Help with Taurus man

I’ve been dating a Taurus man for over 4 years and we just broke up. He said we need a break. He’s been ignoring my texts and calls. Yet we have life 360 on our phones and we can see where each other are. He saw I was somewhere (hospital) for over 3 hours and texted me saying, wow you move on quick. He didn’t know I was at the hospital because he doesn’t pay attention but he knew I was somewhere. His football team won the other night so I texted and said, congratulations you must be happy and he said not really. I went through menopause and we haven’t really had sex much for over a year. He said I must be sleeping with someone else since I wasn’t having sex with him. He started texting and talked about sex constantly so that made me mad and I’d ignore him or get angry with him. I stopped seeing him as much. I’d see him about once every couple of weeks. This is breaking my heart. I want to talk to him, but I’m tired of reaching out and he doesn’t respond. What can I do? Are we over? Or is there a chance he will come back?

"wow you move on quick".. can't he make up his mind about you? It sounds like he did though. Tell him otherwise, if you want to continue the constant push and pull.

If I may ask,

Why did you break up?

He felt like I cater to my adult children and I didn’t have time for him. He felt like last priority.

Have you tried going to a gynecologist? They might suggest hormone replacement therapy or topical estrogen cream or topical lubricants to help with the sex.

Or going to couples therapy? Or talking to a sex therapist? You could also get your hormone levels and other blood levels checked.

You don't have to have sex if you don't want to but without the sex, some men might not want to keep the relationship. So if you also want to give it a try, there is definitely medical and psychological help that you could get.

And it's already been a year so maybe consider that.

There are also men out there that are ok with only companionship.

So yeah, I hope you feel better about all this soon ☺️ being a woman and getting older has its own hardships for sure !

Posted by Bruth
He felt like I cater to my adult children and I didn’t have time for him. He felt like last priority.

Didn't you want to spend more with him?

Thought Taurus men are pleasant and comfortable to be with..

What's your sun sign if I may know?

I’m a Gemini.

I was frustrated because all he talked about was sex so I didn’t hang out with him much. I’m a Gemini.