Aquastic007
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why are Virgos so cruel!!!
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it's shocking I tell you!
Posted by KoniuchaJa that's what I am planning to do!Posted by AquasticTake him to court for child support.
When I found out I was pregnant by this Virgo man I dated for a year , his first statement was "let's take care of that thing!" meaning I should abort my baby! Like hell I would do that, I decided to keep my baby. Fast forward, when the baby was born I informed him, but he told me he can't come see our baby because he knows that I cheated on him, something he has never mentioned to me, and that was a Lie and he went on to say , he forgot to tell me he was in a long -term relationship with another woman whom he plans to marry. Boy, was I shuttered! the thought of raising a child alone was unbearable. I couldn't believe that this was the same man who use to tell me he loves me everyday.
When my baby was 2 , he calls me to say him and his lover just had a baby boy , telling me how happy he was to be a father, and the things he did to save his child.No mention of my child, or even asking how my child was doing .All he did was brag about his beautiful wife and baby were happy blah blah!blah!
When he noticed that I did not give a fuck about him or him supporting our child, he call to promise me that he would start paying child support since he realised that he made a mistake by not supporting our child, and I believed him as took my banking details. And since this day no cent has been paid to my account by him. Mind u I never call this man about anything , cause after I fell pregnant God blessed me with an amazing job that I earn very well.
Then I stopped taking his calls, blocked him entirely, he even tried to send his friends to call me.
Yesterday the guy calls me using another number, to tell me how great hes doing in life, how much money he earns , and asked for forgiveness and same story he wants to support his child again............................because he noticed that I had moved on, he tells me that he would only support the child only if I broke up with my current boyfriend......mxm! like hell.......
Are virgos cruel or , I just have a bad taste when it comes choosing men?click to expand
You dated for a year and never discussed his position on children? Did your contraception not work? Depending on your contraception you possibly have a law suit that could help you financially. If you had unprotected sex with a man without discussing his position on children with you, then you might want to take precautions to not do it again. I am truly sorry that you are going thru these things. Next time be a little smarter with contraception, and communication. But yes I have known and dealt with some pretty ruthless Virgos.
I met this virgo guy few months. We were starting to have a good time with each other. However after reading about virgos on dxp, i knew there was going to be shenanigans.
I was right. He told me he had a gf and how awesome his relationship was. How she was the best thing that happened to him. I was floored because it seemed like he was getting off on me having to listen to how great she was.
Please. I told him to get lost. I guess he was looking for an emotional reaction from me. Naw chill.
He showed up on my doorstep wanting to be forgiven i told him that i barely remember who he is.
Give him the same coldness.
I was right. He told me he had a gf and how awesome his relationship was. How she was the best thing that happened to him. I was floored because it seemed like he was getting off on me having to listen to how great she was.
Please. I told him to get lost. I guess he was looking for an emotional reaction from me. Naw chill.
He showed up on my doorstep wanting to be forgiven i told him that i barely remember who he is.
Give him the same coldness.
Posted by DMV
I met this virgo guy few months. We were starting to have a good time with each other. However after reading about virgos on dxp, i knew there was going to be shenanigans.
I was right. He told me he had a gf and how awesome his relationship was. How she was the best thing that happened to him. I was floored because it seemed like he was getting off on me having to listen to how great she was.
Please. I told him to get lost. I guess he was looking for an emotional reaction from me. Naw chill.
He showed up on my doorstep wanting to be forgiven i told him that i barely remember who he is.
Give him the same coldness.
And don't ever listen to his stories , they never end. He's going to try something else on u , until he gets u on your knees
Posted by Librawoman77Thanks Librawoman77 .
You dated for a year and never discussed his position on children? Did your contraception not work? Depending on your contraception you possibly have a law suit that could help you financially. If you had unprotected sex with a man without discussing his position on children with you, then you might want to take precautions to not do it again. I am truly sorry that you are going thru these things. Next time be a little smarter with contraception, and communication. But yes I have known and dealt with some pretty ruthless Virgos.
1. the guy did mention kids during our relationship, but I guess he didn't want one with me ,but with the other woman. I use to tell him I wuld be happy if we had a son and he wuld comment and say that would be nice for us.
2. and no we did not plan to have unprotected sex, the condom broke.
3.I was never on contraceptives, still am not on them, I prefer condoms or abstaining .cause I hardly have unprotected sex.,until m married , I just have protected casual sex.
4.his current girlfriend is a bit crazy
Posted by Ixion120you reckon?Posted by AquasticSounds like bad taste in men to me.
