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Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPAnd the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
It's true my Taurus brother was married to a Libra who treated him like shit and he was cray cray about her. Now he's with a Scorpio who treats him like shit and he's obsessed with her.
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LMAO. I'm too nice. That's why I am single. And strangely when I do attract Taurus men they have a girlfriend already. I don't believe in man sharing so its a no for me.
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Why are they always like that—
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by BadderBunnyIt's true my Taurus brother was married to a Libra who treated him like shit and he was cray cray about her. Now he's with a Scorpio who treats him like shit and he's obsessed with her.Posted by virgoOPPPAnd the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
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but both these taurus men tho all look like perfect partners on the outside. gentlemanly, protective, sweet, doting, attentive, for the long-term haul and just overall the total package until everything implodes. when they get found out cheating, they expect you to forgive and accept completely because that's what true love and loyalty is.
same with capricorn men tbh. dude cheated on me and basically told me that "i'd just let it go if it's true love." this guy can kiss a frog idgaf.click to expand
It is exactly like that! This dude is like the paragone of a perfect husband, son, father, and community authority on the outside, super serious and very focused. That’s how everyone sees him. Then when the younger bro found out that he cared about me and was talking to me on the phone for hours he was incredulous to the point of “no it can’t be my brother you’re talking about.” Then younger bro told me “I want to be with you and start something with you but you belong to my brother, it’s clear based on his actions that you belong to him.”
Behind closed doors these Taurus men are anything but what they seem. And I’m not the first, 11 years prior he asked for a woman’s number he met in a store, he said they would meet, nothing came even close to as physical or as intense as we were, but his wife found out about her and destroyed her life, used her connections to literally ruin her life. Dude said he’s been trying to protect me from her doing that to me or finding out about me.
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situationship... married man...you're married?!! 5 hour phone sex??!!!
A brother—?
I need a shot.
Lmao the phone sex didn’t last 5 hours, we were on the phone talking, video chatting and phone sex happene during that time but didn’t last the entire time. But please, take a shot, this shit show warrants it.
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lol
May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…click to expand
That I understand completely.
Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
Posted by BallerinaPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Whore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.
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Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lolclick to expand
That shit is crazy. Can they ever really find one that completes them?
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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That I understand completely.
Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
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I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Whore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.
Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lol
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Is wife a Virgo? I ask because I have seen more than one Virgo woman look the other way while her husband cheats, because she's doing it too. LOL. One of them was a Virgo woman/Pisces man couple. The other Virgo woman/Scorpio man. And we all know how Will and Jada get down. LOL. Bad marriages for life.
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His wife is an Aquarius, and from what I understand she does treat him like shit.
Posted by BallerinaPosted by cap_sirenPosted by BallerinaPosted by BadderBunnyYup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lolPosted by BallerinaWhore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.Posted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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That shit is crazy. Can they ever really find one that completes them?
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Doubt so. They just seek what they don't have and are never really content with what they have. I mean, they like what they have...but they also want the exact opposite and they don't want to leave what they have for the opposite because then they will miss what they had 🤣 too complicated reallyclick to expand
This!!!! I am the polar opposite in every way to his wife according to the bro and him. You hit the damn nail on the head there!! Never content. You always read that Taurus is the most loyal and stable, loving member of the Zodiac, but in reality it seems to be a damn intricate web they weave of deceit that they are very good at hiding.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by BadderBunnyIt's true my Taurus brother was married to a Libra who treated him like shit and he was cray cray about her. Now he's with a Scorpio who treats him like shit and he's obsessed with her.Posted by virgoOPPPAnd the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
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but both these taurus men tho all look like perfect partners on the outside. gentlemanly, protective, sweet, doting, attentive, for the long-term haul and just overall the total package until everything implodes. when they get found out cheating, they expect you to forgive and accept completely because that's what true love and loyalty is.
same with capricorn men tbh. dude cheated on me and basically told me that "i'd just let it go if it's true love." this guy can kiss a frog idgaf.click to expand
Yep, brother has cheated on both the Libra and the Scorpio. Probably why they treat him like shit.
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by cap_sirenHe sounds like a great person. But he's not your person. What do you want out of this relationship with him, realistically? Are you hoping for a serious relationship or are you only only interested in a sexual situationship? Either way don't get trapped in that pseudo-romantic zone with him, figure out what you want. Realistically you will end up the mistress because I doubt he plans on leaving his wife. Are you okay with that?Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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But to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.
