road and leave this thread .... it's only intent is for you to gain support in your feelings of superiority ... yet again.
So, anyways, I'm interested in hearing the Cap side of this. The Virgo friend that is single/dating here and there tried to act like she was happier that way (than to be in a steady relationship) but I've called her on that bull a billion times, LOL. She's just scared, same as me, of being in a relationship of no positive return. The happily married Virgo I felt had more of a reason to speak up than the single one--she's made something work, and her and her husband (a Taurus) really do seem happy together (and their kids are so damn well-behaved!!! Jesus, I forgot what well-behaved kids were like, lmfao)
This is the complete opposite of what I've come to know. I have a Virgo sister and her child's father basically does nothing. My mother is frustrated with her because my sister will try to "get over" on my mother and won't ask her current boyfriend or child's father for a dime. Actually, I know about four Virgos and NONE of their boyfriends are worth a $ % #@.
I do know of a Cappy who works while her boyfriend stays home with their daughter. Other than her, I know of no other Cappy women in that situation. I mean, one minute we are gold-diggers, then the next we date couch potatoes. Really, which one is it?
I do agree that Cappy women are unlucky in love, but be careful in taking in what they tell you. Sometimes a Cappy can have a man that will give her the world, and she will still find fault in him. This really just sounds like typical Cap relationship complaints, as we are hardly ever satisfied.
Also, I've come to notice that maybe there is a little dislike or tension in Virgos when it comes to Capricorn women. It's like a love-hate relationship and Virgos tend to have their suspicions about Cappys.
I do know of a Cappy who works while her boyfriend stays home with their daughter. Other than her, I know of no other Cappy women in that situation. I mean, one minute we are gold-diggers, then the next we date couch potatoes. Really, which one is it?
I do agree that Cappy women are unlucky in love, but be careful in taking in what they tell you. Sometimes a Cappy can have a man that will give her the world, and she will still find fault in him. This really just sounds like typical Cap relationship complaints, as we are hardly ever satisfied.
Also, I've come to notice that maybe there is a little dislike or tension in Virgos when it comes to Capricorn women. It's like a love-hate relationship and Virgos tend to have their suspicions about Cappys.
LoveBucket, I've heard that too 😢 (about the unlucky in love for Caps). But not just for the women--for the men as well. I think (with the Cap males I knew) it was worse with them, because when they were in love, they were determined to stay no matter what--one Cap guy found used condoms in his bed after coming home from work, confronted the wife about it, and she neither confirmed nor denied, but he said she just folded her arms and sat there with a smirk. I asked him what he did, and he said he told her how much it hurt him, said he'd give her one more chance, and went through the same game for years with her. I couldn't believe it--he seemed so together with his life when I met him, I would never guess he had just come out of a situation like that (and SHE left HIM for the same guy she was cheating with...who turned out to be a freakin' millionaire...oy...) He went straight back into a new relationship with about the same undertones. It was so hard to talk to him about it--he's a grown man, he knows what he's doing...
I think the ONLY thing holding a Virgo woman back from being in this same situation is fear--I said it in other threads before, we'd rather never to have loved than to have loved and lost. We either miss out on great opportunities with this mindset, or avoid really bad situations. It's messed up!
I think the ONLY thing holding a Virgo woman back from being in this same situation is fear--I said it in other threads before, we'd rather never to have loved than to have loved and lost. We either miss out on great opportunities with this mindset, or avoid really bad situations. It's messed up!
Posted by lnana04
This is the complete opposite of what I've come to know. I have a Virgo sister and her child's father basically does nothing. My mother is frustrated with her because my sister will try to "get over" on my mother and won't ask her current boyfriend or child's father for a dime. Actually, I know about four Virgos and NONE of their boyfriends are worth a $ % #@.
I do know of a Cappy who works while her boyfriend stays home with their daughter. Other than her, I know of no other Cappy women in that situation. I mean, one minute we are gold-diggers, then the next we date couch potatoes. Really, which one is it?
