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Posted by TaurusBull1977
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Why do you continue to share pointless details about his current gf?

#validation
The OP still wants to be with him.
Thus, the purpose of this thread...
I realized she overlooked my advice, and is still feeding off the negativity of this thread instead.

This isn't an astrological issue, it's an issue that should be dealt with the proper courts.

The other woman's socioeconomic status is irrelevant and has no bearings on her child.

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Many of those details were so personal and intimate ... that it makes one wonder how the OP would know all of that -as fact.

Additionally, it's noticed that either excuses are made, or ignorance of it is used by OP when presented with utilizing legal recourse ..... and that makes one wonder why?

Is the baby not his? What other reason is there to ignore legal action?

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Posted by daydream_achiever
Why do you continue to share pointless details about his current gf?

#validation
The OP still wants to be with him.
Thus, the purpose of this thread...
I realized she overlooked my advice, and is still feeding off the negativity of this thread instead.

This isn't an astrological issue, it's an issue that should be dealt with the proper courts.

The other woman's socioeconomic status is irrelevant and has no bearings on her child.

Many of those details were so personal and intimate ... that it makes one wonder how the OP would know all of that -as fact.

Additionally, it's noticed that either excuses are made, or ignorance of it is used by OP when presented with utilizing legal recourse ..... and that makes one wonder why?

Is the baby not his? What other reason is there to ignore legal action?

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. Atleast I have an interesting life now. And I have learned a lot through all of this.and I thank my family's support and love that carried me through it all.
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reminds me of that dumb girl that gave up medical school eudoxia for her rapper boyfriend


Who had a kid outside their relationship then married her as a I'm sorry


Smh

She never looks happy in her pictures. Ever

. Ja some people are just too strong for these men's nonsense. And I am not strong enuf to be treated like that, while a person he claiming to love me am
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Reminds me of that dumb girl that gave up medical school eudoxia for her rapper boyfriend


Who had a kid outside their relationship then married her as a I'm sorry


Smh

She never looks happy in her pictures. Ever

. Ja some people are just too strong for these men's nonsense. And I am not strong enuf to be treated like that, while a person he claiming to love me while I will be loosing myself identity in the so called marrige. I would rather wait for the one I'm meant o be with rathe wait for someone to change.
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@Taurusbull I want the man back?! Hell to the NO! I take time to forgive and forget and I prefer talking about my pain over and over again so that that it gets out of my system. But anyways you are entitled to your own opinion. And I talk about the other woman becuase I was asked questions about her, If anything I feel sorry for that woman.
Call it a woman's intuition.
It's not 'pain' that is your motivation for fueling the fire in this thread...
It's your 'ego.'
He's playing daddy and provider to the woman who is an unemployed high school dropout, and here you are, the successful ambitious woman who is a much better option...
...Is getting cast away like a side-piece.
It's OK, if I were you, I would feel a little 'salty' too, not passing judgement but stating the obvious.

I really hope you DO take my advice and deal with the proper courts.
Dwelling on the "Lets trash Virgos" bandwagon will not help you heal, but instead, allow yourself to be distracted from dragging him into the court systems.

This isn't really about you.

It's about your child.

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Pleading the 5th?
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. M not sure if that question is directed to me. Or what u asking about. Please elaborate?
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@Aquastic The truth is you enable his 'cruelty' because you make yourself available for him to play cat and mouse. Part of you likes the attention he gives you. Admit it.

If you really thought him cruel and horrible you would've cut ties with him completely. Instead you give him your personal info and involve yourself in his personal life, finding out the particulars of his current relationship.

Understand that negative attention is STILL attention. Even if ever phone call he makes to you ends with you telling him how he is a sick SOB, he still wins.

As others have said, you are wasting time and energy on this man that should be spent on your daughter.
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Ive known a couple of virgos (also have a virgo ex from way back)...and yes, they can be unbelievably ruthless.