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He’s been emotionally not in his marriage for years, before I came along. But Taurus men like their security, I guess it’s easier to stay in a situation where they’re comfortable and financially invested vs going into the unknown. I just wanted sex in beginning, he is the one who said he doesn’t do one night stands or casual sexual relationships, and he opened the door to a future together where we could be together. That’s what he did initially.
Now almost a year and a half later here we are.
I want to marry him. But I feel like it’s never going to happen. We broke contact off for a month and only just came back to speaking again.click to expand
Nope, he's with his wife because that is where he wants to be. A lot of "mistresses" would rather think married men stay in their marriages because of finances and convenience. Not so, married men who cheat are not looking for another wife they just want some strange on the side. This Taurus is not even doing that because he wants to remain faithful to his wife. When married women cheat they usually fall in love with their lover and are more likely to leave their marriage for the other man if he wants her that way.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibrabut both these taurus men tho all look like perfect partners on the outside. gentlemanly, protective, sweet, doting, attentive, for the long-term haul and just overall the total package until everything implodes. when they get found out cheating, they expect you to forgive and accept completely because that's what true love and loyalty is.Posted by BadderBunnyIt's true my Taurus brother was married to a Libra who treated him like shit and he was cray cray about her. Now he's with a Scorpio who treats him like shit and he's obsessed with her.Posted by virgoOPPPAnd the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
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same with capricorn men tbh. dude cheated on me and basically told me that "i'd just let it go if it's true love." this guy can kiss a frog idgaf.
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Yep, brother has cheated on both the Libra and the Scorpio. Probably why they treat him like shit.
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Maybe that’s why their wives and gfs treat them like shit but stay, because they know their cheating POSs. And they stay because that’s an ideal situation, even if you’re treated like shit they still keep you and let you do it. Twisted shit.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Whore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.
Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lol
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Is wife a Virgo? I ask because I have seen more than one Virgo woman look the other way while her husband cheats, because she's doing it too. LOL. One of them was a Virgo woman/Pisces man couple. The other Virgo woman/Scorpio man. And we all know how Will and Jada get down. LOL. Bad marriages for life.
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lol don't turn this around
some of us live peacefully and happily with those zodiac signs
the rare ones who don't just make a lot of noise
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by cap_sirenPosted by BadderBunnyHe’s been emotionally not in his marriage for years, before I came along. But Taurus men like their security, I guess it’s easier to stay in a situation where they’re comfortable and financially invested vs going into the unknown. I just wanted sex in beginning, he is the one who said he doesn’t do one night stands or casual sexual relationships, and he opened the door to a future together where we could be together. That’s what he did initially.Posted by cap_sirenHe sounds like a great person. But he's not your person. What do you want out of this relationship with him, realistically? Are you hoping for a serious relationship or are you only only interested in a sexual situationship? Either way don't get trapped in that pseudo-romantic zone with him, figure out what you want. Realistically you will end up the mistress because I doubt he plans on leaving his wife. Are you okay with that?Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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But to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.
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Now almost a year and a half later here we are.
I want to marry him. But I feel like it’s never going to happen. We broke contact off for a month and only just came back to speaking again.
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Nope, he's with his wife because that is where he wants to be. A lot of "mistresses" would rather think married men stay in their marriages because of finances and convenience. Not so, married men who cheat are not looking for another wife they just want some strange on the side. This Taurus is not even doing that because he wants to remain faithful to his wife. When married women cheat they usually fall in love with their lover and are more likely to leave their marriage for the other man if he wants her that way.click to expand
If he wants to remain faithful then why the charade? I havnt ever questioned him as to why he’s entertaining me in regards to his marriage and how he feels about it, because initially I wasn’t in it for the future or even thought about it. The only thing he’s said in those regards is being open to the idea of his life going down a different path then what he initially planned for. He is very very careful with his words, always. To the point of it being an ideosyncrasy. Like instead of saying “I” he will say “an individual” or speak about things “hypothetically” even though they aren’t.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaPosted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Whore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.
Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lol
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Is wife a Virgo? I ask because I have seen more than one Virgo woman look the other way while her husband cheats, because she's doing it too. LOL. One of them was a Virgo woman/Pisces man couple. The other Virgo woman/Scorpio man. And we all know how Will and Jada get down. LOL. Bad marriages for life.
lol don't turn this around
some of us live peacefully and happily with those zodiac signs
the rare ones who don't just make a lot of noise
LOL not at all. I just noticed some Virgo women are okay with an open marriage, as long as both them are discrete about their indiscretions. Unlike Jada, most keep that part secret except with their closest friends. Protect the family image.click to expand
if you're talking celebs, yeah I've seen it
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by cap_sirenPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaIs wife a Virgo? I ask because I have seen more than one Virgo woman look the other way while her husband cheats, because she's doing it too. LOL. One of them was a Virgo woman/Pisces man couple. The other Virgo woman/Scorpio man. And we all know how Will and Jada get down. LOL. Bad marriages for life.Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaWhore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.Posted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lol
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His wife is an Aquarius, and from what I understand she does treat him like shit.