I do agree that Cappy women are unlucky in love, but be careful in taking in what they tell you. Sometimes a Cappy can have a man that will give her the world, and she will still find fault in him. This really just sounds like typical Cap relationship complaints, as we are hardly ever satisfied.
Also, I've come to notice that maybe there is a little dislike or tension in Virgos when it comes to Capricorn women. It's like a love-hate relationship and Virgos tend to have their suspicions about Cappys.
Damn at the Virgo's you know succumbing to this. Wow. I can't imagine it--I can't have brought myself this far in life to end up as some man's sugarmama...I just can't...
I have never heard of Caps being gold-diggers--quite the opposite. It's always been others getting over on Caps from what I've seen.
Hmmm...yeah, I see what you're saying about only getting one side of the story...I think that's why I take to Caps so well, because they can be just as overlycritical, LOL
Posted by CLCNY30
LoveBucket, I've heard that too 😢 (about the unlucky in love for Caps). But not just for the women--for the men as well. I think (with the Cap males I knew) it was worse with them, because when they were in love, they were determined to stay no matter what--one Cap guy found used condoms in his bed after coming home from work, confronted the wife about it, and she neither confirmed nor denied, but he said she just folded her arms and sat there with a smirk. I asked him what he did, and he said he told her how much it hurt him, said he'd give her one more chance, and went through the same game for years with her. I couldn't believe it--he seemed so together with his life when I met him, I would never guess he had just come out of a situation like that (and SHE left HIM for the same guy she was cheating with...who turned out to be a freakin' millionaire...oy...) He went straight back into a new relationship with about the same undertones. It was so hard to talk to him about it--he's a grown man, he knows what he's doing...
I think the ONLY thing holding a Virgo woman back from being in this same situation is fear--I said it in other threads before, we'd rather never to have loved than to have loved and lost. We either miss out on great opportunities with this mindset, or avoid really bad situations. It's messed up!
He stayed with his wife because he is loyal. Another thing, either a Cap male is a serial cheater, or he is the guy you are describing. Usually, the Cap male is cheating from what I've noticed, but in either scenario they rarely file for divorce. It's unhappiness in both cases, so again, it's the never-satisfied Cap.
What I've come to realize is that many people turn a blind eye to, ignore, or cover up the sour parts of their relationships. I look side-ways at anyone that wants to pretend, even for a second, that their situations are mostly smooth-sailing. If it's like that, either it took time to get there, or the storm is brewing ahead. Nothing in this life comes easy. Caps can be a lot more honest and candid about their relationships "sometimes" but it's not the best idea to try to judge them or their situation based on their honesty, unless its abuse involved..
btw, I meant to just say "they are unhappy in both cases" and "are smooth sailing"
pfft! Whether or not you're lucky in love or alone has nothing to do with your sign. This generalization has gotta stop. I don't understand how you can believe just cuz you are cap,you are unlucky in love. I know of a 60 year old cap woman who is still with her husband and they're happy together. I dated this virgo who turned out to be in a bad space,therefore i couldn't be with him. I did something about it. My sister is dating this guy for four years now,and theyr truly happy. They argue,but theyr happy. My bestfriend,a virgo,dated ths gy for 2 years who treated her like trash. She is slowly picking up the pieces. I knw of a cap divorced woman who is madly inlove wth her bf,and they work at it all the time. Your sign has nothing to do with it. Your willingness to work at ur relationship,to persevere and stick around when the going gets tough determines the outcome. The power of thought is immense.what u believe and think abt,will happen to u. The universe gives bck what u give to it. All these people,virgo or cap,have the potential to make it wrk. Ur sign determines nothing. Its what u believe and expect that is transferred bck to u. U as an individual.
