cancertheropy
@cancertheropy
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Virgo men may block others due to perceived overstepping boundaries or misunderstandings. They value respect and clear communication and may withdraw if they feel overwhelmed or uncomfortable, especially after mixed signals or questions about personal topics. Respect their need for space and try to understand their perspective to improve the relationship.

Posted by CurlyAriesI see your point. Immaturity isn't the problem, I also was slowly getting annoyed cause even with one message and one snap every couple days I didn't even get a simple reply. Not being able to at least say that I'm annoyed please stop is a problem. Communication is key and that bothers me that he couldn't even communicate. The random message it was random, but it was going along with our previous conversations talking about astrology and I was curious if he liked kinky things cause I read somewhere online that virgos like that ?. In any case, I don't like the (im annoyed cause u did this so I'm going to block you) attitude without communicating. If he said something and I didn't stop then that's a completely different story to me as then it's worthy of blocking me.
Ehhhhhhh, your actions could've annoyed him and personally, I see your actions as immature.
Constant snaps when someone doesn't reply... and you still do it? Immature and annoying (no offense to you, but as far as the general action. I'd side with him on that)
if you don't talk for a while.. why would you randomly message him about something like that? You guys haven't known each other for quite long so he may not have felt comfortable or you caught him off guard with, 1. the text as a whole, being you didn't speak for a while and 2. you're asking him a personal question.
I'm not even uptight like some virgos but if idk you that well, and you annoyed me previously, that would kind make me not want to speak to you even more.
if he blocked you, just move on girl. Virgos are a headache and a half, & clearly this one wasn't ready for you.

Posted by cancertheropyPosted by CurlyAriesI see your point. Immaturity isn't the problem, I also was slowly getting annoyed cause even with one message and one snap every couple days I didn't even get a simple reply. Not being able to at least say that I'm annoyed please stop is a problem. Communication is key and that bothers me that he couldn't even communicate. The random message it was random, but it was going along with our previous conversations talking about astrology and I was curious if he liked kinky things cause I read somewhere online that virgos like that ?. In any case, I don't like the (im annoyed cause u did this so I'm going to block you) attitude without communicating. If he said something and I didn't stop then that's a completely different story to me as then it's worthy of blocking me.
Ehhhhhhh, your actions could've annoyed him and personally, I see your actions as immature.
Constant snaps when someone doesn't reply... and you still do it? Immature and annoying (no offense to you, but as far as the general action. I'd side with him on that)
if you don't talk for a while.. why would you randomly message him about something like that? You guys haven't known each other for quite long so he may not have felt comfortable or you caught him off guard with, 1. the text as a whole, being you didn't speak for a while and 2. you're asking him a personal question.
I'm not even uptight like some virgos but if idk you that well, and you annoyed me previously, that would kind make me not want to speak to you even more.
if he blocked you, just move on girl. Virgos are a headache and a half, & clearly this one wasn't ready for you.
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Posted by cancertheropy
Ok, I need some Virgo peeps help. I don't understand what I did to make this Virgo man block me. During the winter we talked a lot got to know each other a bit. All was good for a couple of months, but then I was blocked. By phone, by snap chat and Instagram.
Backtracking- he slowly stopped responding to me. No big deal. I had my own life to deal with. The only thing I could think of was two things. One: on certain days- only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma." But then nothing else after that. I didn't message him for a while since. Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"
If a Virgo thinks there's more than what meets the eyes then please tell me. If this is the only reasons to blocking a person then I have to say it's very immature as they aren't even serious situations. And yes, I apologized but still nothing.
Posted by happyface1Yea, I'm actually very socially awkward and don't have good social skills. My maturity in socializing and dos and donts aren't exactly strong; especially since I haven't dated much and only started bringing myself out there with this one. But even so, if someone did that to me I would just smile and laugh at the awkward question lol.Posted by cancertheropy
Ok, I need some Virgo peeps help. I don't understand what I did to make this Virgo man block me. During the winter we talked a lot got to know each other a bit. All was good for a couple of months, but then I was blocked. By phone, by snap chat and Instagram.
Backtracking- he slowly stopped responding to me. No big deal. I had my own life to deal with. The only thing I could think of was two things. One: on certain days- only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma." But then nothing else after that. I didn't message him for a while since. Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"
If a Virgo thinks there's more than what meets the eyes then please tell me. If this is the only reasons to blocking a person then I have to say it's very immature as they aren't even serious situations. And yes, I apologized but still nothing.
Don't do this to anyone anymore lol
Not just Virgos...find out if someone is willing to have continued communication with you before forcing numerous snap chats and kinky questions dearclick to expand