When I found out I was pregnant by this Virgo man I dated for a year , his first statement was "let's take care of that thing!" meaning I should abort my baby! Like hell I would do that, I decided to keep my baby. Fast forward, when the baby was born I informed him, but he told me he can't come see our baby because he knows that I cheated on him, something he has never mentioned to me, and that was a Lie and he went on to say , he forgot to tell me he was in a long -term relationship with another woman whom he plans to marry. Boy, was I shuttered! the thought of raising a child alone was unbearable. I couldn't believe that this was the same man who use to tell me he loves me everyday.
When my baby was 2 , he calls me to say him and his lover just had a baby boy , telling me how happy he was to be a father, and the things he did to save his child.No mention of my child, or even asking how my child was doing .All he did was brag about his beautiful wife and baby were happy blah blah!blah!
When he noticed that I did not give a fuck about him or him supporting our child, he call to promise me that he would start paying child support since he realised that he made a mistake by not supporting our child, and I believed him as took my banking details. And since this day no cent has been paid to my account by him. Mind u I never call this man about anything , cause after I fell pregnant God blessed me with an amazing job that I earn very well.
Then I stopped taking his calls, blocked him entirely, he even tried to send his friends to call me.
Yesterday the guy calls me using another number, to tell me how great hes doing in life, how much money he earns , and asked for forgiveness and same story he wants to support his child again............................because he noticed that I had moved on, he tells me that he would only support the child only if I broke up with my current boyfriend......mxm! like hell.......
Are virgos cruel or , I just have a bad taste when it comes choosing men?click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Not good ppl at all! Never morally good. Well never do the right thing unless it's something to their benefit
I would share that he dated with you and had a baby with his wife
lol true that! They look silly when they start doing that look at me now nonsense, m glad his not my husband .I can imagine! How it would be had everything between me and him work out! I would be a looser!
Posted by SensitiveBluesHe did say he wanted a child . and when we started he did not tell me he was with someone else , I asked him a hundred times and he said he was single.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgo
Posted by SensitiveBluesI did get a chance to talk to his girlfriend, I told her everything. And mind you my child was his first. Him and his girlfriend had been trying since they met but with no luck , until I had a child , then their son followed.
If she doesn't I would tell her everything
Make his life a bit miserable!
Posted by Ixion120mmmmmmmmmmy biases?!!!! *rolling eyes*Posted by SensitiveBluesCC that doesn't match up with other virgo dads I know. Poor as hell they are but took care of their kids regardless of their feelings towards the mother. Also CCI couldn't trust you as a source on Virgo given your hangups and proven biases.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgoclick to expand
Posted by DMV
I met this virgo guy few months. We were starting to have a good time with each other. However after reading about virgos on dxp, i knew there was going to be shenanigans.
I was right. He told me he had a gf and how awesome his relationship was. How she was the best thing that happened to him. I was floored because it seemed like he was getting off on me having to listen to how great she was.
Please. I told him to get lost. I guess he was looking for an emotional reaction from me. Naw chill.
He showed up on my doorstep wanting to be forgiven i told him that i barely remember who he is.
Give him the same coldness.
Agree. Virgo men seem to lack integrity to me . I attract the but everyone I come into contact with were uber sensitive, petty and lack tact. Sorry this happened to you. I wouldnt want him to be a part of my baby's life. They're craft mfs . he might try to get full or partial custody and Sue you for child support. He knows he's wrong but he's trying to make it okay.
Posted by VenusStarMy child doesn't know him! He made sure of that. He tried to involve him when she was small , but he refused by telling me I cheated on him.Posted by DMV
I met this virgo guy few months. We were starting to have a good time with each other. However after reading about virgos on dxp, i knew there was going to be shenanigans.
I was right. He told me he had a gf and how awesome his relationship was. How she was the best thing that happened to him. I was floored because it seemed like he was getting off on me having to listen to how great she was.
Please. I told him to get lost. I guess he was looking for an emotional reaction from me. Naw chill.
He showed up on my doorstep wanting to be forgiven i told him that i barely remember who he is.
Give him the same coldness.
Agree. Virgo men seem to lack integrity to me . I attract the but everyone I come into contact with were uber sensitive, petty and lack tact. Sorry this happened to you. I wouldnt want him to be a part of my baby's life. They're craft mfs . he might try to get full or partial custody and Sue you for child support. He knows he's wrong but he's trying to make it okay.click to expand
he has no grounds in court, he does not even know her birthdate or...............
His just bitter that I don't ask him for anything!
Posted by Floyou left early darling ,it was coming.
Wow, you ladies really took on horrible virgos. The one I dated never treated me like that.. Maybe it was all the water? Hmm who knows.