Posted by leilaxxlovez
pfft! Whether or not you're lucky in love or alone has nothing to do with your sign. This generalization has gotta stop. I don't understand how you can believe just cuz you are cap,you are unlucky in love. I know of a 60 year old cap woman who is still with her husband and they're happy together. I dated this virgo who turned out to be in a bad space,therefore i couldn't be with him. I did something about it. My sister is dating this guy for four years now,and theyr truly happy. They argue,but theyr happy. My bestfriend,a virgo,dated ths gy for 2 years who treated her like trash. She is slowly picking up the pieces. I knw of a cap divorced woman who is madly inlove wth her bf,and they work at it all the time. Your sign has nothing to do with it. Your willingness to work at ur relationship,to persevere and stick around when the going gets tough determines the outcome. The power of thought is immense.what u believe and think abt,will happen to u. The universe gives bck what u give to it. All these people,virgo or cap,have the potential to make it wrk. Ur sign determines nothing. Its what u believe and expect that is transferred bck to u. U as an individual.
Aww, I agree!
hahha..i bet the leo was having a ball...never had girlfriends that were into astrology, i just get embarassed even mentioning it. Ya'll both want the same thing and you guys are both are motivated by fear, the idea of 'losing control'. I'm SURE that the capricorn women friends you have date men like that, so that they'd be 'easier to control'..bickering to them about thier men is just like bickering about their children..going after what's 'familiar'.
I dont know much of virgo women, but i'm sure you guys both share alot of the same aspects..you both don't feel good in a relationship if you don't have someone to 'take care of.'. You guys both have fears of 'opening up.' and ya'll both really judgemental..i'm sure virgo vs. capricorn was like looking a reflection of yourselves and not liking what ya'll was seeing.
I dont know much of virgo women, but i'm sure you guys both share alot of the same aspects..you both don't feel good in a relationship if you don't have someone to 'take care of.'. You guys both have fears of 'opening up.' and ya'll both really judgemental..i'm sure virgo vs. capricorn was like looking a reflection of yourselves and not liking what ya'll was seeing.
LOL! You already know, Beautiful--she sat there chomping on fries with this excited twinkle in her eyes, LOL!!! When I spoke to her later, she was like, "no way was I getting involved in that--when you guys get started on your little explanations and preaching, I just wish I could go back in time and just not say anything in the first place, LOL!"
We sure are motivated by fear--I will agree with that 100% . Guilty pleasure of mine (and I keep saying I need to stop) is to wait until the last minute to do projects, or study. I feel like that fast beating heart/must not sleep/must finish TONIGHT feeling is such a high...it's bad, I know...it's a VERY easy way to stress yourself out unecessarily.
"I'm SURE that the capricorn women friends you have date men like that, so that they'd be 'easier to control'"
I came in here to say just that--one, JUST ONE, admitted it to me years ago...that she likes the idea of her man not working, so that he can be available to take care of the kids (who are in school, but she'd still like him on call if they get sick, etc.)...and she also likes the idea of him asking her for money. She totally denied saying that later, LOL, but I saw the look in her eyes. She meant it 😛
We DO share a lot of the same qualities--and that's why I always take to Caps, in general.
Leila--being that this is an astrology forum, there will always be questionable stereotypes that come up about signs here. When people say Virgos are neatfreaks who have clinically spotless environments, I chuckle to myself because I know that doesn't describe me. Even though when people toss this stereotype around, they're doing it with disdain, I don't get upset about it, as I already know that not every Virgo is the same--nor is every Cap, Aqua, Gem, etc.
The reason I created the thread was to hear the Cap side of it (I find asking Caps questions, face-to-face, brings out their cat-got-my-tongue syndrome, lol--whereas, they seem a lot more open on this site, and eager to talk and tell us more about themselves). I can't surely know every Cap, and can't base every Virgo on myself and the ones that I know. I did, however, see a pattern in the Virgs/Caps I knew, and wanted to hear otherwise from others--and I got what I was searching for (thanks, for answering, everyone).
We sure are motivated by fear--I will agree with that 100% . Guilty pleasure of mine (and I keep saying I need to stop) is to wait until the last minute to do projects, or study. I feel like that fast beating heart/must not sleep/must finish TONIGHT feeling is such a high...it's bad, I know...it's a VERY easy way to stress yourself out unecessarily.