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He's gonna hold on tight to her, because he can't get her where he wants her. He'll keep you around as long as he can to meet his emotional needs and provide him with validation. He probably doesn't see emotional cheating as cheating. So long as there is no physical intimacy, he can continue the illusion that he is a faithful and loyal husband.
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And he never gets in trouble when she finds things out, she always goes after the woman who fell for his bullshit and allowed herself to be strung along.
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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That I understand completely.
Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?click to expand
My situation no lines were crossed however, the love is there. It's natural when you get to know someone that well and for so long a course love develops. Totally natural.
Now that is a interesting question.
As far as a solution goes you would have to sit down and talk to him about it.
You could send him a copy of what you said with the post stating your amazing friends.
There is one in my head that would work but it's unique to say the least. Talk to him on your behalf rather then yourself... " cap_siren" thinks this or feels this way. Having him do the same. Think of it like a game.
This would relieve the pressure of such a conversation would have.
A friend of mine talked to me this way to talk about a side of herself she wasn't too happy with. It stuck with me since then.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenThat I understand completely.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?
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My situation no lines were crossed however, the love is there. It's natural when you get to know someone that well and for so long a course love develops. Totally natural.
Now that is a interesting question.
As far as a solution goes you would have to sit down and talk to him about it.
You could send him a copy of what you said with the post stating your amazing friends.
There is one in my head that would work but it's unique to say the least. Talk to him on your behalf rather then yourself... " cap_siren" thinks this or feels this way. Having him do the same. Think of it like a game.
This would relieve the pressure of such a conversation would have.
A friend of mine talked to me this way to talk about a side of herself she wasn't too happy with. It stuck with me since then.
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The thing is I know he would be completely agreeable to that, he always has been. I’m the problem there, we would agree to that, and for him, friendship includes indulging in my physical desires. And that leads to…problems. Maybe he just wants to be friends with benefits if the door is open for that on my end. Self control for me I guess if I don’t want to have issues emotionally.
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You all rally gonna act like dude's the problem here... she's fucked everyone in his family but him by now. He seems to have done everything short of a restraining order to get her away.. doesn't sound like he started it, wanted it, or is trying to keep it going.
He's an equal conspirator at this point. He has asked her to leave him alone, but continues to entertain her advances. He is videochatting on the phone and helping her get off sexually. TBH sounds like he is pretty much emotionally cheating at this point, he's just not fucking her because he loves his wife more than he likes her attention. I suppose that part is admirable, but honestly he should have just told her to fuck off and refused her calls if he's really repulsed by her behavior. Its seems like he is enjoying the ego stroke of being chased by her instead.click to expand
No one said he was repulsed by my behavior. That is simply your mentally “special” take on it. No one cares about your opinion.
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You all rally gonna act like dude's the problem here... she's fucked everyone in his family but him by now. He seems to have done everything short of a restraining order to get her away.. doesn't sound like he started it, wanted it, or is trying to keep it going.
He's an equal conspirator at this point. He has asked her to leave him alone, but continues to entertain her advances. He is videochatting on the phone and helping her get off sexually. TBH sounds like he is pretty much emotionally cheating at this point, he's just not fucking her because he loves his wife more than he likes her attention. I suppose that part is admirable, but honestly he should have just told her to fuck off and refused her calls if he's really repulsed by her behavior. Its seems like he is enjoying the ego stroke of being chased by her instead.
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I do the same shit with telemarketers when I'm bored... I'm not cheating with the lady trying to sell me a car warranty.. just Killin time.click to expand
No one cares about you. I don’t even read what you say at this point, I’ve read the first the thing you said and the last that I’m responding to. You’re one of those chicks that men try to tell that they don’t want you yet you keep coming, acting like you matter, like anything you say matters after they already told you to go away countless times aren’t you. Well you should be used to it. Go away, I don’t care about you or your opinion. Like all the men in your life, I don’t want you.
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You all rally gonna act like dude's the problem here... she's fucked everyone in his family but him by now. He seems to have done everything short of a restraining order to get her away.. doesn't sound like he started it, wanted it, or is trying to keep it going.
