Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstand
Why??
Maybe they're busy?
I'd love to wager a guess here but the question without adding context and details cannot be answered.
I can throw 20 scenarios there.
I can throw 20 scenarios there.
Posted by tenderSometimes I'd rather spend time alone because I just don't wanna be bothered. Don't wanna hear about other people's problems until I get my own straight first. Or I'm busy, or I'm pissed @ the person & I don't want to talk to them, if I don't connect with someone &/or find them annoying or boring, I cut off contact.
Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstand
Posted by DamnataEven i am confused....buh before week everything was smooth and we even made love before she went cold but now shes cold doesnt receives my calls doesn't replies to my msgs and when i call through another number she tries to cut the phone when finds out its me••
I'd love to wager a guess here but the question without adding context and details cannot be answered.
I can throw 20 scenarios there.
Posted by tizianiHope that's true. I'll love to be a sex symbol 😄
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
Posted by tizianiThis question is relevant, if it was a sex relationship it makes sense
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
I feel that most virgos have an underlying deep seated fear of being rejected. I've known a few in my life and have known them to pull a disappearing act or disappear on a potential love interest before THEY could get hurt. Also so as to not get too attached, they will create distance even when everything is going perfectly well.
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
I used to date a Virgo before, I'm a Taurus woman.. Yeah, most of the time, he ignores me. Like I don't even know what's happening to him.. He always disappears. & then after a few weeks/months he'll come back like nothing happened. It was the best relationship that I've ever had tho. I wish I could turn back time..
Aww yall made "love". My heart aches.
Tender what is your sign?
Tender what is your sign?
its easier to deal with them if you kind of put a wall up yourself. Don't take everything they say & do to heart; not in a mean way, more like self protection! And in my experience with them, they actually will warm to you.
Course then there's the issue of what to do with your walled up emotions! Any suggestions?
Course then there's the issue of what to do with your walled up emotions! Any suggestions?
Posted by tizianiI guess it was lust not love if its love how can someone resist a loved one right...👀👀
Were you in a relationship or did she just want you for sex?
Posted by PeanutbutterMine CANCERŠŠŠ
Aww yall made "love". My heart aches.
Tender what is your sign?
Posted by LibWmanDon't know about other virgos but this is true for me... self sabotage when it comes to love interest
I feel that most virgos have an underlying deep seated fear of being rejected. I've known a few in my life and have known them to pull a disappearing act or disappear on a potential love interest before THEY could get hurt. Also so as to not get too attached, they will create distance even when everything is going perfectly well.
Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
"I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
Posted by sadpopcorntoo scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.
Posted by CurlyAries"I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)I'm not proud of the way that I've treated people as a young adult. Karma has definitely bit me in the a $ $ since then. I just got out of a relationship where my ex did the same to me. I would say that back then, I was very selfish and controlling of my time and attentions: "I'll answer back whenever I feel like it; it's my time and I'll do what I want. Stop bothering/pressuring me. I don't HAVE to answer to you!" It's horrible, I know :-/ I can also say that I was emotionally immature back then too; never had to consider or deal with anything emotionally detrimental happening to me. But eventually, I did grow emotionally from that experience, it was only then that I wised up.
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.
I wouldn't blame someone, who I've messaged, to ignore me for two weeks, if I've done the same to them. I would really expect them to call me on my $ h!t. Honestly, I would lose a little respect for them if they didn't.
I could see a Virgo being scared and leery of accepting support from someone. The thought of being dependent or feeling beholden to someone is terrifying.
Posted by puhleezeWhat's a bah.... A bath.... A bathroo... I can't.Posted by sadpopcorntoo scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.click to expand
Posted by drxpxfJupiterYes. Tit for tat baby, makes our blood boil. Play their game.Posted by tenderI think it's something that improves with time once they value your interaction... or if you give them a taste of their own medicine they realize what it feels like...
Why virgos go cold themselves without any reasons..nit receiving call replying back texts why is this sign so hard to unserstandclick to expand
Posted by PeanutbutterhahaPosted by puhleezeWhat's a bah.... A bath.... A bathroo... I can't.Posted by sadpopcorntoo scared to take the phone in the bathroom or mention the word bathroom..
constipation. locked in the bathroom for hours. can't get to the phone.click to expand
Posted by WateryVirgoAnother Virgo Sun Pisces Moon family..and they hit it right on the point for me
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
Posted by CurlyAriesI'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
"I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.click to expand
Posted by Cg2016I'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...click to expand
Try not to be surprised if it takes a few more days for him to reply (a week in total time passed or even 2 unfortunately) why? I can't say. Something he's analyzing about you or the situation. But after a few days and no response, I feel it's ok to message him asking if he's ok or something or that you were thinking about him. Virgos like to be cared about and missed.
Whatever you say, make sure it's genuine and natural of course.