I had a virgo boss who kicked me out of her department all because I was late for a shift once. Didn't bother to hear why.

I knew a leo sun but his whole chart was virgo and he was abusive mentally with people. Got his staff into trouble, made them look incompetent and didn't care at all what happened to them. Was a user too. No morals at all.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
@Aquastic The truth is you enable his 'cruelty' because you make yourself available for him to play cat and mouse. Part of you likes the attention he gives you. Admit it.

If you really thought him cruel and horrible you would've cut ties with him completely. Instead you give him your personal info and involve yourself in his personal life, finding out the particulars of his current relationship.

Understand that negative attention is STILL attention. Even if ever phone call he makes to you ends with you telling him how he is a sick SOB, he still wins.

As others have said, you are wasting time and energy on this man that should be spent on your daughter.

. ALl the information about his current relationship came to me, I did not go out of my way to find out . People come and tell me because when m bussy ignoring him he goes to people I know . And some of his relatives come to me with infor. I don't have time to go out and find out about him. And if infor comes to my ears, my ears don't have lids.I will find out.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
To the OP and the men-bashing women on this forum....
Look around you...
There are no Virgos left to give you advice.
You ran them off...like you ran off the Virgos in your personal lives.
Take a look in the mirror.

Stop breathing life into this dying thread!

. @TaurusBull Maybe you should join them! Did u even go to bed or u were busy counting hw many virgo man were still commenting on my this thread.
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I rest my case.
Last post on this thread.

Sure, find out this other woman's zodiac sign.
Of course, her education level, employment status and zodiac sign should take precedence over your child.
Keep entertaining him.
Your child will not receive a dime in child support.
I hope this forum feeds your ego and the need to play victim.
The only individual losing out is your fatherless child...not YOU.

Good Luck!

*Leaves with Xion*
I'm interested. I want to prove how docile and weak Taurus women and Pisces womern are!

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. @sensentiveblues lol m guessing she is a taurus.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
@Aquastic The truth is you enable his 'cruelty' because you make yourself available for him to play cat and mouse. Part of you likes the attention he gives you. Admit it.

If you really thought him cruel and horrible you would've cut ties with him completely. Instead you give him your personal info and involve yourself in his personal life, finding out the particulars of his current relationship.

Understand that negative attention is STILL attention. Even if ever phone call he makes to you ends with you telling him how he is a sick SOB, he still wins.

As others have said, you are wasting time and energy on this man that should be spent on your daughter.

. Being a mother is the best thing that can happen to any woman, it was to me. My child is a blessing from God not a mistake. Yes her father is a jerk and it's not my fault that he is a jerk. And I will talk about it until I even forget what happened to me. And who knows, maybe there's youngers girls out there dating a virgo whose treating them like this and they probably thinking it's their fault and its not. And this might make them see that they not alone. Furthermore there are some married people out there who have been trying to fall pregnant. For years with no luck. I believe chose me to carry his angel for a reasonn and I a proud to be a MOTHER!
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You got exactly what you deserve. He made it clear that he didn't want a child and you ignored that. And now you are putting a child through life without a father. Shame on you and your selfish thinking. Absolutely disgusting.
Exactly. Agree 100% . And now she's gonna use the "single mother, no father in my baby's life" BS for sympathy when she knew what was coming. Hate women like this.
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Yeah. That's so fucked up for the kid. Me, me, me. I, I, I. Has this idiot ever stopped to think of the poor kid. I don't understand. He is equally disgusting for intentionally neglecting a child to get back at his stupid Cum Dumpster (aka baby's mama), too. They deserve each other.
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To the OP and the men-bashing women on this forum....
Look around you...
There are no Virgos left to give you advice.
You ran them off...like you ran off the Virgos in your personal lives.
Take a look in the mirror.

Stop breathing life into this dying thread!

