Church All Weekend

So my girlfriend and took a "break" of sorts but kept in touch over the phone and text for a few weeks. She was very angry but wanted to be just friends. I kept up mild affection (kissing, touching her back, etc.) and admitted some of the mistakes I'd made when she was living here.

Anyways, she seems to be barely working and investing a lot of her time into attending church than taking the shifts being offered to her from her job. She dislikes the shifts that are an hour or so away on the bus. She attends during the week 2-3 times and this weekend wants to spend the WHOLE weekend at church instead of doing an activity with just us.

Instead of us just hanging out as friends, I mentioned we are still spending our weekends together and video-chatting during the week when its not possible to see each other as easily. I pointed out we are spending so much time together that it only makes sense that we continue our relationship. She seemed to agree so we were official again this past weekend.

Does anyone else who is a Taurus dedicate that much time to church? I understand attending on Sundays but because I work full-time, I cannot dedicate my weekend when I need to relax to just church and church activities. That seems extremely excessive. Should I bring this up to her?

what's it to you?

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Lol. Boy I grew up in the church during the week and twice on sunday.

I have a friend who is very religious, and she'also a Taurus. She prays very frequently and will not break her religious routine for anyone, which I can respect. Religion tends to bring people a great measure of comfort, especially if they're going through something internally, or externally. If she likes to go to church then allow her to go, there's no rule saying that you have to go. Explain to her that would prefer to relax as that's how you unwind after a long week of work. Most people would respect your decision, if she cares about you she should understand and that should be the end of the issue. However, if you still feel bad you can tell her that you don't wish to spend the whole weekend at church and that she could go the whole weekend and that you'd be willing to go on Sunday.

Also church is not a sign exclusive thing, all kind of people are devout to religion and like to go frequently. It's just likely you picked up someone who values religion, at least enough to go more than once a week.

🙄I can't read these posts anymore.

She is finding every activity and excuse in the book not to spend quality time with you.

I know you said she's Mormon and I assume they spend more time at the church, but this is a lot.

Also you don't sound very respectful of her choice to pursue her religion? That's very important to some people.

Sounds like you want to control her. And she can sense that.

What's your issue with her wanting to go to church?

Yes she still sees you, but she is trying so hard to distance herself

Get the hint already guy!

Tell her about dxpnet.. She'll get the message.

Posted by Boots1313

🙄I can't read these posts anymore.

She is finding every activity and excuse in the book not to spend quality time with you.

I know you said she's Mormon and I assume they spend more time at the church, but this is a lot.

Also you don't sound very respectful of her choice to pursue her religion? That's very important to some people.

Sounds like you want to control her. And she can sense that.

What's your issue with her wanting to go to church?

Yes she still sees you, but she is trying so hard to distance herself

Get the hint already guy!

I don't think this is it. She wants to spend all of Saturday together but the catch is that it will be entirely at the church.

She spent quality time with my family and I for most of last weekend. It seems like she is seeking too much comfort from attending and ignoring her other responsibilities. That is my concern and that seems reasonable.

If you don't like my posts, do not read them. Jumping to conclusions won't help anyone here.

"...control her ...and she can sense that."

Control her when she is making her own decisions? Wouldn't you be concerned if that person is focusing on attending any event over working to survive in life? She has claimed in the past that her life is boring yet continues to be "stuck" it seems..

Posted by piscesman707

She wants to spend all of Saturday together but the catch is that it will be entirely at the church.

Jesus, cock blocking since AD

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by piscesman707

She wants to spend all of Saturday together but the catch is that it will be entirely at the church.

Jesus, cock blocking since AD

Jesus, the new pisces man in her life.

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Lol! My first thought when I read she's morman is he would have better luck courting the elders of the church if he wants her back

She has already come back. You guys need to pay attention. 😉

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by piscesman707

She wants to spend all of Saturday together but the catch is that it will be entirely at the church.

Jesus, cock blocking since AD

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Not really. She has to remain chaste to be apart of the church and to pursue any callings. We still kiss and are affectionate. :-)