Virgos and unfaithfulness

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I'm "in a relationship" with this virgo guy. Why I put that in " "? Because we are not officially a couple- he thinks and overthinks us (I know virgos do that when they start falling for someone). I don't rush him. We both are not dating other people, we both are not even searching- we are closed for other people. He likes me a lot. I mean A LOT. But still doesn't make a move. I'm leaving to another city due to my work for two years. And I won't rush him to be with me. But at the same time as he's thinking and not officially committed I would like to go on dates, maybe sleep with someone if I found that person attractive but at the same time still leave a chance for me and virgo guy. Long story to one question: would virgo think of me as of someone who's unfaithful or me going on dates and sleeping with someone wouldn't affect his thinking process and wouldn't affect my chances to become his official girlfriend?
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I have nothing to add other than what I stated in that topic. I hope people read that topic before replying here.

I don't believe your intentions are genuine, you probably want to get with him to break up with him and make him suffer for whatever pain he inflicted on you.

You painted a very vivid image of making him a villain to come in here and speak as if you care about this and want to work it out. I see through all of that.
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I have nothing to add other than what I stated in that topic. I hope people read that topic before replying here.

I don't believe your intentions are genuine, you probably want to get with him to break up with him and make him suffer for whatever pain he inflicted on you.

You painted a very vivid image of making him a villain to come in here and speak as if you care about this and want to work it out. I see through all of that.
Don't expect that I will tell everything from a to z what's going on and so on. I am asking advices on exact situations. It's too much to explain here, we were on and off for too many times and it's a public forum I don't feel need to explain something more to someone. I gave pretty straight question, Damnata. Please answer it and help me this way if you already came here instead of trying to get me busted or whatever you try to do. Thank you.
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I'm "in a relationship" with this virgo guy. Why I put that in " "? Because we are not officially a couple- he thinks and overthinks us (I know virgos do that when they start falling for someone). I don't rush him. We both are not dating other people, we both are not even searching- we are closed for other people. He likes me a lot. I mean A LOT. But still doesn't make a move. I'm leaving to another city due to my work for two years. And I won't rush him to be with me. But at the same time as he's thinking and not officially committed I would like to go on dates, maybe sleep with someone if I found that person attractive but at the same time still leave a chance for me and virgo guy. Long story to one question: would virgo think of me as of someone who's unfaithful or me going on dates and sleeping with someone wouldn't affect his thinking process and wouldn't affect my chances to become his official girlfriend?
Your crazy! What someone in there correct mindset would think is that, you a piece of trash out in a landfill.

...Doe not take take an much to know you need a psychologist for help...please get one.
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Ekchem what? Thank you for telling me I'm piece of trash and mentally sick LMAO. You're ridiculous. Seriously.
Firstly I came here for advice.
Secondly I asked for it in a polite manner.
What the heck is wrong with people out here?
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We can spend everyday thinking it's a star sign that is associated to lies, being unfaithful and head games. It's the person.

He may not be making a move because as you have stated. You're going to be working away for 2 years. He may perceive this as a pointless thing to do.
I didn't tell him that I will leave yet.
So why was it in your original post and as you claim to want to be his girlfriend why does he not know?

Which then leads to me thinking what else are you hiding from him?
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I will tell him. I am not leaving tomorrow or this week, or this month.
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I have nothing to add other than what I stated in that topic. I hope people read that topic before replying here.

I don't believe your intentions are genuine, you probably want to get with him to break up with him and make him suffer for whatever pain he inflicted on you.

You painted a very vivid image of making him a villain to come in here and speak as if you care about this and want to work it out. I see through all of that.
Don't expect that I will tell everything from a to z what's going on and so on. I am asking advices on exact situations. It's too much to explain here, we were on and off for too many times and it's a public forum I don't feel need to explain something more to someone. I gave pretty straight question, Damnata. Please answer it and help me this way if you already came here instead of trying to get me busted or whatever you try to do. Thank you.
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The point is that the story is very different in the other topic.

There you mention you've known this guy for 4 years and you were on and off as well as how much he doesn't care about you, yet he is the one to tell you to get back together.

In this topic...you mention no previous intimacy and assume he likes you a lot...but reality doesn't really suit that story since he won't make a move. It would be extremely easy for him to make a move considering he had a revolving door in and out of your life. So if he doesn't make a move, he really isn't into you. But the ego needs catering to...so you've constructed this fantasy where he is into you but has issues on his mind and analyzing and that's why he won't make a move. I think he got so bored, he isn't even considering going back for sex. Unless the third story (hopefully there is a real third story in real life) is entirely different from these 2 other stories.

But employing deception is key to the Virgo heart. It will get you really far.

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I have nothing to add other than what I stated in that topic. I hope people read that topic before replying here.

I don't believe your intentions are genuine, you probably want to get with him to break up with him and make him suffer for whatever pain he inflicted on you.

You painted a very vivid image of making him a villain to come in here and speak as if you care about this and want to work it out. I see through all of that.
Don't expect that I will tell everything from a to z what's going on and so on. I am asking advices on exact situations. It's too much to explain here, we were on and off for too many times and it's a public forum I don't feel need to explain something more to someone. I gave pretty straight question, Damnata. Please answer it and help me this way if you already came here instead of trying to get me busted or whatever you try to do. Thank you.
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The point is that the story is very different in the other topic.