He's an equal conspirator at this point. He has asked her to leave him alone, but continues to entertain her advances. He is videochatting on the phone and helping her get off sexually. TBH sounds like he is pretty much emotionally cheating at this point, he's just not fucking her because he loves his wife more than he likes her attention. I suppose that part is admirable, but honestly he should have just told her to fuck off and refused her calls if he's really repulsed by her behavior. Its seems like he is enjoying the ego stroke of being chased by her instead.click to expand
He’s doing this so
He can claim
He never cheated to
His wife so he clear his hands.
No his fault but some crazy woman that kept looking for him. In the meantime he plays
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenThat I understand completely.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?
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My situation no lines were crossed however, the love is there. It's natural when you get to know someone that well and for so long a course love develops. Totally natural.
Now that is a interesting question.
As far as a solution goes you would have to sit down and talk to him about it.
You could send him a copy of what you said with the post stating your amazing friends.
There is one in my head that would work but it's unique to say the least. Talk to him on your behalf rather then yourself... " cap_siren" thinks this or feels this way. Having him do the same. Think of it like a game.
This would relieve the pressure of such a conversation would have.
A friend of mine talked to me this way to talk about a side of herself she wasn't too happy with. It stuck with me since then.
The thing is I know he would be completely agreeable to that, he always has been. I’m the problem there, we would agree to that, and for him, friendship includes indulging in my physical desires. And that leads to…problems. Maybe he just wants to be friends with benefits if the door is open for that on my end. Self control for me I guess if I don’t want to have issues emotionally.click to expand
There you go. You know what to do dear.
As for your emotional issues and attachment,
Accepting your emotions without attaching them to him tho. They are your feelings and desires. He just stimulated them but at the end of the day those are your feelings and emotions...they come from you.
How they are expressed and directed is entirely up to you.
P.S. to the judgement fuck nuts on the first page...what good are you. You are part of the reason people are afraid to be genuine and have open honest communication with each other🖕🙂
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenMy situation no lines were crossed however, the love is there. It's natural when you get to know someone that well and for so long a course love develops. Totally natural.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenThat I understand completely.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?
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Now that is a interesting question.
As far as a solution goes you would have to sit down and talk to him about it.
You could send him a copy of what you said with the post stating your amazing friends.
There is one in my head that would work but it's unique to say the least. Talk to him on your behalf rather then yourself... " cap_siren" thinks this or feels this way. Having him do the same. Think of it like a game.
This would relieve the pressure of such a conversation would have.
A friend of mine talked to me this way to talk about a side of herself she wasn't too happy with. It stuck with me since then.
The thing is I know he would be completely agreeable to that, he always has been. I’m the problem there, we would agree to that, and for him, friendship includes indulging in my physical desires. And that leads to…problems. Maybe he just wants to be friends with benefits if the door is open for that on my end. Self control for me I guess if I don’t want to have issues emotionally.
There you go. You know what to do dear.
As for your emotional issues and attachment,
Accepting your emotions without attaching them to him tho. They are your feelings and desires. He just stimulated them but at the end of the day those are your feelings and emotions...they come from you.
How they are expressed and directed is entirely up to you.
P.S. to the judgement fuck nuts on the first page...what good are you. You are part of the reason people are afraid to be genuine and have open honest communication with each other🖕🙂click to expand
Uh ha! That last paragraph made me chuckled. I don't know whats going on or who's judging and whatnot. I only made a suggestion on the first page to put all this on vocaroo for those of us like me that has little to no attention span or even too lazy to read long walls of text. And to be completely honest I still never read the op's initial post. So I don't know whats this about. Maybe if he or she break em down little by little by putting them in multiple sections per posts instead of putting them all in one post I can read them without developing a brain tumor. I just dropped back by on this thread out of instinct by the way.