Although I left him before he even got a chance to ruin my heart. I don't play the game, I know better than that..
my sources tell me he brings girls to his house when his girlfriend is not around, and 1 day he got caught! I still don't understand why that girl is putting up with his nonsense. and is not like she's ugly or anything, well now she does look older than me and we the same age, I guess is because of the stress.
at one time he was not even working , she use to give him her bank card , and he would give other girls her hard earned cash.
Posted by Ixion120Lol ! typical Virgo!Posted by AquasticI got that at first he said that he wanted children. But there is a significant amount of time between you figuring out you're preggo and delivery. When you first told him about the pregnancy he said he didn't want it? No? In the interest of giving the best life possible to my kid I would hope that the woman who was preggo would not unilaterally decide to have the kid especially if I wasn't in the best position to take care of the kid, regardless if I was with her in an official relationship or not.Posted by SensitiveBluesHe did say he wanted a child . and when we started he did not tell me he was with someone else , I asked him a hundred times and he said he was single.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgo
But what is done is done I suppose. As shitty as that is to all in involved. His infidelity is shitty behavior that is true, but him cheating and you having a kid without a nod to his wishes are two separate issues I hope you realize.
End of the day yea do the court thing. But validation outside of that isn't warranted imo.
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Posted by Ixion120it's funny cause you sound like him right now. So I conclude that it's a Virgo thing then. This man was wrong. He had no child when I fell pregnant, he could have just focused on me and the baby, and let the other woman go (cause he's not even treating her that well anyways), but because he had the same mentality as yours he didn't.Posted by AquasticWhats so funny?Posted by Ixion120Lol ! typical Virgo!Posted by AquasticI got that at first he said that he wanted children. But there is a significant amount of time between you figuring out you're preggo and delivery. When you first told him about the pregnancy he said he didn't want it? No? In the interest of giving the best life possible to my kid I would hope that the woman who was preggo would not unilaterally decide to have the kid especially if I wasn't in the best position to take care of the kid, regardless if I was with her in an official relationship or not.Posted by SensitiveBluesHe did say he wanted a child . and when we started he did not tell me he was with someone else , I asked him a hundred times and he said he was single.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgo
But what is done is done I suppose. As shitty as that is to all in involved. His infidelity is shitty behavior that is true, but him cheating and you having a kid without a nod to his wishes are two separate issues I hope you realize.
End of the day yea do the court thing. But validation outside of that isn't warranted imo.
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Now he wants me and my baby back! AND IT"S TOO LATE! He's telling me he's now ready to take care of us cause he's now financially stable. he's making conditions for me.
Posted by Ixion120Posted by AquasticLike the absence of child in his life isn't the same thing as saying lets fill that vacancy. Since you decided to unilaterally (aka ignoring your partner's input) have a kid he does need to contribute to its care...regardless of how he feels. That doesn't change the fact that its pretty shitty of you to have that child knowing that you would be birthing him to a father that was unrelPosted by Ixion120it's funny cause you sound like him right now. So I conclude that it's a Virgo thing then. This man was wrong. He had no child when I fell pregnant, he could have just focused on me and the baby, and let the other woman go (cause he's not even treating her that well anyways), but because he had the same mentality as yours he didn't.Posted by AquasticWhats so funny?Posted by Ixion120Lol ! typical Virgo!Posted by AquasticI got that at first he said that he wanted children. But there is a significant amount of time between you figuring out you're preggo and delivery. When you first told him about the pregnancy he said he didn't want it? No? In the interest of giving the best life possible to my kid I would hope that the woman who was preggo would not unilaterally decide to have the kid especially if I wasn't in the best position to take care of the kid, regardless if I was with her in an official relationship or not.Posted by SensitiveBluesHe did say he wanted a child . and when we started he did not tell me he was with someone else , I asked him a hundred times and he said he was single.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgo
But what is done is done I suppose. As shitty as that is to all in involved. His infidelity is shitty behavior that is true, but him cheating and you having a kid without a nod to his wishes are two separate issues I hope you realize.
End of the day yea do the court thing. But validation outside of that isn't warranted imo.