. @TaurusBull Maybe you should join them! Did u even go to bed or u were busy counting hw many virgo man were still commenting on my this thread.
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LOL, LMAO, right who died and made her Queen Sheeba. I am happy that the critical, finger-pointing, anal -retentive, Virgos are gone. You are doing fine, OP, People's hate or kindness is more about them and their history than it is about you and the present.
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Posted by Magenta_Azure
You got exactly what you deserve. He made it clear that he didn't want a child and you ignored that. And now you are putting a child through life without a father. Shame on you and your selfish thinking. Absolutely disgusting.

Who died and made you judge and jury? How the hell do you know she won't meet a good man to be a wonderful father to her son?
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If she doesn't I would tell her everything


Make his life a bit miserable!
I did get a chance to talk to his girlfriend, I told her everything. And mind you my child was his first. Him and his girlfriend had been trying since they met but with no luck , until I had a child , then their son followed.
Awww so you're a good luck charm!

Why don't you two just be sister wives and one big happy family!! You'll just be sharing the dick out in the open.
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Lol no ways!
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You got exactly what you deserve. He made it clear that he didn't want a child and you ignored that. And now you are putting a child through life without a father. Shame on you and your selfish thinking. Absolutely disgusting.

Who died and made you judge and jury? How the hell do you know she won't meet a good man to be a wonderful father to her son?
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I love you @ Shrewdsharp
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Posted by VanillaExt
OK, why are people criticizing OP for an issue like she can go back in time and change anything? I'm sorry not everyone can be perfect but at least OP is giving a shit. I get it, she did this or that, it's some sort of horrible, and trying to shred OP alive to get high off your own self-assertive justice to make your life feel more validated and better than hers is not of any help.

OP, you need to tell him that if he wants to give child support that he needs to go to court. Other than that, I suggest getting a restraining order. Something is not right if this virgo keeps calling you to brag about his new family and love life. A child being fatherless is not the end of the world, single parents are as good as two parents, and OP, I wish you all the luck. I'm glad to see a mother that wants to be an actual mother. I have cousins that procreated children to keep their marriage together, bot now the mom is an alcoholic and the father spends paycheck to paycheck on lottery tickets.

If he tries to call you again or have friends try to bother you, record that shit and get anything on paper/in writing.

And to the people going on about her choosing to have sex and have baby... that is her choice and she has given the father a chance to try to provide. He has failed to do so. He is now having friends contact her and she is doing what she can to protect her and her child.

I didn't realize that having sex and keeping a baby was so taboo in 2016.
oh ! thank you so much @VanillaExt thanks for understanding.
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You got exactly what you deserve. He made it clear that he didn't want a child and you ignored that. And now you are putting a child through life without a father. Shame on you and your selfish thinking. Absolutely disgusting.

Who died and made you judge and jury? How the hell do you know she won't meet a good man to be a wonderful father to her son?
It doesn't matter how "wonderful" a stranger is gonna be to her son. Every child wants the father they share genetics with, not a person who takes on the role of the parent. Plus I would never raise another person's child and many men feel the same way.
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@exxtasyx what about those kids whom their genetics father died when there were small? huh!?

and I would never raise my child with someone so cruel just for the sake of genetics.my child deserves a father not a cruel sperm donor
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You got exactly what you deserve. He made it clear that he didn't want a child and you ignored that. And now you are putting a child through life without a father. Shame on you and your selfish thinking. Absolutely disgusting.
Exactly. Agree 100% . And now she's gonna use the "single mother, no father in my baby's life" BS for sympathy when she knew what was coming. Hate women like this.
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exuse you! I do not have a problem with being a single parent at the moment! this man is the one calling me everyday! I never went after him!
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@Ixion120 "why did you *force* the birth on him" - maybe because it's her child too? and it's not like she forced the guy to be a present father. He was the one who chased her even after he denied being the father of her child.

@Aquastic - this guy is cold and manipulative. I don't even know how you kept talking to him after what he did.
I also don't know why. mara I learned my lesson!
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What do fathers really even do that's so important if money isn't an issue?
When we met we were both still studying and we were both broke and I loved him , he's the one who broke my virginity.