"I'm SURE that the capricorn women friends you have date men like that, so that they'd be 'easier to control'"
I came in here to say just that--one, JUST ONE, admitted it to me years ago...that she likes the idea of her man not working, so that he can be available to take care of the kids (who are in school, but she'd still like him on call if they get sick, etc.)...and she also likes the idea of him asking her for money. She totally denied saying that later, LOL, but I saw the look in her eyes. She meant it 😛
We DO share a lot of the same qualities--and that's why I always take to Caps, in general.
Leila--being that this is an astrology forum, there will always be questionable stereotypes that come up about signs here. When people say Virgos are neatfreaks who have clinically spotless environments, I chuckle to myself because I know that doesn't describe me. Even though when people toss this stereotype around, they're doing it with disdain, I don't get upset about it, as I already know that not every Virgo is the same--nor is every Cap, Aqua, Gem, etc.
The reason I created the thread was to hear the Cap side of it (I find asking Caps questions, face-to-face, brings out their cat-got-my-tongue syndrome, lol--whereas, they seem a lot more open on this site, and eager to talk and tell us more about themselves). I can't surely know every Cap, and can't base every Virgo on myself and the ones that I know. I did, however, see a pattern in the Virgs/Caps I knew, and wanted to hear otherwise from others--and I got what I was searching for (thanks, for answering, everyone).
Posted by Strider
I am a Leo and i can't understand why any man would "mooch" off a woman and be lazy . The thought of me being "dead weight" on a hardworking woman's shoulders would make me want to vomit or jump off a bridge or something . Maybe i am old-fashioned or maybe i am just have "male ego" but seriously it's just disgusting to me on several levels .
I think so many factors/reasons could contribute to this--enrivonment they were raised in, hell maybe even genetics (Nature/Nurture). A lot of friends I know who aren't in any type of rush to have kids, or just straight plain don't want any, were put in charge of loads of siblings at a very young age. They feel they lived life backwards, in terms of being a parent, so to speak, so long ago, that they now want to enjoy that freedom they should have been able to as a kid. Understandable.
As far as men who mooch, everyone will see it diff. I know guys who think that's the ultimate fantasy, while some guys have traditional mindsets--the man works/is breadwinner/etc. Some guys want the wife at home (barefoot/preggers) while he works, and some want a spouse who will work just as hard as them.
Any men I know who've been classified as a mooch either worked uberhard for several years, and felt they got nowhere, so why not just ride on someone else's coattails, were injured and let themselves just fall into someone else's care a little TOO hard, or were babied growing up so the concept of hard work goes right over their heads.
Just so many factors and reasons that could cause that mooching mindset...
Posted by Strider
I am a Leo and i can't understand why any man would "mooch" off a woman and be lazy . The thought of me being "dead weight" on a hardworking woman's shoulders would make me want to vomit or jump off a bridge or something . Maybe i am old-fashioned or maybe i am just have "male ego" but seriously it's just disgusting to me on several levels .
See--this is another case of "not every person of a sign will fall into a stereotype of said sign", because I'm trying to find out more about Leo males, and people are spitting the word "lazy" out there. I do not know many Leo men. The few I know are quite ambitious, but do tend to get complacent at certain levels in their lives, so much so that I guess it could be misconstrued as "lazy" to some. My boss just called the Leo guy in back lazy, and while I know I've seen him hard at work MANY times, I had to admit that he sat around a lot waiting for work to be given to him, rather than taking it upon himself to do things he knows needs to be done. But I have a ridiculously small group of Leo men to really observe, so I can't even go there, and won't. I love your mindset though--I love hearing people of certain signs saying they're nothing like the negative stereotypes associated with their sign. It's great.
Posted by YossarianPosted by Strider
I am a Leo and i can't understand why any man would "mooch" off a woman and be lazy . The thought of me being "dead weight" on a hardworking woman's shoulders would make me want to vomit or jump off a bridge or something . Maybe i am old-fashioned or maybe i am just have "male ego" but seriously it's just disgusting to me on several levels .