Posted by CurlyAriesPosted by Cg2016Posted by CurlyAriesI'm having the same issue. Me n this virgo guy met like a week ago and we were flirting like crazy. We were supposed to meet up then he went out of town but we texted still. Like twice he left me hanging and didn't text back so I thought it would've been a good idea to tease him and send him a pic in my bikini then not text back but he sent me a nude back lol but I didn't respond til the next day and told him I thought my text had sent, sorry and he never responded. It's been two days. So I'm wondering if he'll never hit me up again or he's just salty I didn't respond that day n will eventually idk...Posted by WateryVirgo
Reasons why I would ignore/wouldn't be bothered with replying to a lover:
1. I need time to myself to recharge from the world (i'm an introvert).
2. Because I feel that I can, Either because the relationship is not that deep for me or because I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you.
3. I need a break from you to evaluate our situation.
4. I'm entertaining the affections of someone else.
5. I want you to go away and don't really care to do any dramatic endings.
"I feel confident that you aren't going anywhere regardless of how I treat you"..... this sounds selfish and slightly abusive.. I mean no harm, but I dealt with a Virgo on and off for a few years now. That statement shows a manipulative, selfish and controlling quality (I feel that statement applies to him and how he treated me). I feel like most virgos don't want to accept that about themselves. (The ones I've known anyway)
I understand wanting space. I was always cool with that. Hell, I love space as well. But if I were to msg him simply asking how he was doing, never getting a response is a bit rude to me. I understand it happens, but it happened a lot. Why not just tell them you're taking time for yourself? especially if you care for them?... because if a Virgo hit someone up that they were happy to speak to, and that person just left them hanging for 2 weeks they would be upset I'm sure. I hear you guys are sensitive.... if the other person hit them up 2 weeks later, like they never left the Virgo hanging (like the Virgo guy I know) Virgo probably wouldn't respond bc they're hurt... hm.
I don't know. This sign is interesting to me. Honestly all I ever want to do is help the virgos I encounter. They seem to need support but... they don't easily accept it sometimes.click to expand
Try not to be surprised if it takes a few more days for him to reply (a week in total time
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
I dated a fellow Virgo a few years ago. It was a disaster. I was too willing to open myself and she couldn't reciprocate. I was too impatient and she was too closed off. I really do wish I could have made some changes in how I approached our relationship.
So here's the scoop... it'll probably end up being long... So my best friend is a Virgo. And she has a Scorpio bf. They've been together since high school. He has cheated on her multiple times (since highschool) but she keeps taking him back. (One of th
I don't understand this, she would text me everyday of the week during school days and every weekend no text?? but she recently started sending me good morning text with hearts, just don't understand. I walk with her everyday in the morning for school id
I've heard that virgo's eyes always gives them out when they're in love. So I'd love to know more about that. I wonder how virgos look at the object of their love? Could someone tell me? It's interesting that I didn't hear such thing of other signs, but v
Ass afflicted and hated as we are in the zodiac, we are one of a fvcking kind. I dont care what anyone says, I fvcking love you guys! (Except you virgo men, you guys are idiots)
Holy crap balls, Batman! Virguy here doesn't know how to flirt very well. How do ya'll get out of your head and into the right now with women? How do we effectively flirt with women, and what have been the results? Good, bad, and ugly please.
THE CONVERSATION: PART ONE CANCER: My intentions on yesterday was just me being there for you. I just wanted to reassure you that I will be there always and never would I brush you off except for God and my mother of course. However, If you need to
Hello all. I do not have any Virgo male friends to confide in so I thought I'd fish around here. I'm a Libra women Sept 26 that has been involved with a Virgo man Aug 25, who is now being distant after I said to him I wanted to take a move back from us. I
I'm new to astrology, this is what controls sexuality right?
I think all her Virgo placements needs some comforting, cuddly, water sign emotional connection.
What's its like to date a virgo woman..their characteristics..nature and how mean and selfish they can be...WONDERING
—
Anybody got Keanu Reeves number? I want to help him save the world.
She gets mad over the littlest things and a perfectionist.
I like a Virgo female, she doesn't knows this I don't think but she recently just made me her "Bestie" lol and She will text me first, I reply and it be hours til I get a reply back or 10-30 mins, but in school she likes to talk to me or if i'm just doing
what is a Venus in Virgo person like in love?
It hasn't even been that long but I'm wondering if I had said something to tick him off or if he is just busy. My boyfriend is a Virgo, I'm a girl Cancer and we have been together for about 4 months now. Well it's just strange that he doesn't try to conta
Hello there, first of all i am a 18 year old capricorn that has a huge crush on a 18 year old Virgo. Its the first time i ever fell in love with such a lovely cute being, but sadly i think she sees me as only a friend. She recently broke up with her pisce
a sign that makes us feel secure. a sign that understands all we need is assurance and re-assurance. a sign that does not make you feel insecure in the company of others. i think that is all a virgo needs; assurance. which sign can provide that? by ass
Hey there just curious on some of your guy's personal experiences with ever meeting a Virgo with a Sagittarius rising? What were they like ? Did the earth & fire mutable signs blend well? Characteristics ? I also ask this question because noted by other