are virgos tactile

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by woodsnake on Monday, December 11, 2006 and has 9 replies.

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@woodsnake
19 Years

Are all virgos tactile' touchy feely? and i dont meen in a creepy way, but iv noticed with a lot of my virgo friends (the majority of my close friends are virgos for some strange reason} are quite tactile with people they seem to know and like. Im asking because i am the total opposite (not meant as a pun but me pisces)and am not always comfy with touching......

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Nope, mine's not, woodsnake.

At least, not overly . . just the normal amount as everybody else, like holding hands. He's the complete opposite of me, though . . I'm touchy/feely.

So, I guess it just depends on the person, rather than the sign.

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@woodsnake
19 Years

I think you are probably right there p angel cos being a pisces iv been lead to believe i should be kinda touchy/feely and im just so not and i always thought virgos were meant to be more like that, so ill put that down to an individual thing.....just a trivial curiosity thing really

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Also, I guess it would depend on one's interpretation of tactile.

For instance, my Virgo and I are usually always touching, such as a toe while sleeping, or a hand laying on one thigh . . but, to mean . . groping, or being possessively attached to the other . . those we don't do. However, I'm more prone to grabbing him as he walks by and kissing, rahter the other way around, he'll pass and not feel the need to touch.

Normally, he becomes overly touchy when I'm in a sensitive mood about something, or someone and need re-assuring . . he'll be clingy, until my distress passes. So, it just depends.

But, for either of us to be touchy to the point that it's smothering . . neither of us do that. I would think that Pisces would be more prone to being feely than the Virgo, in general though, because we "relate" to things with our feelers, rather than our intellilect . . so, it would seem logical that the sensation of touch would be one of the ways we would reason-out the value of relating.

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@woodsnake
19 Years

Thats quite interesting, one of my virgo friends was quite clingy with me when he knew i was having some "problems" at home quite touchy but in a nice way kinda reassuring, he was always there for me but unfortunately it all got quite heavy and moved onto something it shouldnt have...(wont talk about that though)...

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@woodsnake
19 Years

actually thinking about it i love textures... fur, chenille, anything soft i cant keep my hands off dont know what thats all about..

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@leo/virgo75
20 Years

"Tactile" LOL

That word takes me back. My mom used to always say that about me. "You're SOOOO tactile." Now I realize that it's true.

I'm always hugging, kissing, or touching someone. 🙂
I know to step back if it's bothering someone or if I'm dealing with someone that doesn't like to be touched, but for the most part, people seem to appreciate it. They also really feel when I'm upset with them because I don't want to be near them and they miss my touches.

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@dissolved
19 Years

I am not touchy-feely generally with people. With close freinds I hug them. With people i like i have the urge to hold their hand. It's weird. I guess you could call it a selective touch-feely feeling.