No, it's called good old fashioned self respect. Men pull their own weight. I am not going to go all religious on you because, I am just an old pirate myself, but it is worth noting that even the bible says "if a man does not work, than neither shall he eat".click to expand
I have so much respect for you, Yossarian. I'm glad you're posting regularly again 🙂 I feel I have much to learn about Virgo males from you, as you seem incredidbly down-to-earth, and humble (I'm not used to those qualities in the Virgo men I've had in my life).
And I feel women need to pull their own weight as well. Me, be a housewife— I just can't. Oh, don't get me wrong--MUCH respect to those women staying at home raising the kids, and taking care of the household, but I'd lose my mind. I need to be out there, with my own job, contributing to my home's income. Once again, this is where Virgo fear comes in--I don't ever want to be out on the streets with not a penny to my name. I always want to be able to take care of myself, no matter how rich/dependable my husband could be. It's just too easy to find yourself penniless and alone.
why are we assuming that a man who stays at ho,e with the children a mooch? Do you have any how hard it is to take care of a household and raise children— ESPECIALLY if its a role you've never done before—
Stop being so damn judgemental...what you guys are BOTH lacking is empathy, big time. Ya'll are earth signs so you guys suck at it..another thing you guys need to work on.
Stop being so damn judgemental...what you guys are BOTH lacking is empathy, big time. Ya'll are earth signs so you guys suck at it..another thing you guys need to work on.
Posted by StriderPosted by TheBeautifulStruggle
why are we assuming that a man who stays at ho,e with the children a mooch? Do you have any how hard it is to take care of a household and raise children— ESPECIALLY if its a role you've never done before—
Stop being so damn judgemental...what you guys are BOTH lacking is empathy, big time. Ya'll are earth signs so you guys suck at it..another thing you guys need to work on.
This is not what i meant by "lazy" . I have all the respect for guys who are willing to shoulder family burdens . Please don't take me wrong ! When i read the original post about the cap women saying their bf was "lazy" i was assuming that they were sitting on their asses eating mac and cheese and playing "sport games " while their women were bringing the dough etc .click to expand
Yes, Beautiful--when I said "lazy", I meant that these guys were not taking care of any responsibilities at home (there are no kids to take care of, no housework is going on, place is falling apart while he watches television and plays video games all day long)
Posted by Strider
I think people fail to grasp that sun signs are only small portion of your personality . I am not blaming anyone here as i myself have to control my bias and assumptions about people quite often . A Leo with mars in cancer or moon in cancer (high probability since they are neighbouring signs)will be a lot less driven or ambitious in a "career" sense than say a Leo with Virgo moon or Capricorn moon etc . Although i think even that is a "generization" because cancers are probably not that lazy etc . You just can't label people into boxes . I know our minds like being in "control" and want to generally "categorize " everything into their neat little places but we gotta try to ignore this tendency .
I understand what you mean. The Leo my boss speaks of has an Aqurian moon, so that may be why he seems a lot quieter about things, but I still don't feel the word "lazy" is fair in his case, as "lazy" to me means that even when given a task, you won't do it. But I do realize the same word can mean "not taking on tasks without having to be told"...
I viewed your mindset as "traditionalist", Strider. I understood.
Posted by CLCNY30
Even though when people toss this stereotype around, they're doing it with disdain, I don't get upset about it, as I already know that not every Virgo ....
You've already proven through your posting history here that that's a load of crap .. and can easily explode if the mood is right.
Posted by CLCNY30
The reason I created the thread was to hear the Cap side of it ...
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Yet, asked it over here where the Virgos are, and you are then sure to get the Virgo side of it. If that were the truth, instead of the obvious lie .. you would have posted it on the Capricorn board.
Posted by Yossarian
Wow, my last post, FAIL. Anyway yeah I thought this thread was about deadbeats not a couple who for financial reasons (or other) decided that this was the best set up.
No--in this case they come off as deadbeats.
