Taurus man confused about me

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So I'm in a relationship with this Taurus guy, it's been nine months and everything has been going good until recently when he stopped texting me every morning which he used to previously. It got me really worried me being a virgo and I asked him about it and he apologized and has done it again which made me explode quite a much and so did he and was about to call it quits until I apologised and said I wouldn't do it again. During this fight I asked him what was wrong and if there's something that's bothering him and he mentioned to me saying that he's really confused about me as he's unable to live up to my expectations and wants to distance himself but is unable to do so because of being attached to me soon after which he exploded and we argued for a while etc... Earlier the week he also mentioned saying that it's going to be for a little while this way until he's back to me fully and he's going through a crisis in his life too due to which I thought I must give him space but ended up over reacting. I thought I must stay away from him if he's so confused but he asked me to come see him and we spent the night together..I love him too much and cannot let him go and inspite of all that he said, I thought things would change but it's just becoming too stagnant and seems like am keeping myself in it for my satisfaction .... What do I do? Me asking him about it again might just cause another big fight which I don't want to as things just got better between us ... How do I sort this out ? ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ Please advise
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You are too demanding and critical and it isn't going to work - I'd throw you in the dumpster. His confusion is because he is young and can't see the forest for the trees. He is attached but you will always fight because you demand things that he is not always capable of keeping up with your demands and that fuels the fire.
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The only thing that worried me was because he used to do it everyday and stopped all of a sudden. Yes I've been away from him after the fight but him mentioning about his confusion kind of made me wonder why and I won't deny that I was being too pushy but he also mentioned if it's really necessary to text everyday...

I know taurus men are not good at texting except for talking face to face or like to keep communication that way... But if it's only my pushyness that makes him question himself about it when it wasn't an issue earlier and now is.. do I need to be worried or give.him some time ...
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Posted by Melody14

The only thing that worried me was because he used to do it everyday and stopped all of a sudden. Yes I've been away from him after the fight but him mentioning about his confusion kind of made me wonder why and I won't deny that I was being too pushy but he also mentioned if it's really necessary to text everyday...

I know taurus men are not good at texting except for talking face to face or like to keep communication that way... But if it's only my pushyness that makes him question himself about it when it wasn't an issue earlier and now is.. do I need to be worried or give.him some time ...


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The answer once again is to give him SPACE.
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when i first read this i thought "seriously? you're going to break up over a good morning text?". i think you have a lot of expectations. Some could argue, unrealistic expectations especially if you feel that your relationship has to follow some sort of schedule (eg it's become stagnant).

but then i read the other threads you have started and i think this guy is not the one for you. i don't think he is all that interested and either way, can't (or won't) give you what you want in a relationship.

by being pushy you are saying, communicating my needs. i think likely you are focusing on smaller, more petty issues now because in the larger picture, you aren't getting your overall needs met.

i would take some time to consider how much more time do you want to sink into this. i can't honestly think there is longevity in it. either you are going to have to give up what is important to you or just continue arguing about it.