Now he wants me and my baby back! AND IT"S TOO LATE! He's telling me he's now ready to take care of us cause he's now financially stable. he's making conditions for me.click to expand
Virgo men can be very cruel and manipulative. You may be in the relationship thinking all is well, but they have a totally different take on it that they never express to u. And will disappear without warning and in your mind without reason. When all the while they are secretly, meticulously picking out your flaws and collecting them as justification when they plan to split. Only here again, they never express it. Mind games at it's finest
@Ladyofrebirth I did take responsibilty on my Pisces thread, it was partly my fault. But with the virgo man though ....he was just cruel to me and my child
At first I used to think of it as a challenge to try to get in the mind of a virgo and figure out what they're thinking. But the whole push pull disappear and reappear act is tiresome and confusing. Then they will wait months even years to come back and proclaim their love for u, only to do the same thing all over again. Smh. I'm generally not one to ve cruel but they almost provoke u to be cold and stiff with them. And when u are, they come on even stronger
Posted by starwars
woah, your thread was hidden... i wasnt trying to make fun of this.
it's okay @ starwars
I'm still to find out how his girlfriend put up with his nonsense, she must be really strong! Cause she even fight for her man especially now that he's rich. (So I heard)
At the end of the day, you are the one with the baby bump. Why am I in here? this is my Asc sign. I always have the "woops" conversation after things get physical, which for me don't happen until seriousness happens.
The Virgo in me says, if I get pregnant, Baby and I are going all the way termination or adoption is not an option, whether the sperm donor believes in it or not. We can handle it, we'll buckle down and do it the right way, nothing half assed. The Aqua in me said "But your fatherly presence is not required if its not your thing, you can sign over your parental rights after the birth and we both go our own way Baby daddy drama is unacceptable."
Something I learned about the Scorpio I'm dating....DONT say that again.
The Virgo in me says, if I get pregnant, Baby and I are going all the way termination or adoption is not an option, whether the sperm donor believes in it or not. We can handle it, we'll buckle down and do it the right way, nothing half assed. The Aqua in me said "But your fatherly presence is not required if its not your thing, you can sign over your parental rights after the birth and we both go our own way Baby daddy drama is unacceptable."
Something I learned about the Scorpio I'm dating....DONT say that again.
Posted by PrettiPisces
Virgo men can be very cruel and manipulative. You may be in the relationship thinking all is well, but they have a totally different take on it that they never express to u. And will disappear without warning and in your mind without reason. When all the while they are secretly, meticulously picking out your flaws and collecting them as justification when they plan to split. Only here again, they never express it. Mind games at it's finest
That is very true! Cause when he called to beg me back , he told me he will break up with his girlfriend , cause me and him are on the same level career wise, and she's not. Which I find it to be sad , cause the poor woman was there for him when he had nothing. To go behind her back and beg me back! Is just a sad story. And I don't think she knows what her man is saying about her. I wish I could tell her , but she would think I want her man .
Posted by Ixion120
Ah so this thread conclusively is more so about other spurned individuals waxing your feelings to a nice glowing shine by giving unwarranted validation across the board than gaining insight.
I gotchya.
Well enlighten us. What is the point of holding in how u feel instead of expressing it? Good or bad if the other person is not aware how can u address or fix it. Granted some people speak thru actions better more so than words, thing is with a virgo, or every virgo that I've encountered, By the time they're speaking with they're actions they are leaving....¯
All the discussion about pregnancy, how it happened, why the baby should be kept or not is irrelevant now.
I say this all the time...if one or two people do not want a pregnancy to happen, one or both will do all they can to make sure it doesn't happen....and if you dont, then don't cry about it and point fingers. Condoms are not enough, obviously to make sure a pregnancy doesn't happen.
Also, it's not up to the man if a woman keeps the baby or not. This is not to say, she shouldn't think about the quality of life her kid may have, but it's her choice. She wamted to keep the life that was growing inside of her and she can take care of the baby herself... all he had to do was show up, even if he didn't have the means to contribute...showing up doesn't cost much.
He had a girlfriend when he got you pregnant, so he's playing games with you and his girl this whole time, showing off how successful he is now too. Weellll... take his ass to court, he wants to play these games....show him you're not one to play games with, hit him where it hurts him...obviously he doesn't care about your feelings, hit him where it hurts, his pockets. He won't be laughing anymore...
I don't know why women give men like him the time of day. Get whats yours and the baby's and call it a day. If he wants to be involved in your child's life, he will show up.
I say this all the time...if one or two people do not want a pregnancy to happen, one or both will do all they can to make sure it doesn't happen....and if you dont, then don't cry about it and point fingers. Condoms are not enough, obviously to make sure a pregnancy doesn't happen.
Also, it's not up to the man if a woman keeps the baby or not. This is not to say, she shouldn't think about the quality of life her kid may have, but it's her choice. She wamted to keep the life that was growing inside of her and she can take care of the baby herself... all he had to do was show up, even if he didn't have the means to contribute...showing up doesn't cost much.