I didn't know he had made in life, he is the one who called to inform me he is now doing great in life and he's ready to support the child on the conditions that ,I leave my current boyfriend cause he's worried he will eat his money and he will also leave his girlfriend cause ,he believes me and him are more on the same level , and the fact that he misses having sex with me and he misses my pussy✨HIS WORDS*
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Posted by AriesLady8
I haven't read all the comments. But this is horrible. That people out there are really like this. My confusion is why does he even call you at all? It's been years and these tactics he has are pointless. It's like he doesn't want you to forget him
yes @ Arieslady8 there are people like him out there, now he even goes to say one day I will need him, one day I will remember him! And says he will win me,like m some trophy! he can't get over that fact I do not want him anymore, and I will never!. He thought that by him saying he has made it now, I will jump back to his arms and beg for money.
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What do fathers really even do that's so important if money isn't an issue?
Really?
Eh, it was never important to me growing up. Not that having a good father isn't an added bonus I guess. I just don't think aborting it because of the absence of a father makes for a good argument.
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Very true@ SuperMercurial there are a lot of people who were raised by single parents. Some just think that by aborting they are solving a problem, when in actual fact they might be starting another problem that can be psychologically damaging in the long run. especially for the women , cause men don't have to go through the pain of being vacuumed.
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there are people like him out there, now he even goes to say one day I will need him, one day I will remember him! And says he will win me,like m some trophy! he can't get over that fact I do not want him anymore, and I will never!. He thought that by him saying he has made it now, I will jump back to his arms and beg for money.


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there are a lot of people who were raised by single parents. Some just think that by aborting they are solving a problem, when in actual fact they might be starting another problem that can be psychologically damaging in the long run. especially for the women , cause men don't have to go through the pain of being vacuumed.

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13 pages later, and I still don't read in here where your focus is on the child. You seem to have only ONE concern, and that is you.

There are dickhead fathers out there ... there are also dickhead mothers out there who are only concerned about their own feelings.


To be so focused on yourself, and not have appropriate regard for the child ... makes you a lousy mother.


I feel sorry for the child in this scenario ... she doesn't seem to have anyone who is focused on her, and her well being.
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there are people like him out there, now he even goes to say one day I will need him, one day I will remember him! And says he will win me,like m some trophy! he can't get over that fact I do not want him anymore, and I will never!. He thought that by him saying he has made it now, I will jump back to his arms and beg for money.


Posted by Aquastic

there are a lot of people who were raised by single parents. Some just think that by aborting they are solving a problem, when in actual fact they might be starting another problem that can be psychologically damaging in the long run. especially for the women , cause men don't have to go through the pain of being vacuumed.





13 pages later, and I still don't read in here where your focus is on the child. You seem to have only ONE concern, and that is you.

There are dickhead fathers out there ... there are also dickhead mothers out there who are only concerned about their own feelings.


To be so focused on yourself, and not have appropriate regard for the child ... makes you a lousy mother.


I feel sorry for the child in this scenario ... she doesn't seem to have anyone who is focused on her, and her well being.
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Hold-up! my child is the happiest kid in the planet. I have sacrificed a lot for her . And I can do anything to protect her. This thread was not to motivate the things I do for my child anyways!

so don't u sit there and say things you don't know!

This thread was about a virgo man who happened to father my child .So don't bring your twisted opinions! Not about my child! PLEASE HELP YOURSELF!
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When I found out I was pregnant by this Virgo man I dated for a year , his first statement was "let's take care of that thing!" meaning I should abort my baby! Like hell I would do that, I decided to keep my baby. Fast forward, when the baby was born I informed him, but he told me he can't come see our baby because he knows that I cheated on him, something he has never mentioned to me, and that was a Lie and he went on to say , he forgot to tell me he was in a long -term relationship with another woman whom he plans to marry. Boy, was I shuttered! the thought of raising a child alone was unbearable. I couldn't believe that this was the same man who use to tell me he loves me everyday.

