Virgos & Illness

My Vir guy & I have been together almost 1 year this July.

I recently had surgery & had many complications, in & out of ER, tons of pain, etc.

He has virtually disappeared. No e mails, no phone calls, nothing.

I've been too sick to really worry about it, but this is the 4th day w/no contact & we've never gone more than 2 days without contact in the last year.

Is it he doesn't care, or it scares him that I'm ill? Or is it that I am not lavishing all the attention on him like normal & he doesn't want to deal with my problems?

We've been close in the last year so it's not like we don't know each other.

Help, please? I am getting disturbed by it & don't feel I should be the 1 to make contact now. He should be contacting me to see if I am ok!!

Thanks
Help 66

If the person I loved was in and out of the ER, I would want to be there all the time. I would want to be right be their side as much as I could so they know someone cares and all that.

That being said, I wouldn't be able to. It would kill me to see them that sick and in that much pain.

Maybe he could not stand seeing you like that and being helpless to do anything about it.