Virgos, How Deep Are You?

Alright. First of all, I apologized to my Virgo ex. And I am apologizing in advance to the Virgos that will/might feel bad because of this post.

Today is my 25th birthday. As usual, I went to work. Received greetings and my aqua boyfriend greeted me early in the morning which made me happy. It was a simple greeting: Happy Birthday xx with pictures. Being the usual gemini, I really wasn't expecting something extravagant. I was ok with a greeting. Family and friends greeted me too. Now, my schedule was half-day. So I told my virgo ex about it and passed on some of my work to him. He asked me why I was leaving early. I told him it was my birthday. His reaction was just "Ok. Have a good one. " I was more than disappointed! I told him "you know, happy birthday is not so difficult to say" and he said "yes. Ofcourse it's not" and I said "alright. Anyway. Don't say it. It doesn't matter".

Then, before I left I told him " I get it. You're not like other people. You don't remember little things about me. It's ok. That's you" and he said "yes, I'm not like other people. I was supposed to send you an e-card and you ruined it" I told him "and e-card? Hmmmm I've never received one before! Send it to me" and he said "no need. Like you said earlier" and I said "no, send it to me.please?" And he said "if that will make you happy" and he asked me for my email address. Gave it to him. He asked if it was my personal email address or if it was the one I give out to strangers. And we laughed. So, he did send it to me and the message was simple but I do know he put some effort to create it.

Btw, he told me maybe he was too eager. I told him, all I wanted was for him to greet me. It doesn't matter how as long as he does because that's how simple I am.

I think I somehow hurt his feelings..... Yikes. I really thought he forgot or that he's being insensitive and just won't greet me. I was teary-eyed at first. I didn't mean to hurt him back. I just wonder why he's like that. Why he wanted to surprise me or why he wanted to make an effort in his greeting.... ? And I feel bad for judging him 😢

This is just one of the situations when a gemini cannot read a virgo. *facepalm*

Well first of all a very happy birthday.. may you find all the happiness in your life today and always.. 🙂



As for your question.. well I can tell you about myself.. that for my love ones I'm ALWAYS more excited than them on their birthdays whether its my parents, my brother or my friends.. I start planning what birthday gift I??ll give to them months before and its NEVER a formal gift.. it is always something I know will make them excited and they will cherish it forever in their life.. now I'm earning money so its easy for me to buy costly things but I remember even when I was a kid and had very little money, even at that time I save money for months to buy something special for my loved ones on their birthdays...

I keep imaging the impression of joy & surprise they??ll have on their faces when they??ll open my gift.. its strange but giving gifts makes me more happy than getting gifts.. 🙂

@itsnoteasybeingavirgo: thank you so much for the greeting! I never thought virgos could be such. I mean, exerting effort for a birthday. I do that but not to the point of really keeping it. I'm not good at secrets so I find this talent really amazing. I guess I haven't figured him out as a person after all!

@virgo_goki: yeah. I love surprises but I guess virgos are too good at it I thought--- he was emotionless, unempathetic person who doesn't feel the need to greet me on my special day. Unknowingly, he's got a good one planned. I cannot help but feel bad for him. He's beating all men in the element of surprise!

Well yes, giving surprise means a lot to me as well.. as I wrote in my post that I start planning what birthday gift I??ll give to them months before and its always something I know will make them excited and then I keep imagining the impression of joy & surprise they??ll have on their faces when they??ll open my gift.. so yes, if they do something that kills that surprise then yes it will also kill my joy too..

I wanna at least make it up to him... How about I plan a surprise dinner? Just as a friend. I mean, I'm not... Single. And we broke up for quite sometime now.... So yes, the surprise he gave me was definitely a surprise. I never thought he would still be like that to me...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY @ARIA.
Whatever you do for the virgo don't do what @pinkcancer10 is thinking...she is funny though...if you think you couldn't read him then....wow😉

Simple, thoughtful and of quality is always best.

You're extremely needy .... he's your ex, and you are still expecting him to cater to you, and if he doesn't then you attempt to make him feel guilty for not greeting you.


things like that is likely the reason he's not your man, and speaking of your man ..... you barely noticed that he acknowledged you so that you could bitch about an ex

Posted by gemeliorist
HAPPY BIRTHDAY @ARIA.
Whatever you do for the virgo don't do what @pinkcancer10 is thinking...she is funny though...if you think you couldn't read him then....wow😉

Simple, thoughtful and of quality is always best.