Staying at home to take care of the kids =/= mooch at all to me.
Staying home to play PS3 and smoke weed when you're perfectly able to work, while the SO goes off to bring money home for you to buy MORE weed = mooch to me, LOL
Ah, okay, lol
That's great that you clarified because lord knows that one subject of a convo was getting rolled into another subject as if they were interchangeable..and that was what I was trying to touch on, they aren't...also some 'breadwinners' don't understand how hard one's mother had to work to give them the life style they're accustomed to, that shit is an art. And it's probably ten times more harder than working any manual/office job. Doing it WELL at least.
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by TheBeautifulStruggle
hahha..i bet the leo was having a ball...
I dont know much of virgo women, but i'm sure you guys both share alot of the same aspects..
The Leo *having a ball over this* is your thoughts, feelings and expressions of the Leo and NOT the thoughts, feelings and expressions of Leo. Leos having a ball at the expense of someone's unluckiness sounds about as ludicrous as that thing someone on p.1. threw out there about "Capricorn women being golddiggers". So, when you make that bet, bid real small because it's a bet you will lose. 🙂
Leos in their fiery nature are compassionate souls with huge hearts who love to help to the point we even impose ourselves on people to help them when our help was not even solicited.
Also, Leo women have very little in common with the Virgo woman; it is the Capricorn woman who we actually have much more in common with — I know this but for some reason, you seem to be clueless to that. To me, Virgo is a mean ass, which is why I feel they are the Alone ones in the Zodiac — who wants to be with and live with a mean ass on a long-term basis. No one, which is why they have no choice but to do fine living alone and by that, I am not saying *alone* as if it's a bad thing, I'm just saying THERE IS A REASON FOR IT and it's not b/c it's the Virgo??s preference. Leo and Capricorn are not mean asses, we are the candy asses. 🙂
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Being that I know the Leo--have known her for a long while, in this case that was a good bet, lol. She's sweet, but she's an imp.
Posted by LoveBucket
Where we differ from the Capricorn woman is in the same way both our men don't want to let us go b/c we ARE good women, if things get ugly and the man is uncooperative in working with us to work on things, as has been said on page 1 of this thread by a Capricorn, the Cap woman will nevertheless stand by her man while, on the other hand, Leo will dismiss hers. This is one of the reason I believe Leo women fall in the ranks of the highest divorce rate — we will love you madly and long-long time (meaning long-term relationship) (read up on the Leo and the Cancer/Leo wife/girlfriend) BUT, we will not take stupid shit where he doesn't want to work on making things right should things at a point *go wrong.*. A Leo wife/woman will let that ass go!!
In that same article where I read the Cap women are the unluckiest, because it was an article talking about the good and the dark of all the signs, what it said about the Capricorn male is between the sheets, he's the secret weapon and, b/c they are low-key with it, it's not splattered all over the zodiac the way it is with Pisces and Scorpio.
I've also heard Leo women are liars and cheaters yet, that never gets my britches in a twist and, that's b/c SOME OF THEM PROBABLY ARE and, if you think I'm going to get on a podium and defend those ones, this is where Leo differ from the other signs — the other signs will defend their whole sign but because Leos know SOME are good and SOME are bad, we will leave the bad b/c they earned that while defending only the good.
Yeah, that last part is a total crock to me--every Leo woman I've known has been loyal, open, and honest. Oh, trust that I know there are MANY exceptions to that rule, but I've never experienced it firsthand with the ones I've encountered. We're talking about the women, here, lol. The men I can't comment on...
Posted by LoveBucketPosted by TheBeautifulStruggle
hahha..i bet the leo was having a ball...
I dont know much of virgo women, but i'm sure you guys both share alot of the same aspects..
The Leo *having a ball over this* is your thoughts, feelings and expressions of the Leo and NOT the thoughts, feelings and expressions of Leo. Leos having a ball at the expense of someone's unluckiness sounds about as ludicrous as that thing someone on p.1. threw out there about "Capricorn women being golddiggers". So, when you make that bet, bid real small because it's a bet you will lose. 🙂
Leos in their fiery nature are compassionate souls with huge hearts who love to help to the point we even impose ourselves on people to help them when our help was not even solicited.