When my baby was 2 , he calls me to say him and his lover just had a baby boy , telling me how happy he was to be a father, and the things he did to save his child.No mention of my child, or even asking how my child was doing .All he did was brag about his beautiful wife and baby were happy blah blah!blah!

When he noticed that I did not give a fuck about him or him supporting our child, he call to promise me that he would start paying child support since he realised that he made a mistake by not supporting our child, and I believed him as took my banking details. And since this day no cent has been paid to my account by him. Mind u I never call this man about anything , cause after I fell pregnant God blessed me with an amazing job that I earn very well.

Then I stopped taking his calls, blocked him entirely, he even tried to send his friends to call me.

Yesterday the guy calls me using another number, to tell me how great hes doing in life, how much money he earns , and asked for forgiveness and same story he wants to support his child again............................because he noticed that I had moved on, he tells me that he would only support the child only if I broke up with my current boyfriend......mxm! like hell.......

Are virgos cruel or , I just have a bad taste when it comes choosing men?
Take him to court for child support.
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This.
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Posted by P-Angel

For the record, for the viewing audience .....



My experience with my Virgo husband of over 33 years is nothing like the OP states here.

He is a wonderful person, and father.
@P-Angel you even say 33 years! that means you are old enough to know that or even understand that there are loosers out there.Just because your man is "perfect" doesn't mean I didn't go through what I went through. And I will talk about it!

This thread was not about "perfect virgo men" it's about loosers of virgo men out there.

I guess is true when they say age is nothing but a number! where is your maturity in all these years!? I wonder!
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My experience with my Virgo husband of over 33 years is nothing like the OP states here.

He is a wonderful person, and father.
@P-Angel you even say 33 years! that means you are old enough to know that or even understand that there are loosers out there.Just because your man is "perfect" doesn't mean I didn't go through what I went through. And I will talk about it!

This thread was not about "perfect virgo men" it's about loosers of virgo men out there.

I guess is true when they say age is nothing but a number! where is your maturity in all these years!? I wonder!
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Listen. No man is perfect. Yours is a freaking sociopath!.
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For the record, for the viewing audience .....



My experience with my Virgo husband of over 33 years is nothing like the OP states here.

He is a wonderful person, and father.
@P-Angel you even say 33 years! that means you are old enough to know that or even understand that there are loosers out there.Just because your man is "perfect" doesn't mean I didn't go through what I went through. And I will talk about it!

This thread was not about "perfect virgo men" it's about loosers of virgo men out there.

I guess is true when they say age is nothing but a number! where is your maturity in all these years!? I wonder!
Listen. No man is perfect. Yours is a freaking sociopath!.
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Ja true that @BlondeAmbition
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Lots of good virgos have problems even severe ones you weigh up the good with the bad and decide if you are going to hold on to someone in your life. That goes for every relationship. Now a lot of the time in life with mates lovers family members you hold on.

With this guy. Is it worth holding on? Nope. Cut him out.

Erm maybe virgos are not for you. And your focus should be your kid. Histronics are not your friend. I am single with no kids i can have all the histronics I want ...you cannot. That's unfair ...but so is mother hood. Take care.
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Posted by BlondeAmbition
Lots of good virgos have problems even severe ones you weigh up the good with the bad and decide if you are going to hold on to someone in your life. That goes for every relationship. Now a lot of the time in life with mates lovers family members you hold on.

With this guy. Is it worth holding on? Nope. Cut him out.

Erm maybe virgos are not for you. And your focus should be your kid. Histronics are not your friend. I am single with no kids i can have all the histronics I want ...you cannot. That's unfair ...but so is mother hood. Take care.
Thanks @BlondeAmbition you have put it very nicely for me. I will definitely keep on focusing on my child .