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by cap_sirenHe's gonna hold on tight to her, because he can't get her where he wants her. He'll keep you around as long as he can to meet his emotional needs and provide him with validation. He probably doesn't see emotional cheating as cheating. So long as there is no physical intimacy, he can continue the illusion that he is a faithful and loyal husband.Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaIs wife a Virgo? I ask because I have seen more than one Virgo woman look the other way while her husband cheats, because she's doing it too. LOL. One of them was a Virgo woman/Pisces man couple. The other Virgo woman/Scorpio man. And we all know how Will and Jada get down. LOL. Bad marriages for life.Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by BallerinaWhore/Madonna complex maybe? Emotionally they wish to be with a sweet and virtuous woman who will attend to their needs and love them unconditionally. But romantically they crave a woman who thinks they aren't shit, treats them like they aren't shit, and is possibly just a bit slutty, so that they can have the thrill of forever being in the chase. Either one of these women may end up being the wife, but he will undoubtly try to have the other woman on the side as well.Posted by virgoOPPPSo basically we can establish Taurus men want to be treated like shit, otherwise they are cheaters 🤣 I can only contribute to this statement lol two were crazy about my Virgo friend, they chased after her for years lol she did not care a slightest bit about either lol one married a Sag girl and continued complaining to my friend about her (since they remained friends) 🤦🏼♀️ my ex Taurus was as much of a cheater as possible, cheated on literally everyone he dated. But he's all Aries and Gemini energy - Merc,Venus,Mars all in Aries, Moon in Gemini. He got married and still continued seeing me until I put stop to it (I didn't know his business at a time and didn't even care to know)Posted by BadderBunnythis taurus guy who won't even help pay nor carry groceries for his scorpio gf of almost a decade (these are well-known people) and cheats on her with their mutual friend who is a taurus chick. and this guy got his own company so it's not like he doesn't have money, just that he doesn't wanna shell out. I feel bad for that taurus chick coz that guy won't pay even for toilet paper but meh she can get her 15 mins of fame from him.Posted by virgoOPPP
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
And the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
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and the other taurus guy also in a relationship for like a decade with this aries chick but travels 'for work' and cheats on her with a different girl every time. he's been nagging her to get married but she always said they're not ready and seems like she's right about that. she got tired of his ways and dumped him.
i think you have to have some kind of leo or 5th house energy in you to become a generous earth sign tbh.
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Yup definitelly. And it's all of them that I know. There's just no the one with them cause they can't focus on just one. I mean, if they have no options they will, but if they do...it's like the eternal chase after what they don't have and regardless on how good or bad they have it, they will look for what they don't. My bf's dad is also a Taurus too and honestly I think he cheated on her a lot but she just doesn't give a damn and does her own thing. They hide phone from each other and are in 70s 🤣 I mean...how crazier does it get lol
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His wife is an Aquarius, and from what I understand she does treat him like shit.
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And he never gets in trouble when she finds things out, she always goes after the woman who fell for his bullshit and allowed herself to be strung along.click to expand
Then you have to be very careful don't you? Can you fight? If not, you should learn. I've seen wives go to a woman's job to drag her for messing with their husbands.
Posted by cap_sirenPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibrabut both these taurus men tho all look like perfect partners on the outside. gentlemanly, protective, sweet, doting, attentive, for the long-term haul and just overall the total package until everything implodes. when they get found out cheating, they expect you to forgive and accept completely because that's what true love and loyalty is.Posted by BadderBunnyIt's true my Taurus brother was married to a Libra who treated him like shit and he was cray cray about her. Now he's with a Scorpio who treats him like shit and he's obsessed with her.Posted by virgoOPPPAnd the woman who they actually want treats them like shit! And they will chase her until they die. Venusian male masochism.
i'm sure prob a lot of men would display this trait but i've noticed 2 really popular taurus guys where i'm from and they tend to pick girls who are obsessed or just really really into them but cheat with their actual type or women they actually want.
maybe it's a security thing for them so you're prob in luck if you act like you're crazy about them 🤷🤷
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same with capricorn men tbh. dude cheated on me and basically told me that "i'd just let it go if it's true love." this guy can kiss a frog idgaf.
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Yep, brother has cheated on both the Libra and the Scorpio. Probably why they treat him like shit.
Maybe that’s why their wives and gfs treat them like shit but stay, because they know their cheating POSs. And they stay because that’s an ideal situation, even if you’re treated like shit they still keep you and let you do it. Twisted shit.click to expand
My Libra sister-in-law didn't stay. She divorced him and he almost lost his mind because of it. Then, in walks a Scorpio woman, who are like catnip to Taurus men.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenMy situation no lines were crossed however, the love is there. It's natural when you get to know someone that well and for so long a course love develops. Totally natural.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_sirenThat I understand completely.Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by cap_siren^^^This part is actually awesome. Though could have done so without the messiness lolPosted by BadderBunnyBut to be honest, I would say there is more to it than the sexual. We talk for hours on the phone about things and it’s never usually sexual. He’s been a huge influence in helping me grow mentally and change things in my life that I needed to change and focus on being a much better version of myself in every way. Pushing towards my goals, teaching me how to budget better and strive for what I want. Also he’s done a lot behind the scenes to get doors open for me in jobs where I didn’t think I had a chance. He’s in a position of authority and influential and he’s used that to benefit me, which I am beyond appreciative of.Posted by cap_sirenHey I got both replies from you. No worries.Posted by BadderBunny
Taurus men tend to give a lot of grace to women they catch feelings for, but sleeping with his younger brother may be a deal breaker. He might still lust for you and sleep with you, but never see you as serious relationship material. I mean he can't exactly bring you home to meet the parents after you slept with his brother. If you're okay with being a mistress then continue. But he's probably not going to leave his wife.
