Virgos and Scorpios—

I have asked my fellow Scorpios this but i am interested in the Virgo point of view bow lol.



Are Scorpios and Virgos even compatible?

My Virgo man is like nothing I have ever come across. Hes one of these people that likes to be the hero. He has to fix everything. He is dedicated to his work, his cars and his role as a father and thinks with his head before anything else. Typical Virgo correct??

I on the other hand, LOVE to lead. I have to have things my way or else I have to make sure nothing becomes of a situation. I react to everything depending on my emotions and how it effects me. I'm not an unfair person. I like to make sure that everyone ((or as many people that can be)) are happy with the out come ((but of course I have to be happy first))

As far as I can see we should be at each others throats buuuuuuuuut no. Everything seems to run smoothly. His priority is his daughter. So is mine (( e.g when we got together i told him i would end it if his daughter didn't like it)) blah blah blah. He likes to look the part and have the lime light. I am happy to share it, even happy to hide in his shadow. I protect him from people using him and taking advantage of his generosity. He looks out for me making sure i get the best of a situation.

Tonight we had an argument about how I'm gonna live the next few months. He wants me to go home to my family where I'm safe. I'm refusing. Our relationship is too valuable for me to move across the other country where we wont see each other. We barely see each other now but it works. Blah blah blah.

POINT IS!!!!! We should be at head locks. We're both stubborn and like things our way. Yet here we are both curled up laughing and determined to find some way where i wont have to leave.....((not complaining just curious))

Yay I can say "awww" on my forum now 😛

You remind me of a Scorpio friend with that post..she's been dating a Virgo guy for a while now.

Yes to rabbit quote we compliment eachother imperfectly perfect 🙂

Rabbit, you're lying.

You're saying a Virgo admitted to having weaknesses? No way, man. That woman must be a Virgo unicorn or something.

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Rabbit, you're lying.

You're saying a Virgo admitted to having weaknesses? No way, man. That woman must be a Virgo unicorn or something.

Please.

I know your dirty little secret.

Virgos are far more critical of themselves than they are of anyone else.

They'll just never admit.

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Oh God, and here I thought you actually know Virgoan secrets. That's a facade we hide under.

You should say some nice things about Virgos, I remember you said on a topic you don't give your wife enough credit.

We dig credit.

No, it won't be ME claiming that.

But yes, yes we are. 🙂

Multiple meltdowns over the smalles shit? Yes

Huge issues? We're rock solid

*gracefully accepts the compliment*

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I hate that gif.

I am right -.-

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I mostly agree.

My experience has been that she has a daily emotional limit on the small things. Stay within the limits and stabilty continues.

Once that limit has been exceeded, however, little things begin to chip away at that stability until she can't hold it together even for the big things.

Believe it or not, I'm the more emotionally stable one in our marriage.

I have a slightly different outlook. Virgos obviously cannot see the forest for the trees..we have to label every tree and it gets annoying and difficult to get it right. But that's not due to emotional endurance, it's because of mental exhaustion. It depletes our energy on a mental level. And then everything seems not to work perfectly, and the snarkiness and fussiness begins.

Your wife has a double dose of that with both sun and moon in mercurial signs. I'd be amazed if little things didn't agitate her. It's a clusterfuck of anxiousness.

I don't know exactly how to explain it, along the lines of it corelates to mental exhaustion and not emotional fortitude. Our minds do go crazy on our emotions so the aftermath is emotional but the cause is all mental.

High strung people. Ugh. Jumpy like cats.

^high strung applies to you too btw 😛

Hard for our signs to just..unwind.

Neurotic lil shitheads we all are 😛

The rest of the signs are other kinds of shitheads

It's the truth 😄

*not hearing you over your intensity, Rabbit*

la la la

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So how would you characterize a sudden urge to completely change the paint colors in the office?

An intellectual decision based on what?

Or is it her Gem moon growing bored?

And how should I interpret her willingness to allow me free reign of the paint colors and the actual painting?

More "logic"?

Well, let me first move past the "I am right and I am going to prove it" snarky vibe of your post LOL

Now as for the actual questions 😛

Resless energy. Virgo Sun gets bored and needs a lot of breaks from routine..which sounds weird since we shine with routine. Add the Gemini Moon..she needs:

1) Projects/Hobbies
2) Frequent breaks of scenery - going out of town for a couple of days, doesn't matter where. A break soothes our spirit.

Ofc she would allow you free reign, didn't you say you help her with clothes also? You probably have a pronounced artistic side so she likes that. We see strengths in people and play up to that. We're sneaky mutables, or so I keep hearing.

But really the mental energy is restless, which translates into emotions going haywire. But it does start in the brain for us. We don't often see the corelation to emotions, while you watery creatures only see the emotions and not the mental trigger.

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Neurotic lil shitheads we all are 😛

The rest of the signs are other kinds of shitheads

haha, yeah.

Posted by Rabbit
I'd never use a snarky vibe.

I'm above that.

😛

I have found during my 50+ years observing people is this when it comes to this kind of situation .....



During the initial stages of a relationship, the two parties find the other's quirks as adorable ..... during the diminishing stages of a relationship, these same little adorable traits grate on your last nerve.



Though, I realize you're a Scorpio, so you'll elect to suffer for the sake of relishing in it, while calling out the Virgo for it ... but, others will be able to get it.

It's obvious that you have no choice except to tolerate him .. because you don't know any better.



When in reality, what you're suppose to do is NOT tolerate, rather, sort through.

Every time a Virgo glows, fishes come up and spray Virgo with a splash of reality. 😄

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I am right -.-

The Virgo mantra right there😛

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You MIGHT be right.

But I AM.

lol

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Every time a Virgo glows, fishes come up and spray Virgo with a splash of reality. 😄

I love them for it.

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Every time a Virgo glows, fishes come up and spray Virgo with a splash of reality. 😄

I love them for it.

This totally goes both ways you know!

"Damnit can't I just stay in my delusional state I wuvs it😭"

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YES...Tell me lies and worship me! 😄

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Every time a Virgo glows, fishes come up and spray Virgo with a splash of reality. 😄

I love them for it.

This totally goes both ways you know!

"Damnit can't I just stay in my delusional state I wuvs it😭"

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A Pisces and a Virgo in a train station, waiting for a train to take them home.

Two trains pull up. One is delusion, the other is truth.

The Virgo and the Pisces cannot decide which is which (or..if they have an aries moon, what's the point of a train when they could get a hot air balloon or something)

The trains leave without either getting on a train. They eventually die of starvation (but what's starvation when we had such a lovely day guessing at the trains).

The end.

Scorpios were probably fucking the train.

Cancer and Taurus already chose the one with Restaurant written on it, doesn't matter which.

Capricorns own the train network and are frowning at taking those dead bodies out in the morning.

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Scorpios were probably fucking the train.

Cancer and Taurus already chose the one with Restaurant written on it, doesn't matter which.

Capricorns own the train network and are frowning at taking those dead bodies out in the morning.

LMAO!!! Yeah, we scorps are total f@ $ @ bunnies... NOT 😉

We just manipulated the trains to intertwine so that we can get the best of both worlds... The end 😄

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Awww, you sweet Scorpios

*rolls eyes when no one is looking*

Actually the first thought wasn't of a Scorpio fucking a train but the fact that all the Scorpios in the train station would look suspiciously at the trains..they'd have a jew look in their eyes. But that would've been a cruel distasteful joke so I went with the train fucking scenario.