He had a girlfriend when he got you pregnant, so he's playing games with you and his girl this whole time, showing off how successful he is now too. Weellll... take his ass to court, he wants to play these games....show him you're not one to play games with, hit him where it hurts him...obviously he doesn't care about your feelings, hit him where it hurts, his pockets. He won't be laughing anymore...
I don't know why women give men like him the time of day. Get whats yours and the baby's and call it a day. If he wants to be involved in your child's life, he will show up.
Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Can I be totally honest with you, not wanna sound harsh but why after already a year get pregnant?
If you knew it was not the time why keeping it it's like forcing a man to stay, what even pushes him further away. You need to see the difference being realistic and naïeve I think you were too much over your head with this guy and he didn't expect that suprise.
Virgo doesn't rush unless they really feel comfortable if you push them they will run away.
They might lie to you to not hurt you, in advance be more cautious please for yourself.
He might feel guilty and he might want to help you but that's only to prevent that you go to court since he doesn't wanna get in trouble and he probably is happy with the other woman.
If I were you I would not believe his words and just go to court because he thinks you might be bluffing but he's not sure.
On the other side you got a miracle back for it and if I were you and he really is curious to see the child make it extra hard for him so he's gonna feel how guilty he is.
Next to that you were both wrong there are always two stories and two wrong not one.
Becareful with yourself and your body you only have one
I don't see anywhere on my thread where I mention I fell pregnant on purpose and decided to keep my child ,so I can keep a man! Or it could be my eyes.... Anyways!
Posted by Gennie
At the end of the day, you are the one with the baby bump. Why am I in here? this is my Asc sign. I always have the "woops" conversation after things get physical, which for me don't happen until seriousness happens.
The Virgo in me says, if I get pregnant, Baby and I are going all the way termination or adoption is not an option, whether the sperm donor believes in it or not. We can handle it, we'll buckle down and do it the right way, nothing half assed. The Aqua in me said "But your fatherly presence is not required if its not your thing, you can sign over your parental rights after the birth and we both go our own way Baby daddy drama is unacceptable."
Something I learned about the Scorpio I'm dating....DONT say that again.
Thanks @ Gennie I love you for your words. It's as if you read my mind at the time. And even now , I don't pull the baby mama drama on him. Instead he's the one calling me none stop saying he will kill my boyfriend blahablah!I have moved on with my life. Which is why our virgo man can't accept cause in his brain he believes that me and my child needs him . AND WE DON'T
Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by AquasticYou mean his wife? Didn't they get married?
I'm still to find out how his girlfriend put up with his nonsense, she must be really strong! Cause she even fight for her man especially now that he's rich. (So I heard)
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. @sensentiveblues No they were not married. But they have been living together for about 11 years now.she's 29 years old . And she's pretty. I don't know her sign. Maybe she's a taurus Im jst guessing.
Bad Judgement based on your weakness for him... despite that fact that you state the contrary detailing your fiscal budget with a false bravado.
If you were waiting tables or a CEO of Fortune 500 Company, it shouldn't make a difference, a man is still required to provide for his children financially.
There was never a relationship, marriage or an arrangement.
Any visitations or child support should have been court-ordered.
Giving this stranger your bank information was a personal choice...a choice that I believe you secretly hope would bring the two of you together.
Let him go.
He's a lying douche.
A master manipulator and a puppet master.
Stop feeding his energy.
Change the account, and go through the courts.
Don't even waste this thread on him.
If you were waiting tables or a CEO of Fortune 500 Company, it shouldn't make a difference, a man is still required to provide for his children financially.
There was never a relationship, marriage or an arrangement.
Any visitations or child support should have been court-ordered.
Giving this stranger your bank information was a personal choice...a choice that I believe you secretly hope would bring the two of you together.
Let him go.
He's a lying douche.
A master manipulator and a puppet master.
Stop feeding his energy.
Change the account, and go through the courts.
Don't even waste this thread on him.
Posted by Ixion120Posted by KoniuchaYou're right this is my last post, lest the OP decides she wants to drop the pretense of unchallengeable rightness. In any case I have ish to do right quick lol.Posted by Ixion120Why are you even wasting your breath? I recommend you save your energy
its always interesting to see those who have been scorned, spurned or outright dropped by a virgo turn around and proclaim that all Virgos are something.
Like what is the basis on your judgement.
Going by the logic of the cat lady astrology I see on display here and my experiences with your independent signs:
All Cancers are incredibly self absorbed and infantile, incapable of critical thought if it conflicts with their emotional realities, and generally emotionally selfish.