I still think you are a troll. But if you're not, then girl pick a struggle. He's married and you slept with his brother, plus you're married too. 🤦🏿♀️
Sorry I accidentally replied to this under another response. My marriage was going to seperation long before I met this guy. My husband and I sleep in different rooms and are divorcing when it’s financially better to do so. So that’s where “marriage” is. But clearly my soon to be ex husband feels ownership over me still when he reacted the way he did. This Taurus man situation has been going on for almost a year and a half now by the way. And the brother thing, met the brother in a seperate situation and didn’t know it was his brother until later.
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May I ask you a question.
What kind of love do you have for him?
Romantic?
For him as himself?
What you describe, could you guys be best friends under different a setup?
Honestly if you set the romantic and sexual stuff aside he really was my best friend. I would cry to him when something horrible happened and he would always, daily remind me how intelligent and amazing I was and capable of achieving anything I wanted. And he would get pissed when I would squander opportunities in my life and got really angry when people would hurt me or seek to be assholes just because I was outspoken and really caring in situations. When I worked at the same place as him he champion social justice causes that were unpopular but very necessary and he grew a huge respect for me without ever meeting just hearing and seeing these things that I would do and say.
So yeah, I think if the other stuff weren’t a factor we could be amazing friends. But how does that go away? How do we magically pretend it isn’t there or was never there? Is it even possible? When he’s fighting against his feelings he talks about building our friendship and making it grow. But within that friendship there’s always things that shouldn’t be in a friendship…
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Perhaps....relating this to him would clear things up. As well as acting this way.
This kind of love can be messy, because society says we are suppose to act in this and that way.
It's very rare for people to come across this outside official relationships.
Dealing with something similar🙂
I’m glad there’s someone who actually understands and is in something similar to see what it’s like, though I wouldn’t wish this kind of situation on anyone. It would be nice to create a situation of just genuine friendship if it’s possible, if it’s the only way we can remain in eachothers lives. But what kind of friend is one you have to hide from your spouse?
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Now that is a interesting question.
As far as a solution goes you would have to sit down and talk to him about it.
You could send him a copy of what you said with the post stating your amazing friends.
There is one in my head that would work but it's unique to say the least. Talk to him on your behalf rather then yourself... " cap_siren" thinks this or feels this way. Having him do the same. Think of it like a game.
This would relieve the pressure of such a conversation would have.
A friend of mine talked to me this way to talk about a side of herself she wasn't too happy with. It stuck with me since then.
The thing is I know he would be completely agreeable to that, he always has been. I’m the problem there, we would agree to that, and for him, friendship includes indulging in my physical desires. And that leads to…problems. Maybe he just wants to be friends with benefits if the door is open for that on my end. Self control for me I guess if I don’t want to have issues emotionally.
There you go. You know what to do dear.
As for your emotional issues and attachment,
Accepting your emotions without attaching them to him tho. They are your feelings and desires. He just stimulated them but at the end of the day those are your feelings and emotions...they come from you.
How they are expressed and directed is entirely up to you.
P.S. to the judgement fuck nuts on the first page...what good are you. You are part of the reason people are afraid to be genuine and have open honest communication with each other🖕🙂
Uh ha! That last paragraph made me chuckled. I don't know whats going on or who's judging and whatnot. I only made a suggestion on the first page to put all this on vocaroo for those of us like me that has little to no attention span or even too lazy to read long walls of text. And to be completely honest I still never read the op's initial post. So I don't know whats this about. Maybe if he or she break em down little by little by putting them in multiple sections per posts instead of putting them all in one post I can read them without developing a brain tumor. I just dropped back by on this thread out of instinct by the way.click to expand
Lol np man. Serious points for introspection.
🤔I'm a reader so I actually prefer the details especially when events and feels on said events. Because feelings give important context to really understand what's going on.
Key would being understanding. Even if you personally don't agree or it's not your cup of tea.
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