So I'm in a relationship with this Taurus guy, it's been nine months and everything has been going good until recently when he stopped texting me every morning which he used to previously. It got me really worried me being a virgo and I asked him about it and he apologized and has done it again which made me explode quite a much and so did he and was about to call it quits until I apologised and said I wouldn't do it again. During this fight I asked him what was wrong and if there's something that's bothering him and he mentioned to me saying that he's really confused about me as he's unable to live up to my expectations and wants to distance himself but is unable to do so because of being attached to me soon after which he exploded and we argued for a while etc... Earlier the week he also mentioned saying that it's going to be for a little while this way until he's back to me fully and he's going through a crisis in his life too due to which I thought I must give him space but ended up over reacting. I thought I must stay away from him if he's so confused but he asked me to come see him and we spent the night together..I love him too much and cannot let him go and inspite of all that he said, I thought things would change but it's just becoming too stagnant and seems like am keeping myself in it for my satisfaction .... What do I do? Me asking him about it again might just cause another big fight which I don't want to as things just got better between us ... How do I sort this out ? ๐ญ๐ญ Please advise
Taurus man confused about me

Dont put your life on hold because someone doesnt know what they want out of life.


You are too demanding and critical and it isn't going to work - I'd throw you in the dumpster. His confusion is because he is young and can't see the forest for the trees. He is attached but you will always fight because you demand things that he is not always capable of keeping up with your demands and that fuels the fire.

make an omelette for yourself or something....text messages from a taurus man are not part of a complete breakfast....
"What should I do?" It's simple. Give the man space.
It doesn't matter if he asks you over. If he wants space then give him what he wants. Being attached is no excuse.
Be stronger than that. I couldn't imagine having an argument over morning texts coming to a halt. There were signs way before that.
It doesn't matter if he asks you over. If he wants space then give him what he wants. Being attached is no excuse.
Be stronger than that. I couldn't imagine having an argument over morning texts coming to a halt. There were signs way before that.
taurus guys are like dogs...

Posted by colliereborn
taurus guys are like dogs...
lol no they are not - no human is capable of unconditional love - I was just going to tell her to get a dog who won't forget to lick her face every morning
The only thing that worried me was because he used to do it everyday and stopped all of a sudden. Yes I've been away from him after the fight but him mentioning about his confusion kind of made me wonder why and I won't deny that I was being too pushy but he also mentioned if it's really necessary to text everyday...
I know taurus men are not good at texting except for talking face to face or like to keep communication that way... But if it's only my pushyness that makes him question himself about it when it wasn't an issue earlier and now is.. do I need to be worried or give.him some time ...
I know taurus men are not good at texting except for talking face to face or like to keep communication that way... But if it's only my pushyness that makes him question himself about it when it wasn't an issue earlier and now is.. do I need to be worried or give.him some time ...
Posted by Melody14
The only thing that worried me was because he used to do it everyday and stopped all of a sudden. Yes I've been away from him after the fight but him mentioning about his confusion kind of made me wonder why and I won't deny that I was being too pushy but he also mentioned if it's really necessary to text everyday...
I know taurus men are not good at texting except for talking face to face or like to keep communication that way... But if it's only my pushyness that makes him question himself about it when it wasn't an issue earlier and now is.. do I need to be worried or give.him some time ...
What will worrying do for you? ๐ค
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The answer once again is to give him SPACE.

when i first read this i thought "seriously? you're going to break up over a good morning text?". i think you have a lot of expectations. Some could argue, unrealistic expectations especially if you feel that your relationship has to follow some sort of schedule (eg it's become stagnant).
but then i read the other threads you have started and i think this guy is not the one for you. i don't think he is all that interested and either way, can't (or won't) give you what you want in a relationship.
by being pushy you are saying, communicating my needs. i think likely you are focusing on smaller, more petty issues now because in the larger picture, you aren't getting your overall needs met.
i would take some time to consider how much more time do you want to sink into this. i can't honestly think there is longevity in it. either you are going to have to give up what is important to you or just continue arguing about it.
but then i read the other threads you have started and i think this guy is not the one for you. i don't think he is all that interested and either way, can't (or won't) give you what you want in a relationship.
by being pushy you are saying, communicating my needs. i think likely you are focusing on smaller, more petty issues now because in the larger picture, you aren't getting your overall needs met.
i would take some time to consider how much more time do you want to sink into this. i can't honestly think there is longevity in it. either you are going to have to give up what is important to you or just continue arguing about it.

It's a break in consistency. A break in the pattern.
That would have my antenna up 2.
That would have my antenna up 2.
I also thought if he's trying to play mind games to check on the stability as he mentioned to me when I asked him about being unresponsive that it would just be for a while after which he would go back to being normal...though I didn't really understand what that meant and for a moment thought if he meant this.. why are Taurus men so confusing ๐

in my experience, taurus men don't play mind games.
The reason I say so is one of taurus guys I had a crush on did so when we were just getting close and my guy himself mentioned to me saying he would do so and if I would leave him and go away and that he checks the stability this way and wouldn't take a step to make it work in case the other person leaves... ๐.. and all this got me thinking if that's what he's doing now

Never explode over something so innocent as missing morning texts.
Ask him nicely to continue the texts and let him have the opportunity to make an effort to meet your request before turning cray cray.
He's unsure about you BECAUSE of your temper tantrum over what, in his mind, isn't a big deal.
Ask him nicely to continue the texts and let him have the opportunity to make an effort to meet your request before turning cray cray.
He's unsure about you BECAUSE of your temper tantrum over what, in his mind, isn't a big deal.
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