All Aquarians are flakey and purposefully cold to those who get attracted to them and generally are intolerant of others opinions as a whole.
All Pisces are stubborn to a fault, intolerant of counter views, so deep in their feelings that they are very rarely capable of rational behavior.
The thing is? Those claims don't hold up universally in objective reality.click to expand
@Ixion120 thanks for leaving , your knowledge won't be missed.we also thank your "ish" for keeping u busy!
Posted by AquasticI will say, its unfortunately your particular Virgo. Even my asshole of a Virgo ex is a dedicated father. Those kids are his life, it would kill him in the deepest of feels to lose one by death or simply just not communicating. My stepdaughter is his eldest, and he was rolling around like a pig in mud when they started doing more things together, they both love craft beer and do events together. It would have been the same if we had ever had kids, just never did, and honestly I am kinda glad about that.Posted by Gennie
At the end of the day, you are the one with the baby bump. Why am I in here? this is my Asc sign. I always have the "woops" conversation after things get physical, which for me don't happen until seriousness happens.
The Virgo in me says, if I get pregnant, Baby and I are going all the way termination or adoption is not an option, whether the sperm donor believes in it or not. We can handle it, we'll buckle down and do it the right way, nothing half assed. The Aqua in me said "But your fatherly presence is not required if its not your thing, you can sign over your parental rights after the birth and we both go our own way Baby daddy drama is unacceptable."
Something I learned about the Scorpio I'm dating....DONT say that again.
Thanks @ Gennie I love you for your words. It's as if you read my mind at the time. And even now , I don't pull the baby mama drama on him. Instead he's the one calling me none stop saying he will kill my boyfriend blahablah!I have moved on with my life. Which is why our virgo man can't accept cause in his brain he believes that me and my child needs him . AND WE DON'Tclick to expand
I want a 2 parent household for my kids, whether it's with the bio-dad or someone else who is just dedicated to me and mine. But that's the Aqua in me, stubborn and wanting things my way and going the lone road if I have to, to get it.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Is he older then her?
He's 31, she's 29 they met in high school , she's a dropout.
Posted by AquasticPosted by Librawoman77Thanks Librawoman77 .
You dated for a year and never discussed his position on children? Did your contraception not work? Depending on your contraception you possibly have a law suit that could help you financially. If you had unprotected sex with a man without discussing his position on children with you, then you might want to take precautions to not do it again. I am truly sorry that you are going thru these things. Next time be a little smarter with contraception, and communication. But yes I have known and dealt with some pretty ruthless Virgos.
1. the guy did mention kids during our relationship, but I guess he didn't want one with me ,but with the other woman. I use to tell him I wuld be happy if we had a son and he wuld comment and say that would be nice for us.
2. and no we did not plan to have unprotected sex, the condom broke.
3.I was never on contraceptives, still am not on them, I prefer condoms or abstaining .cause I hardly have unprotected sex.,until m married , I just have protected casual sex.
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What a jerk!
Posted by daydream_achieverThe OP still wants to be with him.
Why do you continue to share pointless details about his current gf?
#validation
Thus, the purpose of this thread...
I realized she overlooked my advice, and is still feeding off the negativity of this thread instead.
This isn't an astrological issue, it's an issue that should be dealt with the proper courts.
The other woman's socioeconomic status is irrelevant and has no bearings on her child.
@Taurusbull I want the man back?! Hell to the NO! I take time to forgive and forget and I prefer talking about my pain over and over again so that that it gets out of my system. But anyways you are entitled to your own opinion. And I talk about the other woman becuase I was asked questions about her, If anything I feel sorry for that woman.
Posted by Aquasticits never too late for a father to step up.Posted by Ixion120it's funny cause you sound like him right now. So I conclude that it's a Virgo thing then. This man was wrong. He had no child when I fell pregnant, he could have just focused on me and the baby, and let the other woman go (cause he's not even treating her that well anyways), but because he had the same mentality as yours he didn't.Posted by AquasticWhats so funny?Posted by Ixion120Lol ! typical Virgo!Posted by AquasticI got that at first he said that he wanted children. But there is a significant amount of time between you figuring out you're preggo and delivery. When you first told him about the pregnancy he said he didn't want it? No? In the interest of giving the best life possible to my kid I would hope that the woman who was preggo would not unilaterally decide to have the kid especially if I wasn't in the best position to take care of the kid, regardless if I was with her in an official relationship or not.Posted by SensitiveBluesHe did say he wanted a child . and when we started he did not tell me he was with someone else , I asked him a hundred times and he said he was single.
Xion he didn't want a kid cause he was cheating on his girl
He's a typical Virgo bastard!