Thank you, Gemeliorist! 🙂 I of course wanted to thank him for the effort-- even as just a friend. He wasn't a bad ex. He wasn't a bad man. He just wasn't the one. I do appreciate him though. And I wanted to at least make up for my wrong judgement... 🙂

Posted by P-Angel
You're extremely needy .... he's your ex, and you are still expecting him to cater to you, and if he doesn't then you attempt to make him feel guilty for not greeting you.


things like that is likely the reason he's not your man, and speaking of your man ..... you barely noticed that he acknowledged you so that you could bitch about an ex

I wasn't expecting him to cater to me. As normal human beings, if someone tells you it's his/her birthday, would you ignore? Wouldn't you at least try to say "wow! Happy birthday!" I didn't make him feel guilty. I made him feel how much a simple greeting means to me. Besides, does a happy birthday hurt? C'mon..... It's not too "pricey" to give away.

@Virgoflirt: I guess Virgos are different then. I just think a simple greeting isn't really hard to give. Besides, if I was in that situation, I'd really greet nicely because I want someone to feel light and happy on her birthday. Guess not all thinks that way.

I didn't do anything to him. Except for the fact that we are each other's ex. He's not finished? What do you mean?

Well I can't claim about other Virgos but I firmly believe that when a relation moves, then it moves ONLY in forward direction and NEVER in backward direction. I can remain a friend of a person for years but if ever our relation of friendship moves forward and he became —more than a friend?? for me.. and one day if he want to move backward and again want to become —Just Friends?? with me then I??ll say A BIG NO to this. Either I??ll totally cut-off with that person. But if its not possible because of some reason then I??ll avoid him & try to become formal with him as much as I can..

@VirgoFlirt: nah. Sex is impossible. When we were together, we never did it. Same goes with my aqua now. No sex. Not that I'm a virgin but you know... If I don't feel like it's the right time, I'm not doing it. Actually, that reminds me that he does make me look bad because I'm the vocal one and he's not. But honestly speaking, I think I'm kinder. I don't hold grudges. And yeah, this reminds me that he does so probably, he is getting back at me for the breakup and for me getting in a relationship with the aqua...

And actually, they know each other and don't like each other. So... Ok.

@itsnoteasybeingavirgo: possibly, it was more of the ego thing to him. But it's ok. I'm happy I asked here because I believe so much in goodness of people that I do not see if someone is planning something against me. I never wanted to get back with him because I love my aqua. I was trying to be a friend like how I am with my other exes.

My Virgo ex did not forget my b-day. He sent a simple text, done. First--Happy belated b-day! Now, you had to tell your ex, get on him about not sending a greeting, then beg him for that! Why would you do that? Did it make your b-day better that you had to work so hard for it? Anyhoo, I hope you had a wonderful day!

I can't believe you are so emotionally immature that you have created a fuss over not getting attention from an ex.


And I'll mention again .... you blew right past your current boyfriend so you could be upset about not getting enough attention from another man.


In reality ... the Virgo ex is a smart man to not be caring about you because you're not honorable

Thanks P. 🙂

This is just one of the situations when a gemini cannot read a virgo.

Yep. It does not compute. Both having Mercury means we can talk to each other, without ever really communicating...

That's what I don't understand...why are you even worried about the ex when you are in a relationship?!
That's pretty shitty to the current bf..that you're so wrapped up in the ex! Its a birthday....you have them every year. Now if you won the Nobel prize and he didn't say congrats ...then maybe you can be somewhat angry but even then he doesnt have to give you shit.

I am a virgo and sometimes is not that we do not notice but we are not as emotional as other signs, specially geminis you guys are so vivavious and filled with life, always so happy and a happy camper!!! I wish but we are not built like that. The worst thing you can do to a virgo is criticize us. Believe me we already know we messed up and know our flaws and we beat ourselves because we are our worst critic. Cooking a dinner for him will be great, we love when people treat us nicely, and we are very forgiving and we do not have big egos like leos.

Posted by starlover
Errrrm the lady is 25yrs old...she is allowed to be somewhat emotionally immature at that age

Oh so cause she is 25...its ok for her to be shitty to her bf...cause she to worried about an ex not saying happy birthday.
Ahhhh makes total sense...I'm sure the current bf would say the same as you! Smh!