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REally...you gathered an insult..from THAT? Seriously? Please explain the insult.....because I am deeply curious about how that ridiculous mind of yours work.
Where did I suggest that Virgo and leo women are the same? Again, your lack of reading skills is offensive.
WHen I said that the Leo woman was 'having a ball' was to imply that the CONVERSATION was probably entertaining...jesus. Two of the most self righteous people of the zodiac going at it two on two..virgos are smart alecks and most of what capricorns say are poignant and go for the throat. If the person was a saggitarrius or a libra or an aquarius, I would have said the EXACT same thing.
So yah, we both know that this is REALLY trying to find a segue to talk about yourself, even though no one was really talking about you..which would be TYPICAL of YOUR sign.
If you want to state your point that's all peachy, but don't come with your point at the expense of misunderstanding MY statement, cookiemonster. Cuz ain't nobody was talking bout you.
leave it to a Leo, to find a way to post three replies about herself in a thread ABOUT VIrgoan and Capricorn Women where a leo was mentioned IN PASSING.
Lovebucket, you're a piece of work.
Lovebucket, you're a piece of work.
LOL....do you have your filter on? because if you didn't..you would have noticed I literally called you a cookiemonster(as in the monster on sesame street.)....but that is neither here nor there,..if you acknowledge that you were using my post to segue to talk about yourself, than there's no arguement. I apologize for calling you a cookiemonster and I'm sure you're cool peoples, but I still think how you used my post was kind of messed up, though..
I never said that Leo women took joy in other women's misery whether it was capricorns,virgoes or otherwise. I was not comparing leos to virgos, I was comparing capricorns and virgos. If you want to make a thread about leo's just post it up..I'll be happy to express my opinion on leos so you can invalidate it and come on with an authority since that's obviously a subject you know, but even then, it ain't really something i'd do to you.
Anyway, what Mercury are YOU? Girl you make ME and krys look concise, and that's saying alot because I usually be the ones with the small expose in every thread.
I never said that Leo women took joy in other women's misery whether it was capricorns,virgoes or otherwise. I was not comparing leos to virgos, I was comparing capricorns and virgos. If you want to make a thread about leo's just post it up..I'll be happy to express my opinion on leos so you can invalidate it and come on with an authority since that's obviously a subject you know, but even then, it ain't really something i'd do to you.
Anyway, what Mercury are YOU? Girl you make ME and krys look concise, and that's saying alot because I usually be the ones with the small expose in every thread.
Posted by LoveBucket
My filter is off and my Mercury is in Cancer. If you know what that means, do let me know because I don't. One of the reasons I'm here is to learn about astrology and while I'm okay with the sun sign, I'm not knowledgeable with the other placements and what they mean.click to expand
The only beef I had with you is the fact that you misread my post and made it to be something it wasn't. I take my words VERY seriously, if i didn't, I wouldn't type them. I stand by what I say...don't worry about hte filter bit. I will take your Miss SissyPissyPants.
Look up your aspects individually, sometimes they're noticable over the internet, sometimes they're not..not reallly good at guaging an aspect all the time..like for instance sometimes i'll mistaken an earth sign for an aquarius or something like that..but anyway i'm dipping out to not derail this thread anymore.
And hush nerd. (he knows who i'm talking to.)
Posted by Strider
well i am glad that we drove that wretch away .
don't you have a LOTR convention to go to?
Posted by Strider
I thought you were leaving old lady ?
old lady? What are you, twelve?
I'm trying to figure out where the "we drove her away" part comes in...if you got a problem with me, have at it. If you want to slob on ye Lovebucket, have at it. I'm just trying to figure where the two are connected.
Crying, hardly. Trying to understand your thought process, since you've also misread my posts in thinking i was directing something at you when I was talking about the topic in general.