There you mention you've known this guy for 4 years and you were on and off as well as how much he doesn't care about you, yet he is the one to tell you to get back together.
No. It's me who decided to give him the second chance but right now we are neither together, nor parted. He shows he cares right now but at the same time he doesn't speak about anything more comitted anyways. What else do you want to know? My story from my birth? *rolls eyes* as I already told you- please give an answer to EXACT QUESTION IN THIS TOPIC not your "insights" about everything in general for God's sake.
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So you're the one giving him a second chance, yet the guy still won't make a move on you?

roflmao

Do you understand the nature of public forums? They don't run on Scorpio control issues so just keep rolling your eyes and hope for a miracle.

Other people will reply in this topic, no need to give me so much attention and get riled up emotionally. I am flattered, anyway.
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Scorpio bitches are so manipulative.

I'm hoping for this scenario:


When she tells him about leaving, she is obviously anticipating it to be her moment in the sun when it's really sticking it to him ... well, when this happens, I hope it's over the phone, and when she hears his grunts and believes he's upset about his Princess leaving him .... really the grunts are his gay lovers thrusts up his ass.
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Posted by P-Angel

Scorpio bitches are so manipulative.

I'm hoping for this scenario:


When she tells him about leaving, she is obviously anticipating it to be her moment in the sun when it's really sticking it to him ... well, when this happens, I hope it's over the phone, and when she hears his grunts and believes he's upset about his Princess leaving him .... really the grunts are his gay lovers thrusts up his ass.
You're just old b/witch that the only pleasure in your deplorable life is this forum where you can let all your anger oyt. You don't even realise how pathetic you sound. 😄
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Posted by HighPriestess
I'm "in a relationship" with this virgo guy. Why I put that in " "? Because we are not officially a couple- he thinks and overthinks us (I know virgos do that when they start falling for someone). I don't rush him. We both are not dating other people, we both are not even searching- we are closed for other people. He likes me a lot. I mean A LOT. But still doesn't make a move. I'm leaving to another city due to my work for two years. And I won't rush him to be with me. But at the same time as he's thinking and not officially committed I would like to go on dates, maybe sleep with someone if I found that person attractive but at the same time still leave a chance for me and virgo guy. Long story to one question: would virgo think of me as of someone who's unfaithful or me going on dates and sleeping with someone wouldn't affect his thinking process and wouldn't affect my chances to become his official girlfriend?
You're not in a relationship.
You're single.
You're ready to move to another city.
Therefore, you will be in long distance non-existent relationship.


You're psychoanalyzing a situation that isn't tangible.
Find a man who is available in the new city.
This should cure about half of your dilemma.

Good Luck to you!
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Posted by P-Angel

Scorpio bitches are so manipulative.

I'm hoping for this scenario:


When she tells him about leaving, she is obviously anticipating it to be her moment in the sun when it's really sticking it to him ... well, when this happens, I hope it's over the phone, and when she hears his grunts and believes he's upset about his Princess leaving him .... really the grunts are his gay lovers thrusts up his ass.
LMMMMMMAAAAAO!

This caught me off guard...

No offense OP.
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Whoa crash and BURN. Leave this guy alone. We already have trust issues/insecurities and if he's into you and testing he waters with you and your mind set is you want to go and sleep with other people while leaving to things open with him that would only destroy any idea he had of a relationship with you. Especially if he really likes you and wants a future with you.

Wow, no. Even if he does "get" with you after knowing this or ever finds out he will be hurt and realize you can't be trusted. He might hit and quit at the most because it's easy. All of this screams wrong. You sound like you want to play around, nothing bad about that but you can't want s solid commitment at the same time. Or maybe you need to find someone who's okay with sharings idk.


Virgo in me says hell nah.
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Posted by DamnataYou painted a very vivid image of making him a villain to come in here and speak as if you care about this and want to work it out. I see through all of that.
That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^



Posted by VirgoFlirt Your crazy! What someone in there correct mindset would think is that, you a piece of trash out in a landfill.

...Doe not take take an much to know you need a psychologist for help...please get one.
This^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Posted by ellle 1. He would not think anything (unfaithful, etc.) because he's not made a commitment to you to be his official girlfriend. You are strictly a piece of fun.
2. You don't have any chances of becoming his official girlfriend, that thinking process is null and void and probably doesn't even exist at the extent you think it does.
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..and that too ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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Posted by P-Angel I'm hoping for this scenario:


When she tells him about leaving, she is obviously anticipating it to be her moment in the sun when it's really sticking it to him ... well, when this happens, I hope it's over the phone, and when she hears his grunts and believes he's upset about his Princess leaving him .... really the grunts are his gay lovers thrusts up his ass.
and oh my.... this ^^^^^one just sends it home..

..lol
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I find it absolutely idiotic that you consider yourself to be the High Priestess considering you are the opposite of what she represents ....


1. she sits between the pillars of darkness and light .... which means she is the mediator of who passes into the depths of reality.

2. the blue robe she is wearing is a symbol of knowledge.

3. the solar cross on her breast means she recognizes and is ... the supreme balance between/of the male and female energies.

4. she holds the half-exposed Torah in her lap, which represents the exoteric and the esoteric teachings of higher knowledge.



From what you've written in dxp, you possess none of those ^^^ qualities