I don't know why you're so different but believe me this is Virgo
But what is done is done I suppose. As shitty as that is to all in involved. His infidelity is shitty behavior that is true, but him cheating and you having a kid without a nod to his wishes are two separate issues I hope you realize.
End of the day yea do the court thing. But validation outside of that isn't warranted imo.
Now he wants me and my baby back! AND IT"S TOO LATE! He's telling me he's now ready to take care of us cause he's now financially stable. he's making conditions for me.click to expand
Dont be that girl
Posted by PrettiPiscesid agree and say that it could possibly be an earth sign thing
Virgo men can be very cruel and manipulative. You may be in the relationship thinking all is well, but they have a totally different take on it that they never express to u. And will disappear without warning and in your mind without reason. When all the while they are secretly, meticulously picking out your flaws and collecting them as justification when they plan to split. Only here again, they never express it. Mind games at it's finest
Posted by Ixion120why do u feel the need to defend the virgo nation? If the glove dont fit, you must acquit.
its always interesting to see those who have been scorned, spurned or outright dropped by a virgo turn around and proclaim that all Virgos are something.
Like what is the basis on your judgement.
Going by the logic of the cat lady astrology I see on display here and my experiences with your independent signs:
All Cancers are incredibly self absorbed and infantile, incapable of critical thought if it conflicts with their emotional realities, and generally emotionally selfish.
All Aquarians are flakey and purposefully cold to those who get attracted to them and generally are intolerant of others opinions as a whole.
All Pisces are stubborn to a fault, intolerant of counter views, so deep in their feelings that they are very rarely capable of rational behavior.
The thing is? Those claims don't hold up universally in objective reality.
Posted by DMVTrue because I've had a few close Caps to do this as well only when they did come back they were whole heartedly expressive and admitted they're wrong doing. I can accept that. But to just pop back up like nothing ever happened and expect for the person on the other end to be unbothered when its clearly an elephant in the room and the Virgo knows they left them hurt, broken, and confused os just unacceptable to say the leastPosted by PrettiPiscesid agree and say that it could possibly be an earth sign thing
Virgo men can be very cruel and manipulative. You may be in the relationship thinking all is well, but they have a totally different take on it that they never express to u. And will disappear without warning and in your mind without reason. When all the while they are secretly, meticulously picking out your flaws and collecting them as justification when they plan to split. Only here again, they never express it. Mind games at it's finestclick to expand
Posted by Aquasticnow youre being just plain ol pettyPosted by SensitiveBlues
Is he older then her?
He's 31, she's 29 they met in high school , she's a dropout.click to expand
Posted by AquasticCall it a woman's intuition.
@Taurusbull I want the man back?! Hell to the NO! I take time to forgive and forget and I prefer talking about my pain over and over again so that that it gets out of my system. But anyways you are entitled to your own opinion. And I talk about the other woman becuase I was asked questions about her, If anything I feel sorry for that woman.
It's not 'pain' that is your motivation for fueling the fire in this thread...
It's your 'ego.'
He's playing daddy and provider to the woman who is an unemployed high school dropout, and here you are, the successful ambitious woman who is a much better option...
...Is getting cast away like a side-piece.
It's OK, if I were you, I would feel a little 'salty' too, not passing judgement but stating the obvious.
I really hope you DO take my advice and deal with the proper courts.
Dwelling on the "Lets trash Virgos" bandwagon will not help you heal, but instead, allow yourself to be distracted from dragging him into the court systems.
This isn't really about you.
It's about your child.
Posted by DMVPosted by Aquasticnow youre being just plain ol pettyPosted by SensitiveBlues
Is he older then her?
He's 31, she's 29 they met in high school , she's a dropout.click to expand
. Okay m wrong for mentioning the other woman is a drop out. I feel bad for saying that.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by AquasticCall it a woman's intuition.
@Taurusbull I want the man back?! Hell to the NO! I take time to forgive and forget and I prefer talking about my pain over and over again so that that it gets out of my system. But anyways you are entitled to your own opinion. And I talk about the other woman becuase I was asked questions about her, If anything I feel sorry for that woman.
It's not 'pain' that is your motivation for fueling the fire in this thread...
It's your 'ego.'
He's playing daddy and provider to the woman who is an unemployed high school dropout, and here you are, the successful ambitious woman who is a much better option...
...Is getting cast away like a side-piece.
It's OK, if I were you, I would feel a little 'salty' too, not passing judgement but stating the obvious.
I really hope you DO take my advice and deal with the proper courts.
