Would insecure virgos settle for anybody?

Will a young insecure virgo date just anyone because they think there is nothing better or because they don't want to be alone. From what i can see of my ex-virgos present relationship, she is dating exactly the type of person she said she would never give the time of day. She seems to only to be with him because i hurt her pride too much. Any input?

yes, when i was young i fell for liars, players, not that good-looking, had baggages, and not the ideal ones rather someone who's worth the kind of love i have. i remember my ex was a sag. he's too playful for me and enjoys his freedom very much. i fell for the easy ones-- whoever that comes along 'coz i was not that serious with any of them, i just enjoyed being loved that's all.

..those were just one of my desperate, pathetic days wherein i settled for less.

"She seems to only to be with him because i hurt her pride too much."

Asshole !!!

"Any input?"

Yeah, fuck you for hurting her pride so much that she's lost self-esteem. Dickwad.

i guess jumping from relationship to relationship makes my ex a saint so i guess im an asshole. Oh well...

I'd rather be with NOBODY than ANYBODY; a Virgo male would believe this but a female.....hermmmmmm.....my Virgurlfriend is like this.....why for the life of me, I have no idea....I want to shake her and say: "what the hell are u thinkin'?! these assholes don't care about you!!!!" but it's her choice, her life, and she's a big girl; if she's got a problem she knows who to call.

I certainly won't settle for someone just to fill space.

In my 20's I too did some things I regret in regards to relationships. (hey it was my 20s!)

I'm fully prepared at this stage to live the remainder of life alone.

I've always known this would happen since I was 4 or 5 years old.

Strange really.

I doubt it...virgos would rather be alone than with someone they don't really like. Many of them are better off alone as well.

virgoess33 said, "I'm fully prepared at this stage to live the remainder of life alone.
I've always known this would happen since I was 4 or 5 years old."

Perhaps, this explains a lot about Virgo's, if all of them feel this way, and have known since childhood that they would be alone . . for the Virgo has written within their character, the need to be of service to thier partners, to make their partners life happy and comfortable.

The fear of living for nothing strangles the will.

If the Virgo has known since childhood that their destiny is to be alone, then they nothing to live for . .

"for the Virgo has written within their character, the need to be of service to thier partners, to make their partners life happy and comfortable."

yes they are people of the UTMOST service...hands down.....problem comes with where you say " make their partners life happy and comfortable"....many virgos never seen to get that those over-the-top attitude make their partner everything BUT "happy and comfortable." They often feel like you should be fine just because they occassionally do good deeds, regardless of how they criticize, attack, and devalue you from day to day.

P-Angel Said:

"If the Virgo has known since childhood that their destiny is to be alone, then they nothing to live for . . "

I think thats brilliant and accurate. I wasn't going to blather about me much other than snippets. However, your post got me thinking - so much so it was on my mind while trying to sleep. So, here I am back at my box.

Nothing to live for... that has alot resonance in my life. I won't whine, very unflattering... Since summer of this year the Darkness has been overwhelming me. Thought it was the end in August. Literally. I've always struggled with it. Thats what keeps me pushing people away. Its not fair to start a family, get close to anyone or let anyone in your life - when the dragons of darkness make it hard to enjoy things.

Whenever I've let someone get close. They freak out when the sadder dark side makes an appearence and thats that. I have 25 years of this.

Then there is the unique wavelength thing too...

You are totally right. 2007 will be a year that will be a turning point either good or bad.

I kind of fear it.

virgoess33,

I can see in my Virgo - this dragon of saddened darkness - it's called depression. In his mid-life phase, this becomes apparant . . and I think I know where it's coming from. Perhaps, this is where it is in you, too.

Most people only set goals that are obtainable . . the Virgo, on the other hand, normally sets things beyond their reach and then feels inadequate when it doesn't come to fruit. It appears to me, that one of Virgo's biggest obstacles in life is finding "thier place" in which gives them security in knowing that they are needed by their partner.

Needed.

To give of themselves to their partner is a major part of their driving force. However, if the expectations are set too high, then this need becomes a liability to the partner.

I'm not surprised that a lot of people freak-out when your darker side emerges, for most people want to view the realities of life with rose-colored glasses . . everything must remain positive, light-hearted and sweet . . however, that isn't all there is to a person . . sometimes, we fall, or, we get lost . . and that has to be addressed, as well as, when life is a bowl of cherries.

Look for a water sign . . they aren't normally afraid of the darker side of a person, especially a Scorpio . . Pisces tend to emphasize the dimness and will suffer with you instead of helping you out of the gloom, Cancer's tend to let this side of a person hurt their tender feelings because they take things so personally . . but, Scorpio will face this darkness with the uncanny ability to perpetuate harmony of opposing energies. They won't encourage it, nor neglect it . . rather meld it into your psyche to find a balance.

How they do this . . I don't know . . but, they can. In the year 2007, you've decided to make a turning point for yourself . . try a Scorpio and see if this will bring peace to you.

🙂