Posted by cancertheropyI mean...is your question a legit one? You are actually asking why a person you're pestering has blocked you? I feel his "i'm visiting my grandma" was his last recourse to make his phone not die from a low battery since you wouldn't stop.
only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma."
Posted by cancertheropy...People build up to things through mutual rapport which was nonexistant in your case so...ofc there was a wtf moment.
Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"
Posted by cancertheropyHIS immaturity?
It only irritates me for the immaturity,.click to expand

Posted by cancertheropyPosted by happyface1Yea, I'm actually very socially awkward and don't have good social skills. My maturity in socializing and dos and donts aren't exactly strong; especially since I haven't dated much and only started bringing myself out there with this one. But even so, if someone did that to me I would just smile and laugh at the awkward question lol.Posted by cancertheropy
Ok, I need some Virgo peeps help. I don't understand what I did to make this Virgo man block me. During the winter we talked a lot got to know each other a bit. All was good for a couple of months, but then I was blocked. By phone, by snap chat and Instagram.
Backtracking- he slowly stopped responding to me. No big deal. I had my own life to deal with. The only thing I could think of was two things. One: on certain days- only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma." But then nothing else after that. I didn't message him for a while since. Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"
If a Virgo thinks there's more than what meets the eyes then please tell me. If this is the only reasons to blocking a person then I have to say it's very immature as they aren't even serious situations. And yes, I apologized but still nothing.
Don't do this to anyone anymore lol
Not just Virgos...find out if someone is willing to have continued communication with you before forcing numerous snap chats and kinky questions dearclick to expand
Posted by DamnataOk, 5 snaps? Only five snaps which were sent through out the day. It's not like I sent him any the day before or the day before that and if I did before that day it was only 1. If it was 20 spammed snap chats in a row then I see a big problem.Posted by cancertheropyI mean...is your question a legit one? You are actually asking why a person you're pestering has blocked you? I feel his "i'm visiting my grandma" was his last recourse to make his phone not die from a low battery since you wouldn't stop.
only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma."Posted by cancertheropy...People build up to things through mutual rapport which was nonexistant in your case so...ofc there was a wtf moment.
Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"Posted by cancertheropyHIS immaturity?
It only irritates me for the immaturity,.
...I give up giving advice to Cancers.click to expand
Posted by ExplicitLol yea, I got that. He was when we first started talking. The biggest problem we never actually met in person. It was one of those dating things and we set up a day and time and he said yea we will, but then when the day came nothing. No reply to if we were still meeting up. He completely stopped responding to messages unless I asked about information about certain things. And he would reply to my snaps sometime after. Then slowly stopped. Then I sent him the snap chats and a few weeks later the message. It bothers me because I don't believe in kicking someone out just because of simple things. I've been made fun of, ridiculed, bullied, and so forth and I still accept a lot of those people. If I'm able to do it, forgive me if I think someone is so immature as to block someone out of their life from snap chats and one text message without even talking it out. Lol sorry, I originally wasn't worked up about this as I was wondering what others would say and it's nothing about you. It's just I'm slowly getting annoyed over how stubborn people are and unable to forgive or at least try to understand the other person for doing what they do. And seeing others on here saying "I choose their side" or "I give up on giving cancer advice" is actually rather bothersome. I hope all that makes sense
Yikes.
He ignores you and you keep snapping him, to the point where he had to reply and be like "calm down, I'm vising my grandma." And then you ask if he likes kinky things a few weeks later. LOL.
He wasn't interested. And then you annoyed him so he deleted you out of his life.
Posted by busyeyes88Lol thanks for that, except there are people out there that is no where like this. They flat out tell you, and I've met those who love it and hate it when I all of a sudden get distant. The only group of people I run in trouble with are all ones that happen to be virgos
OP, it sounds as the Virgo was not that "into" you but it seems as though you "hunted him down" like a bloodhound on the trail of blood!!! ? ? I am not surprised he blocked you. Your attention was unwarranted and you couldn't even get the hint... The trouble with a cancer is once they get their pincers into you they cling on for dear life...
Let this be a lesson in the future for the next "victim" whose unfortunate to cross your path.




Posted by P-AngelOk? But I feel that everyone is missing the point of this topic. I could careless if he didn't like me and yes, it was a no brainier. I just want to get an understanding why something so simple would cause someone to block someone. Idk what's your problem but you shouldn't make accusations about stuff that you don't know. Such as, for starters we're both men. We're gay.
I'd say the Virgo man in this scenario is very upstanding, principled and respectful .... he knew trash when he saw it, and didn't fall for it's filth.
A lot of guys out there would take advantage and ride that train for as long as it lasted.


