SoInLOVE
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Whats going on with my ex (Virgo)? HELP!
*Warning,bluntness ahead*She wants to be your friend.Period.School is stressful.Life is stressful.She wanted to know how you are doing.Period.She wanted to know a few things A) are you still mad at her,b)have you come out yet,c)some of the pressure is off and d) can you just be friends without getting "passionate" about you two and e) are you in an okay place that you aren't going into stalker mode ,if you don't get what you want.She's just checking in that's all.Well since you are a Taurus,there seems to be a power struggle going on.Oh my.Then it is up to you to totally break off what left of this,because you both want different things.Get yourself together.She isn't ready/still pissed about what you discussed in last post.
Posted by VirgoYawn
Sounds rough bro, you guys have only been dating for about a month but you said you loved her, how long have you known each other before you guys dated? Were you guys friends first or just jumped into it? You said she is a Virgo so most likely sure she did an awful lot of thinking and analyzing before she agreed to date you lol that's what I do. Anyway, you should tell her that you can't be her friend because you'll always want to be more then a friend. If she only wants you as a friend then you need to move on. Trust me man, you don't want to be in the friend zone, it will only delay you of getting better.
We were together for 5 months... Knew each other for 6. It was like we were together for the whole 6 months. She actually came approached me and wanted to be with me. We said the "i love you's" after almost 3 months. I love and miss her too damn much... Every time she texts me, it delays my getting better. Its like Im starting to do better and out of no where I get a message.
If she just wants to be friends like VullcanLazz said, Is there anyway to get out of the "friend zone?" And get back together?
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I dont know how to react because I really love her and I want to talk to her, but I want her back, and I want things to be better. I cant JUST be her friend. Im scared that if I talk to her, Im gonna get my heart broken all over again. What does her actions mean? Does she just want to be friends or possibly get back together? Help!