Dwelling on the "Lets trash Virgos" bandwagon will not help you heal, but instead, allow yourself to be distracted from dragging him into the court systems.
This isn't really about you.
It's about your child.click to expand
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Posted by Ixion120Posted by DMVIts not my motivation to defend virgos but more so to call out the faulty thinking that is stopping the OP from progressing.Posted by Ixion120why do u feel the need to defend the virgo nation? If the glove dont fit, you must acquit.
its always interesting to see those who have been scorned, spurned or outright dropped by a virgo turn around and proclaim that all Virgos are something.
Like what is the basis on your judgement.
Going by the logic of the cat lady astrology I see on display here and my experiences with your independent signs:
All Cancers are incredibly self absorbed and infantile, incapable of critical thought if it conflicts with their emotional realities, and generally emotionally selfish.
All Aquarians are flakey and purposefully cold to those who get attracted to them and generally are intolerant of others opinions as a whole.
All Pisces are stubborn to a fault, intolerant of counter views, so deep in their feelings that they are very rarely capable of rational behavior.
The thing is? Those claims don't hold up universally in objective reality.
If by going after the latter I do the former I think that is okay in this situation. Especially considering that the OP is drawing wide sweeping conclusions from a singular experience and then she is conflating that experience to include every virgo everywhere. The proof of that is in the rhetorical question of the the thread title. But regardless considering I haven't posted here for about an hour I don't think you can say I am really defending anyone at this point.
At any rate I agreed to disagree with the OP and the cadre of individuals who are blindly commiserating with her without a critical thought between them...
After all what would the point be to argue the issues in question? Especially since the OP has disclosed that the purpose of this thread is to complain ad nauseum until she gets it out of her system. That's her prerogative and I am inclined to leave her to it.
But I will usually point out a generalization and the issues with generalizing every time giving examples where need be.
I do not apologize for tearing at half baked arguments that are packaged as universal truths.click to expand
. @Ixion120 whose taking care of your "ish" ?
Posted by Ixion120
It was handled, drafted an email and all the above. No need to lash out of your saltiness though...I won't be getting in the way of your pity party witcha girlfriends, playa. Carry on.
. That was quick , I must say.;ust when I was getting use to u and your opinions being gone, u come back. Anyways welcome back.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Can you find out her zodiac sign?
Sounds like a pisces or a Taurus
I'm massively curious
. Lol unfortunately I can't find that infor about her.I blocked her man remember! And besides her man is really protective of her , he would'nt devulge her birth month anyways. Lol m also curious to find out.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by AquasticCall it a woman's intuition.
@Taurusbull I want the man back?! Hell to the NO! I take time to forgive and forget and I prefer talking about my pain over and over again so that that it gets out of my system. But anyways you are entitled to your own opinion. And I talk about the other woman becuase I was asked questions about her, If anything I feel sorry for that woman.
It's not 'pain' that is your motivation for fueling the fire in this thread...
It's your 'ego.'
He's playing daddy and provider to the woman who is an unemployed high school dropout, and here you are, the successful ambitious woman who is a much better option...
...Is getting cast away like a side-piece.
It's OK, if I were you, I would feel a little 'salty' too, not passing judgement but stating the obvious.
I really hope you DO take my advice and deal with the proper courts.
Dwelling on the "Lets trash Virgos" bandwagon will not help you heal, but instead, allow yourself to be distracted from dragging him into the court systems.
This isn't really about you.
It's about your child.click to expand
. You are missing the point here! I am not the one whose calling him, instead he's the one calling me . And he does not even mention my child in the conversations which indicates that he does not care about my child. When I do give him a chance to talk to me all he's interested in is how good sex was with me, how he misses my pussy. Even goes far saying I should send him my pictures. Which just turns me off! Cause all he wants from me is sex, sex, and more more sex hence I refuse to even meet him face to face and don't trust him anymore.He has no respect for me.
I rest my case.
Last post on this thread.
Sure, find out this other woman's zodiac sign.
Of course, her education level, employment status and zodiac sign should take precedence over your child.
Keep entertaining him.
Your child will not receive a dime in child support.
I hope this forum feeds your ego and the need to play victim.
The only individual losing out is your fatherless child...not YOU.
Good Luck!
*Leaves with Xion*
Last post on this thread.
Sure, find out this other woman's zodiac sign.
Of course, her education level, employment status and zodiac sign should take precedence over your child.
Keep entertaining him.
Your child will not receive a dime in child support.
I hope this forum feeds your ego and the need to play victim.
The only individual losing out is your fatherless child...not YOU.
Good Luck!
*Leaves with Xion*
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