Posted by tizianiPeople in general struggle with rejection, moreso women because they don't experience it as much as men do imo.
Some women react very toxic to being told "I'm not interested"



Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by P-AngelHarsh way to put it, but a lotta truth in this. The kinky comment would have especially come off as a desperate ploy to grab attention. He could have taken advantage of that, but instead chose to save you from yourself, OP.
I'd say the Virgo man in this scenario is very upstanding, principled and respectful .... he knew trash when he saw it, and didn't fall for it's filth.
A lot of guys out there would take advantage and ride that train for as long as it lasted.click to expand
Posted by P-AngelHow many times do I have to spill it out. I don't care that he blocked me. I wanted a mutual understanding. I'm not stupid, dense, or trash. I had ideas that it was leading to that. IS IT WRONG TO SEE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS ARE? God forgive me that I didn't say it before that this was the reason behind it all. I don't like to jump to conclusions. If I'm dense trash then what does that make you? God forbid if you say you're better then me then take a good look at your messages because trash talk like trash. My thoughts, I would have loved to just be friends. I can't believe you even care to talk to someone who is as trashy as I am then? I have no hope. Go away. I can't believe someone as big and mighty as you would waste their words on me. I'm sorry that you're incapable of looking at a human as more than just trash. Maybe someday you will learn to not judge someone for simple little messages when all I wanted was the clarify if that was the reason and to understand why the conclusion to just blocking someone instead of telling them was the answer for them.Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by P-AngelHarsh way to put it, but a lotta truth in this. The kinky comment would have especially come off as a desperate ploy to grab attention. He could have taken advantage of that, but instead chose to save you from yourself, OP.
I'd say the Virgo man in this scenario is very upstanding, principled and respectful .... he knew trash when he saw it, and didn't fall for it's filth.
A lot of guys out there would take advantage and ride that train for as long as it lasted.
There's just no other way to address such filth.click to expand

Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by P-AngelYou weren't born and raised in "The Hospitality State". 😄Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by P-AngelHarsh way to put it, but a lotta truth in this. The kinky comment would have especially come off as a desperate ploy to grab attention. He could have taken advantage of that, but instead chose to save you from yourself, OP.
I'd say the Virgo man in this scenario is very upstanding, principled and respectful .... he knew trash when he saw it, and didn't fall for it's filth.
A lot of guys out there would take advantage and ride that train for as long as it lasted.
There's just no other way to address such filth.
I hear ya tho. Seems like there's been an increase in the smh threads and, for this site, that's saying something.click to expand
Posted by Phil_1Lol thanks. I just feel bad now for someone who was raised to even think like that.
OP, please ignore P-Angel, her postings are always that hateful and insulting 🙂
Posted by SensitiveBluesLol no. I would get turned off easily if someone did that to me right off the bat. Especially if I felt no connection towards them to begin with haha. I believe that goes for a lot of gays as I do have gay friends and none of them would like that cause it means the other person is just in it for sex.
isn't snapping dick pictures like saying Hello how are you today in the gay community?
Posted by SensitiveBluesPosted by cancertheropyyour lesson is not to understand, but to move on to better pastures.Posted by ExplicitLol yea, I got that. He was when we first started talking. The biggest problem we never actually met in person. It was one of those dating things and we set up a day and time and he said yea we will, but then when the day came nothing. No reply to if we were still meeting up. He completely stopped responding to messages unless I asked about information about certain things. And he would reply to my snaps sometime after. Then slowly stopped. Then I sent him the snap chats and a few weeks later the message. It bothers me because I don't believe in kicking someone out just because of simple things. I've been made fun of, ridiculed, bullied, and so forth and I still accept a lot of those people. If I'm able to do it, forgive me if I think someone is so immature as to block someone out of their life from snap chats and one text message without even talking it out. Lol sorry, I originally wasn't worked up about this as I was wondering what others would say and it's nothing about you. It's just I'm slowly getting annoyed over how stubborn people are and unable to forgive or at least try to understand the other person for doing what they do. And seeing others on here saying "I choose their side" or "I give up on giving cancer advice" is actually rather bothersome. I hope all that makes sense
Yikes.
He ignores you and you keep snapping him, to the point where he had to reply and be like "calm down, I'm vising my grandma." And then you ask if he likes kinky things a few weeks later. LOL.
He wasn't interested. And then you annoyed him so he deleted you out of his life.
look if he's not the type of person that shares the same values you do, then you need to really mentally move on, to those whose values you do share.
i know crabs love to ruminate, but seriously....come on i bet your a cute gay crab at that, do you have long lashes
who gives a fuk about a rude azz virgo
go get yours...click to expand
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Backtracking- he slowly stopped responding to me. No big deal. I had my own life to deal with. The only thing I could think of was two things. One: on certain days- only about 2-3 days, I would send him a lot of snaps cause I wanted to talk and he wouldn't reply. Simple little things. The only response I got was "calm down I'm visiting my grandma." But then nothing else after that. I didn't message him for a while since. Then I randomly asked him if he liked kinky things. I feel that was a big no as his reply was "wtf, why?"
If a Virgo thinks there's more than what meets the eyes then please tell me. If this is the only reasons to blocking a person then I have to say it's very immature as they aren't even serious situations. And yes, I apologized but still nothing.