And just so you know, if I was going to call you out for being sexist, you'll know bout it.
Another leo ha? That's cute. Ya'll leos are sticking up for you each other., ha? where were you in most of those leo women /libra man threads? Those women needed you.
And just so you know, if I was going to call you out for being sexist, you'll know bout it.
Another leo ha? That's cute. Ya'll leos are sticking up for you each other., ha? where were you in most of those leo women /libra man threads? Those women needed you.
Posted by Strider
I am just having some fun . I know you were not directing anything at anyone . Though i wanted to poke fun at your anger about love bucket because your outbursts were rather silly and pathetic . At any rate have fun , i need to get back to work . Sorry Clcny for derailng your thread for a bit 😛
Well, everyone is entitled to their opinion, have fun at work.
Posted by TheBeautifulStrugglePosted by Strider
well i am glad that we drove that wretch away .
don't you have a LOTR convention to go to?click to expand
Hahahahha
No, it's a 'Narnia' one. 🙂
isnt virgo and capricorn supposed to get along well? whats the reason for comparing?
Posted by zeoblade
isnt virgo and capricorn supposed to get along well? whats the reason for comparing?
The OP was recalling a conversation between four female friends, two virgos, two caps and they're relationships with men..and she wanted to share...oh and one leo woman.
I think I'd have paid money to see that convo, that prolly would have been some great stuff to watch.
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
The OP was recalling a conversation between four female friends, two virgos, two caps and they're relationships with men..and she wanted to share...oh and one leo woman.
I think I'd have paid money to see that convo, that prolly would have been some great stuff to watch.
yes thats right, i didnt quite get the purpose for comparing their relationships
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
...
sorry perhaps i didnt ask in a clear way
i wanted to ask about the reason for comparing virgo/capricorn (for what you said again up there^)
should there be an underlying ultimate reason that this thread exists?
Why not? I liked the thread, It'd have been better if they had more capricorns that responded to it, but still it had some interesting stuff.
Why not? I liked the thread, It'd have been better if they had more capricorns that responded to it, but still it had some interesting stuff.
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
should there be an underlying ultimate reason that this thread exists?
Why not? I liked the thread, It'd have been better if they had more capricorns that responded to it, but still it had some interesting stuff.
of course, everything happens for a reason
Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
Yes, this was my reason.
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
Yes, this was my reason.click to expand
and the reason lying underneath you desiring to compare differences in relationships of virgo and capricorn is ________________
Posted by zeobladePosted by CLCNY30Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
Yes, this was my reason.
and the reason lying underneath you desiring to compare differences in relationships of virgo and capricorn is ________________click to expand
Because this is an astrology board.
The reason for you asking "why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why?" is ________________________________?
Posted by CLCNY30
Because this is an astrology board.
The reason for you asking "why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why? why?" is ________________________________?
well yeah, it is. astrology being used to study and understand personality so other virgo can understand themselves - the point of an astrology board
personality of virgo is logical
logical being a definite reason for wanting to compare relationships with capricorn and virgo
thats my reason
so what is your answer for the reason to compare relationships with capricorn and virgo?
You're answering your own question. I'm not sure what else to tell you.
How about we try this--you seem to give off a vibe that you think you know an underlying reason for starting this thread. How about you throw it out there and we can go from there?
Because, at this point, you're on a wild goose chase.
How about we try this--you seem to give off a vibe that you think you know an underlying reason for starting this thread. How about you throw it out there and we can go from there?
Because, at this point, you're on a wild goose chase.
Posted by zeobladePosted by CLCNY30Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
To pitch a Virgo's perspective against a Capricorn's perspective...to see the similarities and differences of 'problems', 'choices of men' and 'motivations of being in relationships.'
Yes, this was my reason.
and the reason lying underneath you desiring to compare differences in relationships of virgo and capricorn is ________________click to expand
This Virgo lady, along with another named VirgoVixxen always compares their sign with other signs ... and the purpose is to attempt to make themselves look better/